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dre11:
Being trying something new here on nairaland
Like writing being a member of the prose and poem family and trying mah hand on it


So u mean the cold kept u away from nairaland but it didn't akeep u away from doing ur work

So there's now poem writing on Nairaland? OK oh,I admit that I had been away for a while & yes cold was part of the reason but you, Jbluv55,bantino & the rest of the crew are very missable.

rattlesnake:
Are they married?
Sinners

Let him who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.

toludadon:
abi o...instead of him answering me, he went the way of semantics

Yes,let the person define wisdom to us coz what you said was dismissed as foolishness.

deltateam:
My question goes to you, will you obey God or your senses? For the wisdom of men is foolishness in the sight of God.

You did not answer the question all you did was bring in another question.We want a "yes" or "no" answer. Proverbs 4:6-7" Do not forsake wisdom, she will protect you ;love her and she will watch over you."Wisdom will protect you from potential premature death that could be caused by making dumb decisions

mutualrespect:
The bible is clear in this regard, the book of Malachi says God hates divorce. And should you divorce, it has to be adultery and you must remain unmarried even as a divorcee until the other party dies. This is biblical standard unless you are a xtian. Regards,

Many women have died in the hands of violent men.Some stayed for the sake of kids & others forgave into their graves.Are you saying that such women should stay with their husbands because the Bible isn't black & white clear about the issue of physical abuse?

Iam a Christian but I cannot cope with these: 1 Infidelity - A cheating spouse is a health hazard.They can easily send you into an early grave. If you get one like that,run & don't look back. 2 Physical abuse- An abusive spouse who beats the lights out of you doesn't deserve you.If like their cheating cousin they don't kill you,then they might leave you paralyzed. *Run* 3 .A pysopath spouse.This kind,will do things that many of only read about in novels or watch in movies.This kind can molest your child or they can easily add poison to your drink.They can lie in the name of God & look into your eye & have zero% remorse for their actions.This is what I like to refer to as the spouse from hell.If you get one like that friends,take off immediately ,tomorrow might be too late.

dre11:
Am doing great
It's being long

Am sure this have did occupied you to have kept u away
And don't tell me it's work ooooo


Am sure it's more than work

Hehe, the cold kept me away.It's finally started to feel like winter.Very cold.So what have you been up to?

drstone1:
It turns my belly n instantly turns d person to an abhorrent "thing" I want to keep away from for eons! Dis respect is realy my No 1 turn off!

Glad to know am not the only one that can't take it.The other day my own friend called me.We had been playing phone tag all day.So when he called I happened to be on another call.I asked him if I could call back.It hadn't even been a minute when I called back & his phone went to voicemail.He didn't call me till two days later & I ignored all his calls.However last night when he called to tell me he is in hospital, I gave him a piece of my mind.I can't stand disrespectful friends either.It's a huge turn off.

dre11:


U went away like that without notice
How are u?

very good sir.I hope you are doing well.

dre11:
Hum

Waving back at her

Hey you!

I have no problem with Tonto being generous. What I have a problem with,is people who like to show the world how generous they are & yet their own blood is wallowing in poverty. They are busy helping everyone else except their own.I hope this isn't the case with Tonto.

I have zero tolerance for disrespect in whichever form it may come in.Be it, through talk or actions,I can't stand it.You disrespect me and am outta the door.Period!

Wonderlands:
tell her to shave her armpit hair clean and use deodorants and tell her to bath regularly, and its transferable, dumbass

All the stuff am seeing from deodorants & others recommending dettol ,you don't use that stuff on a lady's down south.It's recipe for yeast infection. Ladies should not use scented stuff down there.What she needs is to see a gynaecologist to have some lab sample taken and to also be examined so that she can get the right treatment.

A woman's sex life is not a communal business, it's her own business.Why should the question be asked in the first place ?Unless it's the person she's in love with asking, all other peeping Toms are intruders.#Herbodyherbusiness #Mindyourownbusiness

thegoodjoehunt3:
My pretty younger sister was developing a moustache. I told her about Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). She met a gynaecologist. He put her on some injection and in less than a week, the hairs were gone.

It has been two years and she has had no reoccurrence.

Mmmh,glad she's ok.It can be very embarassing.But,you know as Africans we are taught that most things are destined to be that way.Thank God she has a smart brother.Thanks for the correction,I missed out ovarian.

lizzymomma:
I would like to sample opinions from fellow bearded ladies and guys alike. It's quite unique to be different. Are you hairy, do you have a moustache, do you have beards.

1. how do you deal or take care of it?
2. Does it affect your relationship with the opposite sex
3. For the married ones, do your husbands approve of it?does he still love you as before.k
4.How do you cope being a bearded lady in a society that disapprove of such.
5. has it affected your health in any other ways?

Men,
please do you love bearded ladies?
Can you marry a bearded lady?
Is it true that bearded ladies are wicked?. i would realy love to get opinions. i love the way God created all.

Oga Seun, mukina2, obinoscopy, mynd44. please move this to front page, you might just save a life.

Aunty: aisha2, cococandy,sophyrocks,chaircover, sambarry, chillisauce, nashville, hispikolo,,kanwulia, and many more wonderful nairalanders, kindly share from your wealth of wisdom. thank you

It's important for such a lady not to just sit & assume that it's the way she was created.It's important to see a doctor also, just to be sure that hormonal imbalance is not the cause.Hormone progesterone is found predominantly in males but women too have it but in low amount normally.However when progesterone is a little too much than required, that can cause problems such as excess body hair in women.Too much estrogen also can cause problems.Check out polycystic syndrome , though a doctor would be the best to give advice.I agree that one can be born naturally hairy but it's good to rule out any medical issues.

