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It is possible na. She must be a good cook, she must be a good cloth washer, she must be this and that. Well, if washing cloth is what you desire in a woman you can just drop her, but know that being a good cloth cleaner does not in anyway mean she is a good wife. Washing cloth of all things when there is washing machine!

10 kinds bi bawo!

I love this episode. The lady sounds like someone who knows what to do which makes the advice simple. ~MOVE ON IN LIFE BEFORE YOU ARE MOVED TO THE OTHER SIDE~. You can cook but not for him.

SlimShaddy10:
u see sth real and u are doubting. not me ooooo!!!!

I know them when I see them

should i say by what they know we shall know them?

Please dont feel i want to promote my post but she can also read what i said about this topic some days back here http://bamisepeters..com/2016/09/you-are-30-yet-no-man.html sharing my thought is what i love passionately.

You need to get yourself busy, please don't say having sex is being busy, just get something doing to take this feelings away, and stop reading or watching something that will bring the feelings. You will get tired of it soon so why border yourself on it now.

Nice way to advertise Supermart.ng these list are true to some extent, not all men are afraid of this, if so why are they going the way of baby mama? Marriage is right but wisdom is profitable.

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Bella, I've a story too.

My wife wants sex everyday. I'm fed up. I don't want to talk about the day I was forced to do it in my office or the week I was in sick bed from exhaustion. I can't even go further without crying, I'll hi you. Your number, please?

Ranchhoddas and yaqq you don't need to go too far, this is one client that we will still see his story too, just keep reading and share your opinion.

I don't think she is done with you, there is still more to it. She obviously did not have the intention on leaving you, something transpired that you must know which you did not allow. Please if you love her genuinely let her talk and you do the listening, i can assure you that things will return to normalcy.

Don't judge a book by its cover OP, it might not be what you think. Some friends are like that and they cannot hold back words when they really want to express how grateful and emotionally attached to that person on special occasions.

Talk2Bella:
it might last, they just need to get this age thing outta the way

thank goodness you said "might". When the real age is revealed intimidation sets in as the guy will not recover from the shock as fast as possible and will fill betrayed. I just wish i knew who approached who first.

But who will advice the man too now, well, i think this is because of the importance of a woman in the home.

Personally, the chances of the duo to be together for long is slim when they keep thinking this way... First, you laid false foundation and you expect the best from such relationship. The question i will ask is if the lady woe the guy because if the guy did then i don't see the crime in you telling him the truth as regards your age. He is now thinking like a baby to be saying all those and you are also joining him by saying he is disrespecting you, why won't he when he trust your lies.

It is better you tell him the truth then take the result as fate or else you regret not laying truthful foundation.

Cutehector:
dats why I mentioned earlier dat her husband shouldn't force her to adopt.. infact if I were her husband, I would prefer her to bring up that idea by herself.

Don't blame the man, he just want the woman's happiness, only him can tell how saddened his wife his, he thought she might even get consoled through show of love to someone else's offspring.

She has gotten valid point as adoption is concerned, we are in Nigeria where documents are not properly signed in order to work with change. However, for the main time she should try adopt from reputable orphanage homes. Adoption is never a lost of faith in God. Mother-in-laws are always like that and it is normal because every woman want to be proud to hear their grandchildren call them grandma.

You can't say, it might be adoption that will lead to your happiness, i share in your pains but pray to God for guidance and keep the faith.

What others see in her is beyond his understanding... He should let them be.

Talk2Bella:
The man knows from the beginning the type of girl she was, he needs to have a stern talk with the friend

i overstand you. See it is when you are in that position you understand better. He might know it all but with his friend might be rusty.

You know some friends can go extra miles to destroy what they don't want their friend to get into?

Friend get power o.

Thank God the Op said "mentality". Don't let us deceive ourselves, this mentality will continue till eternity and this is why ladies should keep proving hard to get for any man. Give any man entrance on first or 2nd date at your own peril. We attach unnecessary importance to things that really do not matter most times.

The issue will get more serious later. Yes we agree we all have past and considering her past it is possible they have had something together truly, the guy did not know her past now.

And her fiancé really need to get over it even if told since she has confessed her sins from the beginning but it will not be that easy considering the claim of the friend.

I just hope you man loves you truly, if not, it will soon get messier.

Naughtysite:
Remove that number 5..

why?

bbmpin:
I was very dialectic with my points!

