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Romance / Not All Relationship Ends In Marriage, However... - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 1:50am On Jun 27, 2017
What you will say within your mind immediately you see the topic of this post will be "i know already, i have seen many".

This goes beyond that as many needs to see positive reasons beyond separation or breakup.

I wouldn't like to bring destiny into my write up, but as a philosopher, even if i don't want to, i would have done it before realising i don't want to.

No matter how hard we try, some relationship will not last to reach the altar because no one can cheat destiny.

At times, we cry when someone we love dearly break our heart and to get the emotion and psychological effects back to shape takes time.

During that trial period many will say i am not sure i will do this again, meanwhile it only takes few moment and you are in another one before you know it.

It is not easy for me to say this too, but for a relationship that is at the verge of reaching the final destination which could not, lessons from the relationship can go a long way to make your next relationship a success as your last relationship has built you for the person you are now or to still be with.

If you are in any relationship now please don't feel bad about this as it is reality and i am not saying something will happen to your relationship in case you are determined to seal it with that person.

It is not easy though but the truth is, we must still forge ahead as break up is not the end of the world.

One thing i always say to those in relationship is that "if anything will lead to your break-up try not be the subject, that even if the deaf hears the reason, the other person will be blamed"...

..." and not because you are not the subject, you must now announce from house-to-house your ex caused it". Just let the sleeping dog lie and move on as a better being.

Later, that person who is at fault of the break-up will regret and learn from that mistake which will make him or her better in his/her new relationship while you are also cautious in your new relationship not to make that same mistake your ex made because it can go either ways, and this will make you better also.

Read Also: 7 Signs To Note When You Need To End A Relationship

And if you both separate on a mutual ground, then, the lesson you both learnt from the experiment will be too good to be neglected in your new relationship.

A bad boyfriend/girlfriend to so many people are now good husband/wife and mother to their spouse and kids now, so forget your heart was broken by someone, the fact is just that you were made to meet each other to learn for you to be the best in your real home.

READ ALSO: YOU EX: BAD FOR YOU, YET, BEST FOR SOMEONE ELSE

I wouldn't say you should not cry in case it happens, please cry, but your errors in that past relationship should go out with the tears.

Many great homes you see today, the couple in most cases once dated someone else before meeting the one they are now calling their husband/wife and some pretty pet names you never knew existed.

Break-up is not easy, and to get over it might be an herculean task, however, while in a relationship do have it at the back of your mind that not all relationship ends in marriage, but you have to see the positives in the break-up which should help your future relationship instead of dwelling on the past and expect the restoration miracle.

Life is a lesson, the more you live the more you learn and the wiser you become.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/not-all-relationships-end-in-marriage.html
Family / Women Are Often The Cause Of The Fall Of Strong Men - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 6:40pm On Jun 26, 2017
Don't say I don't like women when you see this after my post yesterday which is also against women.

If you are reading for the first time you can read through my blog especially where I wrote in support of women, I might write against men tomorrow, I am not a bias blogger.

To the issue of discussion, I wouldn't say it is just me because it is what we all know, not just men but women themselves are aware of this too.

Despite the fact that many women try not to expose their man to the world, many will have done it before realising what they did shouldn't have happened through them.

No matter how strong a man can be, his woman "can" kill him without stress.
I am not talking about just his wife, concubines most of the times are the culprit.

Most men are controlled by the stick in between their legs, that is where the brain is to them and this is why they fall cheaply.

I don't think i need to start mentioning names for examples, we are all aware of those names I might mention from Nigeria to other places around the world and end it in the garden of Eden as claimed by the Bible.

Like I used to say, the power of women is so enormous and beyond man's understanding.

If a woman is gentle, loving and caring I will advise you don't take her for granted if you don't want her to deliver you into the hands of your enemies.

Women most times use your weakness against you, this is why it is advisable you keep your strongest weakness away from the reach of women so that it will not be used against you one day.

Even if you claim not to have any secret that a woman must not know, you still need to thread with caution.

The fact like I said earlier is that women most times don't know when they allow themselves to be used against you till after the deed is done.

It is rare to hear that a man expose his woman to the world, before you even hear one of such instance 20 cases of women surrendering their man to their enemy will have messed up the whole place.

