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Their problem thier business.

I just bought fuel N190 per litre and my chest is doing me somehow.

Well well well.

First of all, it is not good to generalize about people's character because everyone is unique. Not every igbo man is like that and the character he is exhibiting is not peculiar to igbos.

I don't why your husband is acting like that and off course we don't know your full relationship history.

Here is the thing though, unlike the western world, African society is a patriarch society. Men rule. The man / husband usually gives orders, oversees the affairs of the family and run the family as he deems fit.

From what you wrote here though, you both have lived together for a long time. Maybe he has a wife in Nigeria, maybe his father or mother is sick or maybe he is tired of your relationship.. I dont know.

I will suggest you talk to him about how you feel and find out if there is a problem, find out how he feels about your relationship. You know have soul to soul conversation with your husband. A good husband regardless of his race, tribe or nationality should care for the wife's feeling and make sure she is happy.

Cheers!!

He might be right. That's quite wrong, the issue is that, he is perceived to be an aggressive player and will easily get a yellow card if he breathes heavily on a player.

Just like Andreas Herrera always goes down easily if you stare at him. It is usually a bit hard for him to win free kick.

Neither.

A good coach is a people's person. Ronaldo could be arrogant with a me me lifestyle. He wants all the attention for himself and could be a damsel at times.

Messi on the other hand looks like an 8-5 kind of guy, comes to work do his 8 hrs and go home. He doesn't look like he is interested in office politics or anything of that sort and isn't ready to beg or please anyone. Just come to work, do his share and go home.

They are both good players but neither of them shows leadership ability on the pitch.

I think Sergio Ramos and Iniesta will be a good coaches especially Ramos.

bestpropty:
4 flat of 3bedroom with 3nos of 2bedroom flat fenced with cofo on 670sqm@salvation close off odusote isokan estate agric IKD Lagos #26.m asking see pics below 09055889692

Pictures?

linconoyee:
Happy Holiday nairalanders , don't know if some engineers and investors in the house could help me through this . I just purchase 2plot of land in my town and I'm planning to use it for a standard hotel with a pool and my budget is 50million , from start to finish , do u think this will be enough for the project ?

It depends on lots of factors like;
1. How many rooms?
2. Amenties you intend to have in the hotel.?

ossaioviesucces:
Breaking: Gov Okowa Signs Bill of N308.9 billion 2018 Budget Into Law.

Delta State Governor Sen Ifeanyi Okowa today signed N308.9 billion 2018 Budget Into Law.

The Speaker of the Delta State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Sheriff Oborevwori, accompanied by his Deputy, Rt. Hon. Osanebi Ossai Friday, Clerk of the House, Mrs Lyna Ochukor, and other principal officers of the DTHA presented passed the Appropriation Bill at the occasion which took place in Government House Asaba and was witnessed by members of the Delta State Executive Council and other top government functionaries.

Question for you Sir,

How much does it cost to get the fast track 90 C of O in Delta state?

I think Okowa deserves a statue

Nigerians are wicked

Diaris god ooo

He is checking his blokos, Village people are working overtime this days..

#11: How to survive Buhari's govt.

I bought a litre of fuel for N190 after standing in line for almost 2 hours and my chest is doing me somehow.

Patience is a virtue.

Congrats George Weah, I hope you make Africans proud!!

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Naijabin:
Thank you sir, I really appreciate your advice, I am so grateful

You are very welcome My Oga.

Please please do use my last advice about not strangling your business to buy land.

Again, I don't know about real estate up North because I am from the East. Here is how re al estate usually works.

They tell you land is say, N1m, you negotiate 750 and the seller accepts 850k.that's not the only expenses.

You still have to pay agent fee which could be between 5-10 percent of 850k. Then you find a lawyer to write the agreement, might charge you 5-10 % the cost of the land or 10-15k.
Then survey the land, surveyors usually charge 50-70k.

Remember this figure might be more or less. They are the figures I have paid myself so it might be the same or high or low depending on the area.

So, You might decide to secure the land with fence, fencing costs approximately N1m. As soon as you start fencing, the villagers will come for development levy, money for youth, fencing levy, transformer levy, fencing permit and all.

You have seen all these charges that was never brought up to your attention (agent fee, lawyer, surveyor etc).

Say if you use all your money say, N1m to buy a land of 850k, you will end up emptying your pocket, this will stress you out and it have a potential of affecting your business.

Before buying, always do the maths very well to make sure you have enough money for those expenses and also you still have money left to run your business because you don't want to strangle the source of your income.

Cheers!!

On thing i like about this man is he is always the king or a rich father with stubborn son/daughter in his movies, he never acts as a poor man

Naijabin:
Thanks for your response.
1. Plot of Land here will cost 600,000-1,000,000

This is based on what people told me and I myself didn't go in search of the land yet.

2. If I will want a studio I will need it by a roadside or place people will likely see easily.

3. I earn about 50-80k monthly.

4. Sure it will.

And I must rent shop for the studio.

So should I just open the studio?

Well, I don't know how much a shop by the roadside will cost you and how much you need to invest in studio equipment. Check on that say shop and equipment will cost 500k( just guessing) then you still have 500k in your war chest for the land.

