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For me since u used d word are it means your father n mother. Please don't go against their will. My friend almost settle down with a pregnant lady. Its becos of her parent refusal n my advice that stop him just d way m advising u now. It was after a month we found out that her tommy was bigger. She had been pregnant for her ex after they broke up. Her ex take her home for on protected sex whenever they meet on d road n she never refused for once n she was my friends fiancee. Our parent see beyond us. Please obey your parent now. U will surely thank them later. Forget abt d love, time u shared, her beauty n d promise u guys has made. Their r always better ladies n must u disobey your parent because of a girl. And do u think they wud allow u make mistakes.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

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I love this post and I have answers to your question. There are many reasons for those attitude.
1. We all no that women jealous each other
2. Some of our mothers feels that this lady would be controlling us.
3. They also feel that d money u r to give to them u will be spending it on d lady.
4. When she looks good, they feel is your money she lavishing.
5. When u r broke they feel she has suck u dry.
6.Finally, they don't want any lady to treat us d way they treated our father.

Solution
1. Dont praise your woman in her presence make she nuh think say u don eat vegetable.
2. Let them know that she comes from a rich background.
3. Don't ever tell them about any money transaction between u n your wife.
4 Don't ever report your wife to her.
5. Don't give her money in d presence of your mom n Don't give your mom money in her presence
7. Don't keep your mom n your wife together for too long dem go soon fight.
8. Don't be bringing your family matter into any discussion.
9. Put a long distance between dem I mean don't let dem see regularly dem no go disrespect each other.
10. Don't bring your mom to your house. If u do u r giving her opportunity to see how your wife operate which she will never like.
11. Are u aware that even your father get tolerance na him make am dey with your mama n him no wetin your mama fit do n will always tell your mama say "please leave them let them leave them n let them live their lives. She will say mo ti gbo ko si wahala. She will not beable to sleep that night. Thank God she finally sleep and started dreaming that your wife stab u in d dream. D following morning she is at your place not answering your wife greetings n telling u to drink water from a pastor n also give u small thing to dey tie for your waist Lol. Na wao

To all ladies
Some of u always pray for your fiancee mother to be dead n your arrival. Same d fiancee of your younger brother would wish your mom.
Note: all mothers are not dsame n if they r dsame. Atleast if she didn't bring up your fiancee up in d right way how would u fall in love with him. If u r d 1 wud u watch a woman to ruin d child u brought up for 30 something years? Access yourself tolerance is d key. If u can tolerate her then u can tolerate anybody in d world n u r a good wife. No matter how bad your mother inlaw shows heartred to u she knows u r a gud wife becos u can tolerate her n your husband will be proud of u. Later she wud learn to love u becos u loved her.

Na acting joor. U no see say d tin be like when dem say action.

Sai baba me I no like dis 1 wey nna dey do o. Nobody deserve any award now. Dis is a critical period. And dat 1 wey dem dey call there Hero wey no get idea of leadership. He just come spoil Nigeria with him wife commot n na Obasanjo cause dis nonsense. Jega God bless u jare

He who knows how to waste people's resources will make d people suffer in d dry session. Dis is a lesson when a leader is wasting resources we will always remember dis period. Nigeria resources had been wasted n share over d years. Dis is d result.

Wow, when I dey small I like dis method. He dey make pikin belle food Lol. Manual feeding

When Human no be chicken una go dey kidnap. Clap for yourself your father don open business centre for u as d only criminal among his children. Na only u yor papa born.

A good father or mother always want their child to have what they never had. 2 face is a good Musician well know all over d world but d challenge he had was knowing how to play a musical instrument. Sometimes back he was learning how to play d keyboard but m sure he would have stop cos Musical instrument is not easy to learn. Here we have his son making up by playing one of d most difficult Musical instrument. Wow that's a nyc one. Idibia na great family.

Wow d lady is brilliant plus u r so careless, meant business na

By the comment of our Females here we can guess those who r still virgin n those who r not.
I saw a comment like "Its easy"

You gat my respect for life lol

OmoAjowa7:
I don't think you are aware of the fact that Indians see all Nigerians in India as Igbos. I just discovered this recently

They even think all our females are there for prostitution. A lot of the so-called "Hardworking" Traders
are actually doing drugs and it's like that in Bangkok, SA, China

In SA, they loathe our greenwhitegreen ass because they think we are all involved in the drug parol

Are u serious dis my first time of seeing dis n your points r strong. I didn't no that I thought people wa just criticizing them. Na wao

May there soul rest in peace.

This is the couple to spoiled Nigeria n Milk us dry. There wastage of resources n their reckless spending is what Nigeria is suffering now. May God help us. We made a mistake out of pity that he had suffered n he wud know what Nigeria need not knowing that he has nothing to offer. Now patient who always take a lead during his tenure now walks behind him meaning he wasn't using his sense when he was in power. Now he is using is sense.