A man will rather punish you internally when you go wrong than expose you to the world.

But one truth is that no matter how deadly we might consider women to be men cannot do without them, their importance is much than our understanding also.

Even though we know they are silent killers we will still trust them with our life.

There are also many women that made their man the great man he is, this is the kind of woman men should be praying for and not that poisonous one.

This is why I so much pity those men that cheat as they are living inside terrible danger.

You will be afraid of your woman as she might do the unthinkable if she hears and even the one outside will want to do everything possible to win you completely or even get everything she wants anytime she ask and she can adopt any tactics to make you pay attention to her.

I am not saying you should be afraid of your woman, most of them walk you to your success, however, if you marry the wrong woman you are doomed for life

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/06/women-are-often-cause-of-fall-of-strong.html
Family / Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:46pm On Jun 26, 2017
asuustrike2009:

Hahaaaaa! But it's the truth na. It's your opinion no doubt but making realistic would have been better.you do by field work not assumptions
i understand you but, at times i don't believe in statistics, common sense do it. With comments on this thread it is obvious what i wrote is reality as it is accepted by 95% of the commenters. Though i am not the blogger that don't allow criticism, i love when people prove me wrong, i write my posts myself and not copy and paste, so it shows i am moving and it makes me do better, so if you raise an objection i am home for you anytime anyday. Thank you for taking your time to make this and previous comments, so happy about them and that of others.
TV/Movies / Re: MTN Pulls Out Of 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire' Game Show by bamisepeters(m): 12:45pm On Jun 26, 2017
debayun:


Are you just dumb or Damn right stupid to post a link to something I can already see up ⬆ there only dimwitted numbskulls like you will click the link
you af vex grin
Family / Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 12:40pm On Jun 26, 2017
asuustrike2009:

How did you come to this conclusion? Did you research it or you perceived it by being judgemental? What was your sample size if actually you did it? What was your source if you relied on some else's work? .why was topic targetted at women in general why didn't you narrow it Nigeria or African women?
asuustrike want to strike me join abi? If you are a follower of my blog you will see at the end where i write "this is my opinion, you are free to add comment and review, your contribution is highly important to me".

So you are free to criticise, it makes me much more stronger, a tres cannot be called forest you know!

Yesterday and today may be about women, tomorrow might be men.
Romance / If You Want A Lady To Hate You Forever Just Say This - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 10:59am On Jun 26, 2017
I usually say no one is ugly and that is actually the truth as we are all wonderfully made with different special traits.

Maybe because i think appearance isn't reality, i believe in the inner beauty or what is the essence of beauty without brains?

Apart from the looks we have something that makes each one special from another which is even what i see in women.

Most women are moved by what they hear and for this fact they are also disturbed by the negative complement you give them.

If you want a lady to hate you forever, when you guys are serious or during an argument just mention to her how ugly she is.

Nobody loves negative compliments though but women don't even want to hear it at all.

When she isn't too attractive physically she knows, she is not really too happy about it, you confirming it to her by saying it is the killer stamp, that is when you will see her ask around if she is truly ugly like you said it.

She will want to do things that will make her look attractive forgetting that she will be so attractive to her own man because no matter how non-attractive you may appear there is a man for every woman.

This reason alone is enough to show that no one is ugly because even when you see the partner of this people you term ugly you will be shocked at the striking beauty.

I am blunt when talking but i choose my words when speaking with ladies because they get angry easily at things many guys will take as usual.

Read Also: 5 Statements You Shouldn't Say To Him No Matter What

Please give ladies lovely complements, you might term them the weaker sex but what they go through many men no matter how handsome or powerful you might be you cannot go through half of it simply because guys are not provisioned to go through them, so give them that respect.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/06/if-you-want-lady-to-hate-you-forever.html
Romance / These Are The Perception Of Men About Women - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:17pm On Jun 25, 2017
In the comments on one of my posts about what women want from men, male readers believes the two major things women cherish in their relationship is money and sex.

Yes, money is the big deal and it has a lot to do in sustaining any relationship.

But i have seen many women that built their relationship on love. They stayed with their man even when nobody believed they will.

