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Business › Re: Dangote Spaghetti Factory In Ikorodu Is On Fire (Photos) by bamisepeters(m): 10:00pm On Oct 13, 2016

libertyfather:
Oloriburuku omo ajekuta mamu omi..

Another Abeokuta mamuomi sighted

If not Igbo wetin hin be? Hin mention Afonja and issue happen to hausawa man so tell me who the stupid flat head ass is awon omo ale

at times you just overlook some awkward utterances. He might be an igbo but the frustrated one, just leave him, anyone who prays for the downfall of another will also not grow than the ground...it is that simple.

Business › Re: Dangote Spaghetti Factory In Ikorodu Is On Fire (Photos) by bamisepeters(m): 5:43pm On Oct 13, 2016

DaPuncline:
I'm 101% sure you must be an igbo man. Full of hatred, envy and animosity!

Please stop, igbo men are success lovers because they work real hard and don't like someone that labours to run short... I am not an igbo, i know them well. This person can be any tribe, someone who only cares about himself, someone who want only himself to be successful while others worship him, their type hate others who work hard to be great with passion.

Business › Re: Dangote Spaghetti Factory In Ikorodu Is On Fire (Photos) by bamisepeters(m): 5:38pm On Oct 13, 2016

Atmmachine:
It can burn to the ground

I don't give a flying and running fucck

It doesn't affect the price of Amala and Ewedu for the Afonja

See humans, and you pray to be successful in all your endeavors? #justasking

Romance › Re: When You Have Different Men Giving You Money by bamisepeters(m): 5:55pm On Oct 12, 2016

2dugged:
I am not changing the topic, just painting the picture in reverse, mist women always be at the receiving end of bashing when it comes to morality?, what about your sons?,what do you teach them apart from how sleeping with many girls makes him masculine and is even hailed for being a bad guy

i overstand your point, let's take it one by one, today is the ladies, i support you but it is one by one, you will be quoted to pour out your mind, i assure you that, let the men feast on this for the now.

Romance › Re: When You Have Different Men Giving You Money by bamisepeters(m): 5:20pm On Oct 12, 2016

DonTim1:
PS: talktobella pls drop that superficial foreign accent at the beginning and very end of ur video when u do the guys own pls be original. cheers

loooool.

Romance › Re: When You Have Different Men Giving You Money by bamisepeters(m): 5:17pm On Oct 12, 2016

2dugged:
and how many guys can swear with sango that since they started dating their so called girlfriend that have not muemuesugbe with another babe?,Nigerian men that have flirting as inborn character

i get you but that is not the point here. As we have the bad eggs among women we also have many among men. If you care to know there are many men who sticks only to one lady for whatever pleasure they desire in this life. You might claim to have just a man, but let those that will listen listen and don't change the topic.

Romance › Re: How Did You Meet Your Partner, Partners, Spouse or Spouses? by bamisepeters(m): 5:11pm On Oct 12, 2016

Lived in the same building 8.4years ago. She remains the best forever.

Romance › Re: How Long Should You Wait After Ending A Relationship To Date Someone Else? by bamisepeters(op): 3:36pm On Oct 12, 2016

firstking01:
You 've said it all na.

i prefer to say Like than click it.

Romance › Re: How Long Should You Wait After Ending A Relationship To Date Someone Else? by bamisepeters(op): 3:35pm On Oct 12, 2016

judeefcc:
when my ex and i ended things i tot that it will take months but to baba be the glory lasted just 2days and i met someone else, there is no time ratio just be happy

exactly.

Romance › How Long Should You Wait After Ending A Relationship To Date Someone Else? by bamisepeters(op): 2:37pm On Oct 12, 2016*

In this kind of scenario it depends.

The question is what led to the separation? It could be death of a beloved partner or unexpected occurrence like cheating.

You can still overcome a separation caused by cheating. But it can take longer time to move on if the death of a beloved partner is the cause of the separation.

In fact, it takes extra ordinary pressure for a new relationship to start for this kind of people.

And it also depends on the individual. Some people don't get over issues very fast, it takes ages. While for some, before the twinkling of an eye they are on the next thing.

Some also consider what people will say before getting into another relationship.

And no one, i repeat, no one nor any manual can tell you when you can get into a new relationship because it is if you are in the situation you can decide that.

When it is right, no one will tell you, you will have even fallen before you realise you are in love again and you will be like it is so sudden, i don't even know how i fell.

What people can just do is to persuade you when it is taking longer than expected, and it is because they are not in your shoes.

To be realistic, that shoe may not even size many of them, if they were in your situation, their case might even be worse, but just that it should be noted they did their best to console you to the next level.

