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Kobojunkie:
Let’s begin to use our head in these things abeg!

Someone like Hitler can't go to the Christian Heavean because someone like Hitler lived a life in direct disobedience of Jesus Christ's teachings and commandments, and it was apparent for the world to see. In case you attempt to ask what if Hitler had asked for forgiveness right before His death, well It is untrue that one can simply ask for forgiveness on one's death bed, this after living a life of debauchery and , and still make it into God's Heaven. Read Matthew 25 vs 31 - 25 where Christians are told that only the sheep amongst them will enter into Heaven.

Are you in any form or shape insinuating that Sinners that repent and ask for forgiveness shall not make heaven. If that is the case, you are challenging Jesus Christ pardoning of the Thief on the right hand.

AntiChristian:
Yes, Paul said the husband should do all that but after the woman submits to him as to the Lord.

That verse does not state that the husband is not in charge of the wife!

I have never said the husband is not the head of the family. I said only an insecure husband will want to control EVERYTHING including the wife’s income when the Bible enjoined him to GIVE EVERYTHING including his life.

The fact that you have authority over the family does not mean you should be AUTHORITATIVE in dealing with your wife.

I repeat, it is only an INSECURE and a WEAKLING of man that will want to make his wife a slave in the name of “wife must submit to husband”. The section of the Bible quoted is just a cover. If you are a man that is worth the RESPECT of a husband, you will EARN the RESPECT and SUBMISSION of your wife by showing love and giving everything, not by DEMANDING IT.

I make bold to say, any husband that asked his wife “do you know I am the head of this family?” is not a man.

[quote author=AntiChristian post=108408302] To the woman He (GOD) said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” Gen 3:16

So the will will submit to the husband who would also rule over her!

Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. Cor 13:34

But must be in submission as the law says! Which law? Maybe the Genesis verse above! or that below!

21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Ephesians 5:21-25

You have quoted Ephesians 5: 22 - 24 and you left out the next verse (Ephesians 5:25) “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;” You are directed to give everything (money, respect, ego, etc) including your life for your wife just like Jesus did for the church.Ephesians‬ ‭5:25‬ ‭KJV‬‬
Do you understand?

AntiChristian:
How does a wife submit to her husband as to the Lord?

By respecting as the head of the home. Been respected as the head of the home does not equate to not having a say in what is going on in every facet of family life.

The woman should be able to contribute to how things (money spending inclusive) should be done at home. Where there is difference of opinion, at most times, she should be willing to concede to the husband. A husband who is not egocentric and nor a weakling should also be able to concede to the wife when she has a superior logic/opinion. A man that is worth his salt should know that he cannot be right and the wife is wrong ALL THE TIME.

Wife submitting does not make the wife a lesser human nor a lesser partner in the family. The Bible that said wife should submit also said husband should love and sacrifice just like Jesus love and sacrifice for the church. Your cannot have a wife submit to a husband who is not willing to sacrifice his ego by claiming he is the lord and master in the home. You cannot take Ephesians 5: 22 in isolation of Ephesians 5: 23.

invinzible1:
You have made Lalas December detty

This is a Cobra not a King Cobra. There is a huge difference between a Cobra and a King Cobra.

Note that there are many species of Cobra.

AntiChristian:
I second her!

Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,
Ephesians 5:22-23

If the wife submits to the husband as she submits to the Lord then she will give him everything to control even her life!

Any man who want to “control” his wife is a man with inferiority complex. Most of these lesser men use the section of the Bible you quote to cover themselves.
The fact that the husband is the head of the home is beyond contestations, but does the husband have to control everything because he is the head of the home?

Maxymilliano:
But why show her face when she's the victim

Do you really believe she is a victim? I sincerely believe she is stupid.

Italian job my foot! She was ready to go into prostitution, only it turned out worse.

Fahdiga:
Chiwetalu Agu has written his name in gold. Posterity will be kind to him for not forgetting his roots and flaunting it to chagrin of terrorists in power. Sir Chiwetalu just know that reasonable Nigerians and freedom lovers worldwide loves and adores you wholeheartedly for this heroic act and in the fullness of time you shall be honored. Keep it up sir

Maybe it is hard for you to read or follow the trend of the story. The coward of a man, though wearing a regalia that is associated with IPOB, in the face of Khaki Boys denied any association with IPOB.

So, I am struggling to understand “name written in gold for fighting for freedom.’. Freedom fighters are bold and will not jettison their believes and association like FFK nor run away like KANU in the face of Opposition or Suppression.