Now-a-days, women cherish the love more than any other material things. In fact, most of them chose to be self dependant than depending on a man.

Do you know some women spends money on their men? Oh, because most of the women will tell you my man did this/that for me? The truth is that this women just protect the dignity of their man outside their home.

Many women are the breadwinners of their home, yet, you will still think the man is the one providing for the home.

Please, do not conclude that women wants the money more, we all do. Many women will shock you.

The truth is that what you have in your mind about them only manifest when you have one. And you can't expect a woman to cope when you have laid wrong foundation.

The foundation laid by many men is the cause of the issues they have with many women, and it will continue till they change their perception about them.

On the other issue which is sex, many guys think that you really need to be good in bed to maintain a woman in addition to the money.

Forgetting that sex is not food and many women have found means to enjoy their sex life with their man.

In this century that we have many 2 minutes men or even lesser, yet they have this loyal woman who is never satisfied with the duration even when it's quality is so uncertain in many situations, but still keep on staying and finding a lasting solution.

Sex might service a relationship, however, many women are ok with what they get from their man, even when the quantity you give is questionable, many try to adopt several rounds to fill the gap.

Many don't believe in sleeping with other men. Like i always say, because you you dated a lady or two and your experience is the same doesn't mean that is how every other ladies are provisioned.

You all most times claim your mother is the best forgetting that they have also passed their prime and that this ladies you are talking about are someone else's mother or mother to be and their children too will be claiming that their own mum is a saint, if that is the case where is that sex lover you are referring to?

The sex and money isn't enough to sustain a good woman, even when you give them the two without showing love you will be suprised when they use the money you give them to get more sex from the "little" boy that is showing them the love.

The three works hand in hand.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/06/these-are-perception-of-men-about-women.html
Family / Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 4:52pm On Jun 25, 2017
pocohantas:

Marital troubles, not only cheating. Some dey find pikin, some their children no know book, husband business is not moving well.
You know people like to blame wives? She has to go look for solution, next place is church fiam! We spiritualise everything in this country.

I heard someone say that the most unhappy married woman are found in the church
. I don't know if it's true ooo.
maybe survey will prove that true or false sha.
Family / Re: Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 4:07pm On Jun 25, 2017
pocohantas:
When you people will not allow them have rest of mind, the next place is the church nae. Have you seen a woman, with a loving and supportive husband who doesn't cheat on her, sleeping inside church or worshipping one religious leader?

It's marital troubles that pushes them there.
i understand your point, but this case is not just particular to those women who their husband cheat, and i am not trying to make them look odd with that choice, that is just the way most women behave especially in this country.

swiz123:
As a husband,you shouldn't care if she bows for her so called religious leaders,so long as she respects you and perform her marital duties with vigor.please op,do not spoil the minds of so many husbands who would come to read this thread.like you said,women are emotional so let us understand them.
His the like button all the ladies wink
I am not making this to make men feel depressed, i think most men know but there seems to be nothing we can do about it. The thing is that it is even those responsible wife that do it most, please don't get me wrong, Doing that to the religious leader doesn't mean she is not responsible.

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Family / Most Women Respect Spiritual Leaders Than Their Husband - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 10:22am On Jun 25, 2017
Many men wonder why women are the largest part of any religious gathering not just in Nigeria but all around the world.

The truth is that many of them are so emotional than their male counterpart, this is why it take most of them time to get over break-up.

Religion is a way of life which must be taken emotionally or you get distracted easily, this is why it is so hard to convince a woman in love.

Because of this sincere emotion and passion the women have towards religious service they tend to respect the religious leaders more than their husband.

How many women will you see kneeling down to greet or serve their husband?

Whereas, they can even enter into the ground to greet a religious leader to show the level of respect.

Some women will appear to their religious leaders as saint when they just engaged in a duel of weapons with their husband.

Most women become actress at the sound of the voice of their religious leaders
They assume their religious leader to be god that they worship, they view them as a completely perfect being forgetting that they are also human being and servant of which anyone can be called no matter the age or gender.

The funniest part is that women even respect the female religious leader who is of same gender with them than their husband.

This is one of the causes of marriage failure for some union.

