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Romance / Re: My Wife Wishes Me Dead Over An Argument by Bennysam: 3:32pm On Jul 23, 2023
Zulum:


I am always thinking of that, infact I have divorced her once before our parents interfere and brought her back....u know as Muslims you are entitled to three divorce...so remain two now

But my fear is my 3yrs old son....fear of missing him
If you die he will grow and be whatever he will be if you No die the same thing

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Romance / Re: My Wife Wishes Me Dead Over An Argument by Bennysam: 3:30pm On Jul 23, 2023
Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....



Wait until her wish happened before you decide what to do
Romance / Re: 45 Years Old Still Living With His Parents by Bennysam: 10:14am On Jul 23, 2023
Hackman1994:
No job, no skill, no wife, nothing to write home about.
Keep dreaming of seeing myself back then in my primary and secondary days.

Those dreams mean set backs

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Music/Radio / Re: Logos Olori's 'Jaye Lo' Video Causes Controversy by Bennysam: 7:47pm On Jul 22, 2023
madridguy:
Davido should just bring down this video and apologize to the entire Muslims.
For What? Go and sit down

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Romance / Re: Guys, Have You Ever Tasted Breast Milk As Adults? by Bennysam: 6:09pm On Jul 22, 2023
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I'm just curious. Have you ever tasted breast milk as an adult? If yes, what is it like? Is the taste different from the normal milk we buy?😏
It purge a lot

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Health / Re: Please How Do I Get Rid Of This Stubborn Infection??? by Bennysam: 5:43pm On Jul 21, 2023
Take injections they recommend for you

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Romance / Re: Am I To Be Blamed? by Bennysam: 5:21pm On Jul 21, 2023
If this story is not fiction then know you're dating yourself
Romance / Re: He Needs Your Advice. Matured Minds Only. Decision At Stake by Bennysam: 5:14pm On Jul 21, 2023
jackmrandy:


the deal was he comes, hunt for a job. while awating relative response so he can move in to the relative. but uptilll now before this whole isssue came up. relatives have not gotten back to him yet
My brother they lie to you from the beginning, send that boy away

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Romance / Re: He Needs Your Advice. Matured Minds Only. Decision At Stake by Bennysam: 5:12pm On Jul 21, 2023
jackmrandy:
There is a friend of mine whose girlfriend ended their relationship due to irreconcilable differences. The girl refused to listen to any advice and always believed her opinions were superior. The main issue that caused the breakup was related to relocation. The guy wanted his girlfriend to move to the same city so they could work and build their lives together, remaining close to each other. However, the girl was adamant and still expected him to cover her expenses.

Interestingly, the girl's brother is currently living with the guy in the same city and apartment. The brother claims he has nowhere else to go, lost his job, and the only other relative he had in the city hasn't been able to accommodate him since January due to one or two issues. Out of kindness, the guy allowed the brother to stay with him while he searched for work. Now, since the girl has ended the relationship, it has been over 7 days, and she hasn't attempted to reach out to resolve the situation. This has left the guy feeling suspicious, wondering if the whole situation was a setup from the beginning.

The question now is whether it's a good idea for the guy to end ties with the brother by asking him to move out of his house, especially since the girl has made it clear she's not interested in relocating to be with him and that he should move on with his life.

For those who have experienced similar situations, how did you handle it? Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.
He should cut every tie with the girl

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Sports / Re: 2023 WWC: Nnadozie Wins Woman Of The Match In Super Falcons’ Draw Against Canada by Bennysam: 2:35pm On Jul 21, 2023
Congratulations to them though it's too early

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Romance / Re: Why Are Slim or short Girls Always Aggressive by Bennysam: 7:02pm On Jul 20, 2023
talented321:
One just burst her husband head just because she suspect him of cheating in my hood.
Some men can take nonsense
Romance / Re: Why Are Slim or short Girls Always Aggressive by Bennysam: 7:01pm On Jul 20, 2023
endsarrrs:


Not all are aggressors
They're all aggressive
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Bennysam: 7:00pm On Jul 20, 2023
Agozskey:
Hi guys, I know u guys will banter me... I accept any form of insult tnx...
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and the relationship has been great, so we usually have unprotected sex buh I make sure I don't release inside her buh as God may have it, we found out she was pregnant and I wanted to keep the bby buh she didn't want to keep the pregnancy, so we decided to abort it, which we did with the help of one of our friends (girl). The first week wasn't okay, because she was experiencing pains everyday, due to the abortion, the second week seemed perfect no issues, she wasn't feeling anything at all.
This week now all of a sudden she's exhibiting symptoms again... And she has not seen her period, meanwhile we've not had sex since... I don't understand again, I'm not really ready financially yet, buh I'm a bit okay buh the problem is her family, She's just 19 and I'm 22, pls any advice... Thank you
GOD want to punish you with that baby
Romance / Re: Nigeria Makes Me Want To Cry � by Bennysam: 6:58pm On Jul 20, 2023
Endure it will not be fine because criminal is on the seat
Politics / Re: Kwankwaso And Saraki Wish Peter Obi Happy Birthday by Bennysam: 10:53am On Jul 20, 2023
IconicR:
Obi is just forcing himself on people . There's something very fishy about him , I can see through him.
Hatred will kill you people, how much is fuel in your area?
Romance / Re: Please Help Me Judge This Case Between Me And My Girlfriend!! by Bennysam: 9:21am On Jul 20, 2023
Bradford111:
Is been long me and my girlfriend saw in our 8 months relationship we haven’t seen for 5 months despite staying the same state due to issues always coming up


Last week I sent her tp to come but due to network issues she wasn’t credited and the day was running out so I told her to go to a POs so I will send again so she can come she told me she doesn’t have that strength




Minutes later she called and told me her bestie is around that I can send to her besties OPay account so she withdraw it and come her bestie even took the phone and talk to me for some minutes and later sent her bank details for me to send to


After sending the money I discovered her bestie blocked me on WhatsApp I tried calling my girl she wasn’t responding I thought they were playing with Me


After some time my girl called back I exploded in anger and said a lot of things insulting her and stuffs


After some time I got my self and apologized for how I reacted now she is giving me attitude not picking my calls replying my texts on WhatsApp


Please I’m stuck what should I do?
You're dating yourself all those while, she and her bestie is playing you for a fool
Romance / Re: I'm 24 And She's 19.. Can Our Relationship Work? by Bennysam: 9:15am On Jul 20, 2023
Marry her

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Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because Of This by Bennysam: 8:53pm On Jul 19, 2023
sotherefore:




I have blocked her on all my social media and from calling me. Even though I have blocked her number I have come to see she has called more than ten times. I wonder what she will have to say.
She wants to tell you that it's not what you think as usual

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Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because Of This by Bennysam: 6:55pm On Jul 19, 2023
IconicR:
Why are you still angry since you've done the needful
Did you read in this post where he said his angry? Mind reader
Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because Of This by Bennysam: 6:54pm On Jul 19, 2023
sotherefore:
This is the girl i have been dating for almost a year plus but we are not living in the same location cuz her place is just one hour drive from my place. .

I didn't usually have problem with her until she started lying, disrespecting and Even demanding that I send her transport to come over to my place.

When she started showing all these abnormal behaviour, as a redpiller i just know within me that the relationship is over. But I couldn't just break up with her since I didn't have any evidence to present , but my mind was totally out of the relationship. I don't call her and most of the time she's the one that does the calls and when her airtime finish na there I go called and we talked not more than 5minutes.

Recently I invited her over again and she still request that I sent her transport before she turns up . I told her if she can't used her transport to come then she shouldn't bothers calling me cuz I no go send her anything.

Well she later agreed to pay her way to my place. Now this is where the real problems Start.
Omo this girl don lock everything on her phone including radio. I mean a very tight security that you can't even check the last person she calls without putting a security code.

When I saw this I know she was upto something. This is the girl i always used her phone freely without issues.

At this point I collected her phone and asked her to tell me her password. Just immediately a text message entered but I couldn't see what the text was all about because of her tight security settings.

I asked her to tell me her password. She said she can't tell me. Ok I then asked her to unlock it by herself she said no that I can't see when she unlock the phone.
She later said I should give her the phone to clear every password and hand over to me and that I shouldn't sit with her during this time until she's done.

