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Aaah! God help any child that comes forth out of my belly, to never bring me shame & tears. In Jesus name I have prayed . Amen!

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kcdegr8:
Soo many funny comments, i cant help smiling while reading through.

Op lets get some facts clear, vaginal examination is rarely done during routine antenatal visits unless its ABSOLUTELY necessary. As a matter of fact, it can induce labour prematurely, and ofcos we dont want that.

That said, i think you need a change of perception about this whole thing. Doctors are professionals and whether you like it or not, some day your wife is going to part her legs on the doctor's table. Those clamouring for female gynae or whatever are somewhat being naive. Wait till your wife has a critical condition, then you realise your wife's well being rather than the doctor's gender is all that matters.

Tell this Op about pap smears.Where I am,we get them regularly & we are still here. Though I'll admit I hate them gynaecological exams.Pap smears are done to check for abnormal cells in the cervix and are especially recommended for all sexually active women.Normal vaginal exams include a manual exam, where a doctor will insert two fingers to feel for cysts or any abnormalities in the cervix.Speculums or Scopes may also be used to achieve the desired results.It is very normal & all women who can afford regular exams are encouraged to have them.

zaragal:
, Chei! U re so so funny
..hehehehehehehehehehhehehehe

Lol,thank you.

I can tell that the writer of this is my fellow Kenyan.He has written a few words in the Kikuyu language and one word in Swahili. NO.8 he uses the words : Mb'uri - goat, Ngui - dog, Nyau -cat. No.11 He used the word Tafadhali-please. Otherwise an overall nice writeup.

sucess001:
Came across the picture below and a part of me wasn't ok with it.


Parents in the house..do u tink its ok for mothers to tongue kiss children? Even if its for fun?

As someone who took a couple of classes in the medical field,I can categorically say that it's wrong. Someone said that kids already have bacteria from the things that they pick on the ground.Such bacteria are things like amoeba or worms which can be treated with antibiotics or anti-fungal medications.However adults carry not just bacteria but also viruses.The young kids bodies immunity is still not completely developed yet. Viral diseases such as oral herpes,mononucleosis, hepatitis & even the bacteria that causes cavities, all these are transmitted through the mouth.Those of you saying it's evil thoughts, it's not just evil thoughts, bacterial/viral transmission is real.Think of other adults who engage in MouthAction & may infect these young kids with all kinds of stds via body fluid in this case,saliva.#BEWARE !

viccassi:
your wife is should have wear hand bra.

They are called strapless bras.Thank me later.

Bantino:
Hello Beey, it's been quite a while, how are you doing?? Merry Christmas to u and ur loved ones!!!

Thanks Bantino,am not sure I'd you celebrate Christmas or another one.But if Christmas, then have a Merry Christmas!

dre11:
Beey




It's a long time
Hope ure good and I wish you a lovely Xmas

I've been good my friend, hope all is well.Thanks for the good wishes.

onitshaigbo:
"TOUCH NOT MY ANNOINTED!" - GOD ALMIGHTY

This government is inviting disasters on itself.

Mark 12:17 " Then Jesus said, Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar, and to God what is God's." It's Biblical to abide by the laws of the land according to Jesus & I believe pastors are not exempt.

thecommunist:
Genesis 6: 2-4. You can read from verse 1 till maybe the end so that you will understand

I beg to differ with you. The "Sons of God" in this Scripture is not literal. "The sons of God" are said to be religion professors from the lineage of Seth.They were also called by the name of the Lord.When they intermarried with Canaanites & other communities that worshipped idol gods, these women were then referred to as " daughters of men".The offspring from these marriages were called "nephrim". So saying that the sons of God were spirits is the wrong interpretation.Pls note, God is a capital "G" & not small.

jesuslovesme123:
Provide evidence of their 'falseness'

Give me just one Scripture in the Bible that talks of spiritual husband /wife. Just one Scripture.

AJ01:
go to TB joshua...he is a blessing to our nation...a prophet is not recognise in his country sha

TB Joshua is a false prophet.We don't need all that drama he& his actors perform on pulpits.All we need is faith.If he has any powers,they are not of God ,they are from a strange source.Miracle chasers cannot see that though, because they want instant miracles
Be like the Berean Christians.Study your Bibles and you'll not be tossed about by every wind of doctrine.

Allureoftheseas:
do what i instructed first. i dont drop my number like that unless it is something important. but if you need further help( but what i have told you to do will certainly work) email me alluresseas@gmail.com. will refer you to someone in india who will permanently bind the spirit if you cant bind it in a church or native doctor here in nigeria.

