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igbowoman:
She deserved it after 14 years of good companionship.

This is one of the things I don't get, she gave him 14 years of her life, that's really in all sincerity great.

She gave him companionship, that's another really selfless act on her part.

The 14years of her life she gave the man, who do you think the man give his own 14 years too?
Who did the man give his own companionship too? The possible sex she had with the man, with whom do you think the man have sex with?

And while you ponder on these questions, make sure you note that the man paid her mortgage, tantamount to buying a house for her, took her on vacation trips and gave her a monthly allowance.

If they were married this wouldn't be an issue, but the law royally bleeped the man.

It's all part of the not so subtle gender war thing.

I STRONGLY BELIEVE one fundamental flaw in the world is that any form of sex had, is usually seen as a favor to the male and that's why

1. Male molestation or rape will be laughed or scoffed at
2. Male pornstars will always earn less
3. Gigolos will never earn as much as escorts

and that's okay because men, I guess, have accepted it so.

Martinez39s:
Even Dr Dre's wife is requesting $2M per month PLUS $5M in legal fees for lawyers and other professionals working on her case. It is very common. Stop being disingenuous.

Chris rock on his last Netflix "Tambourine" special said this concerning his divorce. He looked at the court judge, on his side his soon to be ex-wife, the baliff, the lawyers , everyone in the court house that day.

They all woke up, brushed their teeth, looked their best and came up to court all to get a part of his money , all of them. He said he then realized at that point he was successful and he told his lawyer Bleep it....just give her/them everything she/they want and that included paying her legal fees.

Most divorce cases, the man ends up paying for the legal fees of the woman. Truth is the West are responsible for the rise of the world, they'd also be responsible for the fall of it.

I'v realized while growing up that a lot of guys just think differently from the way I did, they couldn't read between the lines, they couldn't not just bring their body to subjection, they were so eager to please the opposite sex, twas much later I understood and truth be told I had conformed to that pattern of thinking but I knew deep down it never felt right, it just seemed off.

If a man could keep his dick and resist the urge to always wanna score, Lol that man would begin to understand what freedom really is

GraGra247:
The problem is that the system is mostly ruled by men. So how come these men support such laws that will negative affect their fellow men.

We are in good times tilting towards hard, now and that's why there are a lot of weak men. The masculinity of men has been cut because of convenience.

If you are look at it objectively it's all over SM, the need for instant gratification, validation, the illusion of various options and other moral vices.

A 30 year old man in 1900-1980 were more dependable, honorable, had integrity than a 30 year old man from 1980-2020. These are qualities that make strong men.

ULTIMATELY, the men creating these laws will usher in hard times which will in turn make men strong.


A $50K monthly support for 10 years to a "spouse" (wrong word even) you are not married to, no kids , no shared investment , account or property is BS, regardless of what country you are from. The ruling can't stand, and I'd encourage the OP to follow that story and see where it leads.

PeachtreeReside:
elope

/ɪˈləʊp/

Learn to pronounce

verb

run away secretly in order to get married.

"later he eloped with one of the housemaids

I don help you pour the beer, peppersoup sef dey come.

marvelphysics:
I taught it was caused by all these space shuttles landind and crashing on the moon that caused it
May we not go and carry the wrong organism to another planet where it will mutate to aliens that wil wipe us out IJN

I somewhat had something against righteousness89 but I also know, only by the Holy Spirit can you say Jesus is Lord and if he preaches christ, then as the Lord told John in Luke 9:50, I have to accept the master's words, it's all to the same end and while I do not agree with him, like Paul says God hath called us to peace.

But what am I driving at? The fact that you had to recommend The Triumphant Church to him and him not knowing it actually makes me more skeptical, because you see bro, when you are seeking God to know his ways, you won't be spamming threads, if anything the display of the Pharisees is more dominant here. Kenneth Erwin Hagin is one of our Father's in the Lord that has simplified the things of God for us, I am currently on his series on developing the Human spirit.

Retrospect with yourself, when you were reading the book, did you even feel like distracting yourself by spamming social media? Coz you know you were gaining more light and understanding how the Lord works.

My guess is you needed to bless someone with the light you got from that book, that was why you eagerly recommended it.

I haven't read the book, I have it on my laptop, all his books but if you are seeking God(which one never stops doing) you will rarely loud it.

