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Family / Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by bennyrazz: 7:54pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
tearoses:sex is the matter and they are ashamed of coming out clean with it. |
Family / Re: Could This Be It? Help Pls!!!! by bennyrazz: 4:04pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
laughing out loud @ "sex free courtship for 2yrs" no need deceiving yourself. How did he know about the gel they put inside anus in the first place if he has not tried it with someone else before? where did he buy it from? sorry to say this, your husband has been slaying orisirisi Kitty Kat and he has seen it all. He's tire of it. He wants something new and anus is something new, something he can explore till he tires out. I pity your Anus sha, how much do they sell adult pampers now sef? that is what you'll start wearing if you oblige to his demands. Obliging to his demand for the first time was a grievous mistake. That reminds me, when pastor ask both of you why you wanna divorce, I hope you don't keep mute as some others do. Well, experience PASTORs know when couple keep mute during counseling the cause of the problem between them is SEX 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Do I Tell Her To Go? by bennyrazz: 10:25pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
it is easy for men to cheat these days especially when women are now gbanjo who go buy, 3 for 50kobo. What a shame. I wouldnt blame you @yomieluv, we all fall to rise. You have admitted that you have fallen, now you want to rise. Some men like you are not even thinking of rising from where they fell at. No wo/man born of a man would hear your confession and not feel betrayed. Your wife is going to feel very betrayed when you confess your gross misconduct to her. It will only take the grace of God for her to forgive and forget. The only thing I will write to you now is, start showering her with gifts, praising her every minute, cuddling her, doing house chores before breaking the news to her, she has every right to know, it shouldn't come from a third party. God help you bro |
Family / Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by bennyrazz: 10:13pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
SAMBARRY:kikikikikikikik my eyes are closed to this. @op, managing a temperamental person starts with knowing what makes them angry in the first place. Your wife can't just wake up and be angry all of a sudden. You are definitely doing some things that are pissing her off. She is bottling them up. my advice to you, be more caring and understand. Start to pamper her. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Am In Problem by bennyrazz: 9:58pm On Aug 31, 2016 |
@op, let me get this straight, your potential mother in-law is a witch. Is that the only problem? if yes then those Pastors that told your mum your to be MIL is a witch should do their job by casting out the witchcraft spirit in her. Thank God they did not say your to be wife is a witch. Me I wouldn't advice you to look for another wife cuz it sounds ridiculous to me when you have children from different women. It is a thing to be ashamed of. |
Family / Re: Help: My Friend Have An Addiction For Hotels by bennyrazz: 10:41pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
if he has an addiction for hotels, he can purchase one. He should turn is addiction into something productive |
Family / Re: My Father-in-law Wants To Destroy My Home. Please Help! by bennyrazz: 7:45pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
I no get any advice |
Family / Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by bennyrazz: 4:11pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
kikikikikiki @ "for this position a virgin will be more appropriate" you gat to be kidding right @op are you recruiting for the position of a wife or you are looking for a wife cuz it seems to me that you are recruiting. What about all the women in your church? if they do not meet up with this your requirements, you need not to be in that church. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Can This Lady Get Her Ex-husband To Take Care Of The Children by bennyrazz: 5:58pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
some men Sha, all in a bid to punish a woman, they do the unthinkable. Since he has refused to cater for his children's school fees and their upkeep, his ex-wife should get a lawyer and drag him to court. It is a very simple matter. He would be made to provide for his children. |
Family / Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by bennyrazz: 6:03pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
kikikikikikikikiki this part got me laughing @martinosi, that shhhhh happens everytime. You can never fully know the intention of a guy to a lady. Some guys are green snake but there is one thing I know, so far he promised the girl marriage and the girl gave him all her body, the guy will certainly pay in one way or the other. It might not be today sha. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Somebody Help!! by bennyrazz: 4:22pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Merryglad:she is your sister o, the only thing you can do now is to love and support her. I know she might be stigmatized in the environment you stay in but at least she would have learnt her lesson after the whole isssshhhh. |