Those Indian gurus are representatives of Satan.As for me and my house,we are covered by the blood of Jesus.I suggest you seek salvation in Jesus because His blood will never loose it's power.

busterr:
wats spirit husband?

Am also wondering. False doctrines.That's why I'll be Presbyterian for life.

Allureoftheseas:
you want help? let me give you alittle tip; tell your gf to buy fanta. tell her not to drink it. she should be alone and do this in her compound. tell her to open the fanta and say the following prayers "my spirit husband, i was told you are disturbing and driving away my lovers, if you are really responsible, i want you to give me space and bless me and stop disturbing my physical lover(call her lovers name) if you do this i will come back fully prepared to please you" after this prayers she should pour the fanta anywhere in her compound. she will have a dream the following night of the spirit husbands leaving. NOTE: this is not permanent freedom. go to a church a strong one and bind the spirit or use a strong native doc to appease the spirit or come to me if ypu cant find any.

Jesus! What kind of teaching is this? So Christians now pour libation like the occult people? Nawa oh. I never hear this kain thing before. Your practices are no better than those of witches & wizards.The whole doctrine of deliverance is a mess.God alone is the deliverer & not some pastor. A Pastor may pray with you & guide you in the ways of the Lord but God has the final say.You don't need to go and do some theatricals on a pulpit to be delivered.All you need is faith!

It does beat my understanding how a man can be playing with hot charcoal and then expect not to burn his fingers. Mr.Man, you see women are smarter now than they were in the yester years.They know that it's unjust for anyone to work for free.If she cooks for you & does monkey styles in bed, you should then be ready to pay back in equal measure.The law of sowing & reaping is still real. It states that "Do not be fooled, for whatever a man sows, that he shall also reap." The seeds of unfaithfulness you've been sowing, in the fullness of time,if you do not change your ways,you shall reap of the same because you cannot plant mangoes & reap oranges.If you sow unfaithfulness, you shall also get a harvest. A foolish woman/man destroys his household with his own hands but a wise one builds with their hands.Be a builder & not a destroyer!

1.I can't stand a guy who cannot lead me. I can't deal with wimpy men. 2. He must be strong enough to withstand tough times & not be whinning every moment about everything. 3.He must have a vision for the relationship. 4. I also can't take disrespect of any kind whether verbal or any other kind. 5. Most of all,he must be a man of faith.He must know His God (Jesus) & know Him well.

Pavore9:
Well this may be my last xmas in Kenya, heading to ltaly.

Hood for you,hope everything works out fine.

Pavore9:
Doing good! where you at now and how did you celebrate your National day yesterday?

Am in Boston.The part where am at so far I've only met two Kenyans though I moved here in August.Was busy with work so it just was like any other day.

Pavore9:
Though l live in Nairobi,my kitchen is well stocked wit home foodstuff- egusi, ogbono, uda, achi, cocoyam, uziza, ehuru, crayfish, cameroun pepper (all ground). l get my palm oil from Congo.

Hows my beautiful city doin?Miss Nairobi like crazy.

johncreek:
When u were licking the kitten was it sweet?

Being physically tall or developed doesn't guarantee mental maturity.Some are 6ft tall but have the brain of a 6 month old.#myhumbleopinion.

baralatie:
what description or traits do you think points in that direction.

.the owner of this write up stated no sex,no kissing as a mean of relationship for two years.howcsex addicts ever stick to such policy.lai lai!!!!they would rather become born again to Jesus Christ than stoop so vague!
now study the very words the writer used.the description is about what happened and not an overview of a habit
1,she took her bath,laid on the bed in expectation.man comes in tells her no playing and went locomotive.no affection only rough intimacy to the point of exhaustion.
it clearly shows that the two do not have some form of connection only association.sex addiction is not involved in this write up only two individuals with differences.

One of the charecteristics of sex addicts is multiple affairs or/and could be serial masturbators.He uses sex as a tool to take back control or numb his personal isssues She talks of being forced to have sex multiple times & doesn't pay attention to her pain or fatigue.He also has no remorse after.These & more are some of the traits of a sex addict but since he probably had another way of having his sex needs met before he married her,she had no way of knowing that he has the problem.

baralatie:
point of correction.the guy in the write up is not even close to been a sex addict.
in simple terms,imagine dancing to Mozart and dancing to traditional Igbo music.the two operate on different frequencies and rules.so is love and intimacy.both couples are self centered personalities

But why does the description seem to point to that direction?He does have the traits of a sex addict.

