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You people should stop saying raped to death as if she died because she was being raped. The victim was raped AND MURDERED, and whoever is responsible is guilty of rape and murder.

Remimadrid:
I support the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

then the woman becomes a widow. The kind of self-centered humans in this world ehn.

wirinet:
There cannot be uninterrupted electricity without increase in tariff. The current tariff is not sustainable in the long run.
The solution is individuals investing in solar.

the truth is that we don't even produce enough electricity to go round. Current tariff is not even remotely the reason there is more darkness than light.

djon78:
You are wrong in all this your posts.
Pregnancy changes a woman's body.
I don't know how old you are.
OE the city experience you have to be making all the those your assumptions.


The truth is that irrespective whatever is said
As you mature in life,
A time will come as a Man you will bear and Carter to the responsibility of your wife and children
This is a task given to us men by nature
Except you want to be a deadbeat father

lol. You aren't very smart are you? Embolden the part of my post where I said pregnancy does not change a woman.

Unlike you I saw through her attempt at equating pregnancy with marriage just because pregnancy also happens in marriage. Pregnancy or no pregnancy, a woman's body would change as she ages or as she gives in to gluttony. Also women get pregnant out of marriage, so it is quite nonsensical to mention body changes when asking why a woman would want to get married.

As for whatever opinion you have put up there, that's a direct result of the conditioning you have received right from childhood from the women in your life and from religion so I don't blame you for having it. Nature didn't give you any task to slave for a woman all your life.

FROGMAN101:
Good write up. You can also read the manipulated man for more knowledge.

I've always said I'd read that book but I've never really gotten to.

I'd try to get a copy. Thanks bro.

ebonyggurl:
But wait o. In a typical Nigerian setting, when a woman gets married, isn't she expected to get pregnant? In my first reply to you, I was talking of pregnancy after marriage, so what are you saying?
P.s...I'm not married
And not all men satisfy their women...so this idea that women benefit more sexually is trash

for the 3rd time, marriage is not the reason a woman's body changes.

It's a case of nature vs nurture. Women have the ability to enjoy sex much more than a man can. If you ladies weren't so pretentious about your sexuality, even the clueless partners would learn to satisfy you.

ebonyggurl:
Lmao. Oga women are pressurized by society into tying the knot and having kids okay. You really think all of us want that?
You think pregnancy doesn't change the body drastically? Without getting pregnant, a woman can live a healthy lifestyle amd maintain her weight.
Talking as if there are no career wives or working women in the world

Marriage benefits both parties...if it's so tasking, why not yall stop going into it?
Talking like men aren't needy and dish out crap to their women. After she does everything for you at home, you'll still cheat on her

marriage benefits women MORE. That has been my point from the onset.

The only thing men are guilty of being needy of is having their ego massaged, and women have used that as a weapon to manipulate the hell out of them.

Don't even bother about the cheating part. You know as much as I do that many women cheat on their husbands but are just more discreet.

Enough of changing the topic. In the end, all women are manipulative and in just a few responses you have tried more than once to twist what was said.

You are also mostly gold-diggers, the female 'hypergamous' pattern of choosing dating/marriage partners more than proves this. Men are realizing this, and soon enough '7 women would grab the garment of a Jew, saying "marry us"'

ebonyggurl:
Lmao. Oga women are pressurized by society into tying the knot and having kids okay. You really think all of us want that?
You think pregnancy doesn't change the body drastically? Without getting pregnant, a woman can live a healthy lifestyle amd maintain her weight.
Talking as if there are no career wives or working women in the world

don't bother trying a Strawman argument with me. Saying "your body does not change because you are married" is not the same as saying "your body does not change because you are pregnant." Stop this female habit of twisting stuff because you cannot refute the original assertion.

Pregnancy is not a direct consequence of marriage and so I'm not sure why you are blaming marriage for your body changes (which can be inspired as much by gluttony as they can by hormones). Also, your pregnancy does not benefit your man any more than it benefits you.

Same applies to sex (you get more pleasure from the act) and cooking (you eat of it even if you may not know where the money came from).

