Nackzy:
Op Ayamnotunderstanding ..what are u saying that I should not sleep with.. Which one is my Own.. Do i even know Wat they Re doing to the one that will finally be my own.. Haven't u seen people marry n devorce ...life is like football betting no sure Game

if we keep saying we don't know what others are doing to our own so many things will be wrong you know!

I know you have been wondering if there is anything special you can do to keep your man since you've heard or seen that despite the fact that some women have done what you can ever think of, yet, that didn't make their man stay with just them.

It is the nature of human beings to be insatiable, we want more, when we get that more we still want another level of more, this is to show you that in life there is more to more.

I have seen young girls sacrifice their body for longevity of relationship because they think the sexual intercourse will make him stay.

This is just to tell you how some ladies reason; "men enjoy the sexual moment more", that is their conclusion, therefore they must satisfy him with it.

For this, they will watch, ask and do research on the latest style just to satisfy him.

May I ask one question? Why do most women pray for a man that last long in bed if it is only the man that enjoys that special moment more?

Or why do you think many men try all they can to even satisfy their woman in bed if not for the same reason that is giving you (the women) sleepless night?

Back to the topic of discussion, how to keep a man or even a woman is not contained in any manual, the fact that we are humans, it is a must we note that different things works for different people at the same time.

Some things can only make you stay in his/your home with him and your kids for long apart from good love making, these includes: patience, good food and respect.

It is never possible that you are inpatient and you want him to be with you for long as you will want to react to everything you see or hear without proper and concrete evidence.

Men cannot stay with a woman that isn't patient, they will be conscious of everything because they don't want your trouble, you are not keeping him by so doing, you are only pushing him outside, to those who will give him that peace of mind as peace of mind is the dream of many man with their woman.

Yes, women are not meant to be slaves to their man, this is not to say that you shouldn't be able to serve him good food at the appropriate time.

As Africans, the stomach wins most men over to their woman, this is not to say it will keep him away totally from other ladies. I said Africans because many of my readers in the western world have told me times unnumbered that the woman being a good cook or not is never an issue with them.

Respect is what any man desires from his woman. If you don't accord him the desired respect you are completely on your own because there are many woman praying to have what you are toiling with.

More so, you need to appear nice and smell pleasant at all times for him to keep admiring you. Not until you go naked before he adores you when you aren't a prostitute.

Not overlooking the effect of great love making experience among the married ones, it can keep him too.

One truth is this, when you get him over satisfied during love making he will be tired to go naked with other women outside since you have drained his sexual energy.

Lastly, all I have mentioned above can only guarantee you his loyalty for some periods, it takes grace for a man to be completely loyal.

Like I usually tell those ladies who seek advise from me, it is better you are financially independent than relying on a man's loyalty, what about if he dies, aren't you gonna live your life with your offspring?

Be financially independent and be respectful along as you plead from the God you serve to give him that grace to be completely loyal, it takes grace to keep a man, no manual will give you that needed ingredient as there is none except from grace and God's intervention as it is never easy to be loyal, not for just men but women too.


This is my opinion, kindly make your contribution as it is important to me.

Cc: lalasticlala, kinginvagina, lalanice, tosyne2much

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/09/the-most-anticipated-manual-to-keep-man.html

It is called social media, so you don't need to take it serious you know!

8 years is a long time though, but for it to have gone to this situation i think the girl is seeing someone else. If she has waited for 8years and is saying she cannot cope anymore you should know she really mean it. I understand how the guy is feeling right now but you should just console him, this is a terrible situation for him but if you try all you can to persuade the girl and she didn't yield any positive response dont force her, she knows what she wants. Let the guy understand that he can survive without her, even if he says he is ready for marriage tomorrow the girl will say she want it today because she has lost interest in the affection with him, so he should just move on.

kinginvagina:
Most ladies ready for marriage in Nigeria today was once promiscuous, club going, keeping countless boys and visiting and sleeping in men house.

