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brain54:
Na wah o…

Weakness or pride/ego?

Strength isn’t always physical. What’s weakness about a guy losing his job and moving in with his woman until he finds his feet again? Misfortunes sometimes happen to even the hardest working man.

To me the only reason I would not move in with my woman is ego/pride.

I would rather starve than have a woman feed me.

It has nothing to do with weakness or strength.

But that’s me!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Only a weak man moves into a woman’s apartment

Apart from weakness....it is totally wrong

If you know the shit that goes on in a woman’s apartment you won't move in

The man paying her TV cable subscription is different from the one paying her house rent
The one paying for her food stuff will also be different from the one paying her electricity bills

Trustmea:
The way you guys advice others to go and make money even without knowing the financial status of the person baffles me shuu

Candidlady:
Source

Brainmytool:
She has her friends believing that am her future. Which I know am not.
She works so hard to see I treat girls less harshly. She thinks am the devil and am rude to girls. Hanty some times stays naked cooking, reading, watching movies all naked. Na her house she dey.

She cant own me.

Brainmytool:
I don't fancy coming online to seek relationship advice, because I believe, I have learnt a lot from past relationships and have myself addicted to the REDPILL.

But this current situation has got me so confused that I need your advice to unwind me. I know I have called so many SIMPS for not knowing what I known a long time ago. But please use responsible words when addressing me. Please.

I got into a relationship after a lot of disturbance and serious entanglement from Victoria. She knew that I had other girls I play with but always makes out time to see me whenever I make such request. She plays the loyalty card very well that she got me confused at some point and I asked her out. She unhesistantly accepted and was overjoyed. She is so addictive that I am loving again. But omo, recently, like 9 weeks back, she started a new routine of leaving behind her pant and wears my shot home when leaving. This I ignored the first and second time she did it. But queried her after the third time. She said we are one thats why she can confidently leave her pant behind. But am unsettled with her response. Now she has 3 or 5 of her gowns in my house and 2 of my hoodie and more than 5 of my shirt in her custody. Last week I got new shirts and other clothing stuff to replenish the lost ones.

But that is not my concern. It troubles me that she has plans for me. Which might be getting more serious with me and am not interested in marriage, yet or calling anyone my FIANCEE.
Aside marriage what else do you think she has in box for me. I jokingly told her one day that I will use her pant for ritual and she said that means she may not be able to bear children for me. And secondly, that I cant go that extent to hurt her. She can cook, works as a secretary in a small tech company at my side. She is not demanding. Like i havent spent up to 10k on her but has spend more on me.

I want to end the relationship. Thats wat is largely on my mind now. But your advice will be appreciated. Thanks.

Ike agwu lam o. Am confused honestly.

sharpwriter:
Lol... You never sabi our gospel, they will tell you that to live is christ and to die is gain so make we go dey happy say the person dey with angels for heaven.
Dem don arrange that tin, they got answer for almost every lack of common sense and fantasy in the way they live life.

SangoOlukosoOba:
I must commend your dad for his patience. He is a real man!

If I was your dad, you will be on a wheelchair with no arms and legs. I will report myself to the police station when I am done with you!

You have a great dad.

DamianDd:
Omoh I guess so, I'll apologize when the time is right.... Let's just give it time. I know him well

LikeAking:
Nice!

You are a real man..

Racoon:
What example are they setting for their church members or the body of Christ? This is what Chris Okotie did. Now Oyakhilome have follow suit. Is there any relationship that is perfect?

Based on your thinking, it means there won't be any meaningful marriage relationship in the world because marriage is all about 2 imperfect people agreeing to live together.I am married man. So I know what I am talking about.

They Bible advised they stay apart if they must do so in order to reconcile any difference, but divorce is an absolute No! Marriage is for better for worst, good or bad, success or failure.

jeromestarks:
Girls are something else.

What if Alex (the only man who truly loves her) marries another woman before her option A failed?
No wonder many of them end up as a bitter single mother or marry any available guy and become victims of domestic violence.

fyzaila:
It's leading already, i just want 2 be on a clean note with him. Well, I thought it's something insignificant that's why i didn't bother revealing the actual date

jeromestarks:
According to him, she always come back. She literally told him that she will not stay away from him.
He said he told her to just go her way and forget they ever met but she said she's not going anywhere. That she likes keeping people who asked her out around so that they won't feel bad and regret why they asked her out.

She said that she will be around him forever.

kernniejay:
Jecinta and Alex are both unserious fellows.

fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.

plaindealer:
Even though the Pandora liars said his 1 and only house is the one in onisha...

Money dey abroad inside pandora account

House dey abroad

Children dey abroad

Wife dey abroad

Pandoran no get ties to Nigeria

After losing and ipobs start killing themselves in the SE, Pandora go just japa to go enjoy life with his money and family inside his Londo mansion.

ZomBidense and sit at home slaves are real super mumu..

wisdomkid:
You foolish mentality stinks to the high heavens. She's worried it will sag and all you could think of, is cheating? Mehn, it seems Nigerians are the scums of earth.

Bodmum:
shut up, patner in crime

headbasher96:
why is it that all the people soliciting for help online are access bank account holders

Unzerious:
I dont support the Merchandising of Sex, but this isn't the best approach to the Extermination of such.

Create Jobs and see Prostitution become a thing of the past.

Ebubu3:
Ebonyi newly registered voters is Highest in SE

Rochas2023:
Lagos on top

Omo I still the wonder how ebony take pass other SE state, ebony wy Abia pass in population

Jeon:
Because of the mind set of the useless NIGERIAN MEN.

tayo60:
Then buy for them now, ode

omron:
Good afternoon Romancelanders, I met this girl 4 days ago ,I gave her a lift in my car and we talked at length and in our discussions I made it known to her that I like her that I want to date her she first argued with me but on the long run she agreed and we started chatting and making calls asking me about my welfare calling me baby, babe oko mi and all that and all.that..I invited her to cinema on Sunday she refused to go with me ..but to my surprise she called me on Sunday yesterday that she is worried on something and said she does not know how to tell me about it...so I told her not to worry to say it and she said she want to buy a market for he this that her money is not complete that she will need 7k from me today Monday and I first think about it as.abnormal demanding from a newly met guy like me and I use to think a lady fooling a guy billing early in the relationship..Tho I like this girl...is it that she want to play me or she needs my money or should.i give her I don't want to make mistake..guys over to u ..I need urgent advise .


I told her no problem but have not promised her

Adevector:
Mumu man, he can't stomach his emotions. What happened to looking away then go pack her loads outside for her both the small and big,and when done and you can go and meet them to leave your house and go continue the sex outside.

No marry they no go hear, no do any legal court wedding they no go hear. Mumu men everywhere

SlyfoxxjReturns:
Yes anxiety is serious. But I don’t even believe this story is true. It’s like he just googled ‘early symptoms of HIv’ and threw everything he saw there into this post. Because if he’s really experiencing all those symptoms as mentioned then it’s 95% sure he has HIV.

MadamVanessa:




How I hate white dildos, if it's not black,don't show me. Assuming he was putting the black one on her mouth with vein, I would've been dripping.