All i know is that you will definitely fall in love again, the time, i can't tell.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/how-long-should-you-wait-after-ending.html

Webmasters › Re: 4 Major Importance of Blogging by bamisepeters(m): 8:58am On Oct 10, 2016

Tuham:
would you be interested in me doing it for you, or you can do it yourself.
Also: i can give you a complete new design if you'd want

please check mine and i wouldn't mind if you can give me a great template, in fact, i will appreciate...

Webmasters › Re: 4 Major Importance of Blogging by bamisepeters(m): 8:09am On Oct 10, 2016

Relationship blogger passing by... Nice one Op.

Check signature...

Romance › Some Women Makes It Hard For Men To Trust by bamisepeters(op): 7:33pm On Oct 09, 2016

He who finds a wife finds a good thing. Good wife is a sign of favour from God they say.

I have said it times without number that one needs to trust somebody no matter what the situation might be.
This especially goes to married couples out there. You have to trust your spouse no matter the condition.

But how will you convince a man who spent almost 7years of his life with a lady, and along the line he caught his woman cheating?

He trusted her and can bet his life anywhere that his woman can never cheat on him no matter the circumstances.

What sermon will you preach to a man who has invested on his woman (probably his wife-to-be) and at the long run he found out the woman his cheating?

What kind of song will you sing for a man who tried all his best to satisfy his woman even in bed and later found out that another man shares with him the deepest part of his woman?

Can you just try to imagine your spouse being serviced by someone other than you? Imagine the looks on her face, the screams, moan in satisfaction etc.

Some men are very loyal and cannot do anything to hurt a woman, but some woman turned them to who and what they have become.

Several people used to say that even if those close to you are familiar with your spouse it doesn't stop him/her from displaying the atrocities programmed in him/her.

Well, the above is true. And no matter how good they are at keeping the secret from getting out, the secret will roar its ugly head one day.

Dirty secrets are like air, they will definitely blow, no one can stop it from showcasing its innate talent.

Not all the woman are bad and neither are all men bad as you think they are, but it takes the favour of God to get a good husband/wife.

Some women are very lucky, even after so many atrocities they still don't get caught while some will be caught immediately after just one trial of atrocity.

At times, i wonder why some women who were virgin before they got married couldn't give birth after so many years of marriage, while some women that were promiscuous and have aborted series of pregnancies before marriage starts giving birth to children few months after marriage ceremony.

I think God should have started dealing with some women even before their marriage because of the kind of dirty deeds they have done.

But this is to show that God is for sinners so that they can repent (Luke 19:10).

Thank goodness God is not man!
Well, i guess one way or the other we are not all clean, and to God sin is sin without quantification.

Men that are sleeping with another woman rather than their woman in the name of pleasure, just think about how you will feel when someone else is doing what you are doing to someone else's woman to your wife.

I have not said anything which will make anyone not to trust his/her spouse. Trust is the foundation of any relationship which must not shake for a second.

To those the thought i have shared has affected please learn to trust someone again, a bad boyfriend/girlfriend to you can be the best husband/wife to another.

And it is important that you don't turn bad because of what a woman has done to you, let God and let go while you hope for your own dream woman to surface.

You can't say, a bad girlfriend to someone might be the best woman on earth for you.

But the best is to try as much as possible not to let those who trust you down, it will cost you dearly if you do especially when you try to regain the trust.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2015/09/some-women-are-extremely-bad-they-take.html

Sports › Re: Zambia Vs Nigeria 2018 Fifa World Cup Qualifiers 1 - 2 (Full Time) by bamisepeters(m): 6:48pm On Oct 09, 2016

Liability:
Zambia 3-1 nigeria........quote me after the match.

Romance › Re: Is Her Cheating Justifiable? by bamisepeters(m): 8:32pm On Oct 08, 2016

There are so many thing ms the society frowns at whereas they are the best. Do not have sex before marriage. Do not stay together before marriage, do not do this do not do that.... Meanwhile if you have done some of these things you will never regret to have made up your mind. Didn't they court? No matter what it is, for better for worse what you signed, if you cheat the society will not hail you because cheating is cheating no other beautiful adjective. Please keep managing and never stop praying to support him.

Romance › Re: The Effect Of Patience by bamisepeters(m): 8:26pm On Oct 08, 2016

Presh900:
lemme encourage you with a comment

seconded with a LOL...

Romance › Re: Most Girls Cause Their Relationship To Fail Becos Of Stubornness by bamisepeters(m): 8:19pm On Oct 08, 2016

Doing all those chores might bring you closer but it is never a guarantee to marriage nor good home. Many cannot do those things yet their home is as sweet as honey, it doesn't work for everyone the same way.

Romance › Re: Laadies Come An Answer For Your Selfs,,guys Which 1 Do You Prefer by bamisepeters(m): 8:16pm On Oct 08, 2016

OBTSubtle:
A is 17 and not fully ripe..

B is 21 and okay but still feels like she's everybody's desire.

