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YorubaKinging:
The end is near

This is a welcome development

I think the south west should follow suit

Na suit them go wear.

In this modern era we are in, oloshoism is part of our society (though am among those who don't patronize them).

Rape and masturbation will be high as someone said up there.

No sane country or government will enact this.

The northerners are hypocritical in nature whereas na them bang olosho pass for this country. Their man thing ain't staying put.

Albertone:
without laptop??




I love the seas

Yes your right.

Without laptop.

I also love the seas

You could programming, robotics with Arduino, python, list goes on.
But these no too dey boom in Naija.

Learn what is sellable in Naija.
Learn the mechanical, electrical or computerized discipline of automobile.

Learn how to use a scanner for car inspections (this is indispensable in Naija), there's also tyre alignment, fuel gauge, so many sellable skills in auto mechatronics.

You story is the same as mine.

I just quit my job this week all due to same thing you wrote up there.

Female bosses can be werey sometimes, they just want you to do eye service and be a pet.

I have been absorbing all the nagging and insults directly and indirectly from the Igbo woman. As I can't cope again because it's has been affecting me psychologically, na him I bust them with resignation letter. E pain the werey lady. Instead of her begging or at least pet me or say she will increase salary, her pride and ego no let her. This didn't surprise me cos she doesn't even give one encomium but only mouth lashes.

The husband called me recently for us to talk why my sudden action to resign. Well, we will meet up in due time.

Now I want to freelance and learn my computer repair work, anything else can come in sha. Am jobless now, but I no tomorrow I will smile.

To the Op: No allow her see you finish since you can't copy my style. Look her in her eye when your eyes jam make she remove face. Further more do you know that she no go fit do the job she ask you to do? That's why she is paying you. Don't always seem useless validations from her. Make her be saying if it was you she trust you say sharp you go done run am. Shalom

rittanie:
And what digital skills is also befitting for women also, am
willing to learn though don't have a laptop at the moment

As an educator and mentor (training girls and women in ICT),

I will advice you to start with Microsoft softwares (word, excel, PowerPoint) then move to graphics (Photoshop, canva, or others you pick one) then further dive in blogging (you don't need to code though, just first learn UI/UX with figma or Adobe InDesign; after which you can learn how to blog with blogger or WordPress) Note: the blogging should be on something you passionate about or a skill you are currently doing).

With all this skills rolled in one you can be hired or work as a freelancer or online entrepreneur.

If it's a male,
learn graphics, video editing (Adobe premiere pro, wonders hard filmora,..) , animation (Adobe After Effect and others), coding (HTML, CSS, JavaScript or PHP, WordPress, these technologies should be learnt respectively and if one wants to become a block chain developer afterwards)

Cc: you can pick one of those skills mentioned above and dive deeper.

Tonnyray:
So much said.
Fortunately some of us are a mould apart. If I ever had issues with them on Ashewo thread it was the fact that paying for sex was and still is despicable in my world. They tried to bully me with unsavory words both directly and indirectly but I put them in their place. And I made it clear the thread was open to everyone whether or not you patronize women of easy virtue. I’m all about catching cruise. Where there is anything to learn trust me I’m your quintessential sponge soaking up useful knowledge everywhere I go.

To accord any status to yourself because you are opposed to spending on the opposite sex is simply stupid in my opinion. The key element is CONTROL. Does pussy control you? You know how to tell you are a real man? (I have said it severally that I hate all this “alpha male” appellations). A real man lives life on his own terms. Call it orange pill if you like, that’s your cup of tea. Live life on your terms. Period. If I take a chick shopping it’s because I feel like. If I take a chick to an upscale restaurant it’s my prerogative. It won’t be because I’m trying to impress a girl or score pussy… I mean.. lol. I cited an example of a chick I spent 17k on a few pages back and some monikers went rabid, like wtf. If they bothered to read well we’ve been fvcking for over a month. I took her shopping just 2 weeks ago. It was my idea not hers. She didn’t even have an idea. She just discovered there were no male wears in the shop we entered and I asked her to pick 2 gowns. Guess what she was even smart enough to seek my opinion on what she picked. She didn’t just pick what she liked, she picked what she liked and I was also comfortable with. Those are the subtle signs to look for. Fast-forward to a few days later and she hinted she wanted to make her hair and I cut her short immediately. I repeat THIS IS ALL ABOUT CONTROL. The boutique move no be say I don turn maga. No be mouth there are at least 4 other equally sexy shawtys in the harem. Abundance mentality here.

