ephi123:

That's not fair. We are imperfect people who live in an imperfect world. People make mistakes, it's not nice to kick a person who is already down.

people make mistakes but not the same mistakes over and over again. How are you sure she won't make a third one? since she can't close her legs?

ephi123:


Wow. That is harsh. Judge Judy, smh.

nothing is harsh. The op is a very silly girl who has not learnt any lesson

the thing dey sweet, hin dey sweet, belle No 1 enter, u born am. We gree say na mistake. The thing still kan sweet sotey, u spread ur leg again sotey, u receive belle No 2 without being married. Well, the bitter truth is you wanted it that way so why complaining? Abegiii the way u carried belle No 1 for 9months, get ready to carry belle No 2 for 9months. U don successful turn yourself to a professional single mother. Very soon, u fit even start surrogacy sef cuz u are very potent. The result of too much love for sex is what is disturbing you @op. I wish you safe delivery byeeeee

Women are naturally mouthed so you have to learn how to control your emotions and reactions. They are some women that think when they marry, they become the boss and they are some men that think otherwise and they would want to enforce their leadership by beating their wives to submission. I don't condone beating a woman cuz its wrong. And the funniest thing is, where do this women get this type of men in the first place?

Catalin:
I don't know if its just me but I find it boring reading about people's private life in a novel. Maybe because I'm always occupied doing better things.

it is not you alone. My thoughts exactly

when she was asleep, I woke up, tied her hands and legs with rope like goat before she was awoke fully, she started pleading with me, I did not say anything. Then I had to seal her mouth with a tape. I then remembered that my next door neighbor, Baba Ismaila usually use horsewhip aka koboko to flog his wife when she errs. I went to him, borrowed the koboko and came back to the house to flog my wife with it. She couldn't scream while the beating lasted. That was how I punished my wife.

mtttttchwwwwwww keep looking for how to punish you wife, u hear? you are only punishing yourself because two of you are one body. You need to be more tolerant and forgiving. No one is perfect. The only perfect marriage you can see is when the husband is blind and the wife is dumb. And if depriving her of money or food is punishment, another man will give her.

thelish:



She has been brainwashed. Maybe some other things are used to blind her eyes.

then you should seek for solution on her behalf. You need to seriously pray on her behalf and you can talk to your own Pastor. You going to warn the supposed man of themselves would do nothing.

thelish:



Really Those guys are as good as herbalists

there are some herbalists/babalawo that have rebranded since customers do not patronize them again. Even the Bible says we should beware of false prophets who come to us in sheep's clothing but inwardly they are wolves. I agree some pastors are fake, some are not called and some use it as a business making venture but I can assure you that they will all pay for it. It is good to be vigilant when it comes to the type of church you go to, does it take a way your freewill? what is preached from the pulpit? do they preach about salvation? do they follow Biblical principles? is the supposed man of God materialistic/money conscious? is he flamboyant and arrogant? the Bible says you should "watch and pray". Why would you mum relinquish her car? if the answers to any of the questions above does not add up then she might be under some sort of jinx from a babalawo claiming to be a Pastor. And you need serious prayers to break her off that spell. The Bible also says that by their fruits, you will know them. Them Taking advantage of your mother is totally wrong.

is she giving her money to the Pastor or paying the money to the church as seed or offering? Well I think you should thank God she is not using it to pay medical bills and I also think you should thank God she's not giving it to herbalists

Singing Fela's Palava

"When cat sleep, rat go bite him tail
Wey tin hin dey find
Palava he dey find
(Palava he go get eh ohhh)
Palava he go get
(palava)"

at least he should have taken off his tie and glasses before pounding. And the woman that took this pix wants to use it to brag. My oyinbo dey pound yam for me

@princess2011 just 5yrs and you can't wait on the Lord, we have seen couples that have waited for 10yrs, 15yrs, 20yrs and even up to 25yrs. They never gave up. Your own is just mere miscarriage and you are already in despair. If you get that child to adopt and she dies, what do you do?

From me to you, Adoption is not the solution to your problem but you and your husband are. You need repent from your sins, you need to confess Jesus as your lord and Savior, you need him to be in charge of your home. You need to start reading your Bible, you need to sing to him, you need to fast, you need to pray. Miscarriage is a spiritual thing and maybe if you look at your dream life very well, you can understand one or two things.

on social media, you can be married today, divorced tomorrow. You can even be single and say you are married. Choose whatever status you want to choose wisely and make sure you remember. Lies are easy to tell but it won't stand the test of time Cuz they are so many fact checkers.