C is 29 and perfect for me..

D is 34 and not an option..

E is a misfit, a young girl who looks like a rhinoceros..not even a thought..

you go fear analysis.

Romance › Re: I Expect Enough Bashing From The Ladies But I Go Still Talk Am by bamisepeters(m): 8:13pm On Oct 08, 2016

chris2face:
African mentality No No No is not Africa but East mentality living alone doest necessarily mean one is an olosho rather some view them as irresponsible people which to an extent is still true
So many factor could make one leave me I know of a girl leaving some houses from mine,she lost her parents some time ago,every body in the street know she is real hustler and very responsible doing her thing,will u now tell me that she is an olosho just cause she is living alone.
I know that there are some living alone who are oloshos but then NOT all

No o, it is no more in the mentality, we believe in freedom this days, that conclusion is archaic, i say a big FALSE.

Romance › Re: Woman Proposing To A Man by bamisepeters(m): 8:10pm On Oct 08, 2016

Well, if it is only in Nigeria i did not see such happen i will say our mentality at work but it is everywhere.

It is the man that will marry the woman and that is why it is compulsory that the man propose.

If you say declaring of feelings then i can say it is bad in Africa, i am a man, most of us take it for granted but we understand women's action better in that case and we act according to that body language which is better.

Proposing? It is a man thing.

Family › You Must Keep Some Things Of This Type From Your Children by bamisepeters(op): 7:14pm On Oct 08, 2016

I saw this online while researching...

I have a 12-year-old son. Off late, I have seen him researching on adult topics on the internet. I have spoken to my husband about it, but we are both clueless as to how we should talk it out with him.

Below is one response....

Get adult sites blocked on his computer by an expert. Don’t make a scene about it, just sit him down and say whatever he has been researching is something not appropriate for his age. That as strange, perhaps exciting, scary and attractive as all of it may appear, it is something he should view when he can understand it in the correct context, because to view it before an appropriate age (state a reasonable age), will only affect him adversely.

The response is good though, but what about those he mingles with?

Parents have a lot to do to help their children grow in the right way..

Checking those your child associate with is very important.

What about if the curiosity of the young boy is from those he mingles with? If you block the sites you also need to check his surroundings as he may get more than what you blocked outside which can even expose him more than your imagination.

I know you also know that as cheap as sex education is, it is not for all ages.

Please i stand to be corrected...

Cc: lalasticlala

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/you-must-keep-some-things-of-this-type.html

Romance › Re: Oh My God!!!!!!!!my Husband Has Killed Me. by bamisepeters(m): 5:35pm On Oct 08, 2016

Poverty of the mind indeed! Thank you Op for sharing.

Romance › Re: How Do I Make A Guy Fall Inlove With Me by bamisepeters(m): 3:51pm On Oct 08, 2016

agesron:
Nothing my dear, if he didn't love u from his heart,he can never love u even if u tell him how u feel. Ofcos he notice u n he knows u love him, just be yourself n let d friendship flow, but u can just try to make him jealous a bit n see his reaction,if he act like I don't care! Move on n let d friendship flow as I said earlier. My opinion tho.

Lovely one from a lady here

Afriifa:
distance yourself from him for 2weeks

if a man can say this, then you need to do that. Let him miss you,that might be the only thing you need left. Please you may not need to tell him you love him, in this part of the world it is almost taken for granted to come from a woman, if it did not work against you now it mught later in future when you will not have any other option. Please dont allow your emotion push you too far. Read also
http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2015/08/6-ways-lady-can-say-love-you-to-man.html

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Romance › When A Woman Loves - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:19pm On Oct 08, 2016

Unlike the men, when a woman loves you she is committed to you whole-heartedly, she is ready to go any length just for you alone.

When she loves you, no matter the circumstances, she will always stay with you because the love is unconditional in the first place.

It is not in the amount of money you have nor your looks and neither is it the size of your manhood.

You find out that even in your weakness they find strength, and they do all it takes to keep you to themselves alone not minding the cost.

The only condition for this kind of woman is for the man to stay completely loyal in order not to provoke her loyalty.

This kind of woman can also go any length to destroy any man once they notice he is not committed. They don't care if what they will do to him will lead to eternal poverty for their family, all they know is that when you don't have the resources to maintain the relationship you are building with those ladies outside your marriage you will stop messing around.

In short, they are capable of killing you if proper steps are not taken, she doesn't know when she is reacting but her eyes will be crystal clear after the result.

It is better to just stay loyal to a loving wife. If it is a curse for you to run after other girls it is advisable you are smart about it, the day she out smart you is the end because a woman that don't even care about what you do outside your relationship can destroy you let alone the one that is completely devoted.

