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onitshaigbo:Mark 12:17 " Then Jesus said, Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar, and to God what is God's." It's Biblical to abide by the laws of the land according to Jesus & I believe pastors are not exempt. |
thecommunist:I beg to differ with you. The "Sons of God" in this Scripture is not literal. "The sons of God" are said to be religion professors from the lineage of Seth.They were also called by the name of the Lord.When they intermarried with Canaanites & other communities that worshipped idol gods, these women were then referred to as " daughters of men".The offspring from these marriages were called "nephrim". So saying that the sons of God were spirits is the wrong interpretation.Pls note, God is a capital "G" & not small. |
jesuslovesme123:Give me just one Scripture in the Bible that talks of spiritual husband /wife. Just one Scripture. |
AJ01:TB Joshua is a false prophet.We don't need all that drama he& his actors perform on pulpits.All we need is faith.If he has any powers,they are not of God ,they are from a strange source.Miracle chasers cannot see that though, because they want instant miracles Be like the Berean Christians.Study your Bibles and you'll not be tossed about by every wind of doctrine. |
Allureoftheseas:Those Indian gurus are representatives of Satan.As for me and my house,we are covered by the blood of Jesus.I suggest you seek salvation in Jesus because His blood will never loose it's power. |
busterr:Am also wondering. False doctrines.That's why I'll be Presbyterian for life. |
Allureoftheseas:Jesus! What kind of teaching is this? So Christians now pour libation like the occult people? Nawa oh. I never hear this kain thing before. Your practices are no better than those of witches & wizards.The whole doctrine of deliverance is a mess.God alone is the deliverer & not some pastor. A Pastor may pray with you & guide you in the ways of the Lord but God has the final say.You don't need to go and do some theatricals on a pulpit to be delivered.All you need is faith! |
It does beat my understanding how a man can be playing with hot charcoal and then expect not to burn his fingers. Mr.Man, you see women are smarter now than they were in the yester years.They know that it's unjust for anyone to work for free.If she cooks for you & does monkey styles in bed, you should then be ready to pay back in equal measure.The law of sowing & reaping is still real. It states that "Do not be fooled, for whatever a man sows, that he shall also reap." The seeds of unfaithfulness you've been sowing, in the fullness of time,if you do not change your ways,you shall reap of the same because you cannot plant mangoes & reap oranges.If you sow unfaithfulness, you shall also get a harvest. A foolish woman/man destroys his household with his own hands but a wise one builds with their hands.Be a builder & not a destroyer! |
1.I can't stand a guy who cannot lead me. I can't deal with wimpy men. 2. He must be strong enough to withstand tough times & not be whinning every moment about everything. 3.He must have a vision for the relationship. 4. I also can't take disrespect of any kind whether verbal or any other kind. 5. Most of all,he must be a man of faith.He must know His God (Jesus) & know Him well. |
Pavore9:Hood for you,hope everything works out fine. |
Pavore9:Am in Boston.The part where am at so far I've only met two Kenyans though I moved here in August.Was busy with work so it just was like any other day. |
Pavore9:Hows my beautiful city doin?Miss Nairobi like crazy. |
johncreek:Being physically tall or developed doesn't guarantee mental maturity.Some are 6ft tall but have the brain of a 6 month old.#myhumbleopinion. |
baralatie:One of the charecteristics of sex addicts is multiple affairs or/and could be serial masturbators.He uses sex as a tool to take back control or numb his personal isssues She talks of being forced to have sex multiple times & doesn't pay attention to her pain or fatigue.He also has no remorse after.These & more are some of the traits of a sex addict but since he probably had another way of having his sex needs met before he married her,she had no way of knowing that he has the problem. |
baralatie:But why does the description seem to point to that direction?He does have the traits of a sex addict. |