@op, you were right. I don't know why some women choose to be dramatic over non-issues

why can't you advertise in Hausa Newspaper or go to Kano where you can get your spec?

is your ex the only man on planet earth? @op

Luke 16:19-31 King James Version (KJV)

There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day:

And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores,

And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.

And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried;

And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.

And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.

But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.

And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.

Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house:

For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment.

Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.

And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent.

And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.

he who has ears, let him hear.

smh

this thread, a very controversial one. it's an old one and alot of people aired their opinion to discredit the op. I really don't know why it is hitting front page today, maybe the mods or seun was paid for that. So many Anti-christ threads on NL and I have not seen one Anti-islam thread to discredit the Quaran, maybe Atheists are afraid of them? and I also don't know maybe the mods/supermods/owner are afraid of the backlash they would receive from Muslims.

that you wash your wife's cloths or do house chores with her, is your prerogative. Everyman manages his house the way he deems it fit. I just hope you are able to continue what you started. Do not get to the middle and start looking back. And for those on here criticizing him, he has every right to do whatever he chose to do but my own is do not try to mislead people about how they manage their wives. Some women, you give them one yard, they take a mile and turn you to houseboy inside your own house. Just saying sha. @op, last word of advice, after you finish washing your wife's clothes, request for her undies also to complete the job done.

the Sadducees, the Pharisees of NL family section. Una Weldon o. The very first time I saw this topic, I was just too busy to type. Even now, this one I am typing, I'm just forcing myself. I have read good, bad and ugly comments. I never try to make jokes about people's real life situation because there is no joke there. I try as much as possible to impact who I can impact, I don't brag and I don't like people that brag. This world we live in, it is only for a short time, we should be careful how we approach/talk to people that are in deep need. Be very careful. If you feel you are under no obligation To Help anyone that ask for your help, kindly turn them down and move on. Do not denigrate them. it is a pity that moji has her own issues but despite that some people feel she can be reoriented, she can be helped. it is okay. Let them try and work with her. Life surely has a way of paying people that do good to people. Before you take a cane to flog someone, first of all flog yourself with it to see how painful it is. I commend caveatemptor, thorpido for taking out time from their very busy schedule to help moji. God bless you guys

you need advice on what exactly? advice on why they keep leaving you? you yourself check yourself? do you have body odour? if no? do you give sex like pure water? if no? do you refuse sex? if yes, do you see yourself entangling a man in your dreams? do you have do you get angry easily? are you abusive and rude? until we have answers to these
questions, we can't really troubleshoot your problems

EfemenaXY:
Anyway @op, there's no point getting salty with me. You asked for help and I'm trying to do just that. You don't have to take my advice though.

Just one more thing:

You mentioned you live in delta state, so I'm presuming you're not too far from the rivers.

What you need to do is strip yourself stark nàkèd at midnight and proceed to the nearest river wearing nothing but a pair of white socks. Take with you a shiny new frying pan, balance it on your head and walk as slowly as you possibly can, to the river bank.

WARNING: Don't speak to anyone the minute you step out of your house.

When you get to the river, take the frying pan off your head. Place it gently on the ground and kneel before it. Then have a serious wànk and èjàcùlatè three times into the pan. Conjuring up images of Ogbanje might help you achieve this.


Once done, still kneeling, swirl the contents around three times before pouring it into the river while chanting these words out loudly, "Take me, o divine beauty!"...


Cc: Bennyrazz, Amelian

kikikikikikikikikikiki lwtmb

how a food is cooked shouldn't be a problem, you've told her to stop putting some condiments inside your food and she is going against your wish. Is that the problem? and she refused? if that's the case, get into the kitchen and cook your food the way you like it. Marriage is all about compromise between two different individuals. The delicacy you enjoy might not be the delicacy you enjoy, she is meant to know this and bridge the gap. I don't eat some certain food, soup and fruits myself cuz I'm allergic to them. Your wife should compromise in the food department and you both should learn to say I'm sorry to each other whenever you are wrong.

Chubhie:

I knew why I gave you the answer you deserve.

kikikikikikikikiki you have no answers still yet?

Chubhie:
It's classified. Emphasis on HAS not DO.

it means you have no idea about it. you are just writing for writing sake

Chubhie:
Perhaps his sister who seems to have a higher spiritual clearance than anyone else in the family?

how do you do spiritual clearance?

Chubhie:

The op sounds a novice in spiritual matters. He should invite someone with atleast level 60% spiritual clearance to diagnose and proffer the right solutions.

who should he invite?