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Arthurwinner:
wat if she walks out?

Then you will have a peace of mind and another lady that deserves you will walk in..

sarrki:
Definitely President Buhari will listen to baba

Baba obj is an experienced man

You are right.

Do you remember how he took care of the militants in Niger delta

Today most of those militants are graduating first class here and there.

The militants and IPOB want similiar thing, they felt left out and wants the share of the nAtional cake or let them have there own country and control there resources.

Since they outlawed IPOB calling them Terrorist organization.

What about Fulani Herdemen killing and raping people working jejely on their farm? Destroying their crops , sometimes their only means of survival.

I think they believe Fulani Herdmens are peace loving organization.

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amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

Have you asked your wife privately about why she is feeling that way towards your family

That's a good starting point, then from her response then you can atleast hear from her.

I had a similar experience with my wife, she came to our house greeted my mom.. She said my mom didn't respond. My mom in return was upset that the lady i was marrying didn't greet her. Wahala

There was a bit cold reception between two of them for a while.. My wife thought my mom don't like her, my mom thought she was disrespectful. Then i know my mom don't have any issue with her and she in turn doesn't have any issues.. The only problem was the greeting stuff.

Now, i can't turn my back on my mother neither can i turn my back on my wife. So i had my wife buy a hollandaise and gave her telling her she was sorry, when they first met she was too overwhelmed that she contained her exciting too much, she thought she greeted her but the greetings didn't come out loud enough. She is a shy girl bla bla. My mom accepted the wrapper and that was the end of it.

The reason why i approached the situation like that was one, i don't know who was right and wrong.. I was there oo but i was talking with my dad. Asking my mom to accept that she was greeted and talk to my wife.. She wouldn't be too happy.. Infact that would be world war 3. So my wife had to bear the burden of accepting that she was at fault but not in a rude way so.. We are now a jolly happy family.

The reason why i told you mine story is to give you idea .

But first thing first.. Talk to your wife and find out her reason for feeling that way towards your family.

Good luck my brother.

deji17:
You are still as dishonest as you can be. Even from this video, you can see that these are not "innocent civilians". They are IPOB members who have promised that the "zoo must fall" Who has been harassing and disturbing the peace of others by blocking roads etc. Your rant will not change reality on the ground.

Neither can your hatred change the reality.

In a democratic world this is human abuse whether you like it or not. If the government felt those guys were violent. Why don't they follw due process amd charge them to court

deji17:
You are not ready to be honest. When a wicked man brings a case to court, don't assume that a wicked man will be the judge.
From the videos that I have seen where IPOB members were holding sticks and machete, blocking roads, beating people up who do not support their cause or have a Biafra flag on their vehicle, there is nothing peaceful about them. Their leader has asked them to kill, bring down the zoo, solicit for arms etc.
Everyone is gathering their evidence that they will present at UN , ICJ etc.

My brother My sister. My comment was based on the video that I watched.

To be frank, your point doesn't make sense at all. Why

From the previous incidents that according to you , you witnessed were IPOB members were violent. Assuming that what you said is true that those guys were violent.

1. Were those violent individuals at that time, the same individuals on the video
2. Why would someone be punished for anothers crime
3. Why is the federal government not following their own law
4. Why is the government biased in enforcing the law
5. Why are military on the streets engaging civilians when we are in democracy
6. What happened to innocent until proven guilty assuming those guys committed a crime
7. Let's forget about hatred and call a spade a spade.
8. Cheers!!!

deji17:
There is no human right abuse here. If you have watched the military training or recruitment exercise, you will see how the soldiers are being drilled. Sometimes it involves rolling or crawling in the mud. The military is only trying to help in the area of training of the Biafra secret police and Defense. More like Foreign Assistance in Military Training

It is Biafra or death, you remember?

My brother my sister. This is not a military training you know.

In a civilized world, there is no contact between military and civilian unless there's a state of emergency.

From the video that i assume both you and i just watched. Those guys were not violent, no state of Emergency was declared. So,

1. There's no reeason for Soldiers to be on the streets.
2. There's no reason for those guys to be treated like they did even if they committed a crime. What happened to innocent until proven guilty by a competent court of law

Female president in a Muslim country..