We really need to change our orientation about the way we see some things.

I remember listening to one religious leader who said that you have given him poison when you respect him while you disrespect the man that tied the knot with you on the altar.

He said if you cannot kneel down for your man don't kneel for him as this is common among women.

Though we all pretend at different instances. Men too have their issues, like those who through their innocence you will have deduced they haven't known any woman even after 4 children.

The issue of discussion for this post is women, so we shouldn't delve. Please change this bias attitude.

Your husband is even more important than the religious leaders as they can aid your commitment to God faster than you can reach your spiritual leader.

Don't forget if they don't allow you there will be limit to the belief, don't let them to start cursing the religious leader when you do to them(the religious leader) what you lack with them(your husband) at home or even outside, God is a jealous God let alone human being His creation


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/06/most-women-respect-spiritual-leaders.html

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Romance / 7 Signs To Note When You Need To End A Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:32pm On Jun 24, 2017
So many relationships and its ups and downs, in fact, there is no relationship that will go smoothly like many will think it should.

In this post i will mention some of those signs you need to watch out for in order to know it's high time you ended the relationship.

1. When you agree to disagreement

When a day will never pass without the two of you having cause to argue which always end on a bad note as one is not ready to submit to the order, you really need to excuse yourself from such relationship.

I once said argument will make your relationship stronger, not when it happens everyday and not when no one submit ego to the other to reach a mutual conclusion as the conclusion determines the level of strength the argument will add to your relationship.

2. When your partner nags

Before you do anything your partner nags at you regularly, i think you need to respect yourself and give such person break because someone who loves you will not want you to be sad almost on a daily basis, he/she has lost the fire in the relationship with you, forcing it might cause more harm.

3. When they complain always

You were doing all perfectly before, but suddenly something new came up and your partner start making unnecessary complaints about what they want you to believe you are doing wrong while they are right, this itself is a clear evidence you are not wanted.

4. When they feel reluctant to help you like before
Before now they usually assist you to do stuffs probably when they come across them like buying things for you, helping you to get some works done and so on.

This only happens when the feelings is still much alive, when the feelings is dead they start giving you attitude, you don't have to force them to regain the feelings but you should rather let them go.

5. The moment your partner is not ready to apologize

You Shouldn't allow someone who is never apologetic to ruin your whole life for you.

There will be times you will need to apologize or get the apology from your lover, when they start feeling too big to apologize there is serious problem.

They think they are always right when it is obvious to the blind they are not. After you have spoken about it without positive response the door is still wide open.

6. When your partner start placing others above you

You are his/her lover and should be placed above any other person apart from his/her immediate family members.

once your partner gives priority to others continuously when you should get such priority he/she is showing you the way out already, you don't need more signs for you to know your time is up.

7. When your partner start giving excuses for not contacting you

In a serious relationship, you tell your partner almost everything which includes your movements and all.

So you know virtually every movement of your partner. When they stop contacting you all of a sudden and when you contact them either through call or social network and they start forming busy or giving you series of naughty excuses consecutively you need to show yourself the exit door honorably.

You can only know yourselves and modify yourselves for each other while courting and the biggest is to part ways when things are not going well or when you perceive the future holds nothing for the two of you together, this is one reason why you should keep your relationship on a low key in the beginning.

When you try to make it work when it is clear it can't you will just be chasing shadows of yourself and you will definitely regret ever loving someone dearly.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/06/7-signs-to-note-when-you-need-to-end.html

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Romance / Re: What Do You Think Are The Causes Of Break Ups In Today's Marriages? by bamisepeters(m): 12:50pm On Jun 24, 2017
This link of my post will help to identify some of the causes from lack of respect, denial of s3x pleasures, not knowing of spouse very well and the likes... http://www.bamisepeters..com/2015/01/8-causes-of-marriage-failure.html
Romance / Re: What Is Your Networth At The Moment? Check Mine by bamisepeters(m): 12:39pm On Jun 24, 2017
2dice01:
the richest nigga at the moment


50 kobo

But we rich in jesus christ
lovely!
Romance / Re: What Should I Do To This Girl?? by bamisepeters(m): 12:35pm On Jun 24, 2017
eezeribe:
She is fucking the so called best friend.
The solution is simple,forget about her and look for another girl.if she really has feelings for you,she might try to stick around out of jealousy,if you have the opportunity,just use and dump her while maintaining your new found girl...Simple.
Your conclusion isn't the best i think, it is completely erroneous to make such conclusion as what you are thinking might not be what it is. Some girls love to confide in guys with no string attached. Everything isn't about fu**ing you know.

