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Just like men keep some secrets from their woman no matter how much the love is, so also women have some secrets they keep. 

At times when you know about the truth there is possibility that you just laugh it off. 

Here are some secrets women keep away from their men:

1. Latest account balance 

Funny enough it might be you that open the business that is fetching her the income, but she still feels you don't need to know the amount she is worth. 

Not to harm you though but to be able to collect more from you. Women are never rich enough in as much they have a responsible husband. 

2. Sex mood and satisfaction


This is very sensitive though. Some women love to hide their sexual mood from their man. 

They usually want to prove they don't love sex like the men and they try to hide their mood while praying the man should make sex advances at them. 

Some will also not show to their man that they are not in mood at all despite the romance but will pretend to be in mood and will groan in pleasure during sex to please the man. 

Also, some women hide their sex satisfaction away from their man. 

Reason(s) for this varies; some don't want their men to term them sex lover, some feel if you show him you are not satisfied even after he had tried his best you might feel unsecured, some will be satisfied, in fact, the pleasure will turn to displeasure yet she will still do as if she is enjoying it just to keep the husband, etc. 

3. About your child(ren) 

Stop it, dont think otherwise. 

You think you know about your offsprings? You know nothing as the man of the house. The women are closer to the children than the man. 

Children feel secure to keep secret with the woman and the woman will not want to make the child to stop telling her secret, so, it is better she keeps it as it is until you need to know. 

4. She checks your phone behind you

No matter how deep she trust you believe me she checks your phone behind you to see if you have something you are hiding(you know what i mean) and she helps you to keep the last bank alert (debit) on her body memory. 

Don't be deceived by the innocent approach towards your phone in your presence, only your phone can testify to how often she checks.

5. Competing with imaginary rival

She is always afraid you will approach her one day with some members of your family to beg her to forgive you for putting someone outside in the family way. 

They prove to you they are not jealous, deep down they are and even when you pray together when you wake up in the morning and they didn't mention it, they give special time to pray about the unknown rival which its duration last longer than the prayers you said together which even includes all issues affecting the family that suppose to be longer. 

For this, some woman are seriously working to be financially independent not to keep the home moving forward but to secure a better future for herself and her children in case you misbehave. 

You feel there is more secrets? Please add through the comment box. 


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/secrets-some-women-will-not-let-you-know.html

NairalandEFCC1:
i dey single boss

durr!

Talk2Bella:
U been to phc?

lol... I no someone will know that location

This is serious. He is a bad sucker and leaker, i think he eats you instead of leaking. Teach him how it is done or tell him to search online if it is a must for him to do that to you.

And please treat your private part too, you might have toilet disease. Just deep your finger into it to perceive it and tell possibly a nurse about it what ever the odor is to know if it is normal and then treat if abnormal.

Romancer:
did u read my story at all? I have been friends with this girl for a very long time and very close... As per what u are saying, i understand. Its not like i just met her and we see each other from monday to friday due to lectures.

i get all you are saying but just understand my point, no harm in trying again, just once isn't enough to show her you really love her, haba!

Married for that matter...

Please dont just conclude without checking her at her place, there might be something you need to know... Through physical interactions you will get the clues as to your next action.

Synzu:
No matter how strict your pops is, he will never forsake you, even if you killed someone. Whatever you do, don't deny that baby. Those who did have always lived to regret it.


A word is enough.

At least you have shown to us you are responsible for the pregnancy. Since her parents are aware i just think there is nothing you can do to that, breaking your sim will be the action you will take that will cost you your future.

Your father will only scold you at the beginning, try to be fully responsible by being bold to tell your mum about it first.

Forget you are 22, you should have thought about the consequences before you did it unprotected.

Even if you don't love her i just think the best you can do now is to be fully responsible by letting those that should know know for the other arrangements to fall in place.

Synzu:
No matter how strict your pops is, he will never forsake you, even if you killed someone. Whatever you do, don't deny that baby. Those who did have always lived to regret it.


A word is enough.

dont make mistake.

Romancer:
infack good things are easy to get. Nigerian girls like playing this shakara game no doubt, but if the feeling is thesame...she will say yes if she doesn't she is definitely thinking about it and will come back definitely. The ones that do hard to get are usually gotten by money easily. Me i don't have that mumu hard to get time... Don't expect me to be chasing u upanda... Who get time? And u risk being friendzoned.

Please it is a most you understand all i am saying. At times it is you that will make her love you through interest, you don't expect she just jump at your request immediately. Saying she said No at your first request doesn't mean she does not love you, in fact that statement is a fallacy. So you mean when you gives you yes then she truly loves you? I wish i knew your relationship story.

Try to know her full name like someone suggested, but this will work only if she use that name for her social medias... She might even be on nairaland as Talk2Bella you can't say when her real name is Obiakpor Rumuodo(for example ni o). On a serious note, you can make a new friend in that house to make you keep visiting more often, if she is yours she will come out for one silly reason that will make you meet eventually.

OP, please be sincere, are you single?

Romancer:
i am the type that doesn't try to convince pple too much... I feel if she feels thesame she will come along... My door is always open (unless someone else comes along) if she feels thesame, i will assume she was thinking about it. You can't fully understand the female folk. I don't like pressurizing pple to see things my own way...my action speaks for me!

no, this is not pressure or something but normal occurrence. You can't just expect that she will say yes immediately, it is not done. If you continue that way you might not get the right one at the end of the day and that is if you dont have yet.

The same thing she told you about him is what she has told him about you too.. She is dating people that has problems that she cannot just ditch in their trouble times.

Sit her down, she should make up her mind so that you will also dot your Ts and Is.