Wow... Interesting. Congrats to her.

Oyindidi:
Lol, the food look scary

That could be why the wife was scared to touch the pot

[quote author=mikron post=603956 85]abeg shift, who is qarabag in football circles, we re beating a tricky basel side that have given us headaches in the past u re here comparing an awoof team like qarabag with swiss champions basel [/quote]Qarabag is based in Kwara state right?

Wow, turnout is really impressive.

Kudos Plateau United. But your Mascot could use new pair of shoes

It is a shame that these crooks are our leaders

I hope no life was lost..

Congrats to him

Abeg sombori should buy a deodorant for him

BigBelleControl:
Mike Pence would be a better president than Donald Trump.

Not that he would really.

The thing is, Pence is a career politicians, what he is doing here is just smiling for the camera, he came to take pictures. Do you recall seeing those pictures where Aisha Buhari was frying Akara, Rochas was roasting corn, Amaechi was braiding a ladies hair and Fayose eating kpomo at a buka or when politicians come to lay a foundation of a building.. All those things are publicity stunt.

In comparison to Trump, He is a career business man, Oga at the top, My way or the high way kind of guy. And he is not familiar with these kind of stunt.

spyder880:
Back, front.............

But what about safety? How can we modify this so we can have a quick escape latch on it? Supposing we need to escape the building in an emergency?

I am sorry to tell you man, you can't have it both ways.. The only thing you could do is to keep a chain saw by the side of the windows in case of emergency.

Yes, why not. I will definitely buy the car even tip the car sales man $1k.

Steps out of the house looking for agege bread and pepsi 50cl.

Iffa catch that senior them they call long john that time wey draw motor for ground say make i go park am for the garage he drew on sand.

I will draw both the car and the garage on sand like he did but i wont tell him to park the car in the garage, I will make him eat both of them.

Police is your friend.

How this fine babe was focused on her studies to graduate best in medical school is quite impressive.

Back then in school, babes that are bookworms are not usually fine, like they used book as an excuse not to get out there thinking we don't see they are ugly

This woman fine ooo.. Why she com dey cry cry for her movies?

Ranchhoddas:
I read Baltimore is worse.
Approximately one murder daily.

When you are looking at those reports.. Always check crime per capita. St Louis Missouri and Memphis Tennessee are actually top 1 and 2 because they are fairly small cities compared to Chicago and Baltimore.

One interesting fact which is actually funny is that Detroit used to have the baddest city in the U.S title by itself but the thugs and all mostly moved to California, New york, Chicago and all. You rarely hear of violence in Detroit unlike the likes of Chicago, St Louis and all.

zeelord:
And the fvck she looking that old?..titanic was just 20 years ago

Do you know how many "boats" she have been in in the past 20 years

bebe2:
Why do pple judge a whole city based on a few events.

My aunty has lived in Chicago for over 20yrs and seem to have done right.

Nairalanders in Chicago should educate us on this issue.

You are absolutely correct. I don't live in Chicago per se but I live in the Midwest and drive frequently to Chicago. Every city, state, country have both the good side and the bad side.

South side Chicago is generally regarded as a no go area. All those gang violence and all mostly happens in south side.

Abeg make dem scrap this NYSC

Nigeria jaga jaga

Police is your friend.

Taku555:
why is a black man always black with his black thinking? Do you believe that all white men are rich? Social status implies to all domains bro. Wise up!

E be like say they just buy phone give you abi?

Stop flaunting your single figure IQ in a bid to sound intelligent. My comment was meant to be a joke.. Even with the smiley faces at the end could ring a bell in your dum head.. Haba!

Chai, this guy don escape recession be that

IamKashyBaby:



Hahahaha....trying to remember my past but there was no such events occured to me

Btw,
#TeamTightNunu
#TeamWaitingForMrRight
#TeamNeverBeenKissedNeverBeenTouched

But, i wanna do it all the way & i want it rough sex if i will meet Mr.Right

Your wait is over.