A laughable mindset here is that you have to be mean to a woman to be “red pilled”. Whatever works for you. That’s lame in my opinion. As a real man all you need is to be firm and pretty much unpredictable. Never allow “see finish”. A woman respects a guy that she cannot manipulate or control. A guy she knows can change it for her at any given time. They will try to test you. When they do, bare your fangs immediately and register it you got no issues sinking your teeth in if they don’t align. Every woman I’ve been with describes me as caring but difficult. I take it as a compliment. I got zero tolerance for bullshit and I don’t hesitate to point their BS out because many times they actually can’t see it. Every female is manipulative by nature. What makes you a man is how well you can beat them at their game, show them up for what they are; show them you’re 4 or 5 steps ahead of them in their game. Two options become evident: she either capitulates and hands over authority and leadership totally to you or she immediately jumps ship to go find the guy she can manipulate and dominate. Note however that the fact that she ceded total authority to you today does not mean she won’t keep testing that authority subtly in an attempt to recoup it. So asserting your dominance is never a once and for all thing. She will always need reminder who wears the pants.

Broke guys fvck better is such a laughable a concept it’s debasing debating it. I’ve been dead broke. I’m a little comfortable now. I suppose I no longer sabi fvck. What actually made me spill my coffee was when the issue of paternity fraud was cited in favor of broke guys. Like for real? So my naija babe is likely to get pregnant for the gateman than she is for her MD. I repeat many people have zero knowledge when it comes to naija women. Note I place emphasis on naija. Apart from 2 Camerounian and a Ghanaian chick all my experience is with naija girls so I assert myself only when it comes to my field of expertise. Naija women love sex. Naija women enjoy sex. To however think sex is a major factor in a naija girl’s choices.. guy I’m sorry but you’re just dumb. Somehow I think porn has done a number on a lot of guys’ orientation about women. Sex is the least of the naija babe’s problems. If she wants to fvck 10 different dicks in a day, the only problem she’ll have is deciding which of the innumerable options she should shortlist. By babe here I hope we’re clear I am referring to hot girls in their prime. That stunning 20-25 year old 200-400 level Babcock, Madonna or Unilag Pharmacy, Accountancy or Law student. Anybody can be scoring Risikat the bread and akara seller and claim she chose him.. so he’s redpilled lol.

Our society is so messed up now that many ladies presently idolize materialism... agreed. It’s fallout of vicious social conditioning. Social and mainstream media actually consistently attempt to bludgeon most of our girls into subscribing to the ass for cash mantra. Same way guys are conditioned to seeing their worth only as reflected in the number of digits in their bank account statement, the type of cars they drive, they kind of locale they live in and all what not. Unfortunately the average guy just begins slut-shaming. Lol. Guess what I discovered, your disposition to them dictates what you get out of them. In this so-called “hoeing” phase, there is one word that better defines what these girls are after: THRILLS. The thrill of entering the most luxurious settings, the sleekest rides, the dopest parties, clubbing with the biggest society ballers and yes sex definitely comes in the mix. When it comes to girls, the vibes you give out determines what you get back. If you flaunt money, rest assured leeches will invade your space. My game is to flaunt fun. If it was about spending money I should have one of the lowest body counts in Nigeria. No chick I’ve been with in the last 7 years or so even know my real names. That’s how well I demarcate my fun life from my serious/professional life. I never do transfers. The 5 or 6 times I’ve had to in the last few years has been through one of my staff. I can confidently state I have never spent on a bitch I haven’t dicked for at least a month. That’s my modus operandi. Call it burgundy pill for all I care. The minute you present a bill before we start rolling in the sheets you’re history. On to the next one.

When I said this some miscreants went rabid. It takes simple logic to grasp all that is meant is that comfort attracts some females that may not have looked your way otherwise. It’s not even worth debating over. The Abuja babes working in the banking, telecom and insurance companies that populate my phone contact list and my Whatsapp chat would be famzing me and asking for trips if I was an okada rider ba? Oh I forgot there are bricklayers, plumbers and panelbeaters fvcking them that we know nothing about. Smh.