These bunch of Characters are not freedom fighters but mere Attention Seekers because they are not willing to sacrifice their comforts not to talk of their Lives for their Causes like MLK or The Blessed KEN SARO WIWA.

Minjim:
Please, no politician can win elections in Nigeria without being corrupt. Not possible right now

I am tending to agree with you.

Mace0lane:
Peter Obi before Pandora exposed him as been a lifelong criminal.

It is glaringly clear to me now that ALL NIGERIAN POLITICIANS ARE ARMED ROBBERS.[b][/b]

Before this revelation, Peter Obi, aside PMB, was the only Nigeria politician that I tagged as a clean. Even as a Yoruba man, I have always been campaigning for his Presidency because I so much believe in him.

I am just shocked to my marrows to discover how corrupt he is now. It is just a big shame. This discovery is even making me question my believe in PMB. Who knows what we will find out down the line?

Not surprised his is singing a new song. Much as I dislike OBJ, I have always known he was right when he said FFK will sing for anyone who gives him a “Bowl of Asaro”.

Winters23:
He has been begging for food since covid 19 and now the brokers have decided to throw him some nuts



This isn't the normal defection, ffk is a retarrded junkie that shouldn't be given microphone in public.

You are totally on point on FFK. The omo ale jatijati will sing for anyone for a bowl of asaro.

I am not one bit surprised by anything FFK does. It is all about survival for him. He is not driven by any other principle or philosophy.

TarOrfeeek:


Is it not Toyota Corolla side mirror he knocked down.

With N3,000 you will buy new one. Infact if you beg Ladipo boys well, they will dash you one.

The real honesty is when you knock of a G-wagon side mirror. Even the Police escort will not allow you write note and keep for his oga

It is thinking like yours that will continue to pull back as a Nation.

onyegwu:
You term him a bastard because he refuse to take what the Precious Lady is dishing out abi?

No, I term him bastard because he has no principle. Like OBJ puts it, FFK will sing for anybody who brings money.

smallsmall:
Think before you type and support your position with FACTS!
If they arrest you now for "Verbal assault" (calling FFK a bastard!), you and your likes will start crying all over Social media but here you are, wrongfully running your mouth as usual, at another humanbeing.

SMH, too many M0r0ns on Nairaland nowadays

Who will behave like FFK if not a bastard? Who will support a group of buffoons that are destroying his nation if not a bastard?

FarahAideed:
This is so wrong

Omo ale jatijati ni FFK, ise e ko le ya wa l’enu.

For non-Yorubas: FFK is a common bastard, so his actions cannot surprise anyone.

djon78:
You are not seeing the big picture.
You are just myopic in your vision

Nigerias political game is nothing to write home about
Look at the economy
Still in the back Waters

A political game that can't position Nigeria for sound economic development is a misplaced one

The Igbo man is not even concerned about the politics because it has not presented Nigeria any meaningful changes
We still go round the same circle as a nation

If the right leadership is not put in place, a leadership that will carry the interest and progress of every citizen of this nation at heart
And channel meaningful development

Decades to come
It will still be the same story
With the level of fracture and bickering now
I wonder how then will be

All the Igbo man is asking for is a better Nigeria, simple.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][b][/b]Please forgive any Typo/grammatical errors. I did not proof-read before posting.

It you that is not seeing the big picture because your thinking is colored by tribalism. I will paint the real picture for you.

Right from the formation of Nigeria, the Igbos have been selling to the highest bidders for short-sighted gains without thinking of the long term implications on them and the entity called Nigeria.

When Awo proposed that a clause of “right to secede from Nigeria” be included in the constitution, it was Zik that rose against the inclusion of such clauses. During the First Republic, Awo proposed an alliance between AG and NCNC. While Awo and his AG team where waiting in Warri for Zik and NCNC team, Zik was deceptively in Kano forming a ruling alliance with the North. Even with the NCNC majority in the house and the NPC coming distance third in the elections, he short-sightedly gave the government to Saduana in the alliance. The singular act enthroned the Northern political hegemony that is still in place till today.

When the political setting turned sore, Zik in a bid to totally control the West was partook in jailing of Awo which led to total breakdown of law and order in the West that spread throughout the whole country. After the country became totally unruly, the set of young soldiers of Igbo origin lead by Agunyi Ironsii took over the through a Coup. In the Coup, they, like Zik, short-sightedly killed politicians from the North and the West only. Again this short-sightedness resulted in a counter-coup by young Hausa/Fulani soldiers led by Yakubu Gowon. During his coup, Gowon killed and disenfranchised military men from Eastern part of Nigeria in retaliation. Of course, this was the cause of the Civil War where the SE was thoroughly defeated.

