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dre11:
Hum

Waving back at her

Hey you!

I have no problem with Tonto being generous. What I have a problem with,is people who like to show the world how generous they are & yet their own blood is wallowing in poverty. They are busy helping everyone else except their own.I hope this isn't the case with Tonto.

I have zero tolerance for disrespect in whichever form it may come in.Be it, through talk or actions,I can't stand it.You disrespect me and am outta the door.Period!

Wonderlands:
tell her to shave her armpit hair clean and use deodorants and tell her to bath regularly, and its transferable, dumbass

All the stuff am seeing from deodorants & others recommending dettol ,you don't use that stuff on a lady's down south.It's recipe for yeast infection. Ladies should not use scented stuff down there.What she needs is to see a gynaecologist to have some lab sample taken and to also be examined so that she can get the right treatment.

A woman's sex life is not a communal business, it's her own business.Why should the question be asked in the first place ?Unless it's the person she's in love with asking, all other peeping Toms are intruders.#Herbodyherbusiness #Mindyourownbusiness

thegoodjoehunt3:
My pretty younger sister was developing a moustache. I told her about Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). She met a gynaecologist. He put her on some injection and in less than a week, the hairs were gone.

It has been two years and she has had no reoccurrence.

Mmmh,glad she's ok.It can be very embarassing.But,you know as Africans we are taught that most things are destined to be that way.Thank God she has a smart brother.Thanks for the correction,I missed out ovarian.

lizzymomma:
I would like to sample opinions from fellow bearded ladies and guys alike. It's quite unique to be different. Are you hairy, do you have a moustache, do you have beards.

1. how do you deal or take care of it?
2. Does it affect your relationship with the opposite sex
3. For the married ones, do your husbands approve of it?does he still love you as before.k
4.How do you cope being a bearded lady in a society that disapprove of such.
5. has it affected your health in any other ways?

Men,
please do you love bearded ladies?
Can you marry a bearded lady?
Is it true that bearded ladies are wicked?. i would realy love to get opinions. i love the way God created all.

Oga Seun, mukina2, obinoscopy, mynd44. please move this to front page, you might just save a life.

Aunty: aisha2, cococandy,sophyrocks,chaircover, sambarry, chillisauce, nashville, hispikolo,,kanwulia, and many more wonderful nairalanders, kindly share from your wealth of wisdom. thank you

It's important for such a lady not to just sit & assume that it's the way she was created.It's important to see a doctor also, just to be sure that hormonal imbalance is not the cause.Hormone progesterone is found predominantly in males but women too have it but in low amount normally.However when progesterone is a little too much than required, that can cause problems such as excess body hair in women.Too much estrogen also can cause problems.Check out polycystic syndrome , though a doctor would be the best to give advice.I agree that one can be born naturally hairy but it's good to rule out any medical issues.

It's got to be foundation.

nomabeeee:
soo nice sweeri..exactly wat I had in mind when I said I won't be cooking for him all the time..but they seem not to understand it..anyway evryone is entitled to his/her opinion..*exists*

Thanks chickie! I know what you mean.There have been different kinds of reactions from this discussion. I say everyone with his own.But men may not always say it out loud, but they like ladies who have principles set in place & live by them.

Jbluv55:
Fine dear. Tis bin a while o. Hope you're ok .

Yes,I've been good.Glad you are well.

Jbluv55:
BeeyBeey

Hey Jbluv55.How are you doing?

Certifiedboss:
I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

I know what you mean.Thanks.

TahariX:
Standing ovation!!

Thank you.

dre11:
Glad to hear that
What's up with u this weekend


Anything new

It's more of an indoor weekend.1st day of snow & it's yucky out.Heading to church.Hope you good.

Certifiedboss:
And how does a guy feel if the relationship end after talking care of huge financial needs. My dear you sounded selfish because I don't want to believe that if your bf gives you huge sum of money you will reject it just because you feel it's suppose to be wife's benefit and not gf benefit. Relationship is a two way thing. You only feel used when you have such mentality. You only feel used when you feel as you cooked for him he is suppose to marry you. Relationship is what you enjoy why it last and hope it leads to forever. If you keep going in to relationship with the 100% believe the it will lead to marriage then you're setting yourself for heartbreak. On my part, no girl I've dated have cleaned my house or don't my laundries and that because I see those things as simple things and I can do them myself. But if I date a girl and when she comes to my house we always go out to buy food through out her stay then she's wicked because I don't know how to cook. The fact remains that if you love your bf you won't see cooking for him as a big deal just the way your bf won't see spending his money on you as a big deal if he truly loves you.
And I quoted what you said about Beyonce because you used her as an example so I judged you based on what you said

It's ok.For me,I've never been the kind of girl who expects a lot from a boyfriend because am not his wife.I don't expect him to buy me clothes or pay for my hair because again girlfriends shouldn't be getting wife privileges.I consider dating as a time to go out & have fun & get to know one another.It's not a time to cook & do laundry or buy clothes & pay for hair.Trust me it gets to a time when you are expecting seriousness from dates & not jokers because you are getting too old for games.Such times you don't get into a relationship expecting it to break.You hope things will work out & hopefully lead to marriage.As for boyfriend giving money,let him give because he wants to nut not because it's an obligation.She's a girlfriend , not a wife.

CFCfan:
Another brilliant post! You've said it all.

Thank you.