When it comes to the broke phenomenon I swear I can lecture majority here on what it is to be broke. As in not just broke but broke broke. The kind of broke that entails you going without food for days. How many here have trekked from Maryland to Yaba before because of no t-fare? Not once o but 5 or 6 times. Trekked from UI to Old-ife road in Ibadan for the same reason just as many times… yet too proud to beg or even ask. Guess what, on several occasions I go still see sexy, bootyliscious babe on the way and collect number. That should give you an idea about my mindset. There was never a time I believed any such dark phase is permanent. During some of those slapping episodes able bodied guys would walk up to me and beg for tfare to places less than a quarter of where I’d been slapping from. Even my friends knew Niyi would rather die than beg. I mentioned 3 guys earlier. One of them collected my account details from my brother and credited me with 30k during my lowest and worst season in this life. He knew I’d never ask. That 30k was like 30m to me back then. The guy had a thriving transport company. Fastforward and Covid-19 struck worsened by subsequent herdsmen highway kidnapping saga. The transportation industry took a colossal hit. Dude lost practically everything. Had debts he couldn’t settle. Many investors pulled out. Had to sell some of his cars. I’m glad to say I was able to come through for him in my own little way. Asides an initial bulk sum, 40k monthly is nothing big to a businessman but it sure means a family of 4 won’t starve.

And on the issue of “GAME” I’ve actually had a really good laugh here. What if I told you I was scoping chicks and collecting their numbers long before I could afford even a Nokia torch phone in my med school days. Back then in school, boys that had rides and latest Blackberrys would beg me to accompany them to UI to scope particular social science babes for them (social science was reputed to have the hottest girls back then) and would drop their jaws when I return within 15 minutes with the number and BB pin of the shawty their stupid selves were too timid to approach or had made futile attempts at. Some even joked I should turn it to a business. Lol. Chyking girls is actually more addictive in my world than fvcking. Same me never scored more than 2 girls throughout med school. It had nothing to do with game. I discovered women were a potential colossal distraction for me. I simply couldn’t marry chasing yansh with med school. Kudos to the boys that were able to string both along. Failing my first series of tests was my wake up call. I needed nobody to advise me to immediately activate the delayed gratification modus operandi. I knew it was only a matter of time the babes would be the ones begging for my attention. Self-fulfilling prophecy. The rest as they say is history.

There’s a whole lot we all could learn from each other on this thread if we were able to simply humble ourselves and hear each other out without resorting to unnecessary profiling and a “we versus them” disposition. Nobody is outrightly stupid. Nobody has a monopoly of wisdom either. Last last each one of us has only seen a different facet of this multifaceted prism called life.

My name sake (niyi) I related well to your writeup. That's the game. It about control, wit and beating them to their games.

Those skills you put up there are ace.

They aint easily to learn. Takes time, patience & Perseverance.
Employers will really beg you for those skills even hear in Nigeria (Yes, they certainly will).

Me currently, am trying to learn how to develop a blockchain website.
Noticed people loose money while investing in bitcoin.
So, been a blockchain developer might help ease things.

Nice short write up!

slimman007:
Please, what skill will you advice me to learn..Thnx

You could learn any skill that best suit you. Don't learn a skill cos people online are doing it, you might be stuck.

After knowing what skill to learn.
Go pay for the skill, this is for you to learn fast and from those who are already making it from that profession. There, you will learn the rudiments of the profession.

It could be skills in either computer hardware or software, automobile, transportation, agriculture, clothing, electronics and electricity, ...

Djbush:
I'm just wondering why you failed a course in Physics. What course is that, if I may ask? Solid states, Quantum Mechanics, Electronics, Nuclear? You name them bro...

What you have to do now is focus, focus and focus. An extra year/spill over is not the end of the world. The sun will always shine...I've not seen a dull sun

Cheers

You missed one.

Relativity!

JOACHINpedro:
Man up bro.
Utilize the time to seeing that you pass it.

Learn digital skills while on it so that you boost your work acceptability.

I'm in finals too(writing my exams) but I know say I fit come back cus of financial depression that I had during my first semester exam.
But regardless, I'm won't give up. I know my capabilities and I won't back down because of excuses.
P.S you'll face much worse in future but your management skill is what will help you surmount obstacles.

Good luck bro

Follow this and you never go wrong.

Are you kidding me? Doing science � is a gifts �.
Btw We live in a physical world. Math is a sense.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9hiTg9egzY

Introverts need to see the above.

Advice buhari to go and beg them. When they dont want progress and peace and development in their region except to accused the other people of behavioural because they join hand with the fulani/hausa for development.

Hausa/Fulani have leadership traits.
Yorubas can provide the directions and brains.
Igbos are industrious and inventors.

Imagine if we agree to come together and use this qualities? How the country will have soar high.

But maybe na nonsense i talk o.
I don japa.

FalseProphet1:
I see her getting married before the end of this year to a much younger guy, I see jobless people carrying the matter on their head like firewood, I see her ignoring her haters, I see her young husband getting involved in a sex scandal with a much younger and prettier girl, I see the marriage forging on despite the turbulence.

