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cococandy: My dear I don't know o

I believe you .

I Went to a girls school but never noticed any of these, only heard incoherent whispers of sexual harassments.

aisha2: This brings a lot of sad memories to my heart.
One teacher very harsh and strict punished me one day, he asked me to kneel down during the evening games in my games wear in the lab. I knelt down for like an hour rill it started getting dark.

At about 6. 30 he came and grabbed my small breasts, the look in his eyes and his obvious erection was nauseating to say the least. I pushed him off and ran out despite him trying to block me. I ran straight to the senior boarding house mistress house and reported. The next day I was called to a panel to repeat what happened, I did he denied it said I was simply trying to get out of punishment by lying against him. One of the penalist accused me of trying to seduce the teacher with my sports skirt. This was the skirt issued by the school oh.

It was like a gang up, small student against one of their kind, I was treated like a criminal, teachers not wanting to have me in their class, students gossiping about me, pointing at me. The rumours and lies, accusations and stories, I understand how rape victims feel, not everyone is strong enough to report sex- ual harassment.

It was my word against his, luckily I had a good reputation, I had good grades, he couldn't give a satisfactory reason for keeping me in the lab till dark, he had been seen severally with female students coming our of the lab, he was suspended and later transfered to an all boys college. It was after the storm had passed before I had girls coming up to me and tell me he had forced them to play with his pen- is, some he has penetrated, some Henham fondled but they refused to come forward feeling they had some fault in it, believing no one would believe them, afraid of the stigna

Very pathetic, i worry about the girl child born in a country that treats most cases with frivolity .

Aisha spoke my mind, i think you should do as she said.

4tunebest: Okay. Sooo some months ago I shared my knowlege on a particular thread on discussion about the nutritional value of Roselle tea (zobo). He was one of several people who viewed the thread although he didn't make any comment. He sent a PM, he is also interested in foods with high nutritional value & was looking towards starting a business in that line. However, I do not reply PMs but he seemed to be interested in business & not friendship & so, he gott my attention. We maintained a strictly professional relationship for some time. Along the line we discovered we had several things in common, we were passionate about same things, had thesame views about life, etc. He asked me to write a business plan for him, so we arranged to meet in person.....

This gist, love it...keep it coming ,my eyes are itching to read all.

thandii1: Lol. My old moniker is not a popular one, but I stick around this section quietly a lot.

Hmmmm, you don't wanna say i see, Coco seems to know, my inlaw will surely tell me .

thandii1: Bumper to fender

Which old moniker are you, you sound familiar ?

Kanwulia you are beautiful woman .

iykedare: you don't get me. Have you seen that liability, beeevan, make any positive comment about naija men. Its simply means that she is a lesbo or the man in her life is a lowlife. Simple!!!

For each time you mention my name your life span decreases by 10%, keep reading you mother 's story and attributing it to your NL crush .

thandii1: This is so hilarious..OMG

It can make someone cry..

There is no privacy in marriage, if you pass word yours, let hers be. My phone is on lock but we use the same password so...

There is no privacy in marriage, if you pass word yours, let hers be.

Extra marital affairs because wify is menstruating? The way some people think beats me.....


Just apply cold compress .

iykedare: lol. dont take these things too hard. Your comments here are always filled with so much venom. Marriage must really be tough for u. Whenever the women here say beautiful things about marriage,no one sees you around. But when u sees silly stuffs being written about naija men,you will suddenly come alive. If you ve ever been with a good man,you wont be this bitter about men. your husband,your choice,your pain. Deal with it.

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Chillisauce: You too! funny enough no one has my time then, I was the smallie of the class. The "things" were still developing. Unlike some my classmates that could pass as some peoples wives. And I always mingle with the big girls. They tend to overshadow me with the heavy accessories

I used to envy those endowed chics then but most don cast now as gravity and age no dey show mercy to them. You have to sharpen your mouth cos dey go dey throw jabs like calling you " cabin chest".

cococandy: Iykedare and beeevan
Since time immemorial

He can't have enough of my exfoliating bee juice, dude is so obsessed with me .

Abide by set rules you copied from peeps, parents and others, then marriage did be hellish. Challenges will always come but for the most part, you did wanna cuddle your spouse and tell em they are the best decision you ever made ( forget it if you end up with an end time spouse) .

Joy4mi: see as ur mouth dey sweet, u no get reason to disturb yourself na. Shebi na boys hostel u dey. Enjoyment galore lol

The wives am adopting for my sons nko, shouldn't I worry about them ?

