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Twoclans:
This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue .

Anyway make sure you get something doing and make your money ,this generation of men do not want to shoulder any form of liabilities .They are ballers .They are not like our fathers .You cannot sit at home and keep calling a man for your upkeep ,not this generation of men.Even erection dey hard them sef .

Michellekabod2:
Indeed you are a blessing on this forum,you unintentionally expose the tactics of men

Ladies ought to be learning from you instead of hating on you.

I learn more than most males on this forum from your miseducations.

jejemanito:
IT'S SO FUCKING ANNOYING HOW WE CAN BE ON A RED PILL THREAD AND STILL WATCH MEN FAIL AT THE BASIC PRINCIPLES

Thanks for pointing this out to him.

bukatyne:
Awwwwww!

In another news, my Ozil just scored a goal!

Gosh! see the pure joy on his face.

I am so so happy for him.

bukatyne:
Awwwwww!

In another news, my Ozil just scored a goal!

Gosh! see the pure joy on his face.

I am so so happy for him.

BluntBoy:
He may not be aware.

And I am very certain he is not using cheap lawyers.

Billionaires have gone broke from pursuing lawsuits such as this.

BluntBoy:
Yes, but that would mean another lawsuit would be filed. And trust lawyers to make another litigation charge.

BluntBoy:
But the lawsuit is for defamation. There are no paragraphs for child custody anywhere in the suit.

BluntBoy:
Many people are abusing lawsuits. How does one demand 500 million naira in damages from an individual who is not even a billionaire?

If Tonto Dikeh were to file for bankruptcy, then the lawsuit would immediately go cold.

Churchill needs better lawyers or he would waste money on fruitless litigations.

Pavore9:
It goes for both gender. A manipulative person irrespective of gender have mastered the art of deception and have a knack for making you feel like you are the problem.

LordKO:
The rescuer/OP is an imperious man citing the way he took pleasure in addressing the rescuee as "my boy" - so, he's not different from the said woman because both of them have penchant for subjugation. Crass and expedient elements. As for the rescuee, it's obvious that he's a feeble-minded man therefore the reason why he's subjugable - he's the kind who forms hardman online - he should man up.

whatdowomenwant:
The test for the three kids cost 223k. It took two weeks.

Separation does not benefit children in any way, and they're innocent. They shouldn't pay for my stupidity and my wife's infidelity.

I'm looking at the longer picture. If I can get total repentance, why not.

I know I'm hurt. I know I feel very sad. I know I'm not happy every day for the last three weeks. But I have to consider all facets of the situation. The family meeting should hold and I will make my demands.

whatdowomenwant:
Update:

The DNA results are out. Thankfully the kids are mine.

But still does not justify the multiple cheating.

Next step: Call a small family meeting and State my demands

Mixfeeling:
It is a pity you are or about be marry to someone, is it crime to response without throwing jabs? if it how you being behave to your husband at home,it is better you keep it to your home pls

bukatyne:

Marriage is beautiful when you marry your soulmate whom you love and loves you back.

How you would find the person is your assignment.

ireneidiva:
So she should be slapped?

bukatyne:
@ bold: I just told you that one I adhere to. Also add names to it. I so love love love our local names

Hahhaahaha! @ bound by Christian faith. I find it funny.

Hope you are not equating length of marriage to value? The same older wives that dump the men once their kids are stable enough to accommodate them? Haven't you seen the outcry of old men abandoned by their wives in the disguise of 'Omugho' and visiting children?

For every man burnt, you do realize there are also women burnt? How many men are churchy?

It is not even about Church alone; marry the person you genuinely love and loves you back. That is the first step.

Of course, I know Red Pill and MGTOW is a response or reaction to toxic feminism that changes women from warm wives to monsters. Some of the girls also saw their mothers burnt and don't want to go that way.

ireneidiva:
You cant reason with a mad person. Walk away and come back when she is calmer.

bukatyne:
Please leave culture out of it.

It is only my faaji at parties, dressing in my native attire for parties, dancing and spraying especially when there is live band singing your oriki with talking drum. O lawd! etc. that I align with culture.

In an ideal marriage, the husband does not lord it over his wife or treat her shabbily because he is the head. He leads by example and with love. He genuinely loves his wife and only seek her greater good. They make decisions together and he does all he can to make her happy. His love makes her glow from within.

A traditional man cannot behave traditionally and expect to reap the benefits of an ideal marriage.

'Nigerian' husbands and wives full ground so there is enough to go round.

ireneidiva:
Walk away. The problem is that the issue escalated till it went out of control. The period the wife was given silent treatment and maltreating the girl should have been used to communicate and sort out the issue.

ireneidiva:
Hitting your wife is wrong. Learn to communicate and avoid violence. Send that girl back. That talk about sleeping with her from your wife is disgusting. That girl is a teenager and shouldn't be in such a violent and unhealthy situation.

mankettle:
1. On the issue of the leaving children.. Warn her strongly. That next time....

2. On the issue of the slap, beg her to forgive you.. No be u she slap. She just talk u know how women be.. When annoyance enter their head they go carry small matter turn am to waec exam. Just let her be.

3. As for the sis, out of the abundance of the heart.. The mouth speaketh.. She must have thought of it, so she said it. So instead of unnecessary stress and jealousy send the sis home so that peace will reign.

Theunbreakablem:
I’m speechless but you may be right because when she came back that day , she lied to me about leaving the house at 6.30pm but her sister has already told me she left at 4pm. I’m confuse now

Theunbreakablem:
There is nothing going on between me and her sister , the only thing that I’m never happy with my wife is the way she send the girl on errands without break and she does everything including cooking , dishing out my food from the pot and serving it for me which I don’t like , she knows that I hate anyone else cooking my food apart from her but she still make the girl cook and all my wife does is pressing phone 24/7. Whenever I complains about this issues , it doesn’t always ends up well.