[color=#770077][/color]Iam so sorry to hear about your ordeal. Here is what I have to say.;It sounds like your husband has a problem of sex addiction. Sex addiction is a symptom of an underlying personal disorder. Addicts use sex as a tool to medicate their pain.They use sex to numb their feelings. Like an alcoholic unable to stop drinking, they may not stop without professional help. A sex addict tries tosatisfy inner needs such as love & acceptance by controlling the partner through sex. You must know that just wishing for him to snap out of his bad behavior,doesn't mean it will happen.I don't think divorce is the answer until you've turned every stone.What then should you do? 1.You must recognize the pattern & put a stop to it. Refuse to take part in it.Every time you comply with his demands,it gives him a license to continue in those things. 2.
Prepare your mind for a nasty & ugly battle. 3.Collect all the evidence.If he has this behavior, he probably watches porn or might have extra-marital affairs.Evidence could be call logs,receipts,porn DVDs,Use of drugs, etc.When you've gathered evidence, then it's time for confrontation. 4. If he admits & is remorseful,be supportive & seek professional help. 5.Respect yourself enough to set boundaries with his behavior that feels disrespectful.You could sign a contract,stating what is acceptable & unacceptable as well as consequences. Both of you should sign & each should have a copy.After defining boundaries, then if they are broken, you must be strong enough yo follow through with consequences It's the only way he'll know that you are not playing games.But you must walk away from fear. 6.If he refuses to admit & doesn't show remorse, tell him " it's either me or the addiction". You also need to confide in a professional such as marriage counsellor or a social worker.Most hospitals have social workers on sight. You have to know that change begins with you. As long as you continue to curl up in fear & allow him to violate you,it will continue.Another reason why you must let someone know is incase things move to physical & your life is at risk.By the way if it gets to that point you should run for your life. 7 .Read about emotional abuse & dealing with a sex-addicted spouse.Education is power.Not only will it empower you, but it will give you coping mechanisms & teach you a lot of lessons that you'll need to walk this journey. 8.Prayer changes things. If You are a person of faith,don't forget to pray. WISH YOU STRENGTH!

dre11:
So, am guessing that cooking is one of ur hobbies and what other ones...........
Ladies always don't want to disclose that they always love to hide their man until its get there.. .....

Hope the winter is not biting hard and the immigration policy....... How is it affecting those immigrants and are people buying the government carrot and stick on that policy

Cooking & doing make up are two things I love to do.Winter is just knocking.We've had a couple of snow days but it hasn't been serious.I have to be honest that I haven't been following the immigration thing so I wouldn't be the best to explain how it's going but all is well.

GenBuhari:
I need to get HIV so I could look as healthy as him

As someone that worked in the healthcare industry, I not only find your comment dumb but also very insensitive.If one has nothing good to say,it's better to be quiet than to make such offensive remarks.

Pavore9:
@Beey, just as you ladies are passing time with them so are they with you because at the end of the day both sides go back to their nationals. l love kenya bt there are some levels both are not compatible. By the way l live in Lavington, so no hearsay.

Well,if you put it that way.I agree that we have some differences.It's annoying though for people to come out & generalize the negative aspects of Kenyan ladies.If one treated someone badly, one cannot judge all Kenyan ladies based on his past bad experience.Everywhere, there are the good & also the bad.I hate stereotypes & yes I must say I was offended by that statement that somebody made earlier.

carefreewannabe:
Well said.

Thanks

dre11:



So it's u and ur guy that did celebrate the day alone.......
Worked :of somethings we do just because we had to balance the accounts,
That means u did had short celebration

And as per sport
Do u mean u don't like indoor games too........

Hahaha , it wasn't me and another. I was miss solo on that day.I see what an active imagination you have.I ate Turkey St work.As for sports, it's all kinds.I love trying different recipes & doing make up which is very girly & not in the sports category.

Misogynist2014:
EVEN LUCIFER WILL NOT FORGIVE YOU FOR CALLING THE SERVANT OF GOD A MERE HUMAN. IS IT A MUST TO WRITE?

Abeg, it depends on which God because there are many gods that men serve but the God that the Bible talks about is Yahweh, Jehovah.From this article, I doubt that the so called man of God knows Him.

dre11:
Woa

Thats something I can't phantom
Am sure u had alot of visitors around and u did visit others too


Have u any affinity for sports

I didn't invite anyone,I worked all day.Sports sports.I've tried & I just never got to like sports.Could be coz my Dad doesn't watch sports either, so I never got to like them.Am just not a sports girl.