₦airaland Forum

lansile:
You are like me before I married. Used to be so annoyed how my married friends were always in competition with me for any available girls. I used to wonder and thinking I could never do that once God granted my prayers to be married. Soon, after marriage I realized how much of a scam the marriage institution itself is Although, I still hold the believe that our parents weren't like this during their time because for instance I've never for once found my dad in the kitchen cooking food for the family or watch him washing plates or do other chores like I now must or else I want to starve or keep buying food from canteen which is something I was not raised with. To top it all, to express your intention to have sex with your wife is now made to look like wanting to commit crime against her. Just everything you expected to enjoy from marriage is a lie once the wedding is over. If you don't want to divorce now your only option is to seek for sexual pleasure outside.
In conclusion, having extramarital affairs is actually an act of safeguarding the institution of marriage rather than endangering it.

Interesting point

Gerrard59:
My issue with married men who cheat is when they label their single male friends as irresponsible.

Cheat oh (na you and your wife get problem), but don't label me as irresponsible.

That's my gripe too

Moh247:




Looking at how modern Ibos behave, what Lord Lugard reports wrote about Ibos to the house of Lords, Sarduna's BBC interview, Ijaw and Ikwere Leaders rejection of Eastern region.

Its easy to see why

These are the same people with the OSU caste system

Suddenly you need a vote for Ibo Presidency in Incompetent Obi

You come to SouthWest tell Yorubas they are Yoruba christian and Yoruba Muslim

You go to Kaduna and tell them South and Northern Kaduna are enemies

Use pictures of grieving people who lost relatives to insecurity for mere Politics

Funny enough cowards among them would never see anything wrong, they would like the post and silently disappear



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This guy is sick

Gernny:
Go to Mauritius

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Thank you for the suggestion

tensazangetsu20:
The almighty Google o. Hmmmm and companies that people looked down on are even giving bonuses. Mercedes Benz just paid all their devs 7000 euros bonus. Apple isn't laying off and didn't lay off in 2001 and she's seen as the least prestigious amongst the faang.

It seems the faang hype might die down after all these layoffs. I really pity those from third world countries who are on H1Bs. It's 60 days to find a new job or go back home. For Nigerians that can mean a possibility of coming back to emilokan God forbid sha.

That is why it's good to be frugal and save a lot of your income when you are on H1B or any other type of sponsorship in any country.

At least for Nigerians with sense

They can relocate to another country while trying their hands on express entry

Or if the money big enough
Use it to enter UK as a student

For some Nigerians that I know who fled;; coming back in such fashion is NOT an option

pansophist:
With what I know now, I'll take the 10M. Maximise it, then move abroad later with it. So the destination is still abroad, but just not now.

Yea
That's what I'll do too

blabulu2000:
I trust an average Aboki ....dem.no dey betrays themselves and their religion for the Nyamiri people...

Buhari also that I know can never endorse Obi

I will not be surprised if Datti - denies obi .....

But Yoruba people are the greatest problem of themselves...

Aboki used you in 2015 to make Buhari the president ...now, Nyamiri people want to use you to make Peter Obi the president, and that one also was speaking like an slowpoke at chautam house and they were saying he spoke well.
Obi that can not coordinate his legislative house in Anambra for 4 years is the one that wants to coordinate the entire Multi-tribal country for as the president for 4 years...

See the calibre of people supporting Agbado

Smh

onatisi:
all these so-called politicians underestimating the impact of obi , definitely obi won't win but he has done more damage to APC than to PDP
. obi is not making great progress in the north but his strong base is in the south and has completely broken the votes there to pieces. even the south west which used to be the stronghold of APC isnt spared, obi will most likely get more than 20 -25 percent in most states of the south.
the million dollar question is will apc get 25% in peter obi strong controlled areas ?

True

Obaofaba:
And history will be kind to you Mr soludo, the solution.

Truth is always bitter but it's better.

We don't have any problem with igbos or labour party winning the presidency in the future but certainly not now when all they've got to offer us is a fraudulent character who is a master in growing poverty rate by more than 50%.

If we fail to vote wisely for people who has in the past demonstrated the true capacities to lead and with verifiable achievements to back it up, history will never be kind to us.

The south east has a lot of people with enviable charisma, how on Earth will they present this guy to us?

This guy is a curse to himself.

Remember, he cursed himself never to leave apga, such man with a lack of integrity do not deserve to govern Nigeria.

Stop lying

Say it as it is

I'm just wondering whether It is still worth it to go to south Africa for studies with the view to settling there

Even if temporarily

Nigerians actually deserve this level of suffering

If not there would have been big revolts by now against the establishment

rexel99:
What's this one saying? How can solar not be the solution? The world is moving towards sustainability and sustainable practices to reduce carbon footprint. Also, organisations are tapping into their sustainability credentials as their USP and positioning strategy to drive customer engagement and their brand. You are here mouthing garbage all because you want to drop a comment.

