missjenna:
Op, going into a relationship with a lady that has a child is not really all that different from a normal relationship, its just that there are things that you have to consider.

First of all op, you said you are scared. Why are you scared?. Are you intimidated by the fact that she has a child?
You have to clarify the reason why you are afraid and tackle it.

Secondly, you said she had the child by mistake. I don't really understand what you mean by "mistake" This is a very sensitive and crucial aspect of your relationship. Op please ask her to be sincere about who the father of the child is. Persuade her to be honest about it.
If truly "mistake" means she doesn't know who the father is then you are good to go. But I strongly doubt this.
If she knows who the father is, this is another issue. Make sure she comes clean about who the father is and if the issue of the child has been resolved.
Once you resolve this aspect, I don't think there is anything to worry about

If she truly loves you and you love her, and you want to spend the rest of your lives together, then go ahead. The fact that she has a child shouldn't be a barrier to your love, in fact it should strengthen it.

On a lighter note, op at least you are sure she is fertile.

"By Mistake" Hmmm! Not knowing who the father is means she sleeps around! And that's very dangerous! I know these girls that have babies out of wedlock! One of the characteristic things about them is their fear of never finding a guy who will marry them in their current status! So whichever one shows interest in them! All they think about is marriage! I have been down that trench before! She even made me do things ordinarily I wouldn't do! Worse of all she was the lady I first had s3x with! After 27 years of my existence on planet earth!

Probably because you want job satisfaction! A rewarding opportunity and most fulfilling offer!

How about political office holders??! Some go on retreat! Some on Holidays others on unnamed ceremonies! Please ban them as well! Nigeria has got a lot of beautiful locations for all these waka abouts

SomebodyLovesMe:


Seriously. The lunacy of some of these illiterates is mind buggling.

I think I have seen someone more illiterate and clueless than GEJ! Fighting corruption with technology by preventing the use of CARD READERS! GOAT

chukwudi44:

GEJ gave Jega free hand to operate and he decided to abuse that privilege by even using it against him to the extent of attempting to disenfranchise his key support base.Now GEJ has decided to use the full weight of his office. By the time this elections are over both Jega and apc would understand what is meant by the phrase "power of incumbency". Jega would understand he is a mere figure head without control of events on ground

Now this is how ingrates! Reason. Isn't Jjega suppose to be independent? What do you mean by free hand!!?? Oloshi

It appears they don't know the price of oil in the international market! they are loosing value so the had better keep quiet and stop ranting! BUHARI IS WINNING

"BASTARD DOYIN OKUPKE"

Akamu no d form shiiit

APC is heading for another defeat! If it wasn't for the greed, selfishness and self attitudes of "born to rule leaders" it would have been easy to challenge Jonathan for aso rock and possible send him packing! If they can forget about zoning the crown to the north and presenting candidates like fashiola and Donald Duke! Two very credible leaders with track records! Against Jonathan who pardons every corrupt person! Then they will have unfetted access to ASO ROCK

God's anointed! Do not disobey God! Our lord Jesus to me is the only anointed man of God to have ever lived the surface of this earth!

Pastors too are human beings ok!

His opponents are working in the sidelines! I have one in my state who, just by indicating interest went I'll and stayed in Germany for months! Than God he is well now and back! The party has been in confusion since he came! Who God has blessed! No man can curse

Clerverly:
I read an article somewhere, where Oliseh Metuh of PDP, called for the resignation of Hon. Tambuwal for ditching a party on whose majority he rose to the office of the speaker house of Representative.

In his exact words: “After a thorough consideration of the matter, the NWC came to a conclusion that the Hon. Speaker, as a responsible elected officer, knows full well what is needful and honourable of him since his new party is in the minority [in the House]” he said.

I have also read some comments offline and online, when some ignorant/paid commentators have started insinuating that Hon Tambuwal May lose his office for simply not fulfilling the requirements of the law as regards the position of speaker.

It is very unfortunate that some Nigerians including public office holders are too lazy, to read the elementary sections of our Constitution, some of which are self explanatory.

Now, let us examine what Chapter V, Part 1 (Composition Of National Assembly) sections 47 -50 of the Constitution Of The Federal Republic Of Nigeria holds:


There shall be a National Assembly for the Federation which shall consist of a Senate and a House of Representatives.

48. The Senate shall consist of three Senators from each State and one from the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja.

49. Subject to the provisions of this Constitution, the House of Representatives shall consist of three hundred and sixty members representing constituencies of nearly equal population as far as possible, provided that no constituency shall fall within more than one State.

50. (1) There shall be:-

(a) a President and a Deputy President of the Senate, who shall be elected by the members of that House from among themselves; and

(b) a Speaker and a Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives, who shall be elected by the members of that House from among themselves.

(2) The President or Deputy President of the Senate or the Speaker or Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives shall vacate his office -

(a) if he ceases to be a member of the Senate or of the House of Representatives, as the case may be, otherwise than by reason of a dissolution of the Senate or the House of Representatives; or

(b) when the House of which he was a member first sits after any dissolution of that House; or

(c) if he is removed from office by a resolution of the Senate or of the House of Representatives, as the case may be, by the votes of not less than two-thirds majority of the members of that House.

