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Christianity Etc › Re: Fr Paul Obayi "Okunerere" Announces He Is Leaving The Catholic Church by BarrElChapo(m): 9:23am On Oct 15, 2023
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Sports › Re: Sheikh Jassim Withdraws Bid To Buy Manchester United. by BarrElChapo(m): 11:07pm On Oct 14, 2023
I really wish I wasn't supporting man utd. We won't achieve anything with this Glazer - Ratcliffe combo.
Christianity Etc › Re: Peter Ebhota Udo Dies Of Hypertension 22 Months After Freedom From Kidnappers by BarrElChapo(m): 2:26pm On Oct 14, 2023
Rest in peace Padre
Family › Re: Married As A Virgin, Married For Love Yet..... by BarrElChapo(m):
preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.

My whole world is crumbling.
I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations.

I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades.

While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much.

Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken.

He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man.

Now my regrets...
* The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19.

He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.

I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.

I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.

Now our rent is due, no money.
I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these.

When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now.
I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.

Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio
After three kids you're still telling us that your married as a Virgin 🤔 and that you married for love, please drop that mentality first cos it's stale.

The effects of Covid-19 in terms of people not being motivated is being felt worldwide, it's not as if it's an excuse for your husband but so you know what's he's going through is not isolated.

Personally I think you should talk to him, talk not a shouting fit, the rent is due and bills are piling up, what's his plans ?

Sometimes separation can be a jolt for some persons, sometimes not but yeah, If you can move to your parents for some time that won't be a bad idea, so as not to resent him and then affect your mental health too.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Pulls FCT Out Of TSA by BarrElChapo(m): 6:01pm On Oct 13, 2023
Terillah:
please guys, please I've tried to get little help here to no avail, please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on  sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. Almighty God bless you

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My name is Angela. Almighty God bless you and your family
Scammer
Romance › Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding To Fiance After Discovering He Slept With Multiple Men by BarrElChapo(m): 1:23pm On Oct 13, 2023
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Politics › Re: Go After Criminals In Lagos, Ogun - Army Chief Lagbaja Charges Soldiers by BarrElChapo(m): 11:20am On Oct 13, 2023
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Foreign Affairs › Re: President Bukele Of El Salvador Has Deployed 4000 Soldiers To Three Communities by BarrElChapo(m): 10:04am On Oct 13, 2023
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Politics › Re: Suspended AGF Ahmed Idris Signed ₦26tn Financial Statement – Audit Report by BarrElChapo(m): 9:40am On Oct 13, 2023
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Politics › Re: Alex Otti Flags Off Port Harcourt-Aba Road Reconstruction (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:38am On Oct 13, 2023
WhatchDoGG:
Uncle they CECCEC do quality jobs true but can't lace JB's shoes,They are not in the same bracket
That's not true bros, if you're in Lagos, ask anybody who lives in the orile axis which was better the portion J.B. built or the one that CECCEC built.
Politics › Re: Alex Otti Flags Off Port Harcourt-Aba Road Reconstruction (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m):
ottersberger:
The question you should have asked is: What happened to the thousands of civil and mechanical engineers our universities have produced and continue to produce.

Why do we still depend on expatriates to do basic engineering projects such as road design and construction in 2023?.

These are some of the questions you should have asked.
Well I'm from Anambra state and I remember that in the days of Ngige as governor he used RCC strictly for road construction, most of those roads are still in perfect conditions till today eg. Amaubia-Nibo-Mbaukwu road but when Peter Obi became governor he tried to patronize local coys.

Inter Bau Construction Co. whose CEO is from Awka Etiti was awarded Ichida-Awka Etiti road and in one year the road washed away like literally.

In Awka town he patronized Pa Chuks Construction Co., Akiota works etc etc most of those roads did not outlive his administration.

When he wanted to then do the Federal road IDC constructed some part of the road Enugu-Onitsha federal road and some drivers of the road have said it's not too safe driving during rainy season cos it can be slippery but they did a fairly good job but since then IDC has not done another road to my knowledge in Nigeria.

In the Enugu part of Enugu-Onitsha federal road, Niger Cat was first awarded the road, then another construction company, these spanned years oo not until it was recently awarded to RCC, who are now delivering the job, now if you compare what RCC did to what IDC did you'd wish that the Anambra part was undone to be honest.

In Enugu metropolis when Sullivan wanted to rearrange the state he used mostly Setraco and Arab Contractors for most of the road even though I'm aware he used Master Holdings and all of those roads are still holding up today.

In Imo state, I once watched a live broadcast of former governor Rochas berating contractors who obviously were indigenous coys that were awarded road construction but had either not done or delivered as at when due, where are those roads now.

At the heart of these corruption is but at least these foreign coys have a name to protect so they won't want to just do anything or take any amount of money for a job for the sake of it.
Politics › Re: Alex Otti Flags Off Port Harcourt-Aba Road Reconstruction (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:08am On Oct 13, 2023
saintkeppy:
Yeah, true.

Senator Godswill Akpabio used CCECC to dualize a road with streetlights in Uyo &it's one of the best in the city, Top-Notch quality.
Cc. Dfrost
Politics › Re: Alex Otti Flags Off Port Harcourt-Aba Road Reconstruction (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:05am On Oct 13, 2023
Jcomtrader:
Ccecc built the best road in uyo
Aka road
Cc. dfrost I'm not the one speaking now.
Politics › Re: Legal Practitioners’ Committee Confirms 58 Lawyers As SANs by BarrElChapo(m): 9:03am On Oct 13, 2023
Emma1Oj:
your response alone is a clear sign you don't believe in yourself or trust your potentials. Where do you want to get the confident that will inspire the activities to become a SAN?. How do you defend your client in court? This how a judge or colleague will throw a shade at you in court, the next thing dey will hear is insults and uncivilized comments.