i guess this is the continuation of the your previous Kunle thread. Please get over this already, you will keep creating similar thread if you don't get over it.

tosyne2much:
I was denied adsense on the ground of difficulty in site navigation. I have applied several responsive templates and reapplied yet no approval

they don't know how it is doing them jare, they have disaproved mine too severally for navigation and those other two general reason for their disapproval. Their disapproval don't even get to my head ones, i keep doing what i love doing, maybe one day something bifgger than adsense will come.

tosyne2much:
Hehehe... I see as money dey roll into your bank account with you adsense

no o, without adsense since i changed to custom domain, just jumia affiliate till adsense upgrade request is approved.

Closeness get levels. But in all you have said you never mention that you confess your feelins to her. Some people are that close without any sexual thing attached, since you are not dating it is her business.

tosyne2much:
I'm not inspired to type this afternoon. A thread would be suitable for that

waiting too before i unleash mine also

You can ask of sex from any mature person but you need to take your time before asking a lady for sex. The thing is that it is not just through word of mouth we can ask for sex, there are other nonverbal means.

Not giving them the privilege will not stop people from looking down on you, seriously.

This is a response to a post on Laila's blog "I miss this Intimacy - Toke Makinwa" as posted on nairaland https://www.nairaland.com/4053239/miss-intimacy-toke-makinwa-reveals by FlirtyKaren.

Even Laila herself took the context of that statement to be that Toke missed sexual intercourse since she is single after her divorce last year.

Good to see that Toke was truthful about the whole situation as regards the revelation. But one thing I want to clear is this, the picture as shown by her depicts not just sexual scene.

Yes, her body isn't firewood, she needs a man to keep her warm and the likes, bla bla bla.

We have forgotten the fact that intimacy is not just all about love making, it is also about listening to each other especially, when confessing to each other how the feeling is.

We all are free to say what we have to say as she has taken her decision as regards her divorce, either it is her fault or not is no one's business as she is the one in the shoes and knows where it pinches.

Definitely, someone who was once with a man will definitely miss the presence of a man after divorce as the experience can never be taken away.

This is not even particular to a particular gender as it is human nature.

Decision making is also one of the intimacy she is referring to here, or have you forgotten that great decisions among couples are made when the two are together privately?

Once in a while we should put other people's feelings into consideration before castigating them, the decision they have taken is even small compared to the ones we take every day, but because some are celebrity we then think they don't have their life to live too which is completely wrong.

We have also forgotten that couple often engage in some child's play while alone.
We have quickly forgotten that dirty talks by couples when they are alone in their room.

All these and the rest makes up the intimacy which we suddenly fail to realise just because of the personality involved.

Don't get Toke Makinwa wrong, the intimacy she is referring to as shown even in the picture isn't just the love making.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/09/do-you-know-intimacy-as-revealed-by.html

We all know what we want, i will still go on with the relationship, she has a child doesn't make her bad. Love is stupid you know!

All that you are doing with her are some of those things brothers do to their sister, but the momemt you start dreaming and start wetting the bed it is high time you stopped some of those things you do with her.

Somethings we do at times is as a result of what we think.

For you to have shared this with someone it means you identify it is dangerous.

It is not a matter of distancing yourself from her, she is your sister for crying out loud. Change your thought with some other experience whenever it comes to your mind, get busy and get a lady to love. It is not a bad thing to love your sister, it becomes bad when you start having her in your dreams and wetting the bed.

You can pray against it too.

Many of us are just taking her word for sex. Intimacy isn't just sex, what about the jist with your partner, the play and the likes? Intimacy isn't just sex and i know you know but only want to make Toke feel bad about her situation.


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Brunosamel:
wow! Seriously well i have seen guys bragging about how they disvirgined a girl. Quite interesting

apart from those guys with baby mentality that brag about it publicly, those serious one brag less about it unless it has reached boiling point.

