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Newly weds, Sharon and Phillip Frimpong,got married a few weeks ago. Daughter of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, now Carrissa Frimpong (also known as CSO) shared a few never seen before pictures of her wedding and honeymoon on her Instagram.

See pictures below:

https://livelystones.com.ng/pastor-chris-oyakhilomes-daughter-cso-shares-honey-moon-pics/

Hmnnn, watch n pray is my only advise

Good afternoon lively Stone,

Hide my identity. I have been dating Dotun (not real name) for almost three years. He always promised to marry me before the end of each year but he eventually he will come up with excuses why he cannot marry me. He always plead with me to be patient and wait.

I am not getting any younger and this thing is bothering me. So in May,I traveled to the village and I told my mother what is happening and she said we will go and see my auntie that is a prophetess so she will pray for me. I used to think my auntie was a weird prophetess. I even feared she was fetish one time so I really did not like going to see her.

But my mother made me go and see her. While we were there,My auntie saw vision that there is another woman trying to take Dotun away from me. She said I can confirm it and so I came back to Ibadan and confronted Dotun.

Dotun denied it but I took his phone which I usually don’t do and I went through his messages and found out that he and one Funke are lovers. I cried and cried. Dotun was just looking at me,not even trying to comfort me. The next thing he says is,now that you know,no need to pretend anymore. That he loves this Funke girl and she is the one he will marry.

I couldn’t take it anymore. I .....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-going-to-loose-my-fiance-my-auntie-brought-him-back-to-me/

Pls NL does it mean that vibrator doesn't have side effect? Pls what are the side effect? How can a women prefers vibrator to her husband, I mean the real thing

Madam Jzhane,

I thank you for what you are doing to help marriages through your platform. I joined your telegram group about a month ago and I have learnt so much. I believe many more married people should join the platform because it will be beneficial to all.

If I must confess,I initially joined the telegram group for selfish reasons. I was actually looking for women to have fun with. I have joined one other whats app group like that and I met a lot of women through the group. Some married women,some single women.

I am a married man. I have been married for 16 years. Me and My wife got married when we were 24 years old. We were very young and all our children came before she was 28. After so many years,things are ok but our marriage has become boring. When my wife was younger,we used to have s*x almost every day. But with the children,her business,things are no longer the same.

It was when we were about 33 years that things became quite different. She would travel alot for her business while I was also chasing my career. We can even go a whole month without sx. Now,its months without sx .We were drifting apart but we did not know it. When we realized it,my wife blamed me for being understanding.

Here is what is happening. I am having my s*x from other women outside my marriage. It started with women sending me nudes and from there we meet and have fun. I never sleep with a woman more than once,I must move to the next. There are many women out there that are looking for it and my wife is not even interested.

When I joined...more

https://livelystones.com.ng/our-marriage-became-boring-when-my-wife-stopped-wanting-me/

Hello,

Please do not post my name with this. When people say to break off all communication with your ex,they are being very factual and I wish I listened. I wish I was not stupid. I am in a dilemma. My marriage is under threat now cos of my ex.

Angela and I dated way back between 2000 and 2006. We were good then but she cheated and we broke up when I found out. Not too long,she married the fellow she cheated with,one rich politician’s son.Since that time,I did not hear from Angela until 2010.

We met on a flight to UK…we chatted and ever since then,we just chat once in a while. It usually,how is your family,work..she would ask me the same thing and that’s all. Sadly,Angela got separated from her husband two years ago as a result of domestic violence. I felt sorry for her but she seemed happy to get out of her marriage. I also knew that she started to see someone but she said she was not ready for marriage yet.

This past July,I was in UK for a few weeks. Business trip and I sorta told her I was around but was leaving a day or two later. She was like we could hang out before I left. She told me she wanted me to meet her boyfriend too. You know,meet him and tell her what I think before it gets too serious cos she already made mistake with her ex husband.

I was ok with that. Her boyfriend would be there so what will be the big deal. I got to her place around 6.40pm and we chatted while waiting for her boyfriend. We waited until .....more



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Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. (Galatians 5:25)

Deciding who you will marry is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. In a kingdom courtship, the primary reason for marriage should be the conviction that a particular match is God’s choice for you. It should not be just a good choice, but God’s choice....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/are-you-making-a-good-or-a-god-choice-to-marry/

hmnnn

chris31:
Fear women all these allegations are nonsense simply say u don't want to see him in ur house or been too close to ur husband

hmnnnn

Dear Jzhane,

I need your assistance with prayer and counselling. I need God to show me what to do in this situation. I am a 42 year old widow with a seven year old daughter, My late husband was a soldier. He died about six years ago. Since then,I have not really found love until now.

