₦airaland Forum

fredoooooo:
Those are the type of men that are raised by a single mother, Probably the mother fed him with lies that his papa his a scum and he can never ask why but to believe the woman .
Later in the future , they are always the type that use to kill their wives when they finally know the reality ....

Is that what you think? No man will take this kind of decision without going through hell I tell you

GboyegaD:
I will advice you like a family member. Contact the British High Commission to let them know he never sought your consent. Once you can justify the consent letter he submitted was falsified, his records are shattered and he might be deported. You can find a way to get his number and have that discussion with him before doing that to bring him back to his senses

Have you contacted his HR to be sure he resigned? They should be able to give you that information as his next of kin of he has you listed.

Lastly, to the clowns saying she must have been a bad wife, you don't have enough information to judge any of the parties in this marriage. That said, I know situations where the bad ones are the ones trying to run away with the kids.

You’re still a kid till you got married before you will understand

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I want to believe the comments above are sarcastic. If your husband cheats, you're an irresponsible wife; if he's wayward, you're a shameless woman; if he beats you, you must be a destiny killer, if he leaves with your children, just accept it's your fault.

Being a woman in Africa is probably worse than being black in America.

Is this what you think ? In every marriage women hold upper hand to make it work

AltCtrlDel:
I'm a man but men are scum


You guys should stop criticising the OP. Be sensitive and consider her mental health.

If y'all can't render any meaningful advice or directions then read and move on

With this your comment you’re still a kid because if you have married you will understand what that man went through

Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly.

First in history you don’t support evil , kudos to you on this your comment

thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children to the UK because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning.

GOD bless you , don’t mind that lair from pit of hell, good wife indeed

TemiBami2020:
Pls help me people. My world is collapsing. It's a marriage of 10years and blessed with 3kids (2 boys and a girl). Like every other marriages, we've had our own shares of ups and downs. No marriage is perfect.

Last month i went to work. By the time I came back the children were no where to be found, including my husband. Initially, I thought they went out or something. Around 11pm I got worried and called my brother in-law who is a police to track my husband numbers

He contacted other family members and he found out my husband left for UK with our children forever.

I don't know what to do. I'm running mad. Pls is there any authority I can contact in the UK? Or can I go to the UK/ British Commission in Nigeria to lay a formal complaint? Is there any NGO I can contact?


Modified For those saying I'm a bad wife, I'm not. I've been very supportive in a every way a wife can be. I've lived in both physical and verbal abusive marriage within the last 10years of my life. He's a violent man, adulterous, alcoholic and a fervent smoker. He gets drunk and get home and beat me up Infront of the children unprovoked. I have evidences and witnesses

I often threaten him I would take my children and go away cause I can't watch and allow them to grow in such a toxic home.

You’re a good wife and your husband run away with the kids, you’re even he prepare those documents and you don’t know , you never tell us what happened

fati2001:
you need Shiloh more than I do loser.

You will die a loser

You’re mumu man

NwaAmaikpe:






You are extremely naive for a 22-year old in a 21st century.
The mistake most people make is to think God created us all the same. We are not all the same and so are our destinies.

Mohammed Sallah's destiny is in his legs, Chris Brown's destiny in his mouth and
Abdulrazaq Mumuni the barber's own is in his hands.

Your destiny may not be in your hands; it is in your preek.
Well, unless you think you are useless enough for God to just create you to be a cleaner.

Do not misuse this opportunity.
The devil has disguised your stepping stone to greatness as a forbidden woman's kpekus but if only you knew how many multibillionaires of today who got their break in life through their bosses' wives just for being 'nice' to them.

Do not be the proverbial pig who could not recognize the gold ring that was put on his snout.

That woman did not come all the way from Abuja to eat Christmas rice. She is adventurous for some village-bred preek.
Her husband might be in consent too...you didn't talk about their kids so let's assume he is impotent or one of the new generation couples that are into swinging and cuckolds.
If they have kids, he may not have even fathered them.

Take that woman around town. Let her see masquerades, sacred groves, waterfalls and places of interest.

But the most important place of interest she must see and taste is your preek.
Lucky enough, a used kpekus has no meter; it never tells who went there.

