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smart1204:
sincerely, pls someone who once experienced this should help me out. I don't want to shamed in public because of an erect penis on a woman's buttocks.

It is all in your mind, control your mind and you will have your peace.

Are you saying you can't enter a bike with a non-related lady without getting erection?

I have done that severally.

Few of the times...

1. Promised to take her younger sister on shopping because the mumu girl don yarn her did sey I get money.

2. I was chatting with this babe and she has already fallen but then she replied my chat with "K",that was the end. She message me sotey she commented "is that so/na wa o" on my post but I still no send.

3. I had two ladies I was using for cruise during my NYSC program,i didn't tell them I have rounded up the program, when they realized they tried reaching me but I don move on and I wasn't giving them any attention. The third one that knows because she is my neighbour's gave up when she tried checking on me and I was posting her.

4. The recent one, this one has already fallen in love kpatakpata, she's even thinking we may be getting married(when I never open my mouth ask her out) but for my mind I'm looking for a way to push her off without hurting her because I don't want to hurt ladies anymore.


I just want to marry and be a responsible husband not all these games.

BabaIbo:
Ok

Okorocha nothing for you in 2023. You and that your scam of a P.A(Abdul) that used my opportunity to get help, you can't smell that Aso Villa.

Even if Okorocha contest against a stone/Tinubu/El-Rufai, I will vote for the latter.

Ok

MrWTF:
Hello kid,

When starting a business, you pass through some challenges aside financial challenges.

These challenges are bound to happen in any business so as to know the market strategy et all.

When the company has undergone these challenges and come out strong, you then know working for someone for 35 years is the scam of the century.

I know you don’t understand what I’m saying. Cos you are a coward who chickened out of business cos of the challenges.

Learn to grow something. Stop being a slave.

See this fo..ol.

Challenges exist in all stages of a business not just the starting stage.

Oh, you thought I quitted my business.
"Your idiocy is irredeemable"!
☺️�

You are a mor.on, I have a business and it is doing fine and grows everyday.

Fo...ols like you make use of social media to insult and talk to people you can't insult or talk to in real(physical) life.

When people who have experienced something tell it to people like you, it doesn't mean they quitted. It means they want you to know the real situation.

I won't reply you after this unless you have an existing business like I do.

Little kid, hurry up and go join your mates in school.

MrWTF:
You are looking for how to start a business with 150k - 200k and you have the effrontery to tell me to keep quiet?

See, there are people way above your level. Just shift Abeg!

Are you this daft?

That was at the initial stage. It seems you don't know how to read.
That money is not even up to half of what I later spent in setting up the shop.

BTW, even Innoson, Obijackson, Ibeto, Dangote, Otedola, Mike Adenuga etc. get people that are way above their levels, you no get talk.

The question is "what has your mumu self done other than going around social media and tackling people blindly".

For you to know how challenging business can be, unlike when a rich and connected kid is given/offered a job where he enjoys, if he ventures into a business(even if it is an established one i.e the one is dad or mon is doing) even with enough capital and already made market, e go still face the challenge. Talk more of a new business.

I'm done discussing with you on this.

Happy Sunday!

MrWTF:
You’ve succeeded in deceiving a lot people on here about starting a business and growing it.

You are amongst the problems of Nigeria. You and the people who liked your post.

Keep quiet please!

Who is this one, do you think everyone is a fake person like you?

Check my profile for more info about it.

At first I was planning to start the business with 200k but when I made the move, the money I spent in putting my business premises in place alone is approximately double of that if not more than double.
I don't want to go into the business capital because how I did it is by God's grace and wisdom.
There are things I can't disclose to you, things like business type, level or scale of business etc.

How I wish I can give you my shop location, so that you can visit me and see for yourself but I won't do that because I also use this account for trolling.

Those who own businesses understand what I typed there.
By business, I mean buying and selling not handwork like shoe building, farming etc.
I'm not in anyway shaming those ones but I'm just letting you you know. Even those ones have their own challenges.

Remember there are competitors that were there before you joined, that alone is a challenge on its own.

The truth is always bitter, I doubt if you have invested your own money in a new business before, if you have you won't open your mouth to spew this trash.

Munzy14:
Lol
That is the area people don't understand..It takes years to stand..But it is the best decision one can take.

When you have a business, Meeting the crème de la crème in the society is easier..If you are under employment, u only meet managers who give u instructions.

No be lie.

May God bless our various businesses, finances and business premises, Amen!

Minemrys:
sure say me and u no be brodas? I also had same thoughts at the start to the seas0n.

LoL, I had the feeling.

Now, it's clear why I had to stop watching it.

