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Family / Re: Whats Wrong With This Photo Of A Semi Unclad Mother Breast-feeding Her Baby by bennyrazz: 7:01pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
very very wrong. |
Family / Re: Oyinbo Girl Seeking Advice! by bennyrazz: 6:52pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
AnnaOyibo:The transformation is usually like that especially when he is newly bornagain. He is trying to cut off anything that would make him fall back to his old sinful self. You just have to support him and make him see you from another angle by supporting him. Give your life to Christ and start going to church. Become a worker and you start relating with him by using the Scriptures. Do not fake it. You both talk about the Bible, share Christian journals, talk about sermons, pray together and you start living a godly life. You would experience a new thing 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Please Help, He Is Finding It Difficult To Get A Bride by bennyrazz: 4:26pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Your friend have been falling in love with women of easy virtues. Under one month, he laid them. Then discovers that they are love peddlers, hence the disgust and relationship breaks. Your friend needs to find that girl that would give him tough time. The kind of girl he attracts has alot do with his personality |
Family / Re: Oyinbo Girl Seeking Advice! by bennyrazz: 3:43pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
@AnnaOyibo Even if mr.A is born again, he still has to marry. The issue mr.A has is cohabitation, premarital sex especially when he is now born again. He has done that with you and peradventure if he is to marry you today, you both have to face the marriage committee of the church and they will ask both of you some few questions like have you had sex before, are you cohabiting etc the point is, it is not that he does not love you but he is in a dilemma. He asked for friendship because he wants a clean slate. Give him a break. What you can do now is to find out the branch of RCCG he goes to, try and attend there. Give your life to Christ and start by being a worker in the church. But of cause, the issue with your work and relocating back to Britain 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Can You Accept Meat From Your Pagan Landlord? by bennyrazz: 8:22am On Dec 27, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:smh |
Family / Re: I Don't Have A Close Relationship With My Younger Sister. by bennyrazz: 3:09pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
breadandtea:is this the only problem? |
Family / Re: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by bennyrazz: 2:56pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
bukatyne:not all foreign wives are doing it right, not all Nigerian wives are doing it right. The proportions are just different and it as alot to do with family background, ideals, beliefs. So looking at it from the inner value, the first point is marry your bone of your bone, marry your better half. People need to spend time preparing for marriage rather than wedding 1 Like |
Family / Re: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by bennyrazz: 2:49pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
daretodiffer:some are getting it right while others are not getting it right. The majority of those not getting it right are in high proportion or maybe it is just fate or something. |
Family / Re: Is It Advisable For A Couple To Open Joint Account??? by bennyrazz: 9:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
not advisable, sorry very good. Oh know, I don't think it works. It causes trouble, may be it might work? what if it does not work? @op, whatever floats your boat. Marriage A, different from B, C,D, E. What works for your marriage might not work for others. That is what we term as "GRACE" 1 Like |
Family / Re: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by bennyrazz: 9:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
" but with the foreign wives, their balls shrink! Such men live by schedule." - This part of the article got me laughing out loud. If you want Nigerian men to start treating Nigerian women the way they treat their foreign white skinned wives, then I think you need to take a cue from our oyinbo wives. You need to learn what they are doing Right. If Nigerian women don't give it all, Nigerian men would go extinct for Nigerian women to marry except you want to be his play toy. Another factor is in Nigeria, marriage is considered to some extent has being between two families rather than the norm in Western countries which is between two people. You are trying to carry the baggage of your immediate family as a Nigerian man, you are also thinking about your in laws who thinks, you are making big money in America. So marrying a white woman cuts off those links. That's what I think and that's what I know, I would have written more deep deep about Nigerian marriages/weddings from a different perspective for you to understand somethings but let's leave it here for now. ... |
Family / Re: (talking Pictures): Lesson For Guyz... by bennyrazz: 9:09pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
why is this not in the romance section? I have seen this somewhere though |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by bennyrazz: 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
sinie:why would I be kidding about such? except you don't live in Nigeria and probably you have been westernized our grand mothers do such to kids who do not just want to eat. A child/baby/toddler that does not eat as he/she use to eat gets that treatment especially when they are sick and they have to take medications. You cant give baby medicine on empty stomach in fact some matrons in hospital can do the force feeding stuff to babies. About 2months ago my friend fed his last Baby because he was sick, always crying refused breast milk. In fact, I was amazed he could do that. Not that I'm asking you to do that to your baby cuz different rules applies to different situations. A true family man/woman in Nigeria can relate to what I just typed because either in one way or the other they've done it or seen it before. |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by bennyrazz: 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
Miami11:if you don't have any advice to give, don't quote another person offering one |
Family / Re: Is It Every Male Who Is Husband Material? by bennyrazz: 4:07pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
is it every female that is a wife material |
Family / Re: Help!!! My Daughter Doesn't Eat by bennyrazz: 3:59pm On Dec 21, 2015 |
@op, do it the old school way force-feed her or get someone to do it. The food should be pap or cerelac or something liquid. You put her on your laps, use two fingers to close her nose, make sure she starts breathing with her mouth, then you pour the content in her mouth. If she wanna breath, she has to swallow the content in her mouth. She will struggle with you o but you have to hold her tight. When she swallows the content in her mouth. Release hand from nose, blow her fresh air. Continue till you finish feeding those are methods that have proven to be effective for stubborn children 2 Likes |