Remember that before shagging her; you have to be clear and get her to commit on what's in for you so you don't just waste your sperm, strength and destiny at the end.

Devil himself

Why hide your face?

fati2001:
ur mom is a hoe and you are a product of rape...

Loser you’re and will always be a loser, Shiloh awaits you

justscorchone:
Lol don’t mind them, we will soon see a post “how it started” “how it’s going” . Las las them go marry themselves..


NB: just like how I for like marry you someday

You dey joke?

fati2001:
rapist by mentioning the word frustrated,it really shows you are the real product of rape....

Your father is a rapist while you are a product of rape

hashtagged:
Exactly, he is forming saint he is just a hypocrite and a kid

Oga I don’t really understand where you’re driving at , you’re calling him a kid because he’s against people having sex with their relatives

Fvckhypocrite:
Yeye gyal

But the kind story all this so called married men dey bring here is annoying seriously

But all is well

Are you single?

I pray you get a stingy partner so that you will understand what he’s complaining

sylve11:
Go hustle your own funds, my guy................

Really this is what you comprehend in your brain?

Jemiwizzy:
I have fear of God in me, I pray and I believe in God but they so many things am passing through that it becoming unbearable and tempting.

for example I have been praying and looking for room and work up and down but no help and the only people who truly wanted to help either demand love or sex from me, I am helpless and tired am just in a condition that can make someone do anything to get problem solved.

my question is will God still write it a sin for me if I have sex to get money?

please don't get me wrong am just asking.

It’s easy to start but very hard to stop

ILoveeyouall:
Babe sorry how wish i can help.

May u locate ur helper!

You can never help because women don’t help their fellow

TooNoisy:
The man never had a job at all. He just wanted to take advantage of you.

However, these things are very common especially in Oil companies. The HR guys sleep with some of the girls before they are offered NYSC.

For the girls, once you give in the first time, you become a community commodity; because you realise the person that f**ked you the first time is not he ultimate decision maker, so you need to keep f**king till you get f**ked up.

Banking sector is the worst place

fati2001:
en clearly pain you for mentioning the word Shiloh because you are clearly a product of rape...

Hahahahaha bitch it’s clearly show how frustrated you’re

Donspicey:
Na wa ooo


So wats really attracting u to her

Nothing I hate her guts, she insult everyone and pretend a lot

fati2001:
okay son of prostitute


son of a rapist, Lik father like son...

E pain you bitch , how are you preparing for Shiloh next year? Product of rape

fati2001:
son of a hoe.. why pissed off.

I can never pissed by a prostitute like you , like mother like daughter

Donspicey:
Tell her point and clear......

Baby i wan knack u......


If she agree fine,if she no gree u move on.......


If no be say today na xmas i for no ansa you.....



Hope say u get money sha

She is ugly for my liking and besides she think she’s stubborn and can insult anybody and go free

fati2001:
you said you are stupid

and your generation is also stupid


and you have time because you lack something important to do in life


and you are senseless and also a rapist

Daughter of a rapist continue disgracing your father here

fati2001:
you took over from your rapist father, it in your blood.

Keep on repeating what I say it show how stupid you and your generation are, I have your time anyhow you want it senseless hoe

Henrywalker:
Your life would be better If only you would use your time well and start learning some skills, but here you are — asking how to fvck a girl... Perhaps Buhari was right after all (Laziness is toxic ) .
Being broke is by choice. Unfortunately, you have chosen the wrong way! But it's not too late to change anyways.

Look at how stupid you sound , do you think every one will be like you, instead of talking this trash avoid the thread altogether

fati2001:
and you took over from the hegoat rapist you called dad..

As you took over from your prostitute mother , up you it runs in your blood

fati2001:
because ur mom pussi can't stick in one place rapist...

You took over from that hoe you call mother

Disappointed:
Nairaland men are always broke, they never stop fvcking around and begging here, and they are not intelligent and brilliant at all ...
Finally, Nairaland is a failed site and Nigeria is a failed country!!!
Also, before I forget— the women here are all dumb and b*tches!!!

What remain is for you to hang yourself