Fire is not a good thing to play with.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/when-woman-loves.html

Politics › Re: Corper Begs Senator Ashafa N100,000, See The Reply He Got by bamisepeters(m): 3:01pm On Oct 07, 2016

Seriously no big deal in asking but the manner and purpose is what makes the difference.

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Romance › Re: Why Do Men Find It Hard To Forgive A Cheating Wife by bamisepeters(m): 12:46pm On Oct 07, 2016

There is nothing else to be said to answer the question than what has been said above. The way you make love, the way you play together, please if i keep writing it will get disgusting...

Romance › Re: Would You Allow Your Wifey Pierce Her Ass? by bamisepeters(m): 12:24pm On Oct 07, 2016

Ass bi bawo?

Romance › Re: How Do I Handle Unnecessary Attention From Men? by bamisepeters(m): 12:23pm On Oct 07, 2016

dearbunmi:
Dear Bunmi,

Growing up, I always had unnecessary attention from the
opposite sex. At first I thought it was okay as a girl (I enjoyed the ‘shakara’) but when I got admitted into the university, I saw hell.

It wasn’t like I was the prettiest girl, I just found myself in situations where I get to know the opposite sex (male) through a conversation and they wont want to leave. In my first year I became a class rep and before I knew it the course adviser was on my case.

After a while, I just couldn’t handle it. I was frustrated so I begged to change departments and after that I avoided lecturers in my new departments and ran away from every need to come in contact.

I guess the pain of being unjustly treated made me get
thrown off balance and I couldn’t cope in the new department, I decided to seek for help from the department but meeting the person in charge he started asking me out.

I gave up totally, I dropped out!

I talked about it to different people because I wanted to feel better.

I’m better now and starting afresh in a new school and I still feel it
fresh sometimes. Will it ever go away totally?

Best Regards,
Missy
via Email

Click below to see my response
http://dearbunmi.com/handle-unnecessary-attention-men/

Do you have any relationship questions?
http://dearbunmi.com/send-your-story

So you dropped the school for another just because of that?

I am not seeing any issue in this, do you think you are the only one affected in your previous school? You just deal with it wisely, all this things describe the kind of person you are.

Being attracted to you is stage by stage and if you can't deal with it now then it will be difficult to get the right man.

You need to stand firm on what you want, don't let pressure push you around, who told you it will not happen in your new school? Just be firm and control them with wisdom.

Romance › Re: What's Most Important To You In A Relationship? by bamisepeters(m): 5:53pm On Oct 06, 2016

Trust and time.

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Romance › Re: She's Not Wife Material Enough by bamisepeters(m): 5:48pm On Oct 06, 2016

ItsQuinn:
What are your requirements of a wife? ....if you don't want her again block her everywhere and ghost her simple....unless something is still holding you back

haba! No be fight now, at least he said his mind... We are talking about something you will live with for the rest of your life, if he said he doesn't want her as what she thinks she wish to be to him then she should also think about future and not present. In case anything happens in the future nobody should blame him.

BUT

He should also think well about it, life can be extremely funny, please dont let life laugh and fart at your marital life in the future o.

Romance › Re: Counter: What To Do When You're Lonely And Feeling Hornnny by bamisepeters(op): 7:28pm On Oct 05, 2016

makydebbie:
I love this

tnx.

Romance › Counter: What To Do When You're Lonely And Feeling Hornnny by bamisepeters(op): 5:13pm On Oct 05, 2016

It is not easy to have written such great piece by Talk2Bella, i commend that effort to have prescribed solutions to such youthful and sensitive issue.

However, i see issues that may cause brouhaha at the long run.

Advising someone to knock neighbor's door because of "feeling Hot" is something that discourage morality.

Credit to Vinchu who said this in response to the original post "So as a woman, who is in the mood, you would knock on your neighbour's door.. really? Or some random guy.. really? Even a crush, and u call him over for sex.. really? What would he be thinking?
And you are not a prostitute?...

... Better hit the streets and make it official by collecting money.
If a woman is not in a relationship i don't think she has any reason to be Hot in the first place. That thing that made her stay off relationship should make her stay off sex too. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Even as a man, it is not advisable to knock at neighbor's door in the name of being Hot,it is not in anyway different from prostitution.

What if your neighbor is not home or not the type you can try such act with, will you start going to other street to look for whom to devour?

The fact is that you only keep feeling Hot when you don't have something doing. It is only someone who has nowhere to go nor have something to do that will start knocking neighbor's door up and down.

Little wonder we hear of some men raping little girls, part of things being Hot can cause. Think about STD, knocking at people's door can cause this too. Little time you will say she is pregnant and you don't want the pregnancy, does it fly?

Many unhealthy behavior are associated with masturbation which makes it less advisable.

If you don't have a partner, then it is a good way to learn self control instead of causing yourself public embarrassment or exposing yourself to infections in the name of Hot.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/10/counter-what-to-do-when-youre-single.html

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