I kind of feel bad saying something like this and a part of me feel I may get chastised by the Lord, infact I hope I do because those he loves he chatises but one thing I am sure of is God will rarely be found in a place where there is noise and our understanding is different.

Righteousness89 will get more results if he prays for the Kingdom of God to enter the hearts of men and the will of God to be done on Earth as it is in heaven, more than a thousand the end is near BS (The end is truly near/here tho ooo).

Sorry I spammed your thread bro

Minjim:
That one season is enough to drastically reduce his value. He's not getting any younger.
The time is now

You don't understand he doesn't have any value again, he is going to be worth 0 in price tag but he will be payed at least 250k by any club that signs him.

He's value extends to more than a price on his head, his merchandise sales alone go mad, advertising for the league and those other supplememts Bro Barca and La Liga know wetin dem dey do wey dem wan keep am.

I have been following this thread for over 6 months periodically and I believe the knowledge shared here by CharlyG and other believers are very useful to us, I know it has helped me immensely.

I answered this on a sleep paralysis thread and I thought to share it here.


OP let me tell you what happens in a state of sleep paralysis, like someone said it's your brain awake but your body isn't and that's correct but it's not the complete picture.

This past Wednesday, as the Lord God is my witness, I had finished meditating and was falling into that half awake/half asleep state but my eyes were open and I saw a spirit come straight into my room. It had a face of lighting, came with a fast force and I noticed before it climbed upon me I hadn't started experiencing the sleep paralysis but immediately after it climbed on me, my body couldn't move. I said the Lord's name and it stayed at the foot of my bed then left.

I saw the spirit very well before it left , it's attributes were a face and countenance of lighting, forceful, strong , fast and it had intelligent too. The funny part is all this happened in less than a second and I became fully awake.

My guess is the spirit of paralysis usually try to possess the individual. I believe in science 100%, and science usually has an explanation for things we understand or may not understand but don't even doubt, sleep paralysis is a spiritual thing.

The signs are there whenever it happens, and these are the signs, lingering fear, feeling of being watched by a malevolent being, feeling of being choked or oppressed and when the paralysis is gone there's a usually feeling of relief, these signs are consistent with the things someone who comes to steal, kill and destroy will do.

I have said this little experience because of Mathew 10:27 my advice I can give is to always pray in tongues and my conclusion is that it's a spiritual thing. I also believe there are lots of us that the Lord reveals secrets and it's our duty to tell our brethren so they will be strengthed too.

P.S :- The reason why your voice goes either in dreams or paralysis is because the enemies does not want you to shout the name of the Lord, there's a scientific explanation for that too but we believers know better.

God bless the contributors on this thread, Amen.

Messi doesn't have a problem, he should just try and rough it out for one more season and he's done, Barca loses astronomically, catastrophically, financially, and the team loses mentally.

Nuttella:
What did you hear about Oha soup?

I heard they use ugili (not sure if that's the word) to cook it.

Nutella craving is back again

manychallenges:
What do you think?

OP let me tell you what happens in a state of sleep paralysis, like someone said it's your brain awake but your body isn't and that's correct but it's not the complete picture.

This past Wednesday, as the Lord God is my witness, I had finished meditating and was falling into that half awake/half asleep state but my eyes were open and I saw a spirit come straight into my room. It had a face of lighting, came with a fast force and I noticed before it climbed upon me I hadn't started experiencing the sleep paralysis but immediately after it climbed on me, my body couldn't move. I said the Lord's name and it stayed at the foot of my bed then left.

I saw the spirit very well before it left , it's attributes were a face and countenance of lighting, forceful, strong , fast and intelligent too and the funny part is all this happened in less than a second and I became fully awake.

My guess is the spirit of paralysis usually try to possess the individual. I believe in science 100%, and science usually has an explanation for things we understand or may not understand but don't even doubt sleep paralysis is a spiritual thing.

The signs are there whenever it happens, and these are the signs, lingering fear, feeling of being watched by a malevolent being, feeling of being choked or oppressed and when the paralysis is gone there's a feeling of relief, these signs are consistent with the things someone who comes to steal, kill and destroy will do.

I have said this little experience because of Mathew 10:27 my advice I can give is to always pray in tongues and my conclusion is that it's a spiritual thing.

P.S :- The reason why your voice goes either in dreams or paralysis is because they don't want you to shout the name of the Lord, there's a scientific explanation for that too but John 8:32 says it best.

Arrewa:
Rest in peace strong man!