I said no, that I must see what she is doing. She didn't still accept me sitting down with her to unlock the phone.

Since she didn't want to unlock the phone I dropped the phone on the bed, I told her If she's not ready to unlock the phone the way I wanted that she can take her phone and leave my place and not to call me ever

We stayed silently for almost an hour, during this time I quickly login to her messenger on my phone cuz I know the password (she told me a long time ago) only to discover that all the chat she had with guys were all deleted. I took the phone, call her number with my phone only to discover that she has changed my name as "myworld" she used to saved as and was saving it with my real name.

At last She later pick her phone and went home that day without unlocking the phone the way i wanted.

I have to block her everywhere. I value my peace of mind more than anything else. I can never beg a girl to be faithful. That's her choice to make. If she can't stay faithful then she belongs to the street.
Good decision, they're many out there go for another one but know she will come begging
Romance / Re: How Can I Ruin This Girl's Life by Bennysam: 6:49pm On Jul 19, 2023
Purvan:


Nigeria doesn't have juvenile prisons


If a kid commits a crime in nigeria, they won't do anything to the child
Until you commit the crime, as you don't want to listen to her advice you will be surprised that Nigeria have it

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Romance / Re: How Can I Ruin This Girl's Life by Bennysam: 6:47pm On Jul 19, 2023
Purvan:


I'm underage so you better tell me because I'm way too young to be in prison


I'm very light skinned


Most naija folks would mistake me for a half cast
Commit the crime first then you will know if you're too young or not

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Romance / Re: See The Average Age Of Marriage In The United States by Bennysam: 6:45pm On Jul 19, 2023
Almost every guy in the US is afraid to marry

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Health / Re: My Experience Today When I Went For Culture Test. What The Woman Said. by Bennysam: 6:38pm On Jul 19, 2023
HanisahZuwy:
My legs? How? This was after the test. She then said 'keep it up', with a thumbs up sign from her to me. She wasn't referring to my legs because this was after the test.
She meant you should keep checking yourself up always
Romance / Re: Is This A New Version Of True Love? by Bennysam: 12:52pm On Jul 19, 2023
talented321:
Oga don't u saw that behaviors in the relationship stage abi u be the marriage before sex crew.
Though from my little experience many of those women who close their breast or avoid kissing are not too deep in the s*x business, did u s*uk her p*ssy? Or did she s*ck ur d*ck. U don scatter her brain with s*x? Be like u never knack that woman center of gravity.

As he stand i no dey bleep women who lie down like banboon, either cowgirl, d*ggy or vice versa.
People can change Oga, she's acting like someone that's seeing another guy, she's sleeping her husband for formality say
Romance / Re: Is This A New Version Of True Love? by Bennysam: 12:51pm On Jul 19, 2023
Adranidoo:
If she no ready to fvck why did she even UnCloth in the first place

Nigerians and r/ship problem be like 5 & 6
Mtcheew
She's fucking him for formality say, she have another bf

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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Celebrates Peter Obi On His 62nd Birthday (Throwback Photo) by Bennysam: 10:04am On Jul 19, 2023
Acekidc4:
You know one thing is sure about this Peter Obi, he is a good Opposition, he is playing the opposition role well but in reality he should forget about becoming President here in Nigeria. Surely he will be a good President of Biafra Republic but not Nigeria.
Owner of Nigeria have spoken





PATRON
Politics / Re: We Can’t Fold Hands, Watch Country Deteriorate, CJN Tells Judiciary by Bennysam: 7:15pm On Jul 18, 2023
iammo:



Like I said to one of you, you worship money so much you forget the joy of life

Yet you ain't richest in Nigeria Africa or the world with the money worship
You're the one we suppose to ask this question
Family / Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Bennysam: 7:11pm On Jul 18, 2023
Ijelenwanyioma:

You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again
I bought a plot of last month my wife is the one with the document I do not put her name there she do not complain

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Politics / Re: We Can’t Fold Hands, Watch Country Deteriorate, CJN Tells Judiciary by Bennysam: 7:03pm On Jul 18, 2023
iammo:


I rather love them unlike you that Pity your family
It's only In Nigeria a poor man like you pity a billionaire

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