@ maikbanj

My advise is this, stop contacting her through calls and social media. If she want you she will search for you desperately. While you stop contacting her start erasing her from your mind in case your reaction didn't move her a bit. Don't waste your time on something that wouldn't yield great result as there are many better fishes in the river. You can also follow some steps in this link... http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/06/5-ways-to-make-him-miss-you.html it will help too.

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Romance / You Look More Beautiful When You Find Your Better-half by bamisepeters(m): 9:28am On Jun 23, 2017
I knew when you are in love and your relationship is going as expected and even better than your expectations you look astonishingly beautiful and it will show all over you.

This was confirmed by someone i counseled when her relationship was going wrong, she yielded positively to the discussion we had and things turned around miraculously and i could see it all over her, this is my joy.

Why will you even stay in a relationship that you are getting nothing more than sadness each day from after several attempts to get things right?

What joy are you deriving in that relationship when the person you call your lover disregards you, when they feel they have seen all of you?

Your face can never hide how you feel about your relationship or even your marriage.

People will ask you when things are not fine and it is written all over you, they might not get the issue right but they will ask and only you or your confidant will know what you have told people about being stressed up or some other excuses were all formed when the truth is about your love life.

The aim of marriage is happiness even when we know that everyday will not be rosy, but when the two are in it together you will not even feel the thick cloud when it is staring at you.

If you are still courting and you are yet to point out a day without problem you really need to adjust, the possibility of having a wonderful and successful marriage is very slim.

Those that had lovely courting period are even struggling with their marriage let alone you that today the argument almost got you a slapped.

This is not just for ladies as there are some men that are being verbally abused by women just like some men don't just verbally abuse women but does physically too, they don't know the kind of words not to use for a someone you claim you love.

You might claim you love her while dating and accept the verbal abuse, believe me, when the familiarity is much you may not be able to bear it which might lead to serious issues in your marriage.

Courtship is the best time to try everything you can try to trim the partner to your taste and not the time for just sex escapades as this is the only area many of we youths of now a days lay emphasis on, we want to know if our partner can handle us well in bed.

When you are tired with the banging and all it will fall back to other departments of the relationship as you will get fed up with the love making soon than you expected, then, things you have been tolerating will become intolerable.

Do all in your capability to get the best out of your relationship, apart from you looking gorgeous you live longer when you are happy with your love life.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/06/you-look-more-beautiful-when-you-find.html
Romance / Re: You Are Not A Perfect Woman Neither Is He A Better Man by bamisepeters(m): 8:57am On Jun 23, 2017
TSOM:
Premised on the assumption that your assertions are true and not you playing to the gallery , you have earned my respect and readership.
Hopefully, other internet 'relationship know-it-alls' can truthfully answer the questions.
Keep being different. smiley
Thank you so much.
Romance / Re: You Are Not A Perfect Woman Neither Is He A Better Man by bamisepeters(m): 11:07pm On Jun 22, 2017
TSOM:
I'd be blunt. Screw subtlety!

The oddly ironic thing about you know-it-all, self-styled 'relationship doctors' is that aren't even in functional relationships.
You logon to peddle sanctimonious, mushy hogwash yet you're being sucked in by your vortex of lies and deceit -an alternate reality.

BamisePeters, can your swear on your life and on everything sacred on earth and in the universe that:

-You're in a relationship?
-You have never cheated on the woman you're currently in a relationship with physically and emotionally?
-You have never abused her physically and psychologically?
-You practise what you preach?
-You intend to go long-term with her as against ditching her for the next girl you fancy?

Answer each question individually. Not answering all is an answer in itself. smiley
you no need to vex reach this one now grin
I prefer blunt people sef.

I will answer you one by one.

I am in a relationship since 8 years ago and about to be sealed.

