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Phildecasa:
Jobs done.

How much will this kitchen cost?

Make hin enter 9ja nah

Where's Man Utd ....

Waiting for comments from IPOB....

Dont know if DJ copy is good luck or bad luck..

Reflect on all the guys she's been with were arrested they today?

Remember she was with Victor Anichebe when he was still playing in EPL , dont know if dude is playing in Cambodia now

Supreme court is now ridiculing "justice "

YungMillionaire:
Ekweremadu was betrayed by his own people...what a shame. They invited him and when he got there, they stabbed him in the back. Disgusting.

You don collect your allowee use buy mb come here they talk trash abi?

The driver might be bam or not!

But this protocol is adhered to even by the secret service drivers driving thr U.S president. In a situation like that, they are trained to forge ahead and don't stop.

700k a week not Even Messi or C. Ronaldo is worth that much money..

Neymar is definitely a 50k a week player in my books.

Zidane needs to be fired for "thinking" about a deal like that

penocrat1:
. It is a lie.no one can withdraw money from your bank account using only your account number.talk wisely.
But he should not have displayed all the account details

Don't argue what you don't know. Just learn.

Don't post your routing number and your account number, account name online. Bad guys can clean you out fiam!!!

Why did he post his full account information without blocking anything Just plain stupid..

Boys are not smiling this days, with the information posted there, someone could withdraw money from his akant very easily!!!!

I hope he wakes up tomorrow money with some cash in his account to fiddle with

But on a serious note tho, he should change his account number.. for all reading this, do not post your check online with out hiding your account number and routing number.. some bad guys out there can clean you out quickly!!!

That's a shame our own Consulate could not help.. very big shame.

This is what is wrong with a black man, they don't care about their brothers.. this started with slavery.

Same as the NFF that wanted to send a foreign head coach for a refresher course while leaving his indigenous assistants behind. A foreigner had to remind NFF to take care of his brothers.

What a shame!!!!

I am not a Chelsea fan but I liked Lampard as a player. He had everything going for him in the first half just unlucky to score few goals and potentially seal the game in the first half..

But eh.. no manager deserves this kind of trashing in their first league game, I know we still have 37 more games to go but yet still... Lampard's facial expressions wanted to make me cry for him.. he was really sad. So for all you all key board coaches, arm chair quarterbacks, pundits, it is not that easy when you are coaching a live game.

My quick review of the game.. Paul Pogba was impressive, finally lived up to his expectations, play making. I really enjoyed how he was not selfish, rather set up newbie James to bag a goal against a big team.

Wan- Bissaka was excellent, I liked how he moved very good buy.

De Gea our able captain was excellent, he wanted to show Kepa how the job is done

Maguire was money well spent.. he seem to gel with Lindelof's playing style.. good combo.

What I didn't like so much was switching Martial and Rashford. Martial was good last season cutting in from the side while Rashford was good causing trouble in the middle. Why switch them?

Dey for come fight for Ojuelegba nah

sophiathefirst:
U know when u re in something u know what is all about. Is not just acting. Filming involves acting, producing, directing, scripting and so on. I for one knows that Alex is a good creative writer. I believe anything in this world can be achieved and learned once u set ur mind to it

No doubt.

Some people are a natural..

What I am saying in essence is going to New York Film Academy does not really equate to success.


While I wish her all the best, I would have invested that $84,000 in couple of film projects to showcase my talent.

All the best to her .

But, it doesn't really matter if someone attended New York Film Academy or Zurich film Academy.. for actors and actresses it is either you have it in you or you dont.

How many of the A list Hollywood Actors/Actresses attended New York Film Academy before their breakout roles?

They should send him to Kano Pillars

I questioned Mourninhos sanity with all his signings at Manutd.. he was more of enemy of progress, someone sent as a spy to destroy Manutd..

His signings, Sanchez , Lukaku, Pogba etc... all flops

Dude berra disappear from Cambodia before the police will change their mind!!!

9jaRealist:
In this case, it is...
Because this project was largely financed by Translink Capital.
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Who owns translink capital?

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

Dude, hold your ears with your two hands... not a joke..

If you love your life, if you love your sanity. Do these things in this order.

1. Do a DNA test.
2. Leave your wife in Nigeria.
3. Divorce her and move on
4. Come back to Nairaland with your testimony.

If you don't nip this attitude in the bud right now, my brother YOU ARE FINISHED!!!! You will end up paying for child support for a child that's not possibly yours for 18 years.. plus Alimony.

I hope you are listening

9jaRealist:
We have the TBS Terminal and several parks/structures that remain well-maintained...
Also, this is a PPP arrangement and doubtful the private capital providers will allow its deterioration.
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The PPP arrangement is not the PPP you have in mind.. most of those "private" companies are actually public money in a private company names, that's why the private" part of the deal are not worried because another money from the govt coffers will enter their akant!!

Send me the picture of this place in 2 years... our problem in Nigeria is lack of maintenance... look at all the BRT buses.. just one year.. they all turned to Molue.

Surprise Surprise