I clearly stated that i was "fairly ok" with point number 1!
I may have my reservations about the said point but i can "understand" its importance!

Your last statement! Then she clearly "doesn't" love her husband!

No woman is impossible! Do not obfuscate them!

We all have different personalities! The kind of woman that will be humble to you might be rude to me!

Its your job as a man to understand "your type of person" and choose accordingly the "kind of woman" that suits your personality!

We(men) generally have a mundane approach to "compatibility" we settle for "convenience" most times!

i hate "feminism" but i love feminist! i find it sexy when a woman is outspoken!

Hope my points have been riveted? #Tenuous Arguments

points clearly understood. But i want you to read through all i have said, i didn't say she doesn't love her husbsnd, in fact, the topic is not about marriage but courtship. Once it is marriage i know you have your reasons to have married who you marry even if they fall in any of those types i mentioned and it doesn't mean she doesn't love the man or something. The bitter truth is even that they might fall in any of the list and are even better than someone who did not fall in any of the list.

Talk2Bella:
It's vice versa

how?

frankkydee:
hope it's not what am thinking?

Think aloud now.

sinaj:
lol cane?


Maka why?

Is it a sin?

lol

bbmpin:
Why aren't you talking about what "pushes them" to become offensive?

if you are caring, provide "adequate financial resources" for her and most "importantly" you are a good cook in the bedroom!

she will worship and adore you! (you are suppose to lead them, not blame them for your negligence)

Trust me!!

if you behave and "act" like a MAN, she will respect you like a MAN! #reciprocity

the likes and shares you have earned yourself is obviously by ppl of same gender as yours, but all of you are nrglecting the major point of this argument which is point number 1. A woman that falls in any of those groups will never reciprociwhatever you have said there, in stead, they will make the man look like a fool.

bbmpin:
i see

Aside from your "poorly" argued number1

i am very cool with the rest!

yes, i know number will be poor to many, but at least even if it is 2minutes prayer it will go a long way. You have not seen women that all their lives is full of negative words either to their children or husband? How do you want the home to be successful in this case?

TrapQueen77:
Yes men's brain are programmed to be konji all the time....this is the reason why they flirt even if they are in serious relationship...


Sometimes, it's their dickz that are thinking coz their brains are already in comatose.

but i hope you know not all?

As we have the do not in men we also have in women.

Here are the list of the types of ladies a man should not consider dating...

1. SHE CANNOT PRAY

It might sound religious but yes it is necessary to hold any home. I am not saying she should pray for straight one hour but at least, when it demands or when duty calls she must be fit for the task as the woman.

This is necessary to hold all aspect of the house.

2. SHE CANNOT COOK

Please this is even a no go area, to win a man completely you must win his belly completely.

You need to be able to cook special delicacies almost at all times as we men are naturally glutton.

This is why we stay and recommend a joint to our friends because we are given what we desire and not because of the concussion attached to the food in the joint.

The above only happens when you the woman is not equal to the task.

You envy a man that doesn't eat outside? Ask the wife what she is doing right that you lack.

3. SHE IS MATERIALISTIC

Don't be shocked that she wants the latest gadget not minding what you are using. It is not their own palava as you used your hand to cause trouble for yourself.

This kind of woman will use all your hard earned money you suppose to use to build your future to buy the gold, cloths, shoes, bags for their body.

The moment you start dating them, you have started building your house on their body.

4. QUICK TO ANGER

This type of people do not care if anything get destroyed when they are angry, in fact, they will be the one that will destroy that thing no matter how important that thing might be to you.

Relationship with people like this is always one leg in and one leg out as they are capable of breaking any of those legs when the anger arrives.

You watch whatever you say or do when you are in this kind of relationship as it is a court on its own.

5. SEX ADDICT

My God! You are doomed the moment you enter into a relationship with someone in this category.

No matter how good you might be you must be extremely vigilant as ladies in this category are like snail. They slip pass you to get their satisfaction.

If you are not good at all, please it is advisable you just keep of immediately you notice as you will do marriage more than once.

They say there is a woman for every man and vice versa either good or bad.

It is advisable you look well before you make that choice of your woman as you might choose the one that will send you packing from the world.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/09/types-of-ladies-men-should-avoid-dating.html

KevMitnick:
Waiting for a counter thread...

and i will give you. But before that, who will now marry them?

[quote author=firstking01 post=49636604][/quote]well, i know that 80% is just an exageration, it is possible you have tried with more than two, i kno you know i am right.