So where did PDP find the supposedly "loophole" or authority in law, in asking Hon. Tambuwal to resign? The only option left for them, is to rally their members and see if they can muster the required number when plenary resumes in decemeber, in order to satisfy Section 50, subsection 2 C as highlighted above.

Anything else is calling for anarchy!

CC; Barcanista, Omenka, Berem, Obiagelli, Neenar, Donphilopus, ibsultan, Gbawe,pataki, edcure, pendy97, and the progressives!

the Nigerian constitution has to be reviewed and solutions to some of these illegalities enshrined there in! It is criminal for anyone in actual sense and in the real sense of truth for anyone to get elected under a certain party and still one to retain their positions after defection! U can't eat ur cake and have it! Is more like selling a car and still wanting to drive that car! PDP can as a party introduce that as a resolution and a term of membership to whoever wishes to be a part of that party in the future! In Nigeria corrupt and criminal politicians explore every available option to hang onto privileges which judging by good morals and a conscience look more of injustices and like cheating measures! Its is greed and selfishness that drives men who should be honorable to being dishonorable! He has to bow his head in shame and vacate! Its a way of an honorable member! PDP can explore anyway possible to boot him out! He is greedy!

Man up dude! Just move on!all girls are use to this kinda thing I lost three phones to a girl, and much more! Almost lost my life for luv! But what did I do?? She came back and told me she found a richer guy! Wants to get married in December 2015! She troubles me with chats on bbm, Whatsapp, viber, all because while she left I didn't give a hoot! Now she posts her pictures on Facebook and changes them often on the different chat platforms! All of these I know was to get my attention! And when I did get tempted to chat with her for the luv I had for her! She said she wanted to c me! And I'm like for what?? And she is like she misses me, I was nice, she enjoyed the whole time we spent together! And stuff! Just yesterday I told her to concentrate on her marriage, free me emotionally and not see me as some companion because d other guy did this or that! Women are wicked

I'm imagining what will happen to her body if she gets shot down off the Sky's, ejects in to the midst of ISIS fighters in an ISIS controlled territory

echo2: 9 outta 10million+... If you put the iPhone in your back pocket and you sat on it for like 9hours there is a possibility it might bent...the possibility is just 5%. The iPhone is made of aluminum and y would u put a phone in your back pocket and sit on it?? That's insane now...

My cube got a better aluminium shell than iPhone 6++++! After the #bendgate stunt I just rolled the car over my cube! Still brand new like just made

echo2: Consumer Reports: new iPhones ‘not as bendy as believed’.......www.idownloadblog.com/2014/09/27/consumer-reports-on-bendgate

Not as "bendy" but bend duo! #BENDGATE

echo2: Who in his or her right senses will bend a phone worth thousands of dollars.... I smell lies here.....the guy that made d video was paid my samsung to ridicule the iPhone....and do you guyz think apple won't have tested the device before producing it All dis mumu spilling rubbish about apple are broke a$$ nigga who don't have enough $ to get an iPhone. Aniways you can open this link to see how apple test there devices before they launch it. www.idownloadblog.com/2014/09/25/apple-invites-journalists-lab

where have u been all this while! Is the guy the same 9 people who's I phones have been confirmed to malfunction due to #bendgate!! Hahahahahahahahahha! #TeamChinco, rocking ma Cube talk 9x

evegran: . You're so stupid! To be so deluded and display confidence in your delusion. Mumu being finished in China, doesn't make it a chinese product or a chinese design. It is 100% American. slowpoke! 60% produced by Samsung who steals features from apple? You must really exist in a cave! To wake up every morning and imagine the news and imagine in your apparently empty brain how you believe the world works. Stupido! Resist the urge to attract my attention to your shameless display of stupidity. Samsheep!

because camera's weren't patented on free-i and true-i ab! Samsung for the smile go cut for u guys who stole the idea from em'

Apple, Samsung, are selling names! There are Chinese equivalents of their devices that can match them power for power, strength for strength and quality for quality

And I would add it to my Gionee Elife E3! Can't wait! I just can't wait

Track ur stolen or lost android fone from or Google account anywhere in the world using android device manager! Location and positioning made easy with a one click trace on Google maps! "Find my android phone" doesn't get better than this!

And my gionee E3,is a tad better!

Skinny jeans!

Gorgeous

Gorgeous

That Pair Is Old! I'll rather go for a smaller and younger pair!

mobuch:

@ billyonaire,

Bros, u always claim to have everything.
Dem swear for you?
Haba, u should be banned permanently for your excessive bragging

Can't u see the dude is a billionire?

demelza: Its been a looong time we heard from him. He is one of our stellar artistes.
Congrats on the anniversary!
P.S what kind of name is Ntishokarome? Is his wife South African?

Sunny Neji! Is from an ethnic group "Ishibori" in Ogoja Cross River State! Ntishorkarome is not south African! Its an Ishibori name!

Wonders; they say shall never end! Only in Nigeria does A Hen giv birth to a Chic without laying an Egg!

Napoleondegreat: Which one be under sediment up to 60million years old? How old is the earth itself?

The earth is approximately 4.6billion years old! From geological studies! And when d tell u sediments are 60million years old it means there were deposited sometime in the early jurassic to late cretacious! (within campo-maastricthian)