Certifiedboss:
Trust me Beyonce must have made a meal or two for JayZ before they got married. Don't let her songs fool you. She only made a rhyme. Girls like you are the type another fellow girl will give wrong advise and you end up loosing your relationship. The fact remains that two people that are truly in love won't see this as an issue

Please refer to my previous post.You are responding to a half- baked story because you've not seen the whoke baked stuff.If she made meals,that's her business since am Beey & not Beyonce .As for me,I have no business cooking meals for a boyfriend.Like I said in my previous post,boyfriends are just boyfriends & shouldn't be enjoying husband privileges.I can make him a meal once in a while if he wants to know whether I can cook but I'll make it at my place.However,it shouldn't be an everytime kind of expectation.I cook coz I want to.I also said that I can cook for him in odd circumstances such as sickness.But when a lady gets into the habit of cooking & doing laundry, it doesn't guarantee that he'll marry you.It's not an automatic ticket to marriage.Should the relationship fail,you are left feeling hurt & used.If am food enough to cook, am also good enough to wife. Please,any girl reading these comments, has freedom of choice.They don't have to take my advice.There are many advisers & they can pick the advice of their choice.Am just voicing my opinion just like Anyone else on this forum.

Pamcrest:
I agree! These same men expecting a gf to cook for them on another thread will vow not to do certain things for a gf simply because she's not his wife.....hypocrisy or male chauvinism!
When he proposes, then he can expect wifely treatment! Dating n marriage is not d same thing
My humble submission

Haha,my sister from another mother,I totally agree with you.Even Beyonce told them that if they like it,they should put a ring on it.Period!Thank you.

dre11:
Still missed beey and gatzjokes here

Seems texanomaly have bone this side





But I just say a happy new month to u lovely ladies

Dre11, how are you? I"ve been good.

Ladies please don't go cooking.Cooking doen't guarantee that he'll marry you. If you cook & do laundry & play the role of a wife, if the relationship doesn't work out in the end it means you gonna feel very hurt & used.If he wonna taste my cooking, I can do it at my place, because I know men wonna know if their women can cook before popping the big question.It shouldn't be an expectation though,I cook coz I want to and under odd circumstsnces such as sickness.However, I promised myself to never be found in a man's kitchen,cooking for him if am not his wife.Boyfriends are not supposed to be enjoying husband privileges.That's why they are just boyfriends.After all,If one is freely getting milk,why buy the cow anyway?#Ladieslearn.

Jbluv55:
And how's your weekend going?

My weekend turned out fine Jbluv55.I hope all is well with you.

Bonaguy:
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Linda wore this beautiful dress by Carmen Marc Valvo and a matching Jimmy Choose purse. #beautiful...

http://www.gistmetro.com/2014/10/linda-ikejis-outfit-to-genevieve.html

I haven't heard of Jimmy Choose but I've heard of Jimmy Choo

Jbluv55:
BeeyBeey . Tis bin a while ma'am. How are you?

jbluv55, I've been good my friend.Can't complain,how are things going with you?

dre11:
It will always get better
That's a prayer everyone has on his lips when leaving for the day business

***** I guess the big man up there is thinking more about u than I could phantom.... So let's be grateful******

Just asking. .... Is it morning at ur end

At this time it's afternoon.

dre11:
Mah lovely and beautiful sister

I wouldn't say I hide
But during those period I did spare a thought of u and I had to break that forced holiday to see who have being missing


And one of them was u

How did ur day go?

My day is lovely so far.Hoping it will only get better.Glad someone was thinking of me.

dre11:
Hi everyone
It's nice to be back.. ..


Missed u all like kilode.
The plutorians say make I dey greet una ooo
It's nice to be back

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And that mismore wey dey make mouth.. ....



How una dey
Hope he no rain for una side sha

Dre11, where have you been Hidding all this time?Sending a hug, welcome back you were missed while away.

Yields:
It's great you realized it's not for you. Are you now studying something you enjoy?

When I was in high school, I knew that I wanted to be a career diplomat.Due to the pressure from those I found, I started to pursue nursing which I said I just quit in May.The city I was living in had only one school offering international relations whichvwas a graduate course. I had to go to Boston which is like one hour away from mybold town because it has many schools offering undergraduate courses in I.R. Haven't sent applications & waiting for response.

I tried nursing here in the States because that's what most Africans do.I however realized it's not meant for everybody.You gotta love it.I took classes & was ready for the program then I quit.I can't be a nurse but appreciate nurses.And truth be said it's not the easiest job especially for beginners who have no specialty.

By their fruits you shall know them.An orange tree cannot bring forth mangoes.

Reference:
So women do not look beautiful to you. You must mention that in your consultancy oh.

You put words I'm my mouth. I did not say women aren't beautiful.They already are.What make-up does is to enhance the already good features to look even better.It's an art & we need yo appreciate art in our society.

nattie5:
That is done in the states doesn't make it a standard practice. Can't you have an opinion of your own without linking it to 'a supposedly superior factor'? That's inferiority complex smelling.

Call it inferiority complex or whatever you like.As for me am a make-up lover & I intend to take make-up classes inorder to make women look beautiful during my free time as a side job.Is it now a crime for one to raise his /her opinion because one will be labelled A or B? Please, I don't know why people like to major in minors instead of dwelling on the more complex issues.I hope to be a make-up Mom & I have no apology or regrets.

There's nothing wrong with it.Here in the states, they have make-up specific for little girls.It doesn't have foundation & all that but it's more like play- stuff.Has a lot of sparkle & it's mostly lip gloss, eye-shadow & blush.It doesn't contain the chemicals found in adult make-up.Little girls like to copy their moms & instead of trying the adult stuff,I find nothing wrong with buying them kids makeup.Also by age 9 as many approach teens & see their friends wearing makeup, as a parent you don't even need to tell them, they just ask for it.Also some teens suffer from acne & I think make-up helps boost their self-esteem & covers the skin flaws.