Argue all you wish, you ladies are the main beneficiaries of the social contraption called marriage.

ebonyggurl:
What's this one saying?
I never denied the fact that women marry men in a higher class than them...that doesn't make them gold diggers though. The owner of the thread was of the opinion that boyfriends should NOT give their girl friends ANYTHING in a relationship. Just fvck her and move on to the next one. So I asked. What will make the woman want to marry you when all you bring to the table is your dick??

Lmao at your belief that sex and marriage benefit women more than men. Yea...right. every woman wants her body to go through ridiculous changes due to multiple pregnancies and be life long "slaves" to their husbands. You men basically think you have someone whose duty it is to take all the crap you dish out on a daily.

stop trying to twist reality. He never said guys should not give their girls anything. He was saying guys should learn to detect when they are being manipulated and listed ways to counter the manipulation. He also replied someone on the thread saying that there should be a balance as being stingy would drive your girl off.

Aunty, pregnancy is natural and is not exclusive to marriage. Your body changes because your body changes (and gluttony) not because you are married. What's more, your pregnancy does not benefit your husband more than it does you.

It's also a myth that wives are slaves to their husbands. It's the picture you ladies try to promote so it would be easier to manipulate the unsuspecting husbands. If anything, majority of their men slave for their families all their lives, never getting any sort of appreciation because "it's their duty."

Imagine having to pay through the nose to marry a lady so you can continue paying through the nose to provide for her and future kids while your kids prefer her to you because she's the one that gets to feed them the food you struggle to provide.

Marriage is far more beneficial to women. Doubt me? Go to churches and see how many of you are praying hard for a chance to become a "lifelong" slave. Ask people in long term relationships and find out which gender is more desperate to tie the knot. Also find out which gender is more likely to be broke and jobless and still get married.

Ubunja, awesome writeup. Glad there are other men who see through these ladies and their schemes. Keep it up man!

ebonyggurl:
So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators?
Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.

From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics?

actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.

About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.

Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life.

As if you guys haven't already known that Buhari is just a figurehead and isn't in charge.

cococandy:
Why would this thought even cross your mind?

he's probably a necrophile

This has to be South Africa.

oz4real83:
you are not totally correct in your analysis. In countries like china,north korea and almost all moslem-majority countries, even if u pay $1billion to suscribe for cable tv or even browse online, u can only watch what the states/censor boards permit u to watch. U can't even find any other thing no matter how "technically-gurufied" you are. Excess freedom brings destruction sometimes.

you must be really stupid to suggest strict media and internet censorship in Nigeria. At this age you still need others to tell what you should and shouldn't do.

Nigeria is not a Muslim majority. Take your religious stupidity to your sharia-ruled states.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. They are always slaves of their own emotions, regularly swinging between being sweet angels and vengeful demons.

Pavore9:
Most men turn a blind eye when the step-mom maltreat their children from previous relationship(s).

this is the part I don't understand, those fathers joining their new wives to abuse their own kids. Every such man is stupid.

Two main reasons:
1) You have a child. Many women hate children that are not theirs. Those women would rather avoid having to deal with another woman's baggage.
2) Your woman left you. Women are generally attracted to men wanted by other women (yeah queens of herd mentality). In the case of a single father that isn't a widower, it would seem that their woman who has a child for him doesn't even want him enough to stick to him.

Reason 1 is a deterrent for ladies that want serious relationships.

Reason 2 is a deterrent for almost all ladies even if they don't realize it. For this reason, a lady would likely be more attracted to a married man than a single guy with a child.

Nat404:
Consult Google? I hardly do that. Do you know that there are people who give feedbacks to this organization?

I translate naturally and so, all my texts are wonderful. Here's another one. Please do not copy it.

I would have lectured you on a few things about Mandarin, but I can't because you sound unoriginal.

there's no such thing as feedbacks though. It's always feedback (singular and plural) because it is uncountable.

Lol. Criticised by fans of Tacha that used to do the same on Instagram? Bitch please!

seunmohmoh:
Just watch. Biggie won't evict her. Some people are watching the program because of her sex live

like you?

