₦airaland Forum

Mskrisx:
But Mikey nnam, what seems to be the problem Kwan? U don't want to marry her? Or u feel it's not necessary?

OK... Nsogbu adiro.

Mikel might be saving himself for you. O kwa e ghota

Should I contest in this election?

Nwabundo38:
This is the reason girls hide things from men..
Imagine what this guy is asking

The guy is asking a reasonable question.

How would you feel if your guy says no to sex but goes about ynashing other babes? How would you feel if you ask him of money and he said no money but gives freely to other babes I am pretty sure if you find yourself in these situations ( I hope you don't), you will definitely ask questions and show concern.

Let's understand where the guy is coming from

Nwabundo38:
So that is your problem??
What if she didn't feel like having sex with you..
OP u don't have a point..
How can someone who killed an innocent baby have the mind to judge someone else..
If she agreed to have sex with you in those days, she might be the one that aborted a baby for you because if she gets pregnant you won't be ready for the baby then

Women sef... It's quite interesting the sharp criticism abiet defense from women in this topic. Abeg ooo, this is not women league.

Back to the point, please try to read in between the lines and understand Op's concern.

He clearly stated his point of contention was the lady was sexually active but denied him sex. Why did she do that? Was it because he wasn't attractive? Was it because she didn't see any future in him?? Was is because she didn't love him?

I agree with Op 1000% , every reasonable person should ask him or herself that question.

Recall, both of them messed up in their different ways but the question here is not who's mistake was greater and i am not campaigning for premarital sex either.

I can understand if the girl was waiting until marriage but the fact that she closed her legs for the op amd opened her legs to other guys is a very big concern and I am still perplexed by that action.

lovelygurl:
My problem with op is, he should have said it's all about sex and should not come here whining about a stillbirth. Besides he didn't only just go to her neighbour, her neighbour happens to be her RELATIVE. He got another girl pregnant. Yet he claims to love her and even break up with her because of SEX ?

She AFTER he broke up with her, she got pregnant and had a stillbirth- Should that be considered a DARK secret?


She might have even gotten pregnant because she felt her new guy would leave her just like op, if she refuses to have sex with him.

Getting pregnant and having a stillbirth might result to her not wanting to have sex before marriage

You are still missing the point.. From your comments you sound a bit biased.. Maybe defending the lady in question. Well, your opinion tho. But.....

Op was simply worried about why the girl denied him sex and was having sex with other people.

If the girl wanted to keep herself until marriage that's a different issue but this wasn't the case here...

Didn't she like the op enough to have sex with him? Was he not good enough for her? What qUalities does the other guys posses that op lacked that made her have sex with them but not with Op.

I think this is the puzzle op is trying to solve.

lovelygurl:
Oh boy go back and read!

Op got her RELATIVE pregnant and aborted the pregnancy!

That's inaccurate. Maybe you need to read yourself.

According to the story, Op had sex with her neighbour who is the girl's relation when the girl refused her sex.. This caused their first break up.

Along the line, Op got a different girl pregnant and they aborted.

lovelygurl:
I don't get it. I came here looking for a super dark secret and found none.

I don't even know or understand why you are now thinking of not marrying her. It wasn't like she got pregnant WHILE you guys were dating. She had a stillbirth, so what? Is it her fault? You and your ex did worse, you ABORTED a child who was unfortunate to be yours.

I also don't get how sex is related to she having a stillbirth, and you aborting. It seems that's the real problem here: "sex"

Almost all comments by females mirrors yours. But try to understand where Op was coming from.

His annoyance or rather concern was that why the girl in question was refusing him sex and they broke up as a result few times. She was busy getting it by the side giving to other guys and forming hard babe to the guy.

Recall, since she didn't let him have it, he went around, first to her neighbour and other girls. The guy on his side could have a plausible argument say, had she allowed him to have it, he wouldn't be sleeping around.

Without argument, both of them messed up in their own different ways and the issue here is not who's was greater but the guys concern was, why would the girl deny him access and grant access to others Could this be love

I don't have any opinion about whether or not he should marry her, not that I am campaigning for premarital sex but I totally understand the guys concern. I would feel the same way too... We are all human.

