₦airaland Forum

UglyPeople:
Amongst the nairaland mods, only Seun fine pass all of them. I couldn't believe that a man fine pass all the ladies around him, upon all their makeups

gaby:
God forbid....

Fibonacci88:
Today makes it 58 days no light in the whole city of Calabar but the governor is only concerned of how to rule Nigeria in his dreams.

Layi4real:
Buhari promise pass this..... Afterall it all failure at last. It even worse

mactoni91:
Russia be wishing for war forgetting no one has the monopoly of Violence.

Ukraine has already lost so much infrastructures and people...

No doubt, the sinking of [/b]Moskva was coordinated by NATO and Executed by Ukrainian Armed forces[b].

I expect more coordinated high profiled attack on Russia's Infrastructures outside Russia.

The west is really smart.

They are baiting Russia gradually with Ukraine.

DontBullshitMe:
Seyi Tinubu is 36 for God's sake!

Wetin this man dey talk?

By the way ;

This 2023 Presidential race go sweet Shaa.

Tinubu 1.23 odds

Osinbanjo 2.45 odds

Atiku 1.95 odds

Saraki 8.25 odds

Amaechi 2.75 odds

Wike 4.76 odds

Peter Obi 3.85 odds

Moghalu 47.5 odds

Sowore 34565684545875326788544864323.2 odds

Bet wisely.

Averyanna:
Not even sure you know the price of the new one
it's not for your type,it isn't a stolen phone

Kestolove:
Go to ogun state

Mourinho24:
THIS IS PDP, THIS IS APC. IF THE NIGERIAN YOUTHS CAN AVOID THESE TWO PARTIES COME 2023, THEN NIGERIA WILL BE GREAT AGAIN.

Johnnycastro18:
The world should brace up, what's happening in Russia-Ukraine would result in a global financial crises,,,,the result is what we are gradually seeing,instead of all this unnecessary sanctions here and there, Europeans leaders should call both parties(Russia and Ukraine)
and dialogue, negotiate. USA that keep dictating for you guys is in far a way america not europe, [/b]as the war the escalate small small nah Britain,Poland Romania still the face refugee problem[b]

LeoDeKing:
Both.

Political party, of course na APC get am.

Credible candidates, Asiwaju, all Nigerians are strongly behind him.

koladata:
why can't Russia join nato too instead of the war

BSsniffer:
Russia will come out of this either being antifragile or it would simply give in. One more example of why never to depend on the west.

MrUchenna1:
WATCH Telemundo THREE TIMES DAILY FOR THREE MONTH.

dynicks:


Had to tackle the first before the second!!

Lukgaf:
Dr. Faadhil: I do not know why the questioner asked this question, but perhaps he thinks that a man addressing his wife as "Ummu" means that he has called her his mum; and whoever addresses his wife as his mum has made a big mistake because it resembles divorce. And since it is not permitted for a husband to address his wife as "my mum", this person may think that addressing one's wife as "Ummu" is the same as addressing her as "my mum".
And where do we place the "intention"?

On a closer look, it doesn't mean the husband refers to his wife as his mum, but rather - as with the majority of the people that address their wives as "Ummu" - he only shortens the name; for example, if she is "Ummu Abdillah" and he doesn't wish to call that in full, he says "Ummu" while intending it as "Ummu Abdillah".

A husband addressing his wife as "my mum" is one of the assumed means of divorce, but it is not divorce. However, as Muslims, we are to stay away from doubtful issues as much as possible.

That said, it is not dignifying enough for husbands to address their wives with names that don't depict love; some of such names are Ummu, Abu and so on. The prophet (may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon him) didn't address any of his wives as "Ummu" although he used to say Ummu so and so.

We can address our wives by their names, like calling the person bearing Aaishah as "Aaish".

So, there is no problem in addressing one's wife as "Ummu", but it is dignifying enough as it may not foster love. Wives can also address their husbands by their names ones in a while, but it shouldn't be in public; just between them. When in public, they can address their husbands with the names that people address them with or their nicknames or simple "my husband".

We don't appreciate this in Yoruba land, which is not supposed to be like that. Some husbands address their wives as "the mother of my children" which is wrong because the term is used for slave.

As for the question, two things should be noted. The first is that a husband addressing his wife "Ummu" doesn't mean his wife has become haram for him. The second is that couples should address each other with names that will foster and strengthen love between them.
May Allah guide us to the right path.


Extracted by Adwas From Early Morning Questions And Answers On Thursday (25/11/21)

samdolad:
I have dated a lady with such attitude before and I decided not to call or text her, for weeks I received no call or text from her and that was how the relationship ended, she didn't bother calling to know if am alive or not, I just called one day and told her all her wrongs, she just said her mind was not even with me before.

aimmoney9:
Any girl that doesn't close her eyes while kissing you does not love you...
I dey always check....

HonNL:
A Nigerian Air Force officer, Sergeant Torsobo Solomon was yesterday reported to have been arrested in connection with the recent August attack on the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA), Kaduna that left two officers dead.

Reports of communication stated, "On 08 Nov 21, at about 0600hr, NAF07/ 23922, SGT Torsobo Solomon of 153 BSG (AIRFORCE COMPREHENSIVE SCHOOL YOLA) was arrested on the order of the Base Commander as requested by the NDA Commander for an offence connecting with arms and ammunition with recent bandit attack at NDA Kaduna.

"At about 0815hr, ATR with reg no NAF 930 to arrive flight line to convey him from Yola to NDA KADUNA for further interrogation.

"Below is the suspect onboard the ATR ac to Kaduna."

However, the NDA in a statement on Monday night said he was not in their custody.



BASHIR MUHAMMED JAJIRA
Major
Academy Public Relations Officer
8 November 21

PrinceOfLagos:
Mumu people

You voted for APC Yaya bello and you expect God to come to your rescue

Una never see anything

Jeremani:
don't do anything u mentioned, if u intend to live such life, let ur wife be the side chick u want. u guyz should dress up and go to club, enjoy ur self

BluntCrazeMan:
This Sowore Sef.
What is really wrong with him??
..
He is just at every fight.
We don't even know his actual battle or war.

Guest911:
Where is that qtguru guy sef lol. We both worked at Andela. Anyway I thought of buying leetcode, but I’m glad I got the algoexpert instead. It comes with very thorough system design questions and I only paid $65/yr leetcode is double that. Plus clément(Algoexpert Guy) really explained these concepts like I was 5yrs old

gentleguy1975:
JazakumuLLahu khaeran, meanwhile, children of hate will soon arrive, leave us Muslims alone,do yours and let do ours in peace