₦airaland Forum

pucelle:
Their egos will not allow them

Most are unapologetically ingrates
Just watch as they attack and argue this back and forth

I can see them doing that already.

My dear, even the devil can not deny this... They have no case

schumastic:
quite alright the society is not fair to ladies but the truth is most ladies are not helping matters at all..is only when the time for marriage reach there head will now calm down and start working on their characters but in most young relationship, the lady believes once she offer sex to her guy, she has done her own bidding in the relationship which is wrong....if you read deep you will notice he said something similar to that but this particular girl proved him wrong..ask yourself this question, is this the only girl he has dated for him to realize all this now?

This issue can not be properly addresed if guys continue to make everything about sex. Yes, some ladies are guilty of this ugly behavior but the fault is not on the ladies alone. Guys should also change their attitude towards sex and ladies would also be challenged to give more than sex.

I was also told that when i beat walls and leaves in the afteroon' they'd come beat me back in my sleep.

Can't forget the day i slept, fell off the bed and rolled under the bed. I cry no be small...twas a big bed and i rolled in very well. Woke up to a dark and strange place. They didn't waste time in telling me ojuju dropped me there as punishment.

schumastic:
point of correction not any lady, a well deserved lady who offers more than sex to him..which is what we ask the ladies in the house to do..questions ladies need to ask there self is what else can I offer to my guy aside sex n expenses?

what happens when members of your specie often fail to see beyond the sex? when the little things the females in their lives do for them on a daily basis because you see those things as their duties often go un-noticed? The lady must be a superwoman before she can be called a 'good' lady especialy in this part of the world.

Yes, some ladies have no shame when it comes to expenses. lets call a spade a spade our society is not fair to ladies.

Kaycee7:
Would you be referring to one NL dude whose moniker starts with Paul, ends with "man" and there's "Killer" in the middle?

more than seventy percent of nairaland guys are guily. I have no one in particular in mind plus i don't even know the dude.

At least someone out there is appreciating the female in his life. Not crying ladies are hoe, they have no value, just screw them and dump them... even when he has no reason to but because some other dudes are doing it. Not all men are bad...there is hope.

Specialist900:
Alezy, elantraceey, Agapecharis, ideology ! How far

Beamborla dey special cadre now

which kind cadre be that

faith551:
uhh uhh

hi, hunie. why are you shocked?

EVILFOREST:
So this INDOMIE BOY is still crying.
Ntoooooooorrrrr, Cry well well.
Ntoooooooorrrrr.

Na only u marry Mary.
He deserves a Slap.
This is what you get when u always feed your KIDS POPCORN with CAPRSIONE as breakfast, lunch and dinner.

lol...you no get chill for this dude at all. Evils! I believe they are tears of joy. Men are allowed to cry, you know

PoliticalThuG:
what else do i need to make my marriage interesting apart from money?

money...money...money and more money. whatever rocks your boat bro. I feel you aint geniune.

Emodeee:
you evaded the 1st question. I'm not saying you should not like money but inordinate like for money is bad.

were you expecting a 'yes' or a 'no' My dear, yes i cook... good or bad, it's not my call to make. I agree with you on that already... Be more precise about the kinda money-love next time. I like money(no kidding)

Emodeee:
yeah, darling. Are you a good cook? Hp you don't like money like these other nairaland ladies?#smiles.

show me a human being who does not like money and i will prove to you that such a person is a product of your imagination. What differentiate us are the things we do in the bid to acquire the money.

PoliticalThuG:
nah nah.. That will not happen. I am stinking rich and the money i have made will not finish any moment from now. I have alota investments all over the countries

If you are like this for real, no good lady will find you attractive. You'd attract more of gold diggers if you think it's all about money. Yes, you have financial investment and security, you'd need more than that in marriage if you want a blisful marriage.

PoliticalThuG:
where can i see them please?

they are in every nook and crannies of Nigeria. All you need is a discerning ability. But you need to be the man you would love to marry if you were a lady, the type of man you want your female children to marry and the type of man you want your sisters to marry.

Emodeee:
i guess you are one of them. Would you marry me?#smiles.

lol... Are you a good man?

If you are a good man, looking for the right qualities and not looking for 'mrs. perfect', you'd definitely have more than enough to choose from.

sarz:
they are al true

no, dear. Some do not apply to me

Everything up there was almost true

Cry cry baby

Hmmm...considering the ecnomic situation of the country, i can imagine their pain already.

Specialist900:
I didn't see any o. Just sent you 1 now. Ma binu o

can't log into that account now. sent you up to two msgs, though. pls, use this mail tolulorkpe@gmail.com.

I dare not say i've not been entertained by this thread and its likes. the hilarious nature of some comments/insults can not be overlooked(even the ones shot at my tribe) Nigerians are guilty of so may crimes...first, you are guilty of being black as far as the world is concerned, you are guilty of being a Nigerian even to fellow Africans. As if that is not enough, you are finished if you happen to belong to any of the three majos tribes especially yellowba and Igbo. It's such a shame you do not have a say in chosing your race, nationality and tribe. Yet you'd fill your mind with hatred for other tribes... Seun is the only winner here. he's the only one who gets paid while we display our stupidity for the whole word to see

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

run for your life... i repeat, run! if you've got short legs, borrow some long legs and run...don't look back...run

Specialist900:
present ma. How far

when was the last time you checked your mail

Specialist900

Lol....
As for me, I always wait for close to 5minutes to be sure power has actually been restored and not flashing.

I believe the OP is only trying to point out the injustice against women in marriage.

Coming from a man, thumbs up

compujyde:
I wish every christian employs the emboldened as a watchword.

So do I

vinceton:
the reason why pastors are not to be exonorated is that they too know what's in the Bible regarding formication , but they refuse to preach it for fear of loosing members. Its like leaving substance and pursuing shadow. They chose to tell people what they want to hear. Remember God said in the scriptures they in d last days false prophets will arise . if we ignore their mistakes then ,we shall be punished with them.

Then I was right when I inferred earlier that the Bible is there for everyone...thank God for that. Since the Bible already made it clear that fake pastors will arise in the end of days, why would you see the end time trait in a pastor and not take to your heels? It's not like you are being tied down there.

I didn't exonerate them, neither did I pronounce them guilty. I just made it clear that we'd all account for our deeds and the amazing part is no one would have any excuse. If your pastor ain't saying it and it's in the Bible you have no excuse and if he's saying it and it ain't in the Bible, you have no excuse

About correcting them, Becareful enough not to invite the wrath of God upon yourself.

Finally, Let not your pastor be your God or standard. The Bible is sufficient for you an i

mmsen:
What is 'spirit filled'?

How does one become spirit filled?

Name me some well known 'spirit filled' people.

Thanks.

Spirit filled is to have the spirit of Christ in you which would in turn make you act Christ-like

To become spirit filled, you'd need to acknowledge Christ, genuinely repent of your sins, totally submit to him and invite him into your life.

This, I can not provide because like I metioned earlier, it's between you and God. Only God knows who is really for him. I can speak only for myself.

mmsen:
You cannot stop someone from looking at another with feelings of lust.

This is one of the many examples that prove how retarded the Bible truly is.

So much of what is written in that book runs counter to common sense and basic human nature.

Yes, you can. When you are spirit filled. Even when the flesh sets in, you'd be able to quickly realize your mistake and make amendment

I believe that part of the Bible is there for our own good.
From lustful staring to wanting, should she reject such advances, it could lead to rape.

Our problem is we always want to rely on common sense and human nature. The Bible clearly told us not to rely on our own understanding