Igalas have one of the most strongest kingdom in Nigeria!

Is this image from igala Kingdom?

FrLukas:
Nothing funny about this.

These are all some people's grandparents and great grand parents.

Show some fvcking respect.

By the way, that's the revered Bishop Samuel Ajayi Crowther there dumbass.

For the indomie and Tiktok generation, he translated the Bible into Yoruba and Igbo languages.

The problem with today's generation is that they lack respect and a sense of awe for things that matter.

Very disrespectful, before this thread I saw it and I said to myself these are people who went through slavery, some went through hell and back, heroes of the african community and some know it all disrespectful people just mess everything up.

I really hope this gets to the states, that Twitter fight wey we dey always find with US, US go give us hot hot. The sad part is it's only going to get worse. All these things are a backlash product of Cyber fraud, claiming woke and that's why the men around the age of 33 below will lose alot, because the women we are suppose to lead, we are a joke to them, hence the gender war palava. Social media validation is killing alot

Nigeria has lost it's morals and because of this, it's society may fall.

Modified: To all the people quoting me , just know this.

If the civil rights movement had happened in our time and MLK gave the I have a dream speech, some girl/guy on SM to feed her/his ego can post "Yeah so what, I also had a dream this morning but I can't remember, dreams are not cool" and that comment will get 50k likes, everybody will laugh and make memes about it effectively killing the Civil Rights Movement.

We'll wake up the next day thinking we have progressed because everybody had a good laugh not knowing we have regressed.

Now my question is this, How many times do you think we have done something like that unknowingly, effectively killing progress?

Can someone please enlighten me on what a permanent secretary means?

On either the global or local context of it's meaning.

knowhowk:
What point are you driven at ,so you mean Corona Virus would have let him be if coro identifies him as a Medical Doctor abi? The medical doctors that were Positive Nko? Coro is not a Respecter of anyone Oga

No the point I am "driving" at is he will be able to serve better as a commissioner for health, because he has a background in medicine.

.

I have been expecting this news since the second week of lockdown. The man suppose test positive, he has been working really hard.

Infact if he didn't contract it then that's when i'll know something is even more fishy.

Speedy recovery in Jesus name.

That's why it's good to appoint those who have knowledge of the field into the field, not that you will appoint a Lawyer as Minister of Power because of padi padi govt and say he is qualified because he is a SAN.

Hathor5:
What are the other priorities?

I wish we humans were less shallow. Some people are less shallow and I envy them a little bit. I was telling an elderly couple yesterday what new car I wanted to get. And as I was telling them how beautiful it looked, they told me that when choosing a car this would not matter to them in the least. They went on explaining how they cared about the price-performance-ratio, maintenance cost, quality, the cost of service, fuel consumption, eco-friendliness and I felt shallow and stupid. Sometimes I think that some people have achieved higher levels of consciousness.

My guess is the same priorities a lady would want in a potential husband, excluding attributes made based from a shallow premise.

Yes that consciousness comes with experience, a lot of my friends make that car mistake too, I just look at them and smile in my head.......that would tell me is that they are novices when it comes to cars.

Similarly,

Going for someone with from a shallow mindset would tell a more experienced observer they are novices too.

it's just the chronological order of life, you have a get in the shallows before you go into the deep.
Everybody was shallow at some point

Hathor5:
I have also made the observation that women often get it twisted as to what guys want and focus too much on meeting some beauty standards propagated by the media. I also believe that there are so many beautiful women out there that beauty is something easily available and it therefore becomes less impressive because everything that is easily available tends to lose its value.

But then, I also see how flashy girls receive more attention and compliments and how natural girls are insulted and sometimes even made a mockery of on social media, often for the way God created them, which I think is devastating and sad.

I am glad you have come to value inner qualities but what if you could find a beauty queen with a good character? Would you remain loyal?

It"s peace of mind for men, it's such as underated quality, at first it's usually the beauty that attracts and men tend to flock around that at the detriment of the less beautiful, but as a young man gets older he'll realize beauty isn't on his top 5 priorities.

Nengi's friend thought Nengi was the full package but ultimately Mike knew what may have been best for him. I don't think he was jazzed , he probably just didn't see her in his future plans. At least her story ended on a positive

Queenoffucks:
One night stand, baby.�

Fvck love
Fvck Relationships
Fvck you reading this
And if you support APC, fvck you too
If Buhari is your president, fvck you too.