I can go on and on to the repeat of similar short-sighted alliance by Igbo (Zik) and the North during the 2nd Republic and the same short-sighted pattern during this ongoing 3rd Republic.

You Igbos have not learnt and you will continue to be the defeated and 2nd class citizens of Nigeria if you continue your pattern. When the going was good, you believed in one Nigeria and sold your birthright to the North. Now that you are facing the consequences of selling your birthright, you are now crying marginalization and you want out of Nigeria. Guess what? You Igbos blocked the Constitution Clause that would have given you an out of Nigeria. ten million Kanus will not be able to free you from your stupidity and the consequences.

Lastly, you said all the Igbos is asking for is a better Nigeria - I do not agree with you. If that be the case, the Igbos should not have voted for for Atiku who is known to have sold off all our establishments cheap to his cronies and fellow thieves during his tenure as the VP to OBJ. Even if you don’t like PMB, there were other candidates on the ballot. But no, you did not vote for those but rather you voted for known thief because he gave Obi a poisoned VP position. Let me ask you, where is Obi today in the national politics of Nigeria? Now if he runs, he will not win counsellorship election in his LG. Such a waste of a Brilliant Presidential Prospect.

nku5:
I couldn't read the epistle but the answer is very simple - SE people have a universal mind. We don't play tribal, myopic politics like other regions. The first mayor of Enugu was a fulani man. That's how we roll

SE is exactly the opposite of your submission. SE continue to show political naivety in their political decisions and alliances.

Apart from short-sightedly voting against Ojukwu in favor of PDP because of the baited VP poisition. A vote for Ojukwu will have resulted in making APGA a political power block in the politics on nowadays.

Again, they aligned with Atiku because of the same baited VP position offered to Obi in 2019. In that process they destroyed the appeal of the only Igbo politician with national appeal that would have gotten them the Presidency in 2023.

For the life of me, I cannot understand the short-sightedness of Igbos supporting an Fulani/Hausa candidate seeking an 8 year term against another Fulani/Hausa candidate seeking a 4 year term in 2019. That singular act destroyed the chance of an Igbo Presidency in 2023. An Atiku win would resulted in extending the Fulani/Hausa presidency for another 4 years to 2027.

I do not see anything egalitarian nor universal in the way the Igbos vote. In fact, the Igbos vote for the highest bidder without thinking about the long term impact of the immediate gain. If they continue the pattern, they will continue to come out losers in the Nigerian political game.

phineas:
1. The child is not an ogbange
2.Children play with stuff all the time,the lighters should have been above the reach of children or supervised
3. The store was careless and risked the lives of the public with their fire hazard and poor fire prevention strategies
4.The child can never be blamed for the stores incompetence,they put the child in this mess,repeat she is a child
5.The picture of this child should be brought down by all,any blog or site with her picture should be prosecuted
6.All stores should learn from this
7.The girls mother should get a lawyer ( a good one)

Good one. Thanks.

FalseProphet1:
That girl is possessed, there are dark forces residing inside her, she will grow to become a terrorist in future.

This I have seen

Your response is a typical of response of Nigerians that stems from failure to see real problem, we are so good at addressing Symptoms and leaving the Root Cause of problems. Yoruba man will say "a fi ete si le, a npa lapalapa".

The question no one is asking is, how come Lighters and Gas Bottles (flammable compounds) are left where a nine year old child could easily access them to start the fire?

In a sane world (I don't want to use developed world), the Store will prosecuted by the government for compromising Public Safety. I am sure in America, the parents of the child will sue the store for negligence and exposing their child to danger.

Another point worth discussing was they had a camera capturing the event and that did prompt a quick response for fight and quench the fire? What is the essence of the camera? They had gas bottles and lighters and they are no fire extinguishers? What a dangerous set up!!!!

If you ask me, the said investment of N2b was lost due to stupidity of the Store Owners. If lessons are not learnt from this, we will soon see a repeat of such fire.

Rugaria:
Maybe you are right; after all Abiola died and nothing happened.. The whole South West Generals in the Army were arrested by Abacha and nothing happened..
Even Awolowo was jailed by the Sarduana and nothing happened!
You guys must be thinking that others are as cowardly as you lot.?

You that is brave, can you kindly go the DSS office and force them to release Kanu. You need to not just display your bravery on the Social Media from a dark corner of dilapidated room, you need to back it with action. You need to make something happen.

I think your ESN might not be able to achieve that on their own, you will need enlist the help of Israeli MOSSAD, UK MI6 and US CIA.