Cc: Nerdg

oscarnoble:
It's 6 flats in all ,,,3 flats is 2 bedroom while they other three flats is 3 bedroom each,, that's standing in front of the house they stair case is usually in the middle left part is two bedroom while right part is 3 bedroom from down to up with a security house thanks

What's the asking price?

oscarnoble:
How many pics re u seeing? It's the same pics they skeleton and wen it was completed

Oh, I thought it was two different buildings. I was a bit confused by the description also, it says 2 and 3 bedroom block of six flats.

Okay, could you explain a bit more on the building, is it 2 bedroom x 6 flats or 3 bedroom x 6flats ??

oscarnoble:
around roughly 1.3

Thank you.

Allow me to bother you again, what is the estimate to build this house up to roofing level? ( carcass only).

Them use style escape recession

Rubbish... Did the sidechick promise the wife she would be faithful to her

Her anger should be directed to her husband not on the side chick.

Taraba state a northern state passes antigrazing bill to curb the fulani grazing menance..

A state somewhere in Nigeria (name withheld ) the governor declared fasting and praying instead of introducing law to curb the menace..

Infact no comment

oscarnoble:
Keep the calls coming still available

Which of the houses in the picture is 2bedroom blocks of 6 flatz? What's the asking price?

oscarnoble:
More

With the exclusion of blocks, how much did it cost ( labor and materials) to finish the foundation?

Inanna:
My advise to guys, if you like any girl, no matter how out of your league you think she is, TELL her! If you think she's too hot or too cool for you, please tell her still. You can't just tell, She might like you back. Even if she looks so mean and unapproachable, she might be the nicest person ever if you go talk to her. Even if she doesn't like you in that way, at least you were able to air your feelings to her. A big load off your chest and you won't spend the rest of eternity wondering what could have been. Lol.

Like one foolish guy that I might just have a crush on and I KNOW he likes me back because he's always staring at me . I just don't know why the goat hasn't yet gathered the courage to approach me. I might not look like the nicest person, but it doesn't matter, just a simple hello and he'd discover I'm the nicest person to talk to. He might just be missing a great opportunity...

I hope the laps on your dp belongs to you because I already used it to the imagine your full picture, you are very pretty.. If not for anything, the guy typing this post does admire pretty damsels.

Is there any chance for this guy you are cheerfully reading his post to better know you? See the full picture

pocohantas:
Okay naaa

I like you too

stancydg:
We are architects sir. A quantity surveyor (QS) is best suited for that. We can at best give you a material, labour and professional cost schedule (MLP), based on site experience.

Thank you.

Thank you

QSFemi:
I'm a Quantity Surveyor. I can help you prepare BOQ.

Oh ok.. That's very kind of you. So what documents would you need from me to prepare the BOQ?

When you ask your papa for Jamb money the seventh time...

He be like, na only you I born?

Village elders be looking at the man like...

stancydg:
Join the fray quickly. Keep the PM's coming.

Will you be kind to give me a BOQ if I sent you my building plan.

Thank you.

Nonsense...

He let one slip by

Dude need to chill out tho... The lady is the one making the money, spending $7 on herself doesn't deserve that kind of humiliation. She will be getting paid a week later anyways, but dude ain't got no job.

Mr. Ibu needs to go back to a boy too...

Dude is getting too damn fat

This life sef

Why Nairaland come dey carry my matter for head like gala

bebe2:
U and ur co tenant doing judge and jury over someone's house

This was similar to the case you had one time right

Based on humanitarian ground, I do pity people subletting because they couldn't afford the whole flat and all. But legally speaking anyone without a tenancy agreement will most likely loose a case like this.

The case could turn from civil to criminal case in a blink of an eye.

Of course there are two sides to a story.

The video did mot show the full incident as to why the FRSC officer entered inside the vehicle.

Did the driver refused to follow instruction?

Or did the driver refused to bribe them?

Who knows?

But in a hypothetical scenario where the driver was wrong, what the officer was doing with the gear was very dangerous, I repeat very very dangerous.

Also damaging the windshield of a moving vehicle haba! The FRSC people were just waking devil from sleep.

It could have led to an accident and someone will blame devil