So,one of my husband’s friend,who has been there for us since day one,got divorced from his wife like a year before my husband passed. He actually cheated and she couldn’t forgive him because a child was involved. He was unmarried but like a year and half later,he started living with the baby mama. I thought he was going to marry her but he broke up with her not too long after.

This man has been very kind to me and my daughter and really,I wish him. I thank God for bringing him to help us both financially and all. I noticed that our relationship started getting more intimate from last year. He started showing interest in me. Not long,he told me he loved me and I couldn’t resist. I have been without a man for almost five years.

Last month,he proposed to me and said we should get married. But ma,I am worried. His first wife and baby mama have three children for him already. Plus,both of them accuse him of being a serial cheater. So,I worry that if he marries me as well,he will be doing the same thing. I am not sure if I can do that.

I told him my worries and he assured me that I was his last bus top. He said he loved his first wife but they were having problems and he made a mistake by falling into the hands of his babymama. He tried to work things out with the babymama but realized....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-lover-cheated-severally-in-the-past-will-he-cheat-on-me-too/

Hmnnn

Hi,

I am at my wits end. I have been married for about six months now and I cannot believe that someone my husband trusts so much is the one causing so much trouble for us. Ade is my husband’s best friend. They are very close. He was our best man too. He is like his twin brother practically.

While we were dating,there were things I saw and thought that would end when we got married. The fact that Ade had access to everything including bank account of my husband was weird. He even used to call me,my wife…I thought that was cute and I used to joke that they shared the same umbilical cord. But now,the story is different.

Since we got married,Ade is always in our house. Making matters worse is the fact that he is currently out of a job. He eats in our house which I do not mind but he insists that he gets the same number of meat as my husband. He even asks for money from my hubby as if its his right. My husband would give Ade money first before considering my own needs. Sometimes,especially weekends,he brings his girlfriend too and they both.....more



https://livelystones.com.ng/unbelievable-my-husband-chose-his-best-friend-over-me/

Hi,

I am at my wits end. I have been married for about six months now and I cannot believe that someone my husband trusts so much is the one causing so much trouble for us. Ade is my husband’s best friend. They are very close. He was our best man too. He is like his twin brother practically.

While we were dating,there were things I saw and thought that would end when we got married. The fact that Ade had access to everything including bank account of my husband was weird. He even used to call me,my wife…I thought that was cute and I used to joke that they shared the same umbilical cord. But now,the story is different.

Since we got married,Ade is always in our house. Making matters worse is the fact that he is currently out of a job. He eats in our house which I do not mind but he insists that he gets the same number of meat as my husband. He even asks for money from my hubby as if its his right. My husband would give Ade money first before considering my own needs. Sometimes,especially weekends,he brings his girlfriend too and they both.....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/unbelievable-my-husband-chose-his-best-friend-over-me/

Good Day Admin,

I am a member of your platform. I am in a dilemma. I need your advice.
Its a long story though..but something happened some months back between me and my ex girlfriend and so we separated..I begged and begged but she was so mad at me and at a point wont even take my calls anymore.
I had to travel from Enugu to Asaba to meet her but she wont take my calls nor see me when I got to Asaba. And so I got really mad and sent her a nasty sms: Saying whether she thinks shes doing me a favor by being in a relationship with me.
I begged and begged..that I am sorry..just that I was worried sick about her and wanted to hear her voice but she wouldn’t yield. She is saying I am too temperamental..that if she was close to me I would have given her a punch on the face.
Meanwhile this is someone I have never raised a voice at before even when I am extremely mad at her, But I now felt she was always doing things to trigger or push me to do what i would regret letter.
So she replied saying she has had enough and cant take it anymore..she said she is quiting. I now asked her....what happened that you could not take nor return my calls or text in three days? She said whether I know the state she was in at that particular point in time.
So I stopped calling and got tired..
Now am in a new relationship.. I love my current girlfriend and I have moved on…I wasn’t expecting my ex to call me ever again. This is someone that has refused talking to me nor see me in months.
However,on the 11th of this month …she called..I was speechless. I know I still feel something for her…sometimes I think of going back to her..but I don’t wanna hurt my current girlfriend..because I cos i know she loves me so much ..
How do I handle this please… Should i keep them both?

Mr. JJ,

Lagos


https://livelystones.com.ng/hung-on-two-women-in-my-life-can-i-keep-both-of-them/

Editor’s note:

What do you make of this please? Drop your comments after.....