It's got to be foundation.

nomabeeee:
soo nice sweeri..exactly wat I had in mind when I said I won't be cooking for him all the time..but they seem not to understand it..anyway evryone is entitled to his/her opinion..*exists*

Thanks chickie! I know what you mean.There have been different kinds of reactions from this discussion. I say everyone with his own.But men may not always say it out loud, but they like ladies who have principles set in place & live by them.

Jbluv55:
Fine dear. Tis bin a while o. Hope you're ok .

Yes,I've been good.Glad you are well.

Jbluv55:
BeeyBeey

Hey Jbluv55.How are you doing?

Certifiedboss:
I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

I know what you mean.Thanks.

TahariX:
Standing ovation!!

Thank you.

dre11:
Glad to hear that
What's up with u this weekend


Anything new

It's more of an indoor weekend.1st day of snow & it's yucky out.Heading to church.Hope you good.

Certifiedboss:
And how does a guy feel if the relationship end after talking care of huge financial needs. My dear you sounded selfish because I don't want to believe that if your bf gives you huge sum of money you will reject it just because you feel it's suppose to be wife's benefit and not gf benefit. Relationship is a two way thing. You only feel used when you have such mentality. You only feel used when you feel as you cooked for him he is suppose to marry you. Relationship is what you enjoy why it last and hope it leads to forever. If you keep going in to relationship with the 100% believe the it will lead to marriage then you're setting yourself for heartbreak. On my part, no girl I've dated have cleaned my house or don't my laundries and that because I see those things as simple things and I can do them myself. But if I date a girl and when she comes to my house we always go out to buy food through out her stay then she's wicked because I don't know how to cook. The fact remains that if you love your bf you won't see cooking for him as a big deal just the way your bf won't see spending his money on you as a big deal if he truly loves you.
And I quoted what you said about Beyonce because you used her as an example so I judged you based on what you said

It's ok.For me,I've never been the kind of girl who expects a lot from a boyfriend because am not his wife.I don't expect him to buy me clothes or pay for my hair because again girlfriends shouldn't be getting wife privileges.I consider dating as a time to go out & have fun & get to know one another.It's not a time to cook & do laundry or buy clothes & pay for hair.Trust me it gets to a time when you are expecting seriousness from dates & not jokers because you are getting too old for games.Such times you don't get into a relationship expecting it to break.You hope things will work out & hopefully lead to marriage.As for boyfriend giving money,let him give because he wants to nut not because it's an obligation.She's a girlfriend , not a wife.

CFCfan:
Another brilliant post! You've said it all.

Thank you.

Certifiedboss:
Trust me Beyonce must have made a meal or two for JayZ before they got married. Don't let her songs fool you. She only made a rhyme. Girls like you are the type another fellow girl will give wrong advise and you end up loosing your relationship. The fact remains that two people that are truly in love won't see this as an issue

Please refer to my previous post.You are responding to a half- baked story because you've not seen the whoke baked stuff.If she made meals,that's her business since am Beey & not Beyonce .As for me,I have no business cooking meals for a boyfriend.Like I said in my previous post,boyfriends are just boyfriends & shouldn't be enjoying husband privileges.I can make him a meal once in a while if he wants to know whether I can cook but I'll make it at my place.However,it shouldn't be an everytime kind of expectation.I cook coz I want to.I also said that I can cook for him in odd circumstances such as sickness.But when a lady gets into the habit of cooking & doing laundry, it doesn't guarantee that he'll marry you.It's not an automatic ticket to marriage.Should the relationship fail,you are left feeling hurt & used.If am food enough to cook, am also good enough to wife. Please,any girl reading these comments, has freedom of choice.They don't have to take my advice.There are many advisers & they can pick the advice of their choice.Am just voicing my opinion just like Anyone else on this forum.

Pamcrest:
I agree! These same men expecting a gf to cook for them on another thread will vow not to do certain things for a gf simply because she's not his wife.....hypocrisy or male chauvinism!
When he proposes, then he can expect wifely treatment! Dating n marriage is not d same thing
My humble submission

Haha,my sister from another mother,I totally agree with you.Even Beyonce told them that if they like it,they should put a ring on it.Period!Thank you.

dre11:
Still missed beey and gatzjokes here

Seems texanomaly have bone this side





But I just say a happy new month to u lovely ladies

Dre11, how are you? I"ve been good.

Ladies please don't go cooking.Cooking doen't guarantee that he'll marry you. If you cook & do laundry & play the role of a wife, if the relationship doesn't work out in the end it means you gonna feel very hurt & used.If he wonna taste my cooking, I can do it at my place, because I know men wonna know if their women can cook before popping the big question.It shouldn't be an expectation though,I cook coz I want to and under odd circumstsnces such as sickness.However, I promised myself to never be found in a man's kitchen,cooking for him if am not his wife.Boyfriends are not supposed to be enjoying husband privileges.That's why they are just boyfriends.After all,If one is freely getting milk,why buy the cow anyway?#Ladieslearn.

Jbluv55:
And how's your weekend going?

My weekend turned out fine Jbluv55.I hope all is well with you.

Bonaguy:
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Linda wore this beautiful dress by Carmen Marc Valvo and a matching Jimmy Choose purse. #beautiful...

http://www.gistmetro.com/2014/10/linda-ikejis-outfit-to-genevieve.html

I haven't heard of Jimmy Choose but I've heard of Jimmy Choo

Jbluv55:
BeeyBeey . Tis bin a while ma'am. How are you?

jbluv55, I've been good my friend.Can't complain,how are things going with you?