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They too want Amnesty from Government. How many cultist abi militant do we have in Nigeria self.

uzolexis:
So many children on this forum I swear. Is it only guys that need to protect themselves from STDs or is it only guys that like sex. Newsflash, girls like sex too and we need to protect ourselves as well, afterall we are the ones that suffer the consequences of unsafe sex most with unwanted pregnancy.

Babe I get u but u need to understand me too. Peoples thinking varies that's what someone I know saw in her girlfriend bag n broke up with her that she is a prostitute. When he told me, I said going to check a womans bag is a trash n what's wrong with what u saw if its not for female she wouldn't buy it but that ends d relationship till date.

moscobabs:
Just resumed my new office last week o.

My first time of working with White man sa (Lebanese) , The man is free and humble in fact everybody loves him, among other Lebanese my Boss is jovial, free and hardworking man.

He has worked in 5 African countries so he understands Africa and her culture very well.

The real story....

I resumed very early this morning and I decided to wait in front of office before I start today's activities when I saw my boss coming down from his Truck carrying his bag , as a young Yoruba man that comes from good background ..lol So I ran to him and say Good morning sir (bend my head) and I stretch my hand to collect his bag.

The man who has never disrespect me like that before shouted on me!!

Who owns the bag? he asked

repeat!!!! who owns the bag moscobabs?

Me: You sir!!!! I replied..

if it's me "why should u collect it from me?

Me: I just wanted to help u sir.

Y? ..... I couldn't respond .

I say why? ...meet me in office now!!!! he commanded .

We entered his office and he sat me down

moscobabs, You were employed as so so so in this company not to carry bag, the bag belongs to me and I must carry it, also you always bend whenever you greet me...please its not necessary, in fact its not official, I just opportune to be your boss, you are married as I , You are graduate although you are younger than me but you have to attach respect to yourself.

I was like " ki la gbe, ki la ju" but I replied him by saying ....

Sir, I am african we have cultures and Traditions and parts of these is what I did, We respect our elders and seniors that's why we bend or prostrate while greeting and we do help them carry their loads even if we carry ours too.

And he responded with smiles...No problem But when next you greet me in such an embarrassing way or try to collect my bag I won't think twice before I sack you!!!

I beg o Is anything wrong in what I did?

Is there any other reason for his reaction?

The man just dey look me somehow since morning

Nothing wrong with what u did but he doesn't want that so u need to stop. A igbo man also said something close to that the first time I greeted him n bend that he is not God. I no those people that lack good culture would say trash but leave dem they r meant to criticize other people orientation when they don't have a good one. While I was growing up. U greet elderly people without prostrating u get a slap from my mother either d person is igbo, yoruba or hausas.

Negative language

For me as a guy its not ideal. Saying a girl should walk with condoms is dsame has u visiting a girl n she touches u fix a condom trying to have sex with a guy what would u call her at d end of the day especially guys that can say trash after they ve had their way. Who is making love with who. In most cases 85% of girls r not always putting sex in mind when they visit guys so why shud she come with condom. If u say that its cool then how would u feel if u find that in your gf bag for d first time. To ladies how would u feel if u want to bring out offering n it drops in d church or seeing your younger ones playing with it after taking it from your bag saying its a big balloon

That would be an arrangement among the student. Only God knows how long they would have been planing that and also kept the pregnant girl in the hostel. Till the execution day. Those girls r smarter than their age.

M not using iphone but I believe it. Some girls love for phone is annoying. When somebody gave me phone to charge n dis lady saw it. I was begging her to stop pressing drop the phone since it doesn't belong to me. Dis babe dragged with me, talk trash, waited till d owner came n started asking for his name, phone number with a sexy voice while telling the guy her birthday date. Since dat day I dislike d girl.

God na u I put my hope on.

I think they had sex voluntarily they shouldn't take it that far. I was wondering if his man hood transformed to knife after taking the man power.

Barigaboy:
he make sense 08135044474

If u go fit help me send d pix ion whatsapp I will be grateful.

Dfinex:
it's ur type of guy that make good ladies become heartless and treacherous towards men.....so annoying! !!

don't be annoyed with dat all guys aint dsame.

Adesolomon2014:
Abeg, no mind d pic wey i post jhawe, Na sleep of hand

he make sense 08135044474

Adesolomon2014:
Abeg, no mind d pic wey i post jhawe,
Na sleep of hand

hahaha please send me d pix abeg I can't save it. Abeg tru watsapp God bless.

This for ladies so m just reading ladies comments

Nigeria Government is the cause of this one. I pray Buhari will be able to do something about this. Whenever election is close, they would start using some area boys n giving them weapons which would not be collected after election. Whenever they r arrested for several killings and taken to sars or Kirikiri n or show them in crime fighter u will think that that is their end. U will wake up the following day seeing them smoking n drinking on the street. D Lagos notorious criminal u guys were celebrating on d last time d news of his apprehension was posted on Nairaland. I saw him yesterday well dress n looking fresh without a spot. He came around to let his opponent no that he is back but still relaxing.

Funfair001:
Hello Nlanders, I need mature advice please. I'm a 29years old man....I dropped out of University for business and I'm making stable income but now, I want to go back to school (abroad) which I have started my admission processing. Next year, I will be 30years old and some guys are advising me to get married since I have the money to take care of my family and my studies.

I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Thank you all

If u think u r fit to get marry pls do but don't do it because your friend said so. Do it because u r married.

We need to be careful here. Its a picture not a video. U might be getting the whole scene wrong. A picture can express a the opposite of what we r seeing but papers needs to make money.

ICQuinn:
Some women do pray for that.....fyi, I don't give a fvck what society thinks of me, it's my life not theirs

well time will teach u more. I said funny things too sometimes back but as we grow we learn. Snd me your whatsapp number dis is mine 08135044474 let's chat more. For real u will not understand me now but later u will no that having a man u love is d key not all those not going to lab to get male sperm that u don't no if d donor is ss or somethings else.

May his soul rest in peace.

ICQuinn:
A woman can have her own children through artificial insemination by a sperm donor gotten by someone or in a sperm bank

Dear which woman is praying for that. Remember this Africa where a woman may not be respected if u don't have a man. If a woman is physically fit, attractive enough I think things should be done d way normal people do it no biological or using a woman for laboratory test n practical before she concieve. A normal woman must have a man n learn to respect in n let him perform his duty that's d only thing I no that is normal.

Simplicity no security. Kidnappers nor dey there?

Bad belle of different colours and orientation. Blowing grammar in all forms. Whatever u like say Buhari is the man. Abeg quote me if d tin pain u. Hahahahahaha Na Hiskaba

That's y we r in recession now.

Lol their Hero is getting close to the cell.

freesinzu:
SAVE IT NW, NA SAVE ME SELF SAVE AM FOR NAIRA LAND

that's the problem am having my phone can't save nairaland pictures. If u can send me dis one I would be grateful abeg.

ICQuinn:
21

thanks for the reply dear I knew u r between 18 n 21. That's how u should reason at that level but I would like u to ask a lady of 28 above on what they face at that level. That's the age where ladies wonders if they aren't gonna stay single throughout their entire live. I am telling u what I no. At that age u love anybody unconditional n asking them if they really wanna marry u on the 2nd day meeting them cos at that stage guys would lie to u come n go. Some tell u they want u to be their girlfriend y u reply them that u have pass that level n all u want is marriage. My question is this as u have stated before do pray to adopt child not having your own, letting doctors put make sperm into your body or do all those things u mentioned before when u r a complete beautiful n attractive woman?

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Guy let me lecture u. Na pikin wey one no dey ask. Each time u fall in love too much for a girl she sees it as an opportunity to raid u n start loving n giving a guy who is not up to your level money. This lecture is for all guys.
1. Never attract a girl with cash
2. Don't be too nice spending too much n sending recharge card u r spoiling her n she wouldn't be able to cope when u don't have. Eg Am expecting my current girlfriend to think that am stingy but she has never for once said that cos I don't spend money for her at all. I only sent her recharge card once lol n I never let her no what I have yet but very soon she will no that I am not stingy if she doesn't no people will tell her.
3. No let a girl get use to u just going to her house without her visiting u too. If my babe want to see me I tell her am at home. Gone r those days I will be going there 2 4 7 n she start asking me what did I bring. " Abeg stop coming with empty hand o".
4. A girl who loves u will never turn u to ATM cause she never wanna loose u.
5. If u start spending cash for a lady from d start n she loves u for that, withdrawing the cash is withdrawing her love.

ADVICE
Test her with this if she really love u.
1. Stop going to her house n don't call her tell her that your Boko Haram is sick n tell dsame to your family pretending so that if they see her they wud feel she is visiting u because your Boko Sick. If she no call u or visit u then she no like u.
2. Keep gaps between your visits.
Ladies no dey too like good boys sometimes na him make some area boys girlfriend fine pass omo mummy girlfriend.
3. Sometimes if she ask tell her u don't have even if u have but rate the importance of what she want to use it for.

Nice one bro but Nigerians believe in finishing the fuel instead of thinking of how to invibe this idea into the society by encouraging u n allowing u to make sum of this for sale which will reduce d consumption of fuel.

wite111:
Nigerian army/Buhari/APC govt is a scam.U are so quick to show us the terrorists u arrested,When army kill terrorists u flood internet with the pictures.May I ask army: why didnt they release photos of the soldiers killed by terrorists last week?U guys are doing us the more u look the less u see

PDP people don start again o. Children of their hero. Why r u complaining about the government when u cannot vex n leave d country. Abi u r one of those supplier of Boko Haram who ran into d forest? Go and handover yourself now n stop complaining.

ItsQuinn:
Who needs a husband when there's freedom to date whoever we wish till thy kingdom come .....we can get children through artificial insemination, gotten from a sperm donor or a sperm bank....or we can just adopt, there are millions of children in the orphanage that would love to have a parent .....problem solved!

Sorry how old are u?

This guy fall guys hand o. For dis guy to perform dis kind of act he is mentally unstable. How will I advice a girl to marry a guy who treck for 19days abi how many. I no fit douam even make d girl be kim Kadeshian. What he forgot is that u don't have to stress yourself over what will be yours. Ladies r very simple n plain they don't need all dis. Once they like u or love u. If u r stressing yourself too much u might kill d feelings they have for u. If u hold egg too tight because u don't want it to fall. U might be the one to break it. Agbaje u Bleep up, just come home come n collect your disownment letter. U hav disgrace yourself, your friends.

freesinzu:
Wetin dis guy do pain me o, as e com be lagosian na him pain me pass, after all he did m, the girl is still puting him on doubt.

hahahahaha please friend help me sent that image. When God want to save u to my whatsapp number (08135044474) God bless u. Lol d boi na malu.