For three years, Bria has been involved with a married man who kept her hopes up with the promise of leaving his wife- only to go back on his word. Enraged at his decision to remain at his wife’s side, Bria called into the Frank and Wanda morning show desperate for advice. She feels her man, as she refers to him, has wronged her and needs to own up to his promises. Even threatening to expose this top Atlanta exec to the AJC.

Is she wrong.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/side-chick-cross-cos-husband-wont-leave-his-wife-after-3-years/

Hmnnnn

Some of you guyz here are still on LS Whatsapp group. The op posted it in the group before it was posted on the blog & shared here. So....

lefulefu:
ok if it was because she was withdrawn from medicine that made her suicidal i will understand but this one she wants to kill herself cos of a man

Its not enough to start cursing yourself dear

QueenBelle:
If I click that link ehn... My leg go bend

Hmnn

Hello,
Please this is urgent!
My best friend is on the verge of committing suicide, we are both 500L Medical students in one of the universities in the east. Okay, it goes like this:
About 3 months ago, she came to me and told me about how she fell in love with one of our lecturers, a Muslim. I was shocked, fiam fiam she had given her virginity to the man because of what God knows. Yes , he is our lecturer but he doesn’t teach our level, he majors in 300l and 400l students.
This man every girl in my class called womanizer but she said he isn’t such. okay, I got to speak to him and from what he said and how he spoke, I started liking him, since he is not married, and he isn’t teaching our level so nobody would say the relationship is based on academic help. I let her be, she swore never to do anything with a married man.
Along the way....see more


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Hello Jzhane,

Things are not okay in my marriage of just 8 months and I am tired of the situation. I have been trying my best to tow the part of peace because of how young my marriage is but at this rate,I have reached my breaking point.

My husband and I courted for two and a half years and frankly speaking,I avoided his mother most of the time. Why,you may ask? My husband’s mother is a kleptomania. I am a woman of means when I met my husband. I am happy to do anything for him and his family but his mom is something else.

I noticed she would tell me lies about money alot. She would lie that she was in debt and I would gladly help her by giving her money. I also noticed things disappearing when I visited her. My money was always short and sometimes,cloth items got missing.

I made my concern known to my husband and he just dismissed it saying maybe it was the people around or I may have misplaced the items unknowingly. When we got married,mama came to live with us when I started having difficulty in my pregnancy at six months. I had to be on bed rest. My mom is not in the country so mama offered to come and take care of me.

Taking care of me meant that she had access to me in my room and other parts of the house. Soon as she came,I started noticing.......


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https://livelystones.com.ng/how-do-i-get-rid-of-my-mother-in-law-she-is-bad-influence/

Hmnnn

Note: This story contains graphic pictures

Editor’s note:

Remember the story of a young man that we brought you a few weeks ago? He is a member of our whatsapp group. If you missed the story,click here. This young man has written again to give an update on his relationship with his girlfriend of seven years. Please read and leave your comments in the comments sections below.

Jzhane

Good evening my lively families.
How was your day. Am Phil (not real name) by name. I need your suggestion here again.
If you guys can remember last month I posted a topic saying i want to call off my 7years relationship with my fiancee and I really appreciate everyone that advice me on the issue. thanks.
So what now happened is that my girlfriend was in my house few days ago when her dad call her, talk to her in an aggressive way that she’s not serious about settling down. That all her younger ones have settle down with their kids that what is she still waiting for, and so on.
This lady is going to 29 years now. so he finally ask her to come and see him because they are not in the same place and my girl said she will tell her dad that I am not serious. That my ringtone is no money.
To be candid guys, my plan was.....see more



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Shot of a young couple having relationship problems at home

Editor’s Note:

A member of our whatsapp group asked a question this morning,we thought to share it on the blog as well to get more suggestions. Please advice especially if you were once in a similar situation as her,how did you handle the matter?

Good morning all,

Please I need candid advice from you all. I brought my prospective husband to the house for my family only for my mum to go against it because he is not a Catholic..

My mum is making it look like I am still young for marriage at 27. How do I convince her because I don’t have issues going to his church.

Thank You.


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But some men can't take their off anything skirt shaaa

ikeno:
when a guy cheats,the guy is blamed. when a woman cheats,the guy is also blamed. it's time to start thinking outside the box and ask youself, why is the hubby cheating on his wife with his sidechick after almost 5yrs.either she's not getting it right or need to learn one or two things from the sidechick.