[color=#770077][/color]Iam so sorry to hear about your ordeal. Here is what I have to say.;It sounds like your husband has a problem of sex addiction. Sex addiction is a symptom of an underlying personal disorder. Addicts use sex as a tool to medicate their pain.They use sex to numb their feelings. Like an alcoholic unable to stop drinking, they may not stop without professional help. A sex addict tries tosatisfy inner needs such as love & acceptance by controlling the partner through sex. You must know that just wishing for him to snap out of his bad behavior,doesn't mean it will happen.I don't think divorce is the answer until you've turned every stone.What then should you do? 1.You must recognize the pattern & put a stop to it. Refuse to take part in it.Every time you comply with his demands,it gives him a license to continue in those things. 2. Prepare your mind for a nasty & ugly battle. 3.Collect all the evidence.If he has this behavior, he probably watches porn or might have extra-marital affairs.Evidence could be call logs,receipts,porn DVDs,Use of drugs, etc.When you've gathered evidence, then it's time for confrontation. 4. If he admits & is remorseful,be supportive & seek professional help. 5.Respect yourself enough to set boundaries with his behavior that feels disrespectful.You could sign a contract,stating what is acceptable & unacceptable as well as consequences. Both of you should sign & each should have a copy.After defining boundaries, then if they are broken, you must be strong enough yo follow through with consequences It's the only way he'll know that you are not playing games.But you must walk away from fear. 6.If he refuses to admit & doesn't show remorse, tell him " it's either me or the addiction". You also need to confide in a professional such as marriage counsellor or a social worker.Most hospitals have social workers on sight. You have to know that change begins with you. As long as you continue to curl up in fear & allow him to violate you,it will continue.Another reason why you must let someone know is incase things move to physical & your life is at risk.By the way if it gets to that point you should run for your life. 7 .Read about emotional abuse & dealing with a sex-addicted spouse.Education is power.Not only will it empower you, but it will give you coping mechanisms & teach you a lot of lessons that you'll need to walk this journey. 8.Prayer changes things. If You are a person of faith,don't forget to pray. WISH YOU STRENGTH! |
dre11:Cooking & doing make up are two things I love to do.Winter is just knocking.We've had a couple of snow days but it hasn't been serious.I have to be honest that I haven't been following the immigration thing so I wouldn't be the best to explain how it's going but all is well. |
GenBuhari:As someone that worked in the healthcare industry, I not only find your comment dumb but also very insensitive.If one has nothing good to say,it's better to be quiet than to make such offensive remarks. |
Pavore9:Well,if you put it that way.I agree that we have some differences.It's annoying though for people to come out & generalize the negative aspects of Kenyan ladies.If one treated someone badly, one cannot judge all Kenyan ladies based on his past bad experience.Everywhere, there are the good & also the bad.I hate stereotypes & yes I must say I was offended by that statement that somebody made earlier. |
carefreewannabe:Thanks |
dre11:Hahaha , it wasn't me and another. I was miss solo on that day.I see what an active imagination you have.I ate Turkey St work.As for sports, it's all kinds.I love trying different recipes & doing make up which is very girly & not in the sports category. |
Misogynist2014:Abeg, it depends on which God because there are many gods that men serve but the God that the Bible talks about is Yahweh, Jehovah.From this article, I doubt that the so called man of God knows Him. |
dre11:I didn't invite anyone,I worked all day.Sports sports.I've tried & I just never got to like sports.Could be coz my Dad doesn't watch sports either, so I never got to like them.Am just not a sports girl. |
Just stopped by to say hi! |
YungwizzzyPt7:Some people suffer from a condition of negative sight.Those suffering from such only see negative and never the positive things.They are quick to make nasty comments and slow to celebrate good things about others.It's in celebrating others that we too are celebrated. It doesn't cost a thing to say congratulations! |
dre11:You can imagine that they wait all year for Thanksgiving It's such a big deal to the Americans such that even the ones who gave no affiliation with any religious group & may not celebrate Hannukah,Diwali,Ramadan or Christmas, even those celebrate Thanksgiving.They do get togethers & is celebrated by people of different faiths so here in America, Independence day & Thanksgiving are bigger than even Christmas. |
dre11:Not guess work.I don't know how many turkeys America eats on Thanksgiving.Thanks for the good wishes & have a lovely one yourself. |
Pavore9:That's not the reason. Let me tell you the reason.Nigerian men are handled wit suspicion in Kenya.They are considered good for passing time but not husband material. Kenyan ladies are scared of them since they have a history of indulging in dubious activities.Besides,if they felt Kenyans weren't good enough for them,what then would they be doing in Kenya? |
emmanuel4758:Go ask your French translators to translate for you or better still go back to a laguage school . |
Pavore9:What wrong did my people do to you?Iam a Kenyan asking on behalf of Kenyan ladies. And all those liking your comment probably don't know any Kenyan lady & are liking based on heresy .SMH! |
blemon44:The word is mere not mare.Just a little correction. |
dre11:Haha, I hope not.We are safe. |
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