The advantage for Sterling is not just sustainability, but the fact that this will help them drive down overhead cost in the long term because banks spend heavily on diesel and electricity. If you have been following the news, you will recall sometime last year's banks had to scale back their closing time because of their heavy expenditure on diesel.

Now, how won't this deliver real value for the bank?? I would advise you to be logical and rational, not to be typing out garbage.

The person you quoted have a point

Guyman01:
The banks are working with politicians to force an extention till after the elections

This is possible

IbeOkehie:
The Lebanese will succeed in Nigeria because the Nigerian government AND people favor Europeans and Asians above their fellow Nigerians. It's as simple as that. Go to any international airport in Nigeria and see for yourself. It's not an accident that most of the highest earning CEO's of quoted companies in Nigeria are Asian or European. Everyone think well before writing.

Thanks.

Facts!

femijohn21:
They cannot reside abroad because no one to oppress with their money. It is only in Nija they can do anything and mostly get away with it. For yonder them too no their boundary.

Facts

okuta007:
while you are running away to waste $13,000 on a trip to nowhere, somewhere in Beirut, Lebanon - A Lebanese of your own age is thanking his stars he got a Nigerian visa - and with only $1,500 in his pocket - By 2033 (10 years from today) You will return to Nigeria brandishing foreign kpali , fresh skin and nice clothes as an achievement with the most amount in your bank account being $1,200 after your travel expenses - while that Lebanese who came to Nigeria when you were japa-ing away from the same Nigeria will be worth @ least $ 2 million and living in a high brow area in Nigeria - nacking solid naija babes that poverty will not even allow you say hello to and he will use his Landcruiser SUV to pour potopoto for your body while you are waiting to take a cab to keep appointment with your aggrieved Uncle who is waiting to insult you for neglecting your family for the past 10 years : You will return to a country where the kids you left behind will be proud home owners and family heads doping very well in life, and greeting you,--- Bros, you don come back? how far naw - wetin you carry come ? while you neither have a plot of land or a house to your name because bills ate all your money abroad and the few money you could save and send home, some family members or evil friends scammed you of it and did not build any house for you, THEN you will return to NIGERIA broke and bitter and time will never reverse for your sake BECAUSE time lost can never be retrieved --------------- WHY NOT INVEST THE MONEY AND DO ALL YOU CAN TO SUCCEED IN NIGERIA where the cost of living is very low and the market is so available to trade anything and make money - and later japa on your own terms for leisure ?? Hmmmmm, dont worry, go and waste that money, dog wey won loss will never listen to the owner whistle...

This mentality here is the reason why every level headed person should jaapa from this country
It's all about money money �
No talk of any other thing

JaneGray:
Short up mugu, there's no where insecurity is not a problem, everywhere has it. Ifọla ala beke chefuọ ụwagi.

He is right you know

Agapechuks147:
The guy found out that someone very close was involved,He was silenced...........Man is wicked

How will that person feel spending money knowing that the source was kidnapping and KILLING your relative /friend/associate

sisisioge:
Nigeria is now a very scary country. Kidnapping and killings is now a new normal. It is well fa....and some complain about bank managers who travel abroad to live peacefully as healthcare aids

Honestly I don't blame people who are moving out of the country in droves

ethan101:
immediately they kill anyone after collecting ransom

its purely an insider job

I feel so too

Slynation:
Ladies that doesn't have sense, they are always blinded by money and thinks money solves everything...They price them like this...!!

With condom 50K

Without condom 2.5million...

Haaaaaaaaa

Wetin be dis ooo

But there is PEP Sha

But still

Sannisege:
A reliable source who even gave me Senator David Mark’s phone number (even though the Senator didn’t pick up when I called him) told me that she pitied girls sleeping with Dino Melaye because Dino is HIV positive.

I'm sure that the ladies will at least insist on Condom use.

Soutb African women eh

ahiboilandgas:
so person go leave 3 bedroom apartment for wuse go they share apartment and kitchen for Glasgow with indians .How is that progress or retrogression kindly explain!.

If that's where he is starting from
And plans upward mobility

There is no issue at all about that

Pityoobi:
They paused for naaanu...Igbos and foolishness sh.

How did you know that they are "Igbo"?

Gmajor:
Why are the SA housemates speaking their language?

They are fond of that

juman:
If you are doing well financially in nigeria, dont travel abroad, most likely you go cry.
One has to work very hard to get money.

What's wrong with working hard to make money

Why are people mad at the man ?

His marriage means a lot to him
So let em save it

Especially if kids are involved