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bukatyne: If I tell you that I understand what fighting for your home under these circumstances mean, I am a liar

Still yet to understand it too.

Nah from joke e dey take enter serious, i won't lend them mine to chat with oooooo. If you didn't stop that joke early enough, chances are it won't end well.

He should be charged to court.

Godmystrength: It would have been nearing 20pages...

Let them keep at it, their sins will find them out. Some women sef dey follow the yeye men wey sabi talk nonsense dey yarn rubbish. I thank God that there will always be reasonable men, no matter how crazy the world have gone.

Mynd44: Don't mind them. "pray and be submissive".

No wonder men ride over them and treat them like sub-humans

It's so pathetic .

I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...


OP diarisss AIDsooooo...

This would have made an interesting thread.

They learnt from the masters.

I hope the roasted he goat is dead already .

cococandy: I:30hr by lng boat
15mins by helicopter.

4hrs by pontu boat


Are you familiar with bonny island?

Thank you, Coogar matter don send me to emergency sleep.

Chillisauce: I for run comot for the house O. Before then, I go piss for his bucket of water for bath. And won't forget to spit in his food . Boil some wall geckos , get the broth and cook jellof rice for him.

coogar: how far is it to bonny island?

Sleep in progress.....

coogar: tell me the area na......where am i going to see the placards?

PHC water lines, am sure you will find your way. Wait ooo, i hope you have no plans of deserting your Utuku hut, i heard is quite safe from Ebola and the rams.

coogar: no - i just wanna go sight-see.

I suppose you will see them standing by the side walks,with placards that read " Married and Searching, here we are Coogar " .

coogar: which area is that? i'm going to lagos later in the month.

Do you want to confirm if sister sarah is involved in this clandestine activity ?

mytestimony: I am newly pregnant. Food is my major problem. What can I eat to help. I had to be hospitalized because of excessive vomiting. They told me to try dry foods. It is not working. Please sabi mamas help me with suggestions. Also it is very difficult to drink water as it tastes bitter.

I chew ice cubes in place of water, eat crackers, dry meat and fish, sour tasting wine and fruits, pepper soup helps me a lot too.

^ ^ ^ ^ its not much of an underground thing anymore where I stay, they have clubs here sponsored by advanced women whose husbands are abroad or those estranged from their husbands. The younger women are now the green horns ready for grooming in the ways of the act.

BoboYekini: Ebola is the worst.

The stigma of HIV will never leave that family.

aisha2: Yes oh Gay as shit. Telling some guy that am a "good girl" and no one would suspect that after 2 kids if I like I should leave. I had my suspiscions something was not right and he was extremely secretive and would have so many nud-e pictures of ladies on his phone all to cover up.

Now I hear he is getting married I just feel sad because if you say something it will be as if you are jealous but when you ask women to do diligence they would rather be carried away with being a wife. The Lady he is marrying now I am sure if she is observant she may see the signs yet decide to ignore or worst still decide she can "manage" or "change" him then a year from now come writing Nairaland story

Funny thing is the guy is a church front liner lol.

My sister thank God for you, Naija marriage is by fire by force.

The worst thing that could happen to a married individual is dying of AIDS .

Cococandy, bi annual check up out of the blues?If there is any HIV to contract ,the person is just going to discover the new status since it is intended to be annual. Well, keeping and maintaining a dental record makes it possible for one to get screened twice a year.


The best is for partners to know what is going on with their spouse , chances of contracting the virus is less when you know you are living with a possible vector. Waiting for a whole year is like going for a confirmation of a new status.

aisha2: On their own totally. Was it not through checking phone I discovered someone just wanted to marry me to cover up his sexual orientation? I would have been crying and lamenting now because I chose ignorant "bliss" its not for me abeg.

If we are honest and open with each other then we have nothing to hide. Why would anyone be screaming dont touch each others phones as if its a worst crime than the cheating itself?

As in gay?wow!

aisha2: Exactly, all those who shout and insult spouses who suspect their partners for checking their phones are on their own.

If my spouse starts acting funny, I ask and dont satisfactory answers I will check oh, if it can be nipped I know what to do.

When I was dating if I see funny things I ask you to unlock your phone so I can check. That saved me from 2 bad relationships and I thank God everyday I saw what I saw on those phones and saved myself from heartache.

My spouse on the other hand is so open from day 1 so I never even considered touching his phone, all I need to know I ask and I am told immediately.

Really on their ownoooo , people hide a lot in phones, i should be able to do whatever I please with my spouse 's phone. People won't do certain things if they know it will be discovered. I always say, a woman won't be scared of her husband 's phone if she is sure he isn't hiding something , avoiding his phone like plague shows that you know he has something to hide but don't want to discover it to safeguard your heart.

snazzylove: Na dem really sabi my dear. I didn't go poking my nose into whatever it is she told her husband that her doc advised.

One really need to be careful and be as close to ur spouse as much as you can. Never giving room for little misbehaviours. Talk, talk, and continue talking with each other. Make communication a hobby, that way, it will be easy to handle challenges when they arise.

Thanks dear. Hugs

Things like this is the reason I don't subscribe to privacy in marriage, some things could have been discovered and nipped in the bud if only couples paid more attention to each other. I find it hard to fathom how a spouse could be on drugs for months, even years without the other knowing.

aisha2: Exactly. My experience is usually immediate anger and most times they call their spouses immediately who come in mostly reluctantly for counseling and testing.

That's the reason am suspecting that may be the woman ate ikpa ngwugwo once or twice, so she suspected herself and kept quiet about her status, only to discover that her husband is the * * in Dbanj's voice**importer....exporter...HIV...cocowater .

snazzylove: I asked her dat question oo. But she said because hubby was not always around it was easy for her to hide it. That the few times they made luv she insisted they use condom based on her doctors advice, and luckily for her, CDs were given to them at the antenatal class, so it was easy for her to use it as a cover up.

My sister, things dey happen sha o!

I can't stop imagining an innocent woman discovering a positive HIV status and still being able to contain it within herself. Once an innocent woman contacts HIV, her husband is the next person she confronts. For this one to keep to herself suggests that she might not be that blameless and innocent after all. Which man will not question why a doc suggested condom for his already pregnant wife? She might have tailored this gist to absolve herself,nah them sabi .



Congratulations on your new baby dear, may God protect and preserve him for you.

This is scary ooo, asking ones husband to go for HIV test out of no where will definitely kill something in that marriage if he is innocent(never cheated) , what really is the way forward




Snazzy I really don't understand how a woman who never cheated can keep a positive HIV result to herself, that means she has been making love to him knowing her positive status, things dey happen oo.

.....And you didn't upload the pics on face book and NL, that's the first thing I would have done if I were you .So the world will have a piece of her sexiness, decide what to do with your husband afterwards.



What's with this leave his phone people are advising? Nawaoooh!!! Nah only una know as una take marry una own.

I can't marry an end time pastor, educated or not.

cococandy: Tried that one only once.
It looks like it will work but it's just too damn tough.
Felt like my neck was gonna snap.

I better not try...

Chillisauce: I follow you dey thank o. Infact , na church I go dey go every day.
Chineke thanks sir for giving me my heart. Chai. I for dey kitchen now dey pound pounded yam

They fit don baba you gorimakpa for insubordination or force you to kneel down dey serve food .

^ ^ ^ ^ That makes low cut a bad idea .