Unyimekelvin: I posted here somedays ago,how my aunty is searching for a husband with a good character but don't want to change her own character..
She such a harsh, aggressive being; i have ever seen on this universe 😕😡😡 She said i hurt her feelings with those posts nd she's not gonna forgive me...
she even cursed me,by saying i Will not have a peaceful home when I get married...😡😡😡😡 She has blocked my number.. She said I'm judging her nd she's not cool that!!
I need some advice please, should I apologize to her or let's it slide!!🥺🥺🥺🥺
I'm a bit nervous but I was doing the right thing now!!!🤔🤔😳
Aunty Helen, hope you are seeing this.🤞🤞🤞 ✍️✍️🤞
You should know that women hate truth right? So far you tell her the truth don't bother yourself she will come around
ibinaboonline: Quick question for married people: take the woman to see your parents before proposing to her, or propose to her before taking her to see your parents? In what order is this culturally appropriate?
Incognito21: Guys I have bleeped up but blood of Jesus just saved, 1st I took vodka yesterday smoked today I smoked and then later drink small stout and then I didn’t know it was colos smoke and I was dragging it like I’m dragging normal smoke, immediately the highness came I went out of my body and I was in a place far more superior and perplexing for a human comprehension immediately the highness pushed me far like a lifter I was taken to another place and I believe this is in another dimension like I was in a place full of light and colors and then I heard sounds of people speaking muttering and it quickly translated to what is this one doing here, and then it was overpowering me and immediately my mind not my brain that once this overpower me i won’t come back and then I knew I’ll be mad, then I started shouting blood of Jesus and actually it saved me by dropping me down into a 3rd dimension lower then I came back to my body I swear to God I’m not capping. If my typing has errors I’m sorry is cause if I just entered my body
bayfed: I had a wonderful relationship, 1 year to the relationship, I caught my partner still talking to her Ex on chats, I was angry, she cried bitterly, that it won’t occur again, fast forward to months ago, after two years plus of been in the relationship.
she only comes to my house on weekends, I began noticing some changes, how she won’t place her phone on the table even when we were eating. I decided i investigate her, i discovered she recently got in a relationship with another boy in her school, i graduated this year, she’s in 200 level, am 26, while she’s 22. I read on her chat, telling the boy she’s has no man in her life.
She pleaded day and night, that it wasn’t something serious, in my mind I was done, I parked her things, she lobbied me for weeks, and pleaded, like she’s was going to die, if I don’t take her back, I decide I gave her the second chance, I was depressed, as result of denial I saw on her phone.
I had excessive alcohol which is bad for my ulcer, which leads to severe pains in my stomach for weeks. I visited the hospital, she accompanied me, the entire treatment took about 3 weeks. while on treatment, her birthday came, I took her out, and bought her cake, we had a wonderful time just us. 2 days later, I had previously asked her to delete the boy’s number, and stop communicating with the boy, Madam refused to listen, instead change the boys name, to another name, and was communicating with the boy, i caught her again communicating with that same boy, some of the chats I saw, was them talking about my cake, I don’t know if she took the cake to the boy in school or not. But she had deleted many other chats as usual. She pleaded again, and cried, and I allowed it slide.
Fast forward to 1 month later, I made some research and have some logic that she had an affair with her ex, 3 months ago, when she went to her fathers place to spend the holiday, her ex lives close by, i put some empirical facts, and push her to say the truth, and she confessed.
Now at this point, am leaving, I can’t stand this any more. She cried, pleaded and roll on the floor as usual, but am leaving, so she turn it to suicide, all she plead with now is her dying, all she is saying is her killing herself. I live in a renter apartment, it’s hard to control who comes in, last time she walked in, she picked a knife from my kitchen, and told me she’s going to end this all right here. That I will take her body to her family. I was dragging the knife with her for hours. I had to accept to forgive her, before she could let go of the knife. I called her sister, I told her everything, I told her sister, she needs her attention. But the woman seems to be quiet, it’s her husband that has been begging me to allow this woman come back to my life.
It almost seems like there’s no way out of this, as the house she’s living, I rented the house for her, and no family member knows there. And she’s there speaking about killing herself everyday. Making suicidal status. And crying for me, I’m strong, but this is getting out of hand, I won’t come here to ask what to do, if it wasn’t. If I decide to block her now, there’s 100% possibility she’ll rush to my house now. It’s her dying that’s my problem, the only knows me in the compound she’s living.
brightmorningst: On her birthday,she posted a screenshot of an alert of 20k she received from someone with a caption " Thank you Bryan" which she later deleted.
So today,I asked her to send me her birthday pictures which she did...so I asked her "how much cash did you even received from friends and we'll wishers" this girl told me 10k. I said it's a lie she almost changed it for me until I told her I saw her status that day which she deleted,then she said she has bleeped up, since that time we've been chatting casually.
This is a girl that calls me almost everyday O.
I don't know what to do, I'm pained she lied to me.
What do you suggest guys, I'm pained.
You were dating yourself all this while , I advise you keep her as a sex mate , don't take her serious
Abi1985: Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.
Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.
Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.
It's not in their position to decide because they can't marry themselves
Nigerian men come here to say Nigerian women vaginas smell but in reality it's all their fault. I'm not even surprised that they put blame on the women. It's what they do best and they've been doing it since the garden of Eden.
Your dirty unwashed dick and fingers unbalances the pH of the vagina making it stink.
Make sure to wash your fingers before fingering her. Take your bath and wash your dick thoroughly before having sex and brush your teeth with a good toothpaste before giving head and stop shifting blames like a coward. Thank you
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So men is the reason you don't clean yourself up? Must you people blame men for everything?
Tob456: I have a 7 months old daughter her mother is an orphan, she is the eldest of 7.
We broke up when she was pregnant because we had a disagreement about her siblings living arrangements.
She wanted her 4 sisters to stay with us after the wedding and I only two of them to stay with us. The problem is seeing my daughter growing in a bad environment away from me makes me feel so bad.
Whenever I visit her I feel so bad leaving her behind that I don't sleep well thinking about her all night.
I also doesn't like the idea of having kids with different mothers.
For my daughter's sake I want to get back with her mother for us to raise her together in the same house. But getting back with her means that I should also allow her 4 siblings to stay with us after the wedding.
I am doing this for my daughter's sake but I don't know if I am making a wise decision.
What do you guys think should I get back with her or forget about her and concentrate only on my daughter.
Please help
You will regret it if you go back to that woman believe me, No amount of money you make will be enough and it will a very big problem for you
floraojo: Hey dears, was posted to serve here in osun state ilesa west precisely. Have been here for weeks bur am yet to move around. I really a friend i can hang out with here. Boredom wan kill me. If you're around this place, will really luv to hang out. Flora#
DAVIDMOE: The able youths of Orba-Nsukka has teamed up with their leaders to dislodge a popular Prostitution house, popularly known as Nwanyi-Ukwu-venza lodge.
This young girls you can see in the video are used for Prostitution. The madam, which you can also see in the video is the one controlling this hookup ring. She is known for this kind of act In this area.