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[quote author= post=106922378]First of all, sorry for your loss,

Second of all,
Africans and all these archaic superstition sha.
You better go buy one derica of beans and cook it till it is very soft and succulent, (you can also add one ripe plantainto it, eat and thank God for your life.

A picture speaks more than a thousand words,
Here you have it.[/quote] you dey find trouble with this pic

'Fashion' parade.

LofiLogic:
The faster we realize that this government doesn't see us as intelligent beings the better. Protest up protest down, this might sound bad but in NIGERIA without violence the government will never change to good. I'm not supporting or inciting people to violence but deep down we all know that Nigeria will remain the way it is until people are ready to die for the fight for good governance

This has more truth in it than today's date.

Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Stop being like Nigerian politicians who know what to do... but won't do it.

Noise..... all noise! He's staying put!

With all these deaths here and there, I wonder if we're still up to 100 million in this country.

RIP to the dead.

Enforcing vaccine...... not even to test if I have the covid. Mtcheewww!!!

Can this people just stop their 'madness' already...

Wrong day, wrong time, wrong guy to intimidate.

Disgusting.... how about helping your friends grow?
Would you have been where you are today if those who were ahead of you left you behind...

Totilopussylick:


That one will scare away Fulani herdsmen.

Fulani herdsmen ke?.... you mean the ones that drink blood daily like it's water...

RED FLAG..... GIANT RED FLAG!!!

She's barely sensitive on the issue and already wants you to pick her over family.

UncleJudax:
if thats how it works, every other guy taking care of his girlfriend (many of them) go don log out.

Hmmm... some truth in this tho

UncleJudax:
Lol. this is not how it works.

Ahh... how then does it work...
I'm only stating the obvious oo

Just a VERY FEW can reason the same way with OP. It's not always easy for those that earn more.
Sometimes, more money..... more responsibilities.

Afokesco:
nor be to sign players..coach matters too....Conte go do well for the club.

Very well... the man get charisma. A very good command on and off pitch.

UncleJudax:
He told you this?

The girlfriend hasn't left him..... that wasn't hard to figure out.

Afokesco:
make the man sign Conte as coach...Dem.fit succeed for top Four

True...na better coach go crown everything. If not....na low budget Man City dem go be.

Afokesco:
Dem fit sign mbamppe...

God forbid.... Real Madrid first

NwekeUG:
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Our toothpastes nko?

murphyibiam15:
Face front you weren't invited. Busy body pvssy ass idiot, my last reply to u, bye

Wow.... that's a whole resume.

Do you know how many American songs have featured in Nollywood movies....
We sef get hype.

murphyibiam15:
What If he loses his job

But her boyfriend is not complaining na.

lied:
This thing neva still finish?

Abi it's just starting sef

Animals with weapons....

Kobojunkie:
Again, Genesis 3 vs 16, the curse, applies to both man and woman in marriage and since marriage itself is made up of a man and woman coming together as one... if the components are cursed, the whole that results from the joining of the two - marriage- is also cursed.

Salvation - John 3 vs 16 - 21 - as offered by Jesus Christ from the condemnation of Sin aka God's curse and judgement in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 is only available who will choose to obey Jesus Christ and not to al of mankind.

Ok.... I've heard you ooo!

Kobojunkie:
1. I have absolutely nothing against marriage itself. I am instead against the delusions and lies told of marriage where God is concerned.

2. It's not simply for adults but instead mature individuals which all adults are not. I have seen young ones who have shown themselves even more capable of handling the relationship dynamics than many who claim to have spent eons in it. Yes, claiming one has been married 30+ years does not mean one had better understanding of marriage. It simply means one has been able to endure one's own marriage for that long. You put the same people with other and might be the first out the door... no two marriages are meant to be the same.

3. I didn't curse marriage - I didn't pass the judgement against marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 - God did that. That you don't know this of what He did is not my problem but yours.

4. Jesus Christ's curse stipulated what would happen to the tree in that case. God was also clear in His judgement against marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 - He never said marriage would not grow, instead God cursed marriages declaring then an unequal alliance between man and woman. Since then, it remained so untl Jesus Christ showed up to restore marriage back to its former glory - no more curse of submission.

Mehn...I was thinking this discussion had ended.

From your third point, you're the one who clearly lacks an understanding of that curse in Genesis 3 v 16, so I have absolutely no problem with it. This curse applies to MEN and WOMEN not MARRIAGE. The earlier you succeed in processing this, the better.

I'm not telling you to appreciate marriage. I'm just telling you it makes no sense downplaying something as sacred as such.... and sustaining a marriage for a very long time isn't child's play. Certain things must come into play for that to happen.

And please, always read and understand your own posts. You claim marriage is cursed.... but Christ came to restore it.
So, why is it still cursed?
Please, let's stop here....

