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coogar:
nobody is saying you should forgive a cheating partner. we aren't even excusing the men. just putting it out that one is slightly worse than the other.

a cheating wife is worse than a cheating hubby.

bukatyne:
Leave them alone

The cheating did not cause his death, the accident did

I dont know what the woman will mourn for sha

alutacontinua:
I no wan comment on this thread made me lmao

op, my condolences to your family

Sophyrocks:


Tell me to get out of your head already.

Sophyrocks:
You no go see them for here na. Anything wey no dey favour them them no go put mouth because they are guilty. When they beat their chests every day with MAN MUST CHEAT MANTRAS. Anything concerning women must reach 20 something pages. I'm sure you've gone through that 'What nigerian ladies do to get husbands' thread. You see how that thread is expanding. That tells you the horrible mentality they have about women.

Kirinwa:
For the woman to be thinking her husband is cheating while he's not means they are no longer on talking terms.

Kirinwa:
If you understand what I have been doing its called playing devil's advocate. Am being as neutral as I can be. That's the best way to solve this problem.

Why I said you were playing victim's card is because you were asking who knew what the man did to her when situation was good. Which made it look like she was victimized which is a wrong assumption seeing it was not expressed, infered nor conveyed from Op's narration.

From the writeup the man didn't withhold sex to punish her, nobody chases rat when his house is on fire-mind you am not saying sex is not important. Am merely saying it wasn't his priority and his mind just wasn't on it.

The wife miscontrued it as signs of cheating by her husband which was false.

Truth is anytime communication breaks down in marriage a lot go wrong. Never live a single day without discussing or communicating with your spouse. Thank God for phone calls, internet chatting, video calls etc Make use of it and try not to be separate for too long.

Kirinwa:
Why do women like playing victim card? What if this wasn't the case? What if she is merely succumbing to her human nature?

Like I said its not good to take any side otherwise the issue won't be resolved.

darisgod:
U get my point



Rain fell yesterday na

So imagine d wife wit 2 kids wit loads again ooo


Can imagine


Ummm






RIP uncle Lanre but bros u no do am well o

darisgod:
No

But I still wonder wat is going on in d wife's mind right now


People wey u dey beg to carry u go iyanu Ipaja motor park


Come die for epe road

Omo mhen!!!!!

Na serious ish

Chillisauce:
Chineke

pls whats thé topic again .

That's it. Enough for the day
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EfemenaXY:
Have you seen her French nails?

Chillisauce:
lyndaroyce, you miss nothing jare, just that beeevan and edwife dey get proposal for polygamy

EfemenaXY:
^^ Dem say it's still early days yet.

She's just 2cm dialeted, but my gawd!! All that noise in the labour room from only her...anyway sha, you know the saying...it's the quiet ones that make the most noise and all that...

Chillisauce:
hello Efemenaxy, sounds very much like feminazy

beeev, maybe the user name just wanna be friends , you and edwife dey hot oh, no body dey razzle me sef
wetin dey pursue dem?

tintingz:
I don't believe in that phrase.

tintingz:
Na by force? just park out and move on.

greatgod2012:
True. Many of the wives actually pay them back in their own coin.

chiefinalowo:
You don't mean it!

What about him contracting STD and get you infected?

EfemenaXY:
Sigh...

It's kinda quite in the changing room here. Where are you all ladies??

Edwife?

Chillisauce?

Beeevan?

LyndaRoyce?

Cococandy?

Someone say something na... Happy Saturday sha

ileobatojo:
Lol!!

All you ladies are killing me!

chiefinalowo:
Hahaha...this is too much o.
You don't need to kill him just because of a second wife....Have you forgotten what Yoruba called "Amuni muye"?