Queenoffucks

Username checks out

sweerychick:
Reminds me of American Dad "Abusive terrestrial" episode..

Oh sweet! you like Amercian Dad too...

Lemme check the episode out.

Just the same way there's freedom of speech but freedom after speech isn't assured, that's the same way there's freedom of my body my choice but freedom afterwards may not be assured.

Some random crazy guy can just take a joke too far, he'll get away with it and you'll loathe yourself at the day's end.

Who you dey wear sexy for inside computer village? Wrong choice of outfit

Kenfil:
Chicken & pepperoni pizza from my kitchen

How were you able to put the pizza in the oven?

Plus I'm liking that chicken pizza part

World Leaders have made it seem heinous when a coup happens,
majorly because they have been ousted from power and they want to protect their asses.
It's very similar to talking about salary with a company, It usually feels awkward, but when it comes to work and overtime it's not awkward.

Ecowas will most likely resolve to sanction, but I see this their regime getting away with it.

The longer the military stays in power, the harder it will be to give it up.
When a coup is successful then 90% of the work is done.

In the end all the AU leaders will condemn the act, threaten and go home.

It did not just start today, it has been happening since before the French revolution
and that's why France don't have any more Louis.

Zimri:
This animal reminds me of the 2016 animation "ZOOTOPIA".

This guy was a mafia boss in the movie, guarded by huge polar bears.

I loved that scene

Reference:
Don't be ridiculous. Listen to this to straighten your head out.

Since 2001, 1.9 million American soldiers have served in Iraq and Afghanistan in 3 million tours of duty. According to the Cong.budg.office this has cost the American taxpayer somewhere about 2.4 trillion, TRILLION (if you didn't hear well) dollars which includes interest.

Which means they are obviously raising bonds (borrowing from the taxpayer) for men, machines, materials and munitions to chase the Taliban up and down the Khyber Pass...

Even Trump the money man who vowed to bring his troops home and end the carnage but as at this morning he still cannot do it. France has been in the lower Sahara battling militants there for the past 3 decades, no victor yet.

Chief. Assynetric warfare is a hard thing, a very hard thing to handle. Let me be realistic here. The best we may get is containment, a very costly war of containment. We better start seriously thinking of other non military options.

Yes you are correct and I may have been lazy with my assertions but you see, British Mercs have almost at one time wiped BH off during Johnathan's tenure. Their contract was terminated by Jonathan's govt for unknown reasons, you may have read about it too.

While 30 may not do the job, I'm confident it will do more damage than what we have now, remember also these guys are the top of the food chain in the military and there won't be internal sabotage or lack of weapons unlike in the Nigerian army.

Our boys can't finish BH off, the odds are stacked too much against them and one more thing, every sophisticated military intelligence in the world already know the location of BH, all those ones wey FG dey talk say sambisa big na wash.

These countries are just keeping their cards to themselves.

illicit:
Nigeria needs a private Army

30 US Navy seal Marines or 40 army green berets will clear Boko up in a month , it's because it has been turned into a money milking machine.

It's just one of the rules of power

Crush your enemies completely...

There are no sentiments there, it's kill or be killed.

All is fair in love and war, a coup de tat is tantamount to declaration of war.

If you are going to hit the king, make sure you kill the king.

joycegurl:
my first betting experience I pray to win d almost 3k ooo

I hope you are following the match? So you'll understand why guys usually shout and have tension during matches.

I hope you win though

TheFacelessMan:
I am a bit curious... do I strike you as a religious/pious person?

No, not at all.

There was a manner in which she had written about two things prior, that was not unsimilar with the way you write things. Call it intuition

However you do strike me as someone who lives in a bubble of glory, blazing charisma, mystery, tall tales and all that's synonymous with it and for that reason I feel there may be a disconnect.

Which is why it's best not to engage you for said reason.....The Disconnect

Queenlovely:
Fear of death is ridiculous, because as long as you are not dead you are alive, and when you are dead there is nothing more to worry about!


I met malala yusufu the female education activist at the United Nations building and asked her how she cheated death,

she said
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji ‘ un.
Verily, from Allah we came and to him we return.

None of you should wish for death because of a calamity that has afflicted him, but if he must do something he should say: O Allah, keep me alive so long as life is good for me and cause me to die if death is better for me. (Source: Sahih Bukhari 5437, Grade: Sahih)

You remind me of someone TheFacelessman