I have never cheated whatsoever, but as human, anything can happen in the future, i don't pray to do against what i preach though.

No abuse at all.

Not just practice, i read what i preach like am also a keen follower.

I am already in it for long and still want to do it more so as to be a good example instead of what many know people of my type( relationship writers/speakers) for.

Thanks for those questions, i am happy to answer.

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Romance / You Are Not A Perfect Woman Neither Is He A Better Man by bamisepeters(m): 7:43pm On Jun 22, 2017
It will always be a lie from the pit of wherever you get it from when you think you can get a perfect woman or a complete man.

Like i once said that don't look for Mr. Right, drag the Mr. Wrong to right, so also you shouldn't expect a woman that has all the attributes of a queen as the crown queens don't even have the completeness of a queen.

There is even limit to what you can correct in your partner as change is a personal decision when it comes to relationship.

And at times, it depends on how emotionally strong you are when you can say and be firm to say if your partner doesn't do what you want from them then you are no more interested, this will only work when you have an emotionally weak partner who thinks he or she cannot cope when you say you are off which you hardly get this days as everyone want to make their point count.

But most times your partner decides willingly to do what you want because of the feelings and not by being compelled
You cannot be perfect and neither can he be complete, there will always be a gallop somewhere.

The only fact is that we all can tolerate different things as tolerance is the key to successful relationship or marriage, this is the reason why there is a man for every woman and vice versa no matter how bad or good you might think you are.

With the spirit of tolerance in collaboration with the affection there is no limit to what you can accept from your spouse.

When you have it at the back of your mind that your lover is also a human who is bound to make mistakes, who is not expected to be complete as he or she isn't Jesus, there is no way you will be disappointed by their errors.

You cannot get a perfect partner, there will be something that makes him/her look odd at times which the world might not know about, they don't even need to know as we are the coverer of each other's secrets in a marriage and not just relationship.

Before you start looking for a perfect partner, you need to ask yourself if you are perfect, if not, then you need to really be beaten.

Most times we even think we are perfect but only our spouse can point out the center of dissatisfaction in us which we are not aware of.

Just learn to tolerate, you should have leant the strength and weaknesses of your partner while dating so as not to have issues with identifying them in your marriage as you cannot really condemn at that point.

Don't get me wrong, many lessons are in marriage we will need to adjust to but some tactical errors may not be corrected when relationship has turned to marriage, this is why you should have done the test running and panel beating while courting.

When you start looking for a complete perfect partner is when you become old and still in the street searching till all those imperfect ladies or men that are available have all been taken and you start visiting one spiritual man to another in search of the evil one using your life to play kite, then you will start praying to get just a child by any means.

You better learn fast now.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/06/you-are-not-perfect-woman-neither-is-he.html
Romance / Re: 5 Important Ways To Make Him Miss You - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 11:20am On Jun 22, 2017
samincredible44:
don't call and text him.op its too early to smoke na
lol
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Receives Over 1 Million Applicants by bamisepeters(m): 11:19am On Jun 22, 2017
IHEJIRIKAisBOKO:
You will be shocked to know that some applicants have their M.sc
not some o, it is more than some.

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Romance / 5 Important Ways To Make Him Miss You - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:54am On Jun 22, 2017
Here are some ways to make a guy miss you like never before.

1. Don't be too available

Don't be always available, even when you are less busy you need to pretend to be busy as making yourself available at all time will not make him miss you.

2. Stop calling nor texting him

He cannot miss you when you are the one that always push for the call or text.
Don't show to him so soon that you are madly in love, you need to pretend even though it wouldn't be easy, this will even make you know how important you are.

3. Dress to show off:

You need him to miss you then you must dress to impress, remember, men are moved most times by what they see.

4. Allow him to be curious about your secret:

There is no way you will let out all your secret to a man at the beginning and you will expect him to miss you.

Tell it out little by little and let him be anxious to hear another next time, he will definitely be anticipating that next time.

5. Be physical:

This is what i mean here, let your body do a little bit of the show for you.
Touch him, hold his hands for some periods while you are together, put your head on his shoulder, play with some part of him like his hair on his head, face, it shouldn't go beyond that so as not to reveal what he isn't meant to see at the very beginning.

