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TrapQueen77:is it all about big whatevers alone? You know some are not lovers of "Mr Biggs"? When you are a cheat it is not by the size of what you see, it is by program. |
firstking01:You are sounding as if i am not in a relationship, do i need to do extra before i realise? |
Cc: lalasticlala, tosyne2much, Talk2Bella where are you? |
firstking01:but you know they may have no chance to prove you wrong if your mind is made up? |
firstking01:lol, so you have tried 80% Nigerian ladies firstking01, you might be right o but that your experience is the one giving me issues... Lol. We care to know some of them though. |
firstking01 are you one of those men in that category? |
If just a man request for sex after a favour he did for you, that does not mean all men are the same. There are many men out there who can do anything for any woman without favour and without minding what other guys out there will term them. The issue is that there are bad eggs in each gender which makes this issue complicated to those who are the good ones. Some girls are determined to give it to any guy that helps her, and if such man fail to receive the offer from the girl it is serious trouble as he will be given different names by the lady. This is what some men thinks, they believe your non-verbal communication speaks louder than the the opposite, so, they only act according to their belief. Just that you fall victim to someone that was a victim doesn't mean everyone thinks in same direction. No maturity in this issue as there is no maturity in common sense. We all love to take advantage, the smartest wins, that is just the issue. If you have not been favoured by a genuine guy with a cheerful heart then you yourself should check yourself as your thoughts are against you. Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/must-women-think-all-men-want-sex-from.html
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Most women cannot be trusted as they will term a man slack if he did not do the needful. |
Talk2Bella:some ex can be so funny atimes you know? He might just be shocked at the question because it is abnormal to ask someone' s ex about that person from them. I understand the guy is jovial or what have you , but she was not there when that ex told him how a good kisser she is. Believe me, if he is not careful about how he confronts the girl on what he was told, it might be disastrous. This is because you women knows how to attack men when you are almost caught without evident. |
Different strokes for different folks and some have more than one. |
I understand the pressure from family and friends for you to just get "anybody" to call your man. Also the pressure from within yourself at this point is unbearable. Not that you are under spell or something. It is just time. Some will say she was ignoring every advances when she was young was why she is still young and all sorts. You don't have to let the pressure and the talks get into your head. Forget religious doctrine, you cannot cheat nature. Not that you refused all advances at you when you were young nor you were wayward, but the time is the difference here. Yes, women should try to do all they need to do as early as possible as menopause is fast approaching, but we cannot achieve everything at the same time. You are young and you have it all now, i bet you, you don't know what this ladies are going through and this is why you should not take any responsible man for granted. If you are among the few that is yet to have a man, you can still have it even at 40. There is something those men are seeing that you are not paying attention to which is making them to pull back. Don't let the pressure make you take hasty decision that you will live to regret for the rest of your life. There is nothing the world is yet to witness. You are not the first neither will you be the last. Just be positive, be submissive, be observant and be prayerful to the God you serve as he knows the best time. Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/you-are-30-yet-no-man.html
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No matter how religious you might be you cannot run away from the fact that s ex is one important factor in any marriage. Let's be frank now, there is no marriage without sexual intention, marriage is not to take picture of each other on a daily basis. When the marriage is going on as planned but the s ex isn't as satisfactory as desired then the couple should be able to confide in each other for solutions. No need to be shy as the woman to complain you are not satisfied or as the man to say she isn't giving you as desired. A times, it might not be reaching the climax the issue is but how it is being done(the process) that is boring. It might be that the same style you did the first time is what you keep trying everyday. Gone had the days when it was just one known style, humans love exploration which has led us to the major challenges and progresses we are experiencing in the world today. I don't think any of the two parties should be shy when it comes to what you are not happy about in the relationship. You should be free to open your weakness to each other, silence has destroyed many homes already. Two good heads are better than one was the reason for coming together of a man and woman to become husband and wife, so, why must you then be shy to share your sexual weakness with each other? That is the best option instead of complaining silently, one day you will complain aloud in the wrong place or to the wrong person who possibly wants what is getting you depressed in your sexual life or those that will laugh at that particular weakness, meanwhile, their experience is worst. Whatever the issue is sexually, the two of you can create the solution which you don't need to share with any third party, you don't know what those in order relationships are doing that is giving them edge over yours. The funny thing is that they might even be trying what you have never imagined, so don't think you are the only one in a particular situation when it comes to s ex in a marriage. Confide in each other for lasting solution is the only key to enjoying marital sexual life. Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/what-to-do-when-relationship-is-great.html
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