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage was created before the curse - Genesis 2 vs 24. Then when man fell, God cursed the marriage of man and woman - Genesis 3 vs 16 - stipulating that in marriage the woman would bow to the man and the man would rule over the woman.
Jesus Christ came to redeem men from that curse placed on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, restoring it back to what it was before the curse - Matthew 19 vs 5 - 6. So He, Jesus Christ did not use the cursed form of it, but instead the original form of marriage which was one of equal partnership between man and woman.

2. That's precisely what I am saying. Everything that comes from marriage lived in a cursed state is indeed cursed and we know that no one who lives in submission to a curse can ever see God. God declared that all those who live in submission to the curse will perish- cease to exist when they die and that is the same for those who live according to marriage as cursed by God.

3. Those who have been in their marriages for 30+ years will not agree to what? Being in a marriage for a long time does not mean you are made holy or right with God. It just means you have been in a marriage for a long time

When something is cursed it doesn't grow? What are you talking about?

From your write-up, you clearly have something against marriage. We'll keep going back and forth. So, there's little or nothing I can do to make you see reasons.
Again, that marriage doesn't guarantee holiness before God doesn't mean its essence should be undermined. It is meant for adults who value companionship, are willing to be responsible for each other and the children that will follow.... not for people who will rush into it carelessly, and then when things go wrong, they'll give you reasons to hate marriage.

So, those that have stayed long in their marriages know of how much value it is to them... and their children, despite the little misunderstandings or shortcomings that makes you think it's a curse.

As for your last statement, are you aware of the fig tree Jesus cursed? That should be enough.

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is defined as a man and woman coming together to become one, is it not - Genesis 2 vs 24?

God cursed marriage when He cursed the husband and wife specifically, this in Genesis 3 vs 16 . Ofcourse, there were curses that pertained also to those outside of a marriage but that specific curse to those who make up a marriage meant God also cursed marriage.

2. What "spiritual forces" are these that you claim are looking to dent a cursed institution? For Pete's sake, God cursed any man and woman who enter into a marriage that is in submission to the curse - a marriage where where woman submits to the man - ... So what other spiritual forces are you looking for except the one God Himself installed in them by way of His own curse?

No amount of caution can make a cursed marriage of God or right in the eyes of God. None whatsoever! If what you are instead looking to have is a 'good marriage according to the definitions of this world, then sure, even the unbelievers have many of those too.

If marriage is truly cursed like you said, why did Christ Himself use it as a yardstick for union between man and woman in Matthew 19 : 5-6..... are you sure you have an idea of what a curse means?

And you'll have to be careful here.... your words are heavily against you. Because if you think marriage is cursed, then everything that comes from it is cursed.... including you as an offspring... and you don't want to agree with yourself right now based on this. They're your words at the end of the day.

As for your last paragraph, those who have been in their marriages for 30+ years, certainly won't agree with you.

When something is cursed, it doesn't grow. Man will never graduate or escape hustle if he wants to put food on his table.... and a woman, as long as she wants to give birth, will never have it smooth. Now,.....that's a curse.

Use the word 'curse' very carefully.... for your own sake.

Kobojunkie:
Marriages aren't meant as perfect institutions to begin with. In Genesis 3 vs 16, God Himself cursed marriage, so let's banish any ideas we may have that marriage should somehow play a part in determining one's relationship with God - it doesn't and neither is such an excuse considered where God is concerned.

Those who will chose to cheat in marriage will chose to cheat in marriage whether the temptation is great or not. No excuses will ever make their choices of good or right - sin is sin.

That said, Jesus Christ's commandment to us is that we show our love for Him through our obedience of His commandments. And And prayer seems more like something said against Jesus Christ-Sin - than something said by one who obeys Jesus Christ.

Point of correction.... He cursed the man... and the woman,....not the marriage. Coz, even if you're not married, you'll still face hardship/ hustle as a man.... and to the woman, pain while in labour, because God still said she'll still desire her husband. Baby mamas too give birth. Is it rosy for them?

Again, the fact that marriage isn't a perfect institution doesn't excuse anyone from carelessly venturing into it without considering the fundamental ingredients necessary to sustain it.

Now, let me just say this.... there are spiritual forces looking to dent that institution called marriage. I can bear witness to this. One scenario played out recently but the story long sha.

Long and short, one should be spiritually cautious. You may not have an idea or be uninterested of what is at play spiritually, but don't underestimate those who try to ruin that union called marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Can a one be snatched without wanting to be?

Oh... yes.
Some people would go to any length..... and there are many cases like that.

But sometimes, regarding the prayer, you may not have to look at the marriage alone. Also, look at how grave adultery is and how it has seriously messed up a lot of marriages.

So, going back to your question.
You can only speak for yourself. You may have little idea of the mental state of your partner.