APC agents on Nairaland have paid the mods to ban the OP from making Nigerians and others nationals happy since they are adamant in making Nigerians unhappy.- Sahara Reporter.

Richy4:
Haba!!!!! Where is everyone?...This is almost an empty thread unlike last season....Is it safe to say that Liverpool has a lot of fair weather Fans?

You no get talk abeg, if all football fans are passionate the way I'm to Liverpool ehn.
Football for be religion.

I no wan just watch or follow Liverpool match and thread simple.
I told people around me last year/season that I won't follow football much this year/season.

E get why...

ogub:
Become an entrepreneur build your own business

Easier said than done.

Do you think starting a business is any easy?

FYI, it's tougher than being employed.

You are about to understand the true meaning of that line "So help me God" in Nigeria's anthem.

Life after NYSC is on another level.

Don't be afraid, it is challenging but if you overcome it, then you're made.

In all you need God.

descarado:
You know the problem with u?
Emotions.
It beclouds everything.
Now,go back and read my submission carefully and slowly..

Still trash.

See who is talking about emotions. You need to reason well before you make a comment.

Why did you singled out those ones headed by Igbo?

Is your tribe free from fanatiscm, tribalism or whatever you accused them of?

If you don't have any meaningful thing to say, just put your sentiment in your pocket please.

Summary please!

Although, some men are stupid and violent in their handling of opposite sex, Nigieria's version of feminism is rubbish.

Let me reply with just the heading.

If you like be a feminist, it doesn't stop you from seeing "Periods", getting pregnant, it doesn't change your gender.

Lastly, it can't make you the husband.

My advice, go with whoever you're compatible with.

Mind you, there are men that wants to buy a particular ride(benz, lexus, Ferrari, Aston martin, Lambo, bugga..., etc.), go on a foreign trip, vacation, go clubbing, carry babes, etc but because they want to assure their family of good life, they denied themselves of those pleasure by investing the money in businesses, investments etc.

descarado:
Only u made sense here.
Arinze was the most qualified but he was sidestepped cos he was a black man.
How many years of Catholic church and their bulk of adherents are in Africa yet they don't want to reward black man by making him pope.

The same with all of them. Jehovah witness will never put a black man as part of its governing council or is it Anglican church?
Let's narrow it down to Nigeria.
Redeeem, winners, any popular Pentecostal headed by igbo, enenche etc will never give pastors from other tribas recognition and higher office rather, they are always sent to villages to go and plant churches, remit a particular amount every month, uprooted when success has been attained to another remote village to go continue suffering.

That the world is this way are these religious supremacists with unquenchable greed for power and control.
Nonsense

Trash!
Trash!!
Trash!!!

You wanted to make sense by buttressing on his point "selection of pope" but you deviated and spewed trash.

Why single out a tribe as if your own tribe is perfect or free from tribalism?

Which one is "all Pentecostal churches headed by Igbo", as if your tribe is free from tribalism?

Like I said, all you to typed are trashes.

Sixfeetbelle:
Using Abba Kyari here as an example is dim-witted. Most people who wished him death didn't know him, has never met him, would never meet him. He has no bond or affiliation to them. Apart from the rest of Nigerians, nobody in Abba's family would have wished him death.

On the other hand, family members and relatives are people who know, people we have met, people we will still meet. Wishing them death is only possible from a malicious heart. No reason can justify wishing your family death. None.

F*ck off, for you to conclude that everyone that met him loved him without any exception is enough reason for me to ignore you.

Once again f*ck off!

xavuv:
I like your angle of reasoning.
Yes i agree OP should not take decision in a hurrry. OP already gave the reasons he thinks his mum hates his wife.

The fact still remains that the mother is not a good woman. No matter the grievances she should not have wished death for his DIL.

What goes around comes back around

It is only God that knows who is good or bad.

Never jump to conclusion like that, her words or actions may be born out of something.

After all, there is a saying that for every action there is an opposite reaction.

What if she feels like she is losing her son and she doesn't care about anything again.

I'm not saying she is good, neither am I saying she bad.

The koko is that the OP need to apply wisdom in this kind of issue.

OP pray for wisdom.

xavuv:
How old r u big baby
Why r u ppl sentimental in reasoning
What if somebody wants ur daughter dead

Swear that you have never wished any of your leaders death.

When Abba Kyari died, some people said they wished it was the president... that died.
Because they felt he's the cause of the happenings in the country.

That is similar thing to what the OP posted, the mom out of her sentimental love wished the wife died instead of the kid who probably my be her first grandchild, maybe because OP is her son and she knows the kid will forever be hers irrespective of a divorce or not, and again the case will be different if OP is her daughter and not a son.

