Romance › Re: Is It Okay To Block Your Ex, Or Should You Let Them Watch You Succeed? by Bennysam: 11:21am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Venusman: Wetin be Una problem? Nothing change whether you block or leave unblocked.
Why is it hard for you to go on with your life without thinking of your X He ask a simple question, why are you ranting |
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Romance › Re: Story Of A Frustrated Ex by Bennysam: 8:18pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
LarryCork: So u block babe BECUZ she reject u twice....corrrrrect?.. u hav bad lock wit women?((no oofense))  I wonder why people like you won't read but you will comment |
Career › Re: Is The Manager Conniving With The Security To Work Against Me? by Bennysam: 3:52pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Onpoint1010: I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.
As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.
I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.
Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.
Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.
Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.
I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?
Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it. If you keep allowing them , they will Set you up , just make your manager see reasons why you should stop them |
Romance › Re: *a Woman Goes To Prison To Visit Her Husband Who Has Just Been Sentenced To Fort by Bennysam: 11:56am On Aug 01, 2023 |
Forty years no be moi moi I will thank her but deep down I won't have respect again for her |
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Romance › Re: What Do U Think About This? by Bennysam: 6:16pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
No she just being natural |
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Romance › Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Bennysam: 12:40pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
blessingnenye: Why do men withdraw after the chase? You're girls are confused please go for what you want stop unnecessary guy |
Romance › Re: I Cant Wait To Cook For My Gay Partner by Bennysam: 9:16pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Why are you telling us? |
Romance › Re: Cheaters!!! by Bennysam: 9:01pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
ceede2: What's the firs thing that cheaters say when they get caught?? It's not what you think I can explain |
Romance › Re: Some Of the Wealthy people In This Country Are really callous by Bennysam: 8:58pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Don't Ask Or Dig About Ladies Past, It Will Hurt You. by Bennysam: 4:21pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Truvelisback: Good day, fellas. Guys, don't ask abt a ladies past i.e at what age she lost her virginity, how many guys she has slept with etc. It will hurt ur feelings and could drastically reduce ur feelings for her to zero level, if possible. In most cases, most ladies don't like sharing these things because it bruises their self-esteem and their feelings. If u like her, marry her. 2ndly, ladies, don't try to form virgin to guys when u aren't one. It could lead to a very big problem if he finds out that u are being deceitful. Just be normal or be yourself. It will never hurt me because I will dump her sorry ass |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Niger Soldiers Announce President Bazoum's Removal From Office (Photo) by Bennysam: 8:07am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Emperormartin: Omoh this na Buhari second country What will that idiot do now |
Christianity Etc › Re: “Any Girl Who Asks You For Transport Money Is A Useless Girl” – Pastor Mildred by Bennysam: 4:33pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
saphiere: Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?
Good question. I will give him transportation fare if;
1. I initiated the invitation. 2. His coming is for my own good.
But if he just wake up and start coming to my place invited he will bear the cost of transportation and even feeding.
We all know that no Nigerian girl will just wake up and start going to a man's house.
These men also initiate the invite. They tell the ladies to come probably for their own selfish reason so they should pay.
If the cost of pleasure is expensive, try the cost of displeasure I know that jobless idiots like you will oppose it |
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Bennysam: 4:31pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
talented321: The kind things some men dey think sef'' wetin concern my father concern my precious kid. Your father did mistake u don't like fine, now it is left for u correct those mistakes in ur time. Oga stop been too emotional abeg Use whatever name u like it is ur son. I don't even know what to tell him , this generation is something else |
Romance › Re: How Long Do I Need To Wait To Start Billing A Guy After Saying "YES" To Him? by Bennysam: 4:26pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
labake1: Must he start f*** before he settles my bills? Yes because you don't have anyother thing to offer him apart over used pussy of yours |
Romance › Re: How Long Do I Need To Wait To Start Billing A Guy After Saying "YES" To Him? by Bennysam: 2:23pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
labake1: How long do I need to wait to start billing a guy after saying "YES" to him? How long will he wait before he start fucking You? |
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Agriculture › Re: Checkout All-Black Chicken That Sells For $6000 (Pics, Video) by Bennysam: 7:25pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Offensive Video: MURIC Knocks Davido, Asks DSS To Invite Him by Bennysam: 12:39pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
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Career › Re: Is Japa Worth It? by Bennysam: 12:27pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
hazinibones: Hello Nairalanders,
I have this decision bothering me. I know it is a personal problem, but I believe everyone need some guidance at every point in life.
Straight to it, I have been considering Japa for over two years now and I think the opportunity might be here but I am having a cold feet.
I recently started working for a foreign company as a software engineer and the pay is decent when converted to Naira. Enough to live an averagely comfortable life. But my challenge now is that, I have been talking to some friends that are outside the country and they keep telling me how life is not easy there and cost of living is super expensive out there.
I currently earn $3000, which I plan to either save and travel or startup a business here in Nigeria. Please, Nairalanders with experience, is it worth japa to live an almost average life for almost the rest of your life or investing here in Nigeria and growing wealth?
The healthcare and quality education benefit is there as an advantage for japa though.
Thanks in advance for your responses! With that amount I'm not going anywhere, I can go for a holiday and come back |
Career › Re: Should I Continue With The Job Or Resign With Immediate Effect? by Bennysam: 12:18pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Dickcap: The job is more like being jobless cause transport is sucking almost half of the salary Since you don't have capital to start your own why do you want to resign then? Like someone above habe said ,Find a way to pay yourself there for a time being |
Romance › Re: Let's Play A Game married people only by Bennysam: 6:26pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Battlefield2: Ode No go find better work do Abi make you go chop agbado Must you people take everything serious in this life |
Romance › Re: Her Brothers Dont Want Me by Bennysam: 5:21pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Thisisvenuz: I have been dating this lady for about 6 - 7 months now and I proposed to her last week. I noticed something the brothers dont like me coming around to see my fiancee they said I only have right over her after I have done the needful. Why iam confused now is are they not aware we are courting and why are They stopping me from seeing her pls help me Go and do the right thing |
Phones › Re: Elon Musk: Twitter Rebranded As X As Blue Bird Logo Killed Off by Bennysam: 5:17pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Wodu89: Twitter is dead. Dorsey should have known better than sell Twitter to this guy. From one terrible decision to the next in a sequence. Smh His business his decision |
TV/Movies › Re: The Moment Mercy Eke Entered BBNaija 'All Stars' House In Stylish Outfit (Video) by Bennysam: 12:48pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
SmartPolician: The worst investment Multichoice made this year was starting Big Brother Show on the verge on a critical election in Nigeria. Of course, it came at a great consequence because Nigerians didn't have the time to watch it.
Now, they want to strangely organise another Big Brother show (2 in one year) to make up for their losses. I hope those who watch the show and vote help them recover their initial losses. Jealousy will kill you people, dull brain criticizing another man's business/hard labour |
Romance › Re: Girls Can You Date A Boy With This Kind Of Dentition? (pics Attached) by Bennysam: 11:17pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
James4358: If he has enough money, ladies for sure will fine him very romantic. With or without money he will still find love |
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Romance › Re: My Wife Wishes Me Dead Over An Argument by Bennysam: 5:53pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Zulum: Fear of not been with him I mean, after the divorce I understand But a lot of men have died because of this mentality |
Romance › Re: Yahoo +: Does It Really Exist? by Bennysam: 3:40pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Every rumour there's truth in it |