Family / Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by bennyrazz: 4:16pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Those who sow the wind will surely reap the whirlwind. The man as sown what he is now reaping. Instead of him to crawl back and start apologising for all the terrible things he's done in the past, he's busy forming nigga. By killing his wife, will his children still come back to him? the answer is no. He was a monster then, now he wants to turn himself into a demonic monster. Efemenaxy has said it all. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Somebody Help!! by bennyrazz: 3:52pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
@merryglad Kai, 18yrs old girl is pregnant? the deed has been done, no need crying over spilt milk. Breaking the news to your mother will surely be devastating because she will feel she has not done her job very well as a single parent. I really feel pity for your mum but the man that got your sister pregnant must accept the responsibilities of the baby, his family must be involved and they should be ready to take care of both your sister and the baby. 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Several Women On Facebook by bennyrazz: 2:26pm On Aug 23, 2016 |
EfemenaXY:so my advice of prayer and fasting for her home now induces BP? you know some things does not come to be without prayer and fasting? it shouldn't be an uphill task. Missing breakfast and lunch shouldn't be something difficult. While also studying the word of God (Bible) to know what it says. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Several Women On Facebook by bennyrazz: 9:51am On Aug 23, 2016 |
when we say wives should be prayerful about their homes, they think we don't know what we say. If the shepherd (Your husband) is being attacked, the flocks will scatter. I love the hymn I quoted above, you can also start singing it. Now is a time for prayer, I mean serious prayer. His heart is no longer in you, he doesn't find you attractive again in fact very soon he would want out of the marriage. Things at times may go from sweet to sour in marriages especially when expectations are cut short. From your point of view, you are doing everything right but your husband is soliciting for sex from strange women (repercussions are attached though but I don't want to mention ) Just start fasting, praying and doing night vigils for your marriage. When I mean prayers, serious prayers. Let's see where that leads to in a month's time. If you don't know how to go about the prayers, I could recommend some prayer books. Be strong, cheers |
Family / Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by bennyrazz: 11:21pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
TV01:I do read most of your post sir and they are quite informative and valid. Of course they would be contrary opinion from those who will stop at nothing to see that the person behind that moniker is maligned, pushed and forced out. Abeg resume your main ministry and simply ignore their distractions. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by bennyrazz: 10:57pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
TV01, when a man goes to the river to bathe and in the process of bathing inside the water a mad man comes out from nowhere and pick the clothes of the bathing man on the floor, will the man bathing in the river run after the mad man that picked his clothes? the obvious answer should be yes because if the man runs after the mad man, when people see them, they will call them two mad people because one person is naked. You should already know the antics of some women in this section. Some of them are suffering from perimenopause, that's why they act the way they do. It is for you to discern and know who to reply and who not to reply. Cheers 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Is Selfish by bennyrazz: 2:54pm On Aug 21, 2016 |
RiloKiley:in the hands of some selfish women |
Family / Re: My Husband Is Selfish by bennyrazz: 9:21pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
3sexy:apologies for laughing o @bolded LMAO the part impatient and angry got me laughing. How konji makes some men silly at times, I wonder. A friend told me a story one time like that about how one of his neighbor use to cry for sex like a baby, when he cries, mucus used to come out from his nose. That day, I laughed to the extent that my ribs began to pain me. I also heard of a story of a Reverend father that warned women not to come and confess their sins of fornication and adultery to him again. When they come to confess their sins, they describe how the whole thing happen, how they slept with the man, how the man touched them, remove their clothes etc the Reverend father while preaching and warning them said he is also human that anytime they commit such sins, they should confess it to God. I laughed also. Let me tell you something about your husband case, it is a very simple one that can be solved. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband That I Met In Facebook Cheats On Me: Am I Taking Things Far???? by bennyrazz: 12:38pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Jimi23:kikikikkkikikikiki A man met his wife at the entrance into a babalawos house, they fell in love got married. Later, after many years the man gave his life to Christ. He started having issues in his marriages, ran to meet PASTOR to complain his wife is a witch. Pastor asked him just one simple question "where did you meet your wife? " (thank God for the Holy Spirit) the man replied "at the entrance of babalawos house" Pastor now asked him "what do you expect? " to you where you met your spouse doesn't matter but to me and people I talk to "where you meet your spouse is important" |
