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Ndubuisipaul1:
You got the point brother ...
This girl will not date me , if I was broke
And unfortunately my brother played a big role in my business.

So when she made that statement, I was shocked. I didn't know were that idea came from. I was speechless and angry at the same time, so I had ask her again, hoping she will say that its a joke. but she repeated it .

priceactionx:
Oga Paul, she is right. Please define a marriage. If you can genuinely define it, then you will be matured to handle what may come your way. Yours is to protect her especially a young marriage. She does not have a problem with your brother until your brother insist he would be sending her on an errand. Who does that? As for say na him marry her or assistant husband? You too dey support nonsense. He is a brother not your mum for Christ sake.
when you married, and you want peace, you first of all separate family members coming to stay from those that just coming once in a while.
No matter what your brother might have done for you, he can always come like a visitor and your marriage will have peace. If you want him to always be around you, let him get his apartment close to you and get an house help to do the running up and down, and you can always visit each other.
once she is married to you, she won't allow someone sending her up and down for no reasons. She is not a house help but your own help mate talk less of being an errand girl for another person that is not feeding her.
Baba.. Reason am na.
if you can't abide by simple marriage code that can bring early peace, no need to marry at all. It's that simple.

Ndubuisipaul1:
My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.

Let me tell you how this started. My younger brother told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow. But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)

I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when we get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.

She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose. I told her I would choose my brother (she could see the seriousness in me).

And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .

This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me.

We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.

So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?

Nairalanders, please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ?

omoiyalayi:
So Obi cannot live in a state he governed for eight years

toyeoye:
Beside the dinning room really!? Last thing I need is a visitor that has a sense of belonging in my house. It's like building my house and choosing layout and design for the convenience of others ahead of mine.
I live for the exact opposite.
VT outside the house is not cool but if that's what the owner wants so be it, I'd gladly go outside and take my crap in peace

Wawelexy:
If after buying from him you still have something reasonable to hold on to as profits, I would advice you just patronise him, cos he might still be the door to a breakthrough contract, but if you spoil the relationship cos of little money, you might not regret it tho but might be loosing a lot.

Moreso, that company could refer you to others who your brother won't be your supplier by then anymore, except by choice.... So Just see it as you giving him some money and do the work perfectly...

Lalar27:
King sunny ade is still far more better than this fraud and local champion

ScamHunter:
This is why we need a sensible president in Nigeria. African leaders are mostly idiots.

My respect to Thomas Sankara and Patrice Lumumba. All the others are idiots.

I hope Obi is serious about joining those two worthy African sons.

Enemyofpeace:
I just came back from the market now. See all I bought for Fifteen thousand naira.

Oloki:
You've gotten a place. You are now a man. At least, you will be responsible for your welfare. Let your mum be. Don't cut ties. She is still your mother in all aspect. Just give her the require space.,and both of you will leave in peace.

ceelog:
See the type of tank stand i saw in UNN. The tank must be very strong.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

valETA1:
For being blind on the torment Messi had put ur teams all tru the tournament, and still have d mind to spew rubbish, may someone else take ur glory Amen.

You'll continue to cry more
Coming from ur pastor.

Starzo:
Messi is world champion....he's the greatest ever

E go pain you till you die

drsibz66:
I'm Glad you said it's your opinion and that's fine. But the people who are in charge of football, they creat the rules, they are the ones with the marking scheme and criteria have told you messi was the best player. You cannot be the marker of an Exam when you don't know the marking scheme. Let me give you a small hint. Messi had an impact in all the games Argentina played even the one they lost. It was messi that scored the first goal again mexico in there 2nd group stage match to even give argentines hope. From then on he score or assited in other matches.
Mbappe was poor in the quarter finals and semi.

KINGS100:
Pls. FIFA PRO MAX. tell us who the best player of the tournament is, and show us your yardstick for choosing the person.

Fifa chose the player with the highest impact per game. I.e. (MOTM) and who also played all the countries game full time and worn a dramatic final match in the tournament.

But you Mr. Fanatic thinks Fifa don't know what they are doing.

Tell us who the player of the tournament is or short the f-up.

Starzo:
You're not happy for him...his victory forced most of you to submission

From group stages to the final, tell me one player than performed more than Messi?

The mbappe you people are shouting only performed in about three matches out of the seven he played

Messi was ever present and shinning in all matches.