You wasted those years. You just did the right thing late, it will take time to gather but this wrong decision will hurt you for life,that is the bitter truth.

But you don't just try once now, it is not that easy to get yes. Personally, if she has someone she is in relationship with then i will not disturb her further because i will not like someone to dey disturb my woman too like that. But if she is much single, na to they hammer am o, good things don't come easily.

Evakinqz:
wow dats very nice.. All ma life have been searching for who to use ma nose blow whistle, so where is yur current location, I will be dia in 10 to 15 seconds...


Thanks

lol

Evakinqz:
man with small D**k spotted..

what should i say than to be looking and laughing? but no be by what i say sha, i knew it that i will get this response, so not surprised. Evakinqz if i catch you ehn... I will use your nose blow whistle.

Op, you got everything right but that combination thing no be here o... It is not the size that matters, though it does for some... Many with that big size but cannot offer quality essence of it meanwhile those with the brief version will do marvelous wonders...

You are not pulse one joo but plus one...


http://bamisepeters..com wish you long life and prosperity in good health and peace of mind as you celebrate another year in the land of the living. Happy birthday.

With all that you have experimented i just think you are the one that will give us the answer probably when you have spent some days together because you have only confirmed his information and not the feelings or the true nature of the affection... But with all i can deduce, he is for real. Enjoy.

I have three important words combined to make a statement just for you only as that is the only key he has for you after he has another woman's key and he has given her his own too, just that he gave me that key to hand over to you.... "LET HIM BE"....

Laveda:
The thought of being just a house wife irks me

can't deal.

better, i love it when women want the best for themselves because it will definitely affect the home.

Peacefullove:
the jealousy of a man is dangerous , have heard countless cases where a man cut another man with a sharp cutlass and slice him because they find him with their wife

also, even in small relationships have seen guys giving a girl the SILENT treatment once they get jealousy, some who can't control themselves even slap their girlfriends in public . to tell you that the jealousy of a man is extremely dangerous


there is a thread in the education section , with some pictures .

https://www.nairaland.com/3378969/male-students-sign-boobs-female#49783233.
you can click that link to see those pictures of male student signing on the breast of female students.

I have female friends and cousins, and I always want the best for them , so I want to ask : as a guy , How would you feel if you see a picture of your wife and a male student is signing on her breasts , is it something serious or you can get hurt ?

kindly contribute , cos I want to know if this can prove dangerous for a lady , them I need to warn my female cousins and friends to avoid it at all cost for the sake of their future marriages

i agree we men can be more jealous, but signing on her breast is not really something that should cause trouble. It is the pen that rest on the breast not the hand and if your cousin want to avoid touchy stories the should allow their female folks occupy the front before the guys will wake up.

Smallville10:
How abt 3 types of women to avoid as a man

we have many of it already...

herbie27:
Then she's dumb.
"Had i known", will be her case later.

everything said might be right but you don't have the right to call someone this name. Who told you she is dumb? Many that did not take the risk she is taking are not even guaranteed they have him to themselves. Yet, we have seen many her action worked for and you can never tell if it will work for her, everything in life is risk and probability, it is wrong to call someone dumb because of their decision when it comes to relationship.

ClassicQueen:
He played with my emotions and i left him. I remember when i left him for another then he will always be telling me on phone how he miss me, how he want me again bla bla bla

will i do well if i advice you to forget he existed? Because he is still interested in playing with your emotions since he knows your emotion is always playful. The only way to show to him your emotion is now always serious is to shorn his invite.

Please, Is that all?

She is after the money, though you need to watch this also while dating but focusing on it like you are is something that should worry him. Or have you forgotten you are both watching yourself?

All i am seeing in this picture is a selfish man who just sexually pleased himself leaving the woman in wonderland because the man has not touched her like it should be.

After good sex the two party are liable to sleep not just the man. If you say you get hungry, then it is understandable. If what you said is the case and how it is is what the picture is portraying then you need to see your doctor (not joking)

Let him discuss it on the phone or a open arena like eatry will not be a bad idea. But the way you are sounding i just hope you will not break the home you are about to build to the roof level.

It is very good to command your woman to sit at home while you labour for the home, just for her to look after the home.

Such love is good, it shows you are caring and responsible. You have promised to treat her like a queen, so, you are on the right part.

You are the bread winner while she is the bread manager. You have promised to cater for all her needs and that alone is your priority.

I am not saying you are not in the right direction but you are destroying her unique ability to make plenty.

Take it or romance it, every woman deserves to be financially independent.

Are you not ashamed she ask for the money for everything from you?

In this century, it is advisable the woman also fetch income for the growth of the home no matter how big or small.

Not until she engages in white-collar jobs. Who says the man cannot establish his woman?

If you claim to love her, you must not think about the present alone, but the future also.

Have you forgotten that anything can happen to you anytime like sack, accident or even death. I know no one pray for any of this but in life nothing is not possible and preparation for the raining day makes a man.

If any of those happens, especially death, what will happen to your wife and children especially when your savings is not up to what can make them survive for long? So, that is the end of all your romantic affections and proclamations?

In this century you shouldn't be happy you have made her a certified liability because income from just you might not be able to cater for the cost of living, feeding and giving the children quality education. The one that will come from her will be enough to subsidize the cost. 

Please, she needs to work, don't make her the liability that she is not. Don't destroy all the skills she has gotten in the name of love.

Give her room to be able to make emergency  financial decisions when you are not around.

That you establish her doesn't mean you cannot still give her the best you have promised her nor you have not fulfilled your promise, in fact, making her financially independent is a liberation on its own that she will never stop thanking you for except she is lazy.

 
Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/reasons-why-you-should-not-make-her.html