Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

Listen to your mum because women know themselves and she is not the only one that reject the girl almost every member of your family rejected her ; bro think twice

BeardGangJnr1:
Dumb show,
Dumb viewers,
Dumb organizers,
Dumb participants.
Dumb moderators for pushing it to front page.

Dumb idiot , jealousy kill you there

IconicR:
God knows I can never move an inch for any celebrity , they are ordinary humans like you and deserve their privacy.

Envy and jealousy wan kill you

Freshtruth:
Good day a friend of mine who is on his third year at the university use his school fees to buy a phone for his girlfriend on her birthday now registration is closing next week Friday. His mom sells roasted plantain (Bolle) by the road side and he told me me he can't go and meet her again for the school fees . I told him to go meet his girlfriend who has already registered for the semester to sell the phone he told me it look some how pls what should he do now the he has Been able to sell his phone not up to the amount he need 30k between now till on Friday or he will have an extra year pls help

That's good investment

Namdeenero:
You were too forward, even if you can’t do it you should have put it in a more subtle manner

Playing hid and seek is the problem you guys have in dating world , tell her the truth and stand on it

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

You don't owe anybody apologise just stand on your words

You dont need any test of any kind, if your heart accept her then date her but don't fall in love with your heart fall in love with your head

Chigozie321:
The Judiciary should be allowed to do their job. This online bullying won't work.

What do you call online bully? APC and fear of unknown

Puss360:

Lol.. but men takes it serious...
And besides, whether serious or not... The internet is a powerful place... It's influence is compared to none!!!
People are view and are forming their own opinion based on what they see online...

Let's be cultured...

This is faceless forum

Puss360:

Men do have stretch marks... And since stretch marks isn't gender based, why the focus on women??

You shouldn't take anything you read here serious because it doesn't define you or Nigeria girls

Puss360:
Even all these fat orobo men with stretch marks will still comment on this thread....
Every guy here dey claim "Muscular"...
God epp us ooo

Sha hold your money...


See dem, body shaming girls with stretch marks...
Tomorrow now, dem no go let the girl rest...
Baby u too sweet..
Taaa get out

Talented321 hope say you like stretch marks oooo... If not

Why are you been pained? It's like you have been body shamed because of stretch marks

Oil dey your sense

DyingFetus:
For me it was when I bleeped a girl in a cemetery once, I don't know if you'd consider that as a public space.

Another was in a church camp , I was having a shower in river close by

Share yours if you may

Oga i think you really have mental issues

SMOGnow:
No be so. I just dey feel say she go say I no fit help

That's the trap she set for you just tell her you wish you can help but now you're in a tight corner

SMOGnow:
There's this girl I've been hitting for a while and we've been having a great chemistry so far. She just called me to inform me that she would be offline for a while. I asked what happened and she said she lost her phone.
I'm thinking of supporting her to get another phone, but I'm having a second thought. Guys, please what do you suggest?

She set a trap for you oga

It's not good at any age

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This is why unreasonable men cheat on their wives , get a side chic

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. In Nairaland, everyone is rich until you visit them. Yesterday or the day before yesterday, I red on FP about a lady who said she can never marry anyone who lives in this kind of apartment (I guess one room apartment). After going through some Nairalanders comments (from guys and ladies here), I just shook my head. From my own opinion, there is nothing wrong about the 🏠 apartment. In life, one must begin from somewhere. There are many wishing to live in such apartment that you guys castigated. The cost of getting a good apartment in Nigeria, precisely in the city like Lagos State is not easy.

Don't be surprise the owner of that room have a lot of gf , Girls that's far better than thst girl that post the room

Death will stop everything idiot why would you let what you do control you?

Attention they seek by all means

orohbiro:
Chai even the guy on red cap

Everyone can't be pervert like you

cheque:
In meet this new chick, we are getting along closely, but she dislikes underwear, she wear jean without a pant On, shirts / blouse without a bra On, please advise me on how to remedy this condition.
Shirts without bra
Trousers without pant, although she wears tite in her skirts

Is that a problem? What kind of help do you need ? She want comfort why are bothering yourself unnecessarily?