If you are a very religious person, yes religion should come first. That way you wouldn't wake up one day and hate your spouse for being an unbeliever or being 'controlled by the devil'.

babyfaceafrica:
ebira(Edo)?..ebira (kogi and nassarawa) is better


ebu(Edo)?..ebu (delta) is better

akoko-edo......(Edo)

Akoko-edo is not a tribe. It's a region inhabited by ethnic groups like Ora and Enwan.

uuzba:
No it is not

Jamaicans speak own creole. A pigin English.
It is different from their English.
We also speak various dialects of Pidgin English. That is also a thing well recognised. It has always existed.
Pidgin English is a separate language with English and language words a mixed up by people trying to communicate in English straight from their native tounge

English is another language. Learn it and pass your exams. There's no excuse

keep your advice to yourself. I probably have a better command of the language than you'd ever have.

You think Nigerian English cannot be a thing because you aren't done worshipping your colonial masters. You also think English language has no variants. Poor uninformed soul.

Ask the English if Americans speak good English and they would give you a flat 'no', but the Americans don't care. They spoke/wrote their English the way they wanted without any apologies and the world learnt to recognize American English as a thing. Some expressions in American English have common usage that is totally different from the way the English prefer it.

Nigerian English is a thing (different from pidgin) and the question "how was your night?" is NOT wrong English. If you guys are arguing that it is misused, that's a different matter and you should state that clearly.

Whoever wrote this is not very intelligent. When you say something is 'wrong English', you are saying it is grammatically (or perhaps syntactically) incorrect.

Just say it is misused over here and doesn't truly mean what we think it means.

That said, it high time people realized that African/Nigerian English is actually a thing. It should be rightly recognized as a valid context in which expression usage can differ from BrE or AmE and still be correct.

martineverest:
can u say that to bayelsa?. least populated state with one of the highest allocation

Bayelsa state is more populated than Equatorial Guinea and unlike the latter, they do not get all the proceeds from their oil. You cannot compare a sovereign nation with a mere state in a country where the Federal Government merely gives you a portion of the revenue your oil gives.

Despite all that revenue, Equatorial Guinea is still plagued with the same mismanagement of resources that have plagued oil-rich African nations. They aren't investing enough in education or health, and there are still so many persons who cannot easily get safe drinking water.

They aren't much better than Bayelsa.

delamb01:
If Nigeria can only fence her Northern borders, many problems will be solved. Hausas from Niger Republic constitute a large majority of the Northern population. Many of them are imported by the government during elections. But because they are Hausa and Muslims they enjoy some rights even better than other non-Hausa and non-muslims living in the North.

it's the same Northern Nigerians that would put holes in the fence to allow their nomadic brothers into the country. Na you dey pity them, the northerners don't seem to mind at all.

martineverest:
poor?... equatorial guinea is the richest country in Africa.....their income per capital is almost twice higher than that of South Africa

because they have a population less than 2 million. It's easier for the oil money to go round.

All these tiny African countries don't miss any opportunity to mention Nigeria. Sotey Equatorial Guinea wey no reach one state for Nigeria wan build wall to shut out Camerooniams and Nigerians. Dem dey mad

calculator123:
Failed Logic, would you advise your brother who has children with his wife to get married to another woman just because he can't impregnant his side chick?

don't mind the Ronaldo fan boy calling himself a diehard Messi fan. They talk like they have just two brain cells left.

Sunnymatey:
This is the reason why boko haram can never be defeated. Most of the senior officers could be working for the sect in exchange for money.

Nigeria is hell

exactly! And they send poorly equipped soldiers (under their command) to their death in battles clearly rigged against them.

Nigeria matter tire me

Get busy, and remind yourself of the reason why it didn't work out. Improve yourself as a person and build on your self esteem. When you know your worth, you wouldn't continue pining over people who aren't worth it.

Getting another girl just to get over your ex is an immature move. It's like borrowing money to pay debts. You'd still be indebted, just to a different lender.