50-80k per month is a healthy income in this era, keep up your efforts.

And I imagine if you invest in your business, your income might tilt to the right a bit say 100k? ( I am just guessing, I don't know the photography industry).

Then few months later you could buy a plot of land at your desired location and gradually build it up.

One advise though, do not clean out your closet (use all your cash) to buy the land. While it is a good investment, you don't want to strangle your business, you need to have operating cash say 50k -100k just in case your business needs it.

Cheers!!

Naijabin:
Hello guys, please I need suggestion. I am a photographer but I don't have a studio, I made a million naira from my savings and some online stuffs I do, now I am in a confuse state whether to buy a plot of Land with the money or I should use it to open a small studio for my photography business.
I stay in the north so the one mill is enough to get a good plot of land for me.

Your ideas will help

Mods please help me push it to the promise land

I don't know the North very well but here are criterias i will consider before making a decision.

1. How much is a plot of land in the area you prefer to buy land.
2. Will you be comfortable having a studio in your home?
3. How much is your monthly income?

4. Will having a studio significantly boost your business?

Then 5 Depending on your answers on above you could;
a) buy a plot of land, if change will remain, build a small house for your studio on the land and when money come, build the main house.

Or you could go all in in your business and when more money come in you can buy a plot of land.

Cheers!!

;Dtv

Disregard

I swear I did not see his name

Why won't he reject the offer to coach the Falcons?? When NFF always owe coaches salary but money keep missing from their office

kenpope:
Please what is the estimated cost of two units of 12 two bedrooms apartments (6 flats on each building unit A&B) with block B having extra 3 one bedroom apartments?

I need cost breakdown from foundation to finish.

Qualified engineers should provide these answers and leave their number below. Architectural drawing attached
Thanks

Site location: Asaba Delta state

I already have 20,000 (9 inches) blocks for a 2 storey, 2 separate buildings comprising of 12 (2 bedrooms flats) and addtional three 1 bedroom apartment, to commence work soon at Asaba

My Oga, have a question for you, how big is your plot of land in sq. Meters?

Also, do you mind sharing the 3d picture of the proposed buildings.

Thank you sir.

Evablizin:



Oga Inno go in peace,demanding to know why they arrested you is a waste of time because they will tell you lies.

This is called grand standing.. He is just enjoying the moment of being the news.

He is right to demand answers tho

naija911:
According to the anti-graft body, his arrest followed his refusal to honour invitation by the Commission having earlier jumped an administrative bail granted him in a case being investigated by the Capital Market and Insurance Fraud Unit of the Commission's Lagos office.

"Chukwuma, rather than honoring invitation by the EFCC, mobilized six truck loads of thugs pretending to be staff of his company to his residence, where they manhandled EFCC operatives. "It took reinforcement from the Enugu office of the EFCC to effect the arrest of the industrialist who is currently being grilled by a team of investigators,"

Video or i don believe it ( no joke).

How come EFFC have not released official statement?

amazinghomez09:
More pixs

You don finish this bungalow nah nah nah
Dee dee, sha okwanu nwe aka

BeeBeeOoh:


My problem is what brought EFCC into this matter that warranted them to bundle Innoson away like firewood??

You have forgotten this is 9ja. Some one can have army or police bundle another person up and throw them in jail because they had misunderstandings.

spyder880:
Can you all help me with critique this painting combinations, I just arrived to see this combination they chose for this house and I don't like it very much.

On the first picture, the cream on the dining needed another shade in that family to bring it down as these two colours (bright blue and cream) seems to be fighting each other

On the second picture, although I appreciate the idea of this my painter to match a particular paint tile colour with this bright orange on the porch, but the effect I see there is a "shouty" porch that reminded me of GTB instead of a home

Although some of my family loves this but I am about to coat this with something cooler. Gbadexy, what do you think, as this is your field.

Let me start from the second picture: Yes, You are right.. The orange color is screaming, it doesn't look good, frankly in my view it reduces the beauty of the house. The house was more beautiful without that orange color. Also remember orange is too bright even when used inside of the house, using it outside of the house where it is exposed to sunlight is a no no.

It is different though if you own a business like GTB and you want to draw people's attention, but this is personal house i reckon.

Back to the first. Again, I agree with you.. The blue color is no good, it throws everything off.

On a personal level, I have always favored painting inside of a personal house with milk color. My personal house is milk color for the whole house ( rooms, living room kitchen etc)

I think it makes the house looks neat and can blend with any tile or furniture your heart desires.

My opinion!!

This is exactly what is wrong in this country. People take care of themselves and care less of the country.

One Nigeria my àss.

zuchyblink:
In Imo state, hospitality is our business. I humbly appeal to mischief makers and detractors to please stop distracting our governor. Even when you want to criticise let it be constructive. What works for Benue state may not work for Imo state. Our governor is making our state attractive for fun seeking people in Nigeria and abroad as well as tourists because hospitality is our business.
Thank you all

Tell your Master Rochas to pay government workers.. Tell him to pay them their arrears

Me getting ready to be called to bar..

veacea:
God bless you my BarriSTAR

Barrister Amandianaeze Esq. Barrister & Solicitor of supreme court of Nigeria.

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