Sit up isn't advisable for now as your abdominal walls are quite fragile, Google it and see what you can find about what I said, just moderate your feeding for now and cut off as much carbs as you can.


Do this in place of sit up, lie on your back, with your hands by your side, raise a leg and draw 10 to 20 imaginary circles with it, do this to the other leg, continue till you are tired. Mild but helpful, this way you won't hurt your muscles as the gap across your abdominal walls will still be obvious at this time.

Lie on your back, raise yourself slightly and feel this gap am talking of, the muscles opens like a zip to accommodate the growing foetus, so sitting up now might ruin this delicate muscles. Sorry I don't know their medical terms .

iykedare: i can imagine the kind of things u are going through in the hands of your husband. We go sense it through your comments here. Bloody liabilty.

Son of a gutter slut, aren't you dead yet, Idiocy doesn't kill, does it? Anyway we can book a show for later because am quite busy but yet again, am bored of you .

You are too obsessed with that animal that fathered you, so much so that you can't resist lashing out at people 's husbands, sons, brothers and what have you . The liability he calls your mum through out the duration of their marriage is haunting you, even at 40 + of age your brain is hardly developed enough to grasp its full meaning.


Iykedare seek help because you are an assault on masculinity, you are not the only one out there with a twisted childhood, its no excuse for your shame, am advising you as a... as.... scratch that .


Am done with you as long as Nairaland is concerned,am done with you because you are a damn too stale meat for me, no steam, nothing, scaler quantity ...i did rather take on someone....someone more...entertaining . Besides why have you been stalking me huh, do I look like mama? Stuff the reason up your anus, bee doesn't care .

cococandy: Abi o. Let's eat today
Tomorrow we will watch our weight

(White rice. Chicken/beef soup)

So tempting...

Chillisauce: About that. 1 table spoon of oil is 110cal. One biscuit is 1 about 100 cal too.

Then there is really no hope for me, i might never be able to count calories, how much calories can 100 skips per day burn?

That food for your plate no go belleful me if am hungry, this weight watch thing is really hard. Cococandy you should be very gingered oooo, the thought of his ripped muscles alone is enough to make you hit the Gym .


Telling someone to stop eating well heavy for my mouth sef, working out alone will do Jare.

Chillisauce: You just dey chop life. Nwanne tabi Efe, after we hit the gym

Note one piece of fried plantain is about 100 cal, which will take like 15 min on tread mill to burn off.

Is that true ? Can't say the number I munch per meal . Is it really true?

cococandy:
And I've been gradually putting on small small weight.
Chai.
Only God will help me as he's helping beeevan.

Amen , the weight you see in the mirror might be in your mind though, it happens to me a lot . Sometimes I see a puffy face in the mirror, only to check days later and see my cheek bones. Food dey sweet walahi!

No wonder must peeps will give up their fathers in exchange for something more tangible, some are undiluted disgrace to their families .Man of the house fooling himself in the presence of an innocent kid .

I forgive very often, but there are few things I can't forgive but will once you have paid for it.

Nashville: Anyone that knowingly takes another's life, does not deserve to be alive. If a person kills their spouse, that person should face the maximum penalty. No one has a right or reason to take another's life. It's never justifiable. Cheating or not!

Agreed, nature took the cheating spouse in this case, not wify.

Chillisauce: E bi like say you dey the lane of cheating. Change your ways oh, if you want to be mourned .

Isn't it obvious?

majekdom2: The truth remains , No matter ill a spouse could be , there is that thing you ll miss about him/her and wish then they never left. The lady might just have that outward look , she does will have some grieve. cheating is totally different from not caring , giving attention or showing love.

Stop consoling yourself with this, just repent right away .

majekdom2: and so , have it in mind someone is planning ur downfall also.since u wish to aid karma.

Yes( if I go hurting people) , just as yours will catch up with you, stop cheating on your wife so your heart won't be beating fast wherever dead cheats are mentioned. Zip up your trousers, its not hard, humans shouldn't hump around like animals. It's obvious I struck a raw nerve with my post, repent so no one will wish you are dead, its that simple.

Pavore9: @majekdom2, l personally feel a cheating man is taking his family for granted, he lives with the thought "what can they do to me as the head of the family?" l can't profess that l love my family & at the same time putting them at risk, such duality!

Thank you!