This I have seen.

Osheyyyy.. TB Joshua!

yommen:
See, we the southerners are fools. We talk with our tongues not with brain We understand that the Fulani people are killing our people so that their cattle can feed on our people's farms and yet we still eat their meat. How often do you that you are yabbing yoruba avoid cow meat? I bet you eat it everyday! You get sense at all? Ain't you a naturally born hypocrite with that? And for how long are we going to rely on the north to feed us? Ask yourself, how many millions of people can the food crops produced in your state feed over the next five years?

Yes, the ministry of agriculture has chosen to establish national grazing reserve. Its an opportunity for Yorubas who have the money to tap into the business. The land will still be for the state government most likely or may be federal government which can never be restricted to only Hausas. Yorubas should be involved and learn. Our cows can be more than theirs in these two states and we pick things from there.

You only see things with your tribalistic eyes, no sense.

Good write up.

I noticed fulanis are more in ogun, Oyo state and they see there as home.
During my NYSC days in kaduna camp, the fulanis were more closer to me than other tribes- they even feed me steady almost every night, advised me and up till now am still in contact with some.

Our people can tap from the technology this ranching will bring.

Its a welcome development.
Soon enough when others see that we are benefitting massively from this, they will say we and the northerners have shared Nigeria between us instead of joining the trail.

sapphiere:
Did you know that without feminism, we wouldn't have gotten people like Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Kamala Harris, Angela Merkel etc? Feminisms open doors for equality and women empowerment. I spits on any women who rejects the movement.

Sorry to say but your words is full of lie.

Men put those women there.
Not them been feminist.
They were humble (maybe that's not the right word, you can replace).

I have a boss she is were she is today because of her husband's support and contribution. She has high status and money because of him. There was one time she went to America for her work and the husband was the one talking care of the kids when they were very little.

Character is oil for lamp that never burns out.

OnionBandit:
This is one thing I love about Indians...

Even though their country is the real definition of shithole, they still try to speak well of it in public domains. There are places in India where children will have to swim through water filled with poo of different sizes to get to school but they won't let the world see these slums..If you have watched slumdog millionaire, you will have an idea of what I am saying.

...but here in Nigeria, just because you don't like a president, you go on twitter, Facebook, Reddit, quora etc to call your country zoo., spread fake news, exaggerate ills in the country, insult your president like he is the reason your life is miserable, and then tag the whole world to see..

Why won't a shithole like India, Kenya look down on us?

Almost every of your sentences are correct.

My boss had been to India and she will say Nigeria is a 3rd world country, while India is a 5th world. But they still believe in working hard to the top and hoping one day their country will be great. Also they don't steal.

If it's raping, yes.
I was watching a NoFap community support in indian about why guys needs to celibate themselves for a while and you will hear them say, " if every of their youths practice it that they will take back their dream country".

The bottom line is they always praise their country despite their ills. Wonder why indians have taught us many things on YouTube? This is because they do it for their people.

Nigerians need to stop seeing the government as the cause of their downfall. Though we all know the government is suppose to provide platforms and good economy for us to thrive.

[quote author= post=102770519]The central bank should aim for greater flexibility by reestablishing a dollar interbank market, effectively allowing banks to trade currency on their own behalf to increase liquidity and move toward a single rate.[/quote]Funny enough they won't allow it. Their way of attaining power.

He came to Naija to boost his career.

US musical industry is very competitive.

My people will give this one more fame now.

Swanzi:
Yes tech is thriving but not the whole package of generator fumes,buhari,twitter ban,insecurity...list is endless

Other sector isnt, and it pains us all. But not to go outside the borders and shores of Nigeria to diminish her name before those who have done worst to humanity. Sadly enough what will the foreigners do or can they do is not their concern but interest.

ObaKlaz:
No nation is without challenges. Nigerians are always eager to point back home with the left index finger, especially in the full glare of the international community.

Comments on Nairaland alone are enough to repel foreign investors! Nigeria is down already, as it is, but negative portrayals of the country such as this one, on international platforms do the already battered image of the country no favours.

Ghana ain't sh!t, but Ghanaians won't stop hyping and giving their country good PR.

The average Nigerian needs to be taught a thing or two about patriotism, while we try to fix our self-inflicted problems.

You are very wise in thought.

I've seen and heard ghanians hyping Nigeria in terms of ICT. They want to be were we are. They said tech is thriving in Naija, dont know of other sectors though.

But funny enough our people dont know this.

Shