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And what business is Atiku running oo
I want to know

eleojo23:
Before nko?

Has Buhari ever run any successful business?

Dr. Ubunja, you have a patient o

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

I swear alot of dumb people on here

Afamed:
If you believe the Idiot and OP. Definitely you can believe anything

Pain who? lol....Say what you want to say, i hardly use social media & i come on here NL for the fun, but just have to point out your stupidity.

DonBenny77:
One of the fools i called out spotted, e pain am wella

Calling others fools makes you the bigger one, must everyone follow your ideology?
And what achievements has your so called wisdom brought you?

DonBenny77:
Fools they will not drag the analogue, deaf and dumb pressy they voted for. The same fools that will change their dp to france flag if there is a tragedy there.........

Idiotic citizens!

The Chukwuka Scam Mafia Crime Family from Little Mbaise

The Boss - Bonaventure Sunday "Beardy" Chukwuka, 41 aka Teflon Don

UnderBoss - Emmanuel Chike "Young Mazi" Chukwuka (brother), 27

Consigliere - Christian "Know Nose" Chukwuka (brother), 39

Capo - Andrew Chike "Quick Fingers" Chukwu, 35

Associate to the Family - Mohammed "The Arab" Rahman, 31.

1Sharon:


What kind of Igbotic family scam is this?

No mind am
Nobi them go organize the 2013 Face of Democracy Transformation wey she win?

IamD18:
If she had succeeded in enlarging her butt, na you and your colleagues go still dey rush her for 500k a night.

Vanity kill you there.

Cletus77:
I thought I was being mocked..

NL sef

I went to collect Injection on my bumbum for ordinary malaria oo but here i am in your presence

Antoeni:
How will she tell God she Died

Best of both Worlds

Knew you were smarter than that
was just pulling your legs

Cletus77:
Y r u laughing?

Cletus77:
m just stating a fact, am not saying that was the reason he went to Scotland instead

Seriously?
So the pilot was looking through his window to navigate the plane abi?
When he got to Aberdeen, he saw a Cathedral and thought "this should be the Cathedral in Hamburg let me kuku land at the nearest airport"

Cletus77:
Although it was a mistake,

Seriously, Scotland looks a lot like Germany and vice versa

Later you will complain that you didnt pass your exams

KevMitnick:
Shameless man, you like skin to skin abi? You foolishly believed her. Instead of you to use your own assurance. Congratulations, you are going to be a father.

You are one of the problems in the world. ITK
Please stop embarrassing us (Reasonable, right thinking Nigerians) on here
Cos she is an European makes English her primary language right? We have the Portuguese, French, Scandinavians,Germans, Spaniards, Italians, Eastern Europeans(Russians, Czechs,Yugoslavias, Hungarians, and the rest) etc & English is not their primary language and she never made mention of her nationality.
And its your type that will come on here & call someone a dullard or an illiterate.
Work on yourself

dingbang:
How is it that you are European and can't type your language correctly?

What is the problem?

Resign from the job they got you, then you can now tell her you dont want her anymore.
If not, you must marry her & if you dont, you will regret that decision & dont come back here to lament to us about "Oh Had I known".

Nonsense Want to eat your cake & still have it, you are one of the reasons some people dont like to help

She is just taking pinshure with the plane (Bad Belle) but its still borrow pose

The only Jetting she can do is Jet Club

Work on your vocabulary before you put Buhari matter for head
Nonsense

geo4c:
Buhari must be stop no matter what

Just look at yourself
Did you even read the post till the end.
Or your brain is just 4kb
SMH

Jiang:
So you did not read the part that says she was taking to the hospital before she was confirmed dead abi?, or do you just want us to store the dead in the freezer for several months while preparing for lavish fare well party before we send them on thier way.

Or are you perhaps saying lagos doctors are incompetent to d extent they can't tell when a person is dead or in a coma

Dont tell me you went to school o
And hope you are not part of the people that call PMB an Illiterate or a dullard cos yours is beyond measure

meccuno:
Please give us other examples of people who worked for mobil and own half the land in a state?

Is it by force to be in PDP?
Pls dont mention Tinubu or Oshiomole cos they will never be a part to unreasonable hatred.
I thought that man was going back to Daura
You people couldnt afford his transport fares right?

chiipink:
LMAO @Lootimi, Una no go kill me for this nairaland, the way u guys coin words .

well I think those 2 are part of them .
But they are not among the "Biggest 3" as ffk said.
Oshiomole and Tinubu bigger sellouts than those 2, they are closest to buhari

Most of you don't have a self sense of reason, you just follow what soothes your bitter soul, what has the outcome of Kano have to do with elections that happened elsewhere, the education you had is a waste

amaniro:
Shut up its the truth. They didn't know PDP will win some northern states, They were too distracted with rivers and Akwaibom.

I hope you are not living in the same lagos?
If so you can go back to your home town and be free
You want to send lagosians back to stone age under pdp but it wont work, let them finish their national secretariat first then we can think about allowing them.

prince3009:
How the economy of Lagos, Ogun and Osun continues to be under the anal crevice of one man and "they" allow it seems to be mind boggling

Oh...i get it...it is because of the photo below. Some people depend on their daily livelihoods by standing and sitting in front of the gate of bourdillion just to get as little as N200.

Go to the houses of people like Authur Eze, Ifeanyi Uba etc. My people can never degrade themselves to stand in front of the gates of these men to get peanuts!

Total reliance and dependency on a fellow man who is politically and socially manipulating others in his enclave is all about "sufferstikation" and not "sophistication"

But unfortunately, these people would rather remain "sufferstikated" than emancipated simply because another tribe they loathe is in alliance with the person who wants to emancipate them!

And you think you are wiser than the people in government?
If they continue allowing importation do you think people will want to go into rice agriculture?
If you even think Buhari is dumb, give the Vice an element of doubt.
Stop sitting in the corner of your room & start criticising, you have no knowledge of what is going on

Ijaycool:
This is true.
I wish to congratulate the Government who initiated the route that led to this.

Although let's not over blow it, it was embarrassing that Egypt produces more than us.
1. Nigeria is like 13 times more populated than Egypt hence we normally should gap them wella.
2. Rice is a more primary food in Nigerian diet than Egyptians. It's like congratulating Lagos for making more Amala than Enugu does.

Meanwhile what a rational government should do, is instead of banning importation of rice, make Nigerian rice better, cheaper and healthier, then let's see how Thai rice will sell.
...but a government of Cows will close the boarder against rice which is primary Nigerian diet, without putting in place facilities that will carter for the shortage.
Hence they import rice illegally through unthinkable unethical, even poisonous process.
Laslas na to kill us been dey their mind

Who needs the votes from 5% people
So ironic that the % symbol is on key no 5 on a keyboard

NkayStory:
Yorubas should kerp fooling themsrlves over 2023 Presidency cos it will never happen...I will rather vote a Northerner than a Yoruba person.

The Norttherner themselves will not vote a Yoruba man over a Hausa-muslim in 2023 and that is the truth..

Mean ke?
She was only pulling our legs
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Livecamp09:
Hope u mean what u are saying or just trying to gain attention ?

CAPSLOCKED:
LET'S JUST KEEP APPLAUDING PEOPLE FOR FOOLING THEMSELVES AND WASTING THEIR TIME BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT WE'RE EXPERTS OF IN NIGERIA.

They are kids you idiot and you as an adult, what are you doing on here, you are spending meaningful time right?

samsam2019:
nobody, I mean not one person in Nigeria can probe OBJ.


Unlike the lifeless dullardyou support, he has already made himself clear over the money spent on power. If you're too illiterate or rétarded to read don't blame OBJ.


BTW, when will you zombíes demand buhari get probed for his stealing since the 80s and for working with a murderous killer in abacha

if that Murderous Abacha had gone ahead and killed them all you won't be here writing nonsense, Nigeria had the highest growth under Abacha, you better go back to school and read your books and leave intelligent matters to people with knowledge

Dont mind him
Ostentenious display is riches to them
Low self esteem people

GoTV:
So Hushpuppi wey dey wear Gucci get rich mind pass otedola wey dey wear mostly white native with billion dollar investment in forte Oil

Happy Birthday

LisaAnne:
Don't mind him

lol

ubunja:
so what's your favorite xvideos category? MILF?

AGNESikpuNNU:
Rare picture of Saddam hussein with guns too ... tyrants

How was he a tyrant?
cos the Bush family said so right?
The media is really a tool of manipulation and brainwashing.
you all no different from extremists that blow themselves up killing the innocent