Ex means past, so what is the confrontation for? No story and no one owes anyone any explanation since the status has become ex. EOD.

MhizzAJ:
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Everything. Every sexual experience is brand new, as in, tear rubber. Though some that have diavirgined too still have very tight thing which will make you feel they are untouched. It is a pride for any lady who is lucky to still have it intact, no diagrace at all for the person who doesn't have it intact though, priority differs. But everything makes it special as it becomes a bragging right for any man who breaks that record.

Ok, let me tell you this, my fiancee which our relationship is almost 9years that we are almost about to seal started our relationship from same compound. It all depends on what you want, and you play your game in consideration of what you want. Nothing is bad, even if it is just fling the two should do maturely, there is nothing on heard of in this world, and this is not even strange but normal.

mokoshalb:
The blog SEO is poor, post more engaging content, I see you have a good SM presence... The blog layout is OK.

thank you, so on point. Working on the errors, so grateful.

glorex:
of course women can fall without money there is doubt about it but my point is when you offer majority of them a kind gesture by giving them a token of 3k or more as the case may be because they are in need at that particular time what comes next is to take advantage of your personality or your kind gesture simply because of their insatiable desires and from there they advance to borrowing from u without the intention of paying back because they have a programmed mind of offering sex to settle the debt. I know most ladies are guilty of this

You should even be happy sex is an option. And you might even be wrong to have concluded they want sex as settlement as most thinks it is a proof that you are a man, men pity women a lot and this is why we fall easily to them than man of our gender. Your conclusions are something else. See that a woman behave in a particular way doesnt mean all others are like that. And that they even behave ike that to you doesn't mean they will behave that same way to another person.

Check your post, check my response.

You generalised, saying all Nigerian girls, i am saying not all, yes there are some interested in the pocket, but many others will stay with you till you are made.

Sabrina18:
The question now is, who is a hungry girl?

the Op has just been unlucky with ladies because he is always of the opinion that women cannot fall without money, and it is what he thinks he gets until he change his approach.

falconey:






If you don't make it obvious How would you get her slightest attention in the first place? they're attracted to money, it's a proven theory. Trust me even the futuristic girl won't be for long.

Believe me the mindset is essential to sustain women in this modern world.

You know we never knew before i said what i said? See what you start with with any woman is the reflection of her action or inaction towards you. You are of those type that believes if you don't show to a woman from the inception she will not fall for you, whenever you are like that she will always bnk on you, you have shown her who she is and it will be unfair of her to disappoint your thought of her.

Yes, not all men cheat and same applies to women too.



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glorex:
Nigerian girls are always hungry, they can never be satisfied with what they have always demanding without having a knowledge of demand and supply. kai! Na wa oh! when u give them money with no strings attached they see u as mugu, the next thing is to suck u dry. when u borrow them money just forget about it because they wont pay their outstanding debt rather they compensate u with sex and as guy man, shame no go let u demand for your money back because u don pianka am!! chai! I am looking forward to meeting a Nigerian girl that is futuristic, self reliant, satisfied and can make do with the little she has.

See let me tell you one truth you have failed to realize, when you are materialistic oriented there is no way youbwill get a futuristic, self reliant, satisfied lady because you are not even ready to understand she is one already as all in your head will be money makes woman bow for anything. Money might make them bow truly but when you make it obvious you can never get that futuristic and what have you in her.



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Rorachy:
Why will you even be dating for 9 years?

Like you dated for your whole life.

To you though!

@ mokoshalb please check my link http://bamisepeter.com i am sure copy/paste will be among the fault as i post all my topics on Nairaland. But expecting your review.

Thumbs up op... The grace of God will sustain any marriage, it isn't by anyone's power or ability.

IamKashyBaby:



Meeehhnn..this one so deep...

even deeper than the topic sef.

OkuFaba:
10; farting during sex

now i don't get, should / should not do while having sex?

ULSHERLAN:
This sex everybody is always talking about, I'm gonna have it someday.