Yugoslavia247:


Okay elder.

I am telling you that I have a first hand experience of this issue between my uncles.

Today they have forgotten such happened.
The wife is gone for life.

The brothers are still brothers.

If she voiced out at any slight issue. He would have sent him packing or monitored him and the bro will respect himself.

Simple.

Well individual differences for me the woman is gone my brother I will give him space for some time

Puss360:

Lol.. this one is quite baseless...

Nigeria women hardly accept truth, they all hate truth just look at the way you call truth baseless

Teaveapoet:
You forgot to mention the guys too,
Are the guys too not going to be someone's husband looking for a decent girl to marry in future?
Are the men not concern of other jobs they can do aside porn?
Their faces too are uncovered, displaying all kinds of dicks online without protection.

These things are both gender, may devil not win our souls.

You can never compare life of a man with that of a woman

oluking:
simple! divorce her. keep a distance from my brother until further notice.

Exactly what I will do

Yugoslavia247:


I will forgive my brother.

But not the wife.

Why

Because my brother would not have the guts except the wife made the move.

And why would she not tell me when it first began if it was from him.

She is going because no be for the family she go disgrace me and my household.

Everything points back to her.

Now acting like she does not like it to keep the secret going

You are still a kid, Anyone that sleep with your wife can kill you

kayodenld:
You just found out that your wife had being sleeping with your brother whom she always act as if she doesn't like.

What would you do considering both are your family because she has two kids for you.

She will go and marry him simple because the marriage has end and that my brother I will avoid him forever

Adeoye11:

What's your opinion on this?

Have a friend in this case, but his is somehow.
This my friend had a girlfriend that they dated for three months and then had a misunderstanding in the third month of dating each other which makes them to block each other on all socials but my friend told me that they do always see in church and that he still likes the girl.
So my guy called the girl in church one day and the girl was so happy to respond so they settled their misunderstanding.
After about three months of coming back my friend discovered that this said girl is fucking one rich sugar daddy in this same church.
Which this man really used to take care of this girl by taking her to shopping, expensive restaurants and buying her provisions that even sometimes the man used to deny himself of his place of work so as to carry this girl to market and going home late to his family.
When my friend enquired from his babe why she is doing that the girl said because my friend left him.
And so when they came back together, the girl said the sugar daddy is not fucking her again but they always do the rest of sexual thing and that he still pays her bills, that it is hard for her to let the sugar daddy go quick because he has exposed the girl to some good life and that the man bought her an electric sewing machine of about 200k.
My guy told me that the girl really confessed alot she did with the sugar daddy in the period they had their own misunderstanding and that she apologized to this my guy but the girl has still not cut communication with this man, that at some point when the girl is with him this man still calls.
So of recent my guy told me that kasala don burst for some members of the church that this sugar daddy is Fucking the girl and so the girl is trying to seek solace in my guy and trying to avoid church cos of shame.

In this kind of case what can my friend do? And why did this said girl tells my friend everything she did with the man.
My friend said he still loves the girl and that the girl loves him too.
And that he plans to marry the girl

I won't take the girl serious again, I will keep her as sex mate

Lutherblaq:
They say Forgiveness is the firs step to fixing relationship issues. It gives you a window to understand the reason behind your partner’s actions.

Being cheated on is one of the most traumatic feelings one can go through in any relationship. There are times when the love and affection between two people decrease due to various factors.

Cuddles, romance, and communication become less frequent with time. It is in times like these either of the partners may search for love outside.

As a man/woman, tell us;
Can You Leave A Good Woman/Man Because They Slept With
Someone By Mistake?

What do you mean by mistake? What kind of mistake? No sexual intercourse is a mistake unless rape

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

She should leave that marriage before she die untimely death