Bunch of Jobless and Empty Barrel IPOBs.

Nemere2020:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/22/breaking-beninese-court-releases-sunday-igboho%E2%80%99s-wife-orders-igboho-remain-custody

Sahara Reporters and their politically tinted stories are like 6 and 7. So they do not know the immigration related offense of Igboho? They are afraid to tell the world that Igboho presented a Beninese passport at the Airport.

Kayberg:


So sad for my country that even our future and destiny are purchased by politicians for as low as ₦500.00k to ₦1,000.00k, or 3 milk cups of rice to enrich themselves for the next 8 years in one office and other years for other offices they'd run for.

One thing I know is that, Nigeria can never change as long as we keep restoring our leaders from the National Recycle Bin of ex servicemen.




Many have been made to believe it's normal to suffer as a Nigerian, so all you gotta do is look up to these wicked leaders for help whenever they deitify themselves to throw a millet seed at the people to share. And worse, they'd still call for support from the same people they're happily oppressing!!

I'm so emotional right now.

Feel like crying for my people in this country who would do just what you said bro!

Stampede!!!!!!!



Imagine that!
Listen to what they're saying in one accord, "Give us jobs, not food!"

I hope you understand that "Leadership is a function of the Followership". What you see in the video are Followership that know what they wanted. Eventually they will get good Leadership.

The kind of event can NEVER happen in Nigeria because we are a Followership that has no VALUE. We will sell our Souls and Inheritances for a bowl of soup. We sell our Votes for less than N5k, how then do we expect a good Leadership?

Graciafun:
What's the need for introduction? Do Yoruba people hate freedom fighters? I don't understand.

I totally agree with you.

He is either fake Yoruba man or an "omo ale jatijati" like FKK. Honestly I did not think his brainless comment deserve a response.

PlayMaker14:
You that cloud your reason with love for the Kunú guzzling drunkard can't spell his name correctly....


Please just shut up and stick to your cow chasing business.

Again, as earlier said, the likes of you don’t address issues. You are always looking to divert from the crux of the matter.

What has a misspelled Bihari for Buhari got to do with message of the post?

I don’t join issues with myopics. It is like wrestling with a pig. Bye.

PlayMaker14:
While Buhari Media Cow's (BMC) are busy going into wild jubilation over the arrest of Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, Multinational companies are trooping in to Ghana, Opening assembly plants and snubbing the worn out pants called Nigeria.


Currently, Nigeria is just like a mad woman's underwear, no investor wan see am.

People like you write nonsense on social media because they cannot think and ask necessary questions.

The 1 million dollars question here is why are these companies snubbing Nigeria? The answer is electricity. If they come to Nigeria, over 75% of the companies overhead will be spent on power generation.

The next question will be why can’t Nigeria generate power? One of the key answers will be because OBJ and PDP wasted $16b on a white elephant power project.

Think. That is only way we will move forward. Stop clouding your reasoning with hatred of Buhari

Ppogbae:
He must've not given her DICKliverance. Usually women like her are stingy after a man's death due to the deceased man's inability to sexually pleasure them in the past. RIP to the Pastor anyways.

Truth is bitter pill. It is not surprising that lowlifes result to abuse instead of addressing real issues.

BlueBanana:
Ofen times I hear people say that LinkedIn is one of the best places to land a job especially for people in the tech industry.


However, I have never heard of Nairalanders landing jobs through LinkedIn. So I will like to ask, has anyone gotten a job through LinkedIn?. Also, share your job hunting experience on the platform

I got my present job with an LNG exporting company in the US through LinkedIn.

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Davash222:
This public notice is unnecessary. He’s already on Life Sentence, that should be enough. His innocent family, kindred and community are the ones suffering the shame now.

Must you punish all for the sins of one?


No, he's not. I'm from the SE. we don't do that here.

The public shaming is one the best initiatives that can be used to combat the menace of rape in Nigeria.

Kudos to Fayemi and co.

Kemight15:
Who cares

Then you should not complain about anything Nigeria.

Yes, who cares? The same attitude our parent had when Gowan said the problem of Nigeria was not how to make money but of how to spend it. The failure of then is hunting the generation of now.

Yes, who cares? Your children will pay for your stand.

EdmundChidera:
Another prediction called prophecy. About US election, if Trump wins, Democratic won't let him rest like they did him in 2016, then if Biden wins, Trump will likely frustrate Biden and Democratics. So the post-election will be full with crises, protest and aggressive politics

Thank you very much.
I don’t know when this man will learn to keep his month shut.