The OP need to apply wisdom in this kind of issue. Decision on such delicate matters shouldn't be taken in a hurry because it may come back to hunt him.
Again, the brother should have applied wisdom in handling this, it is not everything you hear that you must say.

Your mom didn't deny it means something, and again she will now see your brother in another light.

How you handle this will determine how you guys will live henceforth...
If you disown her and cut off all contact with her, she won't relate with you, your brother(for carrying the info) and your family.
If you apply wisdom and follow up the issue diligently, you may succeed in draining away the bad blood that has been flowing in your family and that will leave everyone happy after.

Find out why she has such feeling towards her, women can be funny at times.


On the other hand, OP don't even know if both of them are in two separate cults and they are using him to practise their power fight.

Imagine!

Hope full ground walahai!

E don happen, nwobere ego.

In P Square's voice.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Many thanks...

Does it come with accommodate?

You should have accepted it, it's just 4 months, most jobs in Lagos or other major cities have similar conditions.

You are even lucky the guy gave a time frame. As long as the job as job security.

Anyway, you already made up your mind.

Even the 80k is low but as a young person with little responsibility, you can cope with it.

When I was working for people, I earned lesser than that but I supported it with side gigs.
Thank God for life.

Mikester:
Thanks Sir. I see your point but I didn't say it applied to every situation though.

Personally I'm fully aware that a lot has been figured out except how to live but we are humans and we all need counsel at various times and stages. That's the rationale behind this post.

Alright

Pegi23:
I don't mean to be harsh oo but to me he should keep quiet
When he start working and living alone then he will know how the real world is.

I think he stated that, that is why he included a certain age grade.

That's life for you, unpredictable.

Pegi23:
I swear I was like this op have sense oo, mature guy at the age of 21 but your number 14 make you stupid and foolish..

That is harsh, you can oppose him without being too hard.
He is right if you think otherwise, give your reason in a responsible manner.


Back to the post, OP your opinion/view may be valid for people your age and maybe some above your age but when you get to a certain level in life, you will realize so many things.

Life has no proven written rules or principles, you can only find guide which can't guarantee 100% result.

There are people that followed rules and are still struggling, while some live life as it comes and are doing well today.

And there are people that set rules/principles to follow and they are doing well.

Every stages in life has its own challenges.

Remember the saying that Life is a mystery or a journey.


In summary, your post is not bad, it is good.
You did well in compiling that list but there is level/stage in life you will get to that some or most of them may not be applicable and again you have to put into consideration the situation/condition of the person involved.
You don't expect someone that is being fed or a privileged person to have same orientation with someone that is striving to feed himself/his loved ones i.e a person that is not privileged.

Where are Nigeria army, and the JTF?

Oh, I forgt they are in Orlu and other places doing their national assignments.

Kayberg:
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You could have made sense with a better comment.
It is not a must I know everything or every musician or whatever.
You know them because you were into such stuffs.
So stop raising your shoulders like you've known it all all because you knew some robotic artistes.

Don't mind her, I guess her post has been removed and account banned.
She doesn't sound like a married mother, maybe she is a single mother because I don't understand the reason for the outburst.

I don't know those guys by name but I might have listened to their songs.

Note: There are reasonable and well behaved single mothers.

GeneralPula:
Somebody said it lately that las las nah only flatinoz go remain for PDP..

Let real men keep playing politics while they wail everyday for 600years..

Shame no dey your body.

You no see as them take enter your lord and saviour and him partner, calling them empty barrels that can't fulfil promises.

grandlexuz:
May you complain about the size of your pennis all the days of your life...

Stupid and childish talk.

I would have asked you to link me up with your sisters or babes and see who the complainant will be, but that is not necessary because it is going back to you, your head with full speed.

iamdapsyj:
You don't need to be stupid. In your statement that I quoted, you said he hasn't publicly spoken out and I referred you to his Instagram page to let you know he had indeed done that. Except you meant that he didn't go to the protest ground which you didn't state expressly and many other celebrities didn't go to the protest ground either. As for the shirt displayed at the headies, it's a worldwide phenomenon. Celebrities in other countries do it especially if the organisers allow it on their platform. Just recently black lives matter was accommodated in the MTV awards.

Don't be silly, many people posted about it online, does that have any viable effect? No, I don't think so, except you are not in town or you don't reside in the country, for example Rihana and some other foreigners.
It can't be compared to physical protest.

He gats no ball, simple.

Just as Cuppy and some others made posts about it, las las you see as e go. That is best classified as Clout chasing or Attention seeking.

If you're smart, you should know I am referring to protest ground and not social media post.

It's against Headies rule, I think you need to check that out.
As for Black Lives Matter own, MTV rules/terms/conditons were adjusted to accommodate that but that is not the case with Headies.

Ayiiiii

LooooL