Dey play, just dey play.

And mind you. Don't call that name as if you r my daddy. Had title to it.
Again Emmanuel you’re stupid, bye 🤦
Music/Radio › Re: Shallipopi - Obapluto (Official Video) by BarrElChapo(m):
I hope he’s paid royalties to Mr Monday Edo for sampling his music Obasigie.

P.S. after seeing Mr. Monday Edo in the video made for a happy ending cos he was cheated of his labor as a young man, now shallipopi wanted to do it a second time.
Crime › Re: Residents Filmed Scooping Fuel From A Fallen Tanker In Lagos by BarrElChapo(m): 3:01am On Oct 13, 2023
LikeAking:
I doubt it’s fuel..

Someone even parked a car ..

Cars are also driving on that road..
I agree, PMS is too volatile, has to be A.G.O.
Politics › Re: Alex Otti Flags Off Port Harcourt-Aba Road Reconstruction (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m):
JB is good but Lagos uses CECCEC cos they're cheaper and do the same quality. Dunno why most governors overlook them.

This is what a director in the ministry of works in the Lagos State government told me upon enquiry.
Politics › Re: Return Of Train Services In Abia: Otti Holds Talks With NRC Officials by BarrElChapo(m): 2:55am On Oct 13, 2023
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Politics › Re: Legal Practitioners’ Committee Confirms 58 Lawyers As SANs by BarrElChapo(m): 2:52am On Oct 13, 2023
Emma1Oj:
I hear you, so you can collaborate with inec to rig elections like your corrupt and fraudulence judges of a colleagues abi??

Dey play, just dey play!!
Emmanuel for someone whose a namesake, you don't have an iota of sense. Always try to write good English language.
Politics › Re: Legal Practitioners’ Committee Confirms 58 Lawyers As SANs by BarrElChapo(m):
Some day, God willing I'll be decorated in this rank, this is the peak of our career as members of bar.
Business › Re: CBN To Intervene In Forex Market, Lifts Ban On 43 Items by BarrElChapo(m): 8:19pm On Oct 12, 2023
Coronavirus1:
Yes that is the meaning
That’ll be a huge relief ooo
Business › Re: CBN To Intervene In Forex Market, Lifts Ban On 43 Items by BarrElChapo(m): 5:54pm On Oct 12, 2023
Does this mean that they can now be imported into the country 🤔
Career › Re: How Can You Cope With A Nice But Anger Issue Boss? by BarrElChapo(m): 2:04pm On Oct 12, 2023
ImmanuelMyron:
As the topic says, how can you work under an hectic boss?

My boss is so nice but goddamn that man's so hectic with jombo size anger issue... His temper's so short to the extend that asking him a statement you don't understand twice might trigger his anger and once his angry his staffs'd dress back cos his hand might land on your face unaware.

Yesterday this man bought 25ltr of fuel and told me to give his brother 10ltr and filled the gen with the remaining, which i did. I started work 5:am this morning only for this man to called on phone to give one of his bus 5ltr of fuel from the 'keg' so i was like which of the keg actually and that's it, this man begin dey para ontop of his voice. After giving the 5ltr to the bus, this bus no gree reach filling station then my boss started again with so much noise "go and off the gen rn. I can stop you from working and lotta words" for work of 28k monthly from 4am to 12am midnight with hard labour. I'm sick and tired of everything.
Can someone tell me what to do?
Everybody get their weaknesses and na him own be this you get, in the times he shouts, does he call you derogatory names?
If you fit manage fine, if not find another one. Cheers
Crime › Re: Man Who Falsely Accused A Woman Of Stealing His Manhood Arrested In Delta by BarrElChapo(m): 10:05am On Oct 12, 2023
Safetly:
please guys, please I've tried to get little help here to no avail, please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on  sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD bless you
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SCAMMER IGNORE!
Politics › Re: LASG Clamps Down On Illegal Jetty Construction, Urges Due Process by BarrElChapo(m): 6:45am On Oct 12, 2023
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Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Releases Atiku’s School Calendar (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 6:38am On Oct 12, 2023
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Politics › Re: Governor Alia In Owerri For APC Governorship Campaign Flag Off (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 6:20am On Oct 12, 2023
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Politics › Re: Abia Resident Celebrates Julius Berger's Logo Seen On The Road by BarrElChapo(m): 6:14am On Oct 12, 2023
Beolly:
Onye Abakaliki are not Igbos?
Did I imply that ? I simply said he lacked sense
Crime › Re: Lagos Assembly Revisits Bamise Ayanwole's Murder Case by BarrElChapo(m): 10:11pm On Oct 11, 2023
True
Celebrities › Re: Jada Pinkett Thought The Will Smith's Oscars Slap Was 'A Skit' by BarrElChapo(m): 8:04pm On Oct 11, 2023
Marry a bad spouse at your own peril
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Appoints CEOs for communication agencies by BarrElChapo(m): 7:34pm On Oct 11, 2023
Taylor94:
Microphone licker don appoint his failure squad



Oluwole certificate forgers union



Can’t believe finally Buhari was better than Tinubu
Guy 😂😂😂😂
Politics › Re: Abia Resident Celebrates Julius Berger's Logo Seen On The Road by BarrElChapo(m): 7:21pm On Oct 11, 2023
Henix:
He is still busy speaking grammar
Useless grammar and building roads with Mac Morris Const Co in big 23.

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