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They bleach because black is beautiful only in words and not action. People, society and majority of men have a painful affinity for the fair skin.

Acceptance is one of the basic and important pshycological needs of humans which can not be overlooked.

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steppin:
Molesting someone made your day? Nairaland get weirdos walahi.

What would you have me do?

Mourn for the thieves or curse karma?
They went looking for what they got.

This just made my day

Wish I could argue that your observation about Ekiti indigens...

...but they not notorious, they are just strongwilled and obstinate.

And the story just got more interesting

anigbajumo:


I don't agree with u,there is nothing special about this thread.It is just for fun,there are countless of thread like on this section.what is special?? Am still yet to see what is badt if he visits his GF on campus.Lol,u are funny dear.If she is my sister, is he not a human being or na me go marry her

Abeg make we leave this guy alone.I don't av any reason to criticize him about the content of this thread.

Lol...now when you wrote, leave this guy alone, I couldn't help but laugh. I'm not one of his fans neither am I a critic. I'm not even aware of his existence. I'm concerned about the thread and the content therein not who's behind the thread.

You don't see anything wrong with it, it's okay. But when almost everyone disagrees with the nature of the picture and his staying a week with a gf in a student lodge, then something about it is wrong.

Indeed, the normal is gradually becoming the abnormal while the abnormal is sitting in the place of normal.

The internet can make or mar you. The choice is yours.

People no longer take correction these days because of the word 'haters'. Sad truth is, their so called haters are not all hating on them. Some of them are people who care enough to show you your crap albeit, in a brutal way, some just can't take your stupidity while some are actually hating.

TamedWolf90:
11. The Groom and his squad prostrating.

They have to ‘dobale’ to ask for the Bride’s hand properly. So cute!

My favorite!
The spectacle of the whole show where they all go down in unison...very pleasing to the sight
A mischievous 'alaga' would even ask them to shake their bumbum left and right

anigbajumo:


Am still yet to see wat is wrong here, to share a picx with yer bae is now offence on NL.when will people stop their hatred on this guy,or is it nude pic

NL nd badmouthing is just like 5&6.

The nature of the picture is distasteful. She's just a GF, dangote's trailer could one day make its way between the two both of them. What's in it for that lady with such picture of hers and the one week stay with her in her lodge while still in school just a click away on the internet? The picture could still come back to haunt her, sir (down to her career). This is Africa!

Even a responsible married man wouldn't share such picture of himself and his wife because of the respect he has for her and their relationship. Social media shouldn't rob us of our common sense.

Going to spend a whole week with a lady(student) in her lodge. Haba! What if upon opening the thread it was your younger sister you saw, would you still write what you wrote up there?

God bless her she come finish with 2:1GP

herbie27:
Lol.
Some guys sha!.

And some girls, my sister. And some girls.

So you went to spend a week(sorry, holiday) with your girlfriend, in school, in her lodge...

Issorite.

kaboninc:
Sugar bee,

The write-up is not biased joor.

So you mean you won't submit to me?

Women should submit to their husband. The subject for if the man should love his wife or not is for another day. But common sense would dictate that a man should love his wife.

Truth also is that a man expects submission whether the woman likes it or not. And if she doesn't like it, then the choices is hers to leave. Shikena!!!!!!

Lastly, submission is a human thing, not exclusive to the man but also to the woman especially among her peers.

So does a woman expect to be treated right. Imagine your submission, she should be submissive or leave

Let's encourage each party to play their role without hinging it on the condition that the other party plays his or her role first.

It's this same mentality that some men take into marriage that makes it crumble in no time.

My love, ill treatment breeds rebellion. You can't treatment me like trash and expect me to be submissive. I'm human with feelings... I'm no robot.

Husband love your wife and wife submit to your husband didn't appear separately because they compliment each other. Sadly, most men don't even know what it takes to be a leader.

Toks2008:
My sis you are right to believe my thread is biased but the sincere truth is that it is not.

The first step for a woman to live a happy life in this cruel world of men is to see herself as an endangered specie.Indeed it is a cruel world of men so if you refuse to submit because a man is not living up to expectation you will be the one to lose at the end and i have seen many ladies who think they are so hot and would leave their marriage in a jiffy but i always tell these ladies that its a move in futility because each man you meet will always have a character you must tolerate and when these ladies get to certain ages they become so vulnerable and lonely and will not mind to take worse shits.