He will always miss your absence with those touches.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/06/5-ways-to-make-him-miss-you.html
Family / Re: Is Underwear A Gift Married Woman Can Give A Married Man? by bamisepeters(m): 11:40pm On Jun 20, 2017
crackhaus:

It's strange the way you think everyone reading your topic would just believe an imaginary married woman gave an imaginary married man two pairs of boxer shorts as a gift from her trip.
i swear this is real, if i was told mayb i wouldn't believe too, i never thought of such topic sef till i saw it on sunday after church service and the man was asking me what sort of gift that was.
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect A Real Man by bamisepeters(m): 11:37pm On Jun 20, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
oh well, its in my nature to be gentle, sweet and reserved...no matter how many heartbreaks, I still respect and treat women with love and respect.
lovely!

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Family / Re: Is Underwear A Gift Married Woman Can Give A Married Man? by bamisepeters(m): 11:18pm On Jun 20, 2017
jashar:



I can't even give a single guy underwear sef not to talk of married.... na wa
it's strange the ways some people think now.
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect A Real Man by bamisepeters(m): 11:16pm On Jun 20, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
but sometimes when we behave like this, some women take us for granted and deceive us due to our gentle nature.
but i don't see that as a valid reason to go wild. It is just like saying one should not use a knife again since it is sharp and can cut someone. Do your part is the rule #myopinion
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect A Real Man by bamisepeters(m): 11:14pm On Jun 20, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
do u doubt it?
neh!

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Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect A Real Man by bamisepeters(m): 10:37pm On Jun 20, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
that's just me smiley
lol, see thief grin
Romance / Reasons Why You Must Respect A Real Man by bamisepeters(m): 8:45pm On Jun 20, 2017
This post is dedicated to all real men, that is, those that respects their woman and not the woman beaters of this world.

Though it is not easy to tolerate women during their off days and this is one of the major reasons why the real men must be applauded.

Real men do all they can to make sure their woman and their kids get the best out of life which takes a real women to understand even when the man fails.

Real men assist their wives with house chores but goes outside bragging to others he can never sweep the floor when he as even washed undies.

Not that those that don't help with house chores are not responsible, you can't blame them, they were not thought by the woman that suppose to do that so, another woman is paying for that, but they will sure have where they are good at.

After they have done what the world may call inappropriate secretly they will come out to protect their woman so that the world will not term her "bad woman".

The pregnancy stage is the worst of all, what some men does for their wife is so incredible that makes the woman feel less pain.

Real men prepares surprise breakfast, assist the woman while in the kitchen, wakes up every hour to protect mother and child, buy surprise gifts and fix impromptu outing/shopping just for two all in the name of making the woman happy.

Not only women feel the pains associated with the menstrual/pregnancy period, real men does too and this is why the real men do all they can to make the woman feel less pain during those periods.

Ask those without their man during these periods and you will know the difference, then, you will know how to respect your man every time.

And when you see some mumu mumu things some men does to make their baby sleeps, then you will have given them a round of applause before you realize that if they don't do it, no one else will.

If you respect your man you will enjoy him if he is the real type.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2016/06/reasons-why-you-must-respect-real-man.html
Romance / Re: How To End A Relationship In A Mature Way - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:44pm On Jun 20, 2017
Ruggedfitness:


The Thank you at the end seems like you were saying end of discussion and you didn't look out when I said I wanted to know more about your blog.

apologies, i am a customer service representative i am used to that. I sent you a mail already, i didn't mean an end because i know you have reason for asking, sincere apologies once more boss.
Family / Re: Is Underwear A Gift Married Woman Can Give A Married Man? by bamisepeters(m): 9:33am On Jun 20, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
Are you asking for advice or giving us advice
the post is my opinion you are more than free to add yours.
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect Any Woman - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 9:31am On Jun 20, 2017
Papiikush:
Respect any woman?
Nigga not all women deserve respect. Respect is earned...Hoes don't...
oga o
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Must Respect Any Woman - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 9:31am On Jun 20, 2017
izzou:
grin

This post was almost making sense,and then it suddenly stopped making sense
wjere did it stop making sense na?

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