Family / Re: See A Mother Dressed Her Son Like A Woman And Posted It On Facebook (picture) by bennyrazz: 12:21pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
parents are the root cause of what their children experience later in future. Teach a child in the way he should grow, when he grows, s/he would not depart from it 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband That I Met In Facebook Cheats On Me: Am I Taking Things Far???? by bennyrazz: 12:16pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
Jimi23:no wonder you are a social media marriage advocate. You are entitled to your opinion but as for me, I don't advice any unmarried person to marry via social media. Every marriage has it own red sea, some end up drowning in it and others use the rod in their hands to part it. Only time will tell when it comes 1 Like |
Family / Re: Kids Caught In The Act by bennyrazz: 11:19am On Aug 20, 2016 |
kids are God's own heritage. They look upon us for direction. They do things that irks you at times but they are very innocent of those crimes cuz they know not what they do. Your story @op is very funny 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband That I Met In Facebook Cheats On Me: Am I Taking Things Far???? by bennyrazz: 11:11am On Aug 20, 2016 |
Jimi23:are you married? |
Family / Re: Should I Stop Helping People: I Need Logical Advice by bennyrazz: 11:35pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
@op, you just kept on repeating a boy slit your net, a boy slit your net to hide stolen stuffs just because you help him in terms of giving him food, giving him drugs, money and all that. Your company secretary stole your memory card, you help people and they don't feel grateful, is that all? anymore? let me ask you this, what have you done that no man has done before? do you think you are doing it for them? (giving people money, meeting their needs) whatever you do for someone, you are simply doing it for yourself and you are simply giving God a reason why he should bless you more. The God that gave you everything, the God that gave you good parents, good job, the God that saw you through school, he gave you every. ingredient to succeed in life. how have you paid him back? 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Husband That I Met In Facebook Cheats On Me: Am I Taking Things Far???? by bennyrazz: 10:37pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
Jimi23:I will never advice anyone to get married via social media. |
Family / Re: Since We're Males, Does That Mean We're Given A Free Pass To Cheat? by bennyrazz: 6:31pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
If you as a man is cheating and you start to suffer the consequences of cheating, never you dare raise up your hands to beat your wife or curse her when things are not working. Just know you are the one who broke the covenant that brought you two together 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband That I Met In Facebook Cheats On Me: Am I Taking Things Far???? by bennyrazz: 6:11pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
@uniqueB so you met your husband on facebook and you dated for 3yrs without seeing each other (how do people get to do that long distance relationship stuff) and after 2yrs of seeing each other you got married. Very interesting episodes. The bottom line is the way he got and bed you via social media is also the same way he gets other women. Now for starters, he is bed-wetting because he has been afflicted by one of the women he sleeps around with. It is like a curse and I don't think he can stop cheating with just your pleading and understanding. How does he get money to give this women in the first place if he has no money? What is the background of his family? is your husband's father polygamous? I'm sorry to say this but nothing good comes the way of a man who causes his wife pains. Even if you don't curse him, your pains will. And that is one of the reasons why marriages suffer fimancial poverty. 108 Likes 6 Shares |
Family / Re: "Disrespect My Mum I Divorce You" .too Harsh? by bennyrazz: 6:09pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
marriage is an institution and it is union between two persons. Setting the boundaries before entering into marriage is a good idea. Since you have told her she must not disrespect your mum or you divorce her, it should also apply to you too. You have no right whatsoever to disrespect her own mother. What is candy for Peter, should also be candy for paul 10 Likes |
Family / Re: 15 Reasons Why Real Men Avoid Single Mothers by bennyrazz: 5:53pm On Aug 19, 2016 |
that part got me rflmao very hilarious write up. The truth about single mothers is simply, their market value is down. Seriously, I detest guys that hit on single mothers except if they are widows. And they must be on the same pedestal. You can't be a single mother and you start to look for one fresh looking guy to destroy his destiny. @mrrights this thread should dissuade aspiring single mothers |
Family / Re: Please Help A Sister Out,hubby Is Making Life Miserable To Me by bennyrazz: 11:26pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
if only nagging and complaining can change a situation, the story of many Nigerians would have changed. Don't stand up and do something about your case, keep on nagging, enduring beatings. As a man, I dislike men that beat their wives. I don't see any reason why I should beat my wife. It is just crazy |
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