I have my reasons for directing my threads to ladies more because if they can try to get it right then they will be happier. Men are stubborn and even if you preach to them,that crazy ego will still override them so the best is to preach to ladies who seem to be more receptive.

And your thread is only indulging them to keep at it. Like it's the normal and we women should be left to deal with it.

The problem is trying to hinge one on the other. Let husbands love their wives come what may and women submit to their husbands come what may.

The OP is emphasizing on the woman's submittion while excusing the man's inability to love is wife on the basis that she's not submissive.

The Bible mandated both parties to play their roles and did not give any condition whatsoever. Even the most unruly man wants submission when he's not playing his part and the OP is justifying it making them believe they need not be good. Wait for your wife to submit before loving her and even if you don't treat her right, suffer not yourself, she must submit.

The Bible has placed the man as the leader and Lord the house, no problem. How many men are ready to be a leader and not a boss? Don't forget that to be a leader, you'd have to serve your subjects first and always. I'm not denying that some women are poison as well.

But a biased writeup of this nature will do more harm than good. OP, your writeup is biased.

Since she must submit even if he's not worth it, do you agree that he must love and treat her right even if she's not submissive?

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.

Some people need to be sacrificed to the god of common sense. What some of the 'saints' who did that to her have done, is doing and will still do is an inspiration to the devil himself.

She could be suffering from mental illness and even if she's a witch, indeed, is beating her to pulp the next step.

When the real witches and wizard come around, they go on all four to worship them.

Adeinfo:
Continue deceiving yourself with and follow stereotype till you are taught a lesson. Someone is either bad or good. You can't combine both

Yes, daddy.

Because what they really want is a 'good-bad-lady' just like the ladies also want a 'good-bad-guy' and not Mr.nice guy.

Very few people can combine the two and strike a balance. Truth is, good/nice is boring so they opt for the bad ones with a lil good attributes in then.

jake2much:
why do u say dat. dont decieve people pls. no girl will be hapi wen not married and all dia friend marry on saturday. am not even hapi dat am not married but I take it im a guy. girls shd do everything possible cos guys hate too mature ladies. we feel she has sex a lot and wont trust her. earlier d better

OK

A girl should never get despirate to be married

Cutehector:
you are not an afonja na. Your name is bimbo, bimbo Oyemi

Right!
Last time I checked, all Yorubas are referred to as 'afonja' on N/L

My disappointment is you making a bigotry statement in the first place. I thought you were immune to such, I was wrong.

Cutehector:
Afonjas. Na dem na... demonic people

Even you?

This thread of yours is an insult to ladies. This is mischief at its peak.

XaintJoel20:
You nailed. The moderators should swiftly do something about it. The level of ethnic division here is alarming.

It's beyond the mods. They can only control what they write, that can't control what they feel.

The way some people worship all those wall papers and paintings of Jesus ehn...

That was how my friend and I were just drooling over her roommate's wallpaper of jesus with six packs and fresh body we even went as far as labelling it 'sexy Jesus' Lord have mercy on me.

Nobody knows what Jesus looks like. Nobody!

Nairaland! The only place where folks wait patiently for shameful events to occur so they can taunt one another. A place where humanity is trampled upon shamelessly by the so called youths who should be the pillar of the country. And we keep wondering why the youths are being pushed back by the oldies...

SHAME on everyone of you who used the pain of an innocent girl somewhere for your senseless tribal war.

Caseless:
what's not confirmed? Circular de in that regard.

My LI said he's yet to see an official circular.

Caseless:
I don tire too.

But the Nov thing is not confirmed yet. Stay calm ko.

Caseless:
how are you?

I'm just there. All thanks to God.
Kaduna don tire me.

You?

Caseless:
I no de fear anything.

Don't break my heart even more with that story.

Oh dear! Poor you

Blame it on recession...

Caseless:
I like her breas'ts


Well, I do not want to marry a wife that the society would see and scream, "beautiful, classy , etc". I need a woman that can give me peace.


That not withstanding, dbanj get eye.

Fear is catching you :p

By the way, I heard your POP is November

All your points only apply to those who do not really understand what the movement is all about.

Marriage is not a slave to master relationship. If men understood this from the beginning, there would have been no need for such movement.

2dice01:
if she kon go nysc camp like my ex ex ex bae beamborla wetin man go do?