Religion / The Lord's Prayer "Forgive Us Our Trespasses." Where did That Come From? by bennyrazz: 11:00pm On Dec 19, 2015 |
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Family / Re: Photo - Two Men Agree To Marry One Woman Already With Kids In Kenya: by bennyrazz: 11:42am On Dec 19, 2015 |
whatever jinx or spell the woman might have placed on the two men is working. Until they are free from the spell, they are maritally doomed. |
Religion / Re: Renouncing My Christian Faith by bennyrazz: 11:14am On Dec 19, 2015 |
@Millerzs, stop lamenting. What are you bickering about, money is not your problem, then what is your problem? husband? or you want to have everything all to yourself? in every situation give thanks for the little you have. Try and visit prisons, visit emergency wards of hospitals, visit orphanages then you would actually have a change of mind. Contemplating suicide is the plan of the devil, renouncing your faith is also his plan. God has a plan and a purpose for everyone on earth and you need to find out what is his plan for your life. Are you looking at the successes of people around you while you are at ground zero? stop doing that, look into your inner mind, work on your self. Yes, you are praying & fasting, others are getting testimony while you are not, are you age mates? where you born on the same day? are you grace mates? Gold only becomes gold when it passes through fire. You need to change your mindset, you need to change your prayers and your visions. You need to stop being selfish. Stop praying a prayer of Me, me me oh Lord, Stop praying a prayer of God give me this, give me that, stop praying a prayer of God I want this, I want that. Start praying a prayer of God, what do you want me to do for you on earth, start praying for others, take your self out of the picture in your prayers. Start investing your time and money in things that promotes the kingdom of God on earth. Remember, "seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you" 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Wants To Buy The Following For The Baby by bennyrazz: 10:17am On Dec 19, 2015 |
really I don't know how some people think. Your wife gave you a list without price because she knows if she puts the price there, you would doubt her because of your financial stringency. Every reasonable woman should know the prices of things that are needed in her home. So @ Norad , kindly go to the market and find out prices of those things and you can take it a step further by buying those stuffs yourself or invite her to join you. 12 Likes 1 Share |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Jose Mourinho Sacked As Chelsea Manager by bennyrazz: 4:17pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
opeeee ooooooooo |
Family / Re: She Confessed To Have Committed Adultery.advise Please by bennyrazz: 9:03pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
@op, since you committed adultery and your wife committed same. You both are equals and there is no reason to divorce her here. The thing is, you both need to stop extramarital affairs as it can lead both of you to doom. If you contract STI or STD from outside, you infect your partner with it. I guess your major fear now is your tradition the hypocrisy of your tradition is that, it allowed you to cheat but it does not allow the wife because of consequences. Now you married her without telling her about your tradition which I think is quite unfair cuz now she has gone outside and you can't come to terms and explain what your culture says. Although I don't believe in traditions because the only tradition that I know is the tradition of Jesus Christ. well if you go ahead to inform your parents about your wife's infidelity due to tradition, do not forget to include yourself too. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: She Bought Land Without The Knowledge Of The Hubby. by bennyrazz: 8:49pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
thelish:if he started it then he got paid in his own coin |
Family / Re: Afribaby Mother And Baby Expo 2015 In Gbagada Lagos (Photos) by bennyrazz: 7:35pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
yaaaayy very interesting competition 30 Likes |
Family / Re: She Bought Land Without The Knowledge Of The Hubby. by bennyrazz: 5:38pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Hubby should not worry, he should start doing stuff without the consent of his wife. |
Religion / Re: 8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by bennyrazz: 9:45pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
when people sin and they look up scriptures to back up their sin. It is very wrong. So many loopholes in the write up 2 Likes 1 Share |
Religion / Re: This Is Highly Sacrilegious!!!(pics) See What A Young Lady Did With The Bible! by bennyrazz: 9:30pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
since the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God has been slow to anger. He gives everyone ample time to repent because he is merciful. The lady that posted this, if it were to be in the days of the old testament, she would have been struck dead instantly and her generation might even share in the curse |
Family / Re: Fireworks Destroys Little Kids Hand by bennyrazz: 9:28am On Dec 13, 2015 |
obakovich:yea but we dey time the thing before hin blow. If you just light it and throw it like that, someone else might pick it and throw it back to you. Those days eeen, we dey do inter-street battle with knockout for ogba |
Family / Re: Fireworks Destroys Little Kids Hand by bennyrazz: 3:23pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
Jesus Christ of Nazareth..you gat to be kidding me right? .Are you actually sure it was fireworks aka banger, knockout dat did that stuff? the hands looks butchered. Men, that thing is more than fireworks oo. I'm 100% sure an IED did that stuff. Banger wey we dey throw anyhow for lag those days. I pity the boy & family though. |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Cheating Husband by bennyrazz: 3:03pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
WiLdFLame:your question is out of context. Since you are a feminist according to your claims, your testosterone should be high 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Cheating Husband by bennyrazz: 12:48pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
hmmmmm I actually thought feminists are independent women who have a mind of their own & they don't give a damn about men. I use to think feminists see men as puppets & toys to play with. sorry to say @op, you are an adulterated feminists. For me, you need to find out what interests your husband in other women & try and work on it 4 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Two Bodies Disappear From Benin Mortuary by bennyrazz: 9:18pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
Corpse disappearing in Morgues shouldn't be strange. When a live human being can disappear how can a lifeless body not disappear? I think this matter should be investigated. 17 Likes |
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