I don't know y? As a Yoruba guy I dislike those who r too tribalistic. Nigerians were caught in India u r saying they r Ndigbos. Fly to India n tell them that they r not Nigerian n they r indigbos. Do u need to be told that those guys r yahoo boys who start from Nigeria n travel oversea to continue the act n they never change. All there thought is always how dupe somebody n go with there money n valuable things. When u see yahoo boys in Lagos they r unite that is d Igbo among d yoruba that will be speaking more fluently than d yoruba n no tribal issue. We r all Nigerians. Some country citizens too perform dis same act most time they cover it up. If u make more research some of d indians will be d one supporting those Nigerians.

Well, u have typed something reasonable. I will like to add mine. Well I feel God is not partial. If we say God is using sickness to draw some people it might be like God is selective. And nobody is above sickness. Either d believer or unbeliever even animals falls sick. Causes of sickness might be tru unpleasant things we see, eat n bites from other animals with venom. God loves and want everybody. If sickness bring u close to God gud, if accident bring u close to God gud, if dreams brings u close to God gud n if u just decide to follow God without any of this great. Some people wen they r sick or broke they remember God once d problem is solved they go back into d world. Some people even preach n they don't follow d word. They r just doing it to please d church by getting more members. So God is free with every1 do what u like. The end time is here. God as giving us all we need. I no some people will say no but do u have eyes, nose, mouth, legs, hands, u can eat, talk n your 2 kidneys r still functioning.

Some people can comment trash? Do u expect her to be wearing male clothe or Agbada or becos she has a child she shud be dressing like SU. She is an artiste. When I go for shows there is a way I dress. And I observe that 1 of those things that moves your fans before your performance is your dressing. If u dress like SU for a show not arranged for church then u r boring from d start n fans might start calling u sister faith. I remember Dekunle Fugi first performance in Easter Fiester. He was shelled immediate when coming on stage. Until he started d song Mo like Jesu gan before people stopped n listened to him. What was d cos? 1. His stage name n his dressing

Though there is recession but dis Buhari period top criminals r caught on daily basis, people who engage in money laundering, Boko Haram is becoming past tense.

How normal human being go commot for house say him 1 go kill soldiers. Na wao those wey dey give dem lever go soon deny dem.

Lol, too much English becos dis was posted. If its 1 on 1 contact in d room with cossy, we nuh go here anything o. Only that for ladies n guys who appreciate being decent wouldn't like d post n body revealing tactics. She marketing.

This would caution people others. Sparing dem always make dem restrategize and be tougher.

Can't really say anything now since I wasn't there? U may be right n being embarrass but sometimes police too might have a point. So I don't no who to side but sorry hope u r getting better.

Wetin make we do? Na una dey use power dey share d gala share d boost. When una quarrel small una go come dey expose una self n start saying let us. Shey I go leave my house na go Tinubu house, tell am say us one collect d properties him acquire. All of una be dsame so leave us out. Na God go judge d case of d person wey use teeth share meet. God judgement wen time reach na God go send death. By den let's c weather una go carry d property go.

He was saying the truth. This past leaders has shared n sucked Nigeria dry waiting to see how Buhari will fix d country with nothing n that's what they r still paying for.

Ma shey je kokoro buburu nni

For me, I will work on the Agricultural sector. To ensure food is affordable to a common man.

I will bring down d cost of house rent and also eliminate agency n agreement payment.

I will also create a kind of special security for life safety n property like 911

I will ensure no one moles our ladies both on rape, beating even insulting dem might lead to being in d police custody.

I will pack all agberos n provide dem a better job.

Everybody must have a family farm no matter how small.


Security wud be so that u can walk to anywhere at night.

I will open lines for citizens complain.
Free education
We will help u if u need cash for business.
N10000 each for each Nairalanders n yearly jamz

She follow join spoil Jona administration. Do we say Jona wasn't aware of all this. Anything that touch d nose will soon touch d eyes.

Nice write up but its depends on d type of organisation. Sometimes when one follows all dis that person may be taken for granted. I believe in face your work n do it well. I remember when my second Boss came to tell me that I should enter bus somewhere to make photocopy. I can't lie to u. I told her to send d messenger cos I had to finish d job on d system before d time I was giving by d first Boss n she told me sorry. Ever since then she never tried that, she respect me more n sometimes at free time she brings discussions. I answer n make sure I don't leave my job. There r somethings u shud not take now if u can't take it another day

EFCC is very active now n I love it. This is payback period for those who use Jona tenure to still money because JEG was to calm. He doesn't understand that those people would only spoil his name. And I pray SAI baba will use those policy that will bring us out of recession. He needs to make peace also with d Naija Delta Militant. They weren't bombing pipelines for bombing sake they want dialogue not like boko who was killing for no reason. Nigeria will be great again. Buhari is working n Jona too did his best.

That's tru sha militants r d cos of d recession but d Govt wud hav atleast dialogue before it got worse. People of that area shud benefit from d resources not d side effect. We need to they reason some matter na.

Lol but how does that make sense? It doesn't na. Its not reasonable.

U over make sense. All d point r intact
If u r d type who feels no man can cheat on u then u r already in big soup becos d day it happened u will develop heart attack. So its good to assume it before it comes to b on a safer side. Yor man may not cheat all.

Having your own money by getting something to do gives u security.

Happy Birthday BOSS