Fabulouzjoseph: Life itself is not fair. Suffering and pain is part of human existence.
You are in a dilema any action you take now you will still end up hurting someone.
If you report: you are going to put your co-workers and their family in trouble, they will lose their job and they will also go to jail if not for life.
If you choose not to report you will be harming the md and she might lose her business.
either ways you are going to hurt people. And as such i will advice you to focus on yourself and mind your business.
Do you realize that it is actually his business to report them to his employer? Plus he doesn't owe them any loyalty for God sake
Cutezt: The residents of Hwolshe community have come out en mass to register their displeasure on the recent killing of one of their own, 20-year-old Rinji Peter Bala alias Bobo, who was shot by men of the Operation Safe Haven in the state.
The residents came out bearing placards with inscriptions declaring that Rinji was never a thief. Speaking to an uncle of the deceased, who spoke on behalf of the father who declined speaking over the death of his only Son, said the family has been sad and the atmosphere has been gloomy.
Some of the residents who witnessed the incident shared the story.
We at Swagalicious Flikz sympathize with the family.
scoundrel: It's a week later. Which advice did you take and how have the results turned out so far?
I'm taking it easy for now, I'm simply doing the Superman exercise, free squats, reverse abdominal curls, straight-leg kick backs. They are all very effective for lower back pain relief, I do each of these exercises everyday including push-ups and I feel great . I won't be in a hurry to start using weights (I'm not really ready for the risk) but I intend to add jugging to my list too.
sexylassie2: Most men like you will complain if she doesn't give you sex after taking your money.
I can say that you are confused.
My point exactly! Why would you ask someone for money when you have no means of paying them back? And why must you wait for someone to show interest in you B4 you start billing them? Isn't that prostitution? I don't think anyone should value a woman that needs money to be with him, because no matter how much money you have, the fact remains that any id!ot with money can easily take her any day from you.
Eyeness: I do not appreciate the language you use on this thread @the bolded. Kindly desist from such
On to the topic. I understand that we have different opinions, But a man spending on you is not the same as purchasing you. If a husband spends on his household, is he purchasing them?
The thing is this. A man will spend money where he sees value, be it a business venture or his PS4. If he is spending money on you, regardless of motive, you are of value to him at that time. If men are not spending on you khia, then ask yourself why they don't see you as valuable?
If a man sees a person he is spending on as property, that's because he has a twisted orientation, not because you are a bad person or you are not valuable. That he spends on you is not a license to treat you badly or tolerate bad behavior from him.
If all a woman can offer in return for Money is her body, then she's a whor'e .. no vex dear! it's a simple something.
Goddys: she is a good girl from the little I know about her. Her phone has been having problem for a long while and I decided to buy her a new phone on my own without her even asking.
Her salary can sustain her average lifestyle but she cant afford such phone on her own.
Hmm. You try sha, but saying that you don't spend on a girl is far from the truth.
Goddys: I don't spend a dime on my gf unless I want to buy her a gift willingly. Last Xmas I bought a phone of 60k for her and haven't spent a dime on her from then till now.
She must have her own thing. How can men be paying bills of a woman in the name of relationship, not even marriage?
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� You bought a phone of 60k.. that's 2 month salary for most people
SLAP44: Actually, it's your house that started burning first since 1973 when they started drilling oil in Bayelsa, desecrating sacred forests, polluting the lands and waters and making the people poor and sick.
You will be seen as a wayward man to start quenching your neighbor's house fire of 2018 when your kids are roasting in your own house fire since 1972 !
I think he is trying to protect his house too because they are predominantly Christians in "South-south" & remember, a stitch in time saves nine
Dude.. if she's a good woman and she is worth every sacrifice, I think this is the time you must to step up and take the bullet for her. If you should tell anyone that she is HIV positive and you are not, they'll Stigmatize her for life, why not tell mum that you are also with the Virus, and don't give her the impression that you got it from her.. Being with her is a tough decision, and you need to make sure you are willing to take thay step
fulaniHERDSman: I love challenges and you've just challenged me with charity for this lads. This I will also initiate the process once I rap my head around the means of reaching them directly. Pls it's not a debate, but something tells me we should compassionately take ownership of this existing stranded children while frowning at the system that made them unfortunate in the first place. Peace!
Quit talking nonsense! Fulani Herdsman you are one of them.. These kids have parents or uncles.. but they sent them to beg so that they can afford an education to become great extremists that will later murder their benefactors.. nonsense.
beeblack: You people brought virus to this country unknowingly, and started causing problem to Almajiris.
Why can't u make shelter and provide food for them during the lock down?
Dude why do you think they don't have relations.. you guys probably think they are sending them to an evil Forest.. they need someone to help them maintain a good hygiene (these are Little kids! you know).
fulaniHERDSman: Why cause grief for this innocent minors Did they bring themselves into this world Why make it seem they are the originators of COVID19 Why are they treated without concideration of any atom of human rights.
MY LAWYERS WILL BE GETTING THE BRIEF TO PROCEED ON THE STOPPAGE OF THIS HUMAN RIGHT ABUSES OF THIS INNOCENT HELPLESS CHILDREN BY GOVERNMENTS.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!
Because these almajiris are not old enough to take care of themselves and maintain good hygiene. They should be under the control of their guardians .. they are not "orphans" remember
ignosi: please beard gang, i have the castor oil... i want to get hair cream with with egbo but don't knw where to get the egbo... do the abokis have it? after getting all that do i mix the hair cream and oil together or on difrerent occassion?
Lleigh: Since I don't know what work outs you do, there is a possibility that you have weak glutes..
If one all the back, glutes, hamstrings are not in sync one could be over compensating for the other.
I usually do squats with barbell on my shoulders.. I always knew that something is weak somewhere, I guess it's the glutes.. but what can I do about it pls?
Pentolution: in addition to lower back pain, does your friend have excessive hunger and cravings. stomach bloating, extreme weakness. loss of strength when exercising?
The person in question is me.. & I don't really have all these symptoms. Just the waist pain
Hello friends, I need your help with this issue .. I'm the type that likes working out a lot, coz it makes me feel and look good & I'm quite addicted to it. But the problem now is that, I can't really do a full body workout without experiencing lower back pain, I need to develop a good stamina, but whenever I engage in a little leg workout, I usually end up with severe waist pain.. I think it may be due to the fact that I have a little Pile (haemorrhoid). I don't think I can totally cure this Pile but what I need now is how to live a normal life.. please! How can I do leg workout without developing lower back pain
spiceadole: I was 26 and not married. My mum repeatedly embarrassed me with:
-You are a source of shame to me. -All my mates have sons-in-law and grandchildren. -Menopause is approaching.Its a pity -Hope you are not a lesbian. -Are you into prostitution that you have refused to marry? -Your mates post pictures of themselves with their husbands and children on Facebook & WhatsApp.Where is your own? You are still posting single pictures.
And so many hurtful statements.
I was struggling in my final year in medical school. But she was more interested in me getting married.
I got married 2 years after during my housemanship.
Our relationship has been kinda strained..especially after I relocated to UK.
I only just send her money...We don't talk much.
I have 2 kids now..Her grandchildren. I love my mum.I miss her though but I haven't forgotten.
We all have different ideas of how messages should be passed across.. I believe that's the best way she knew how to.. so, you can't really blame people for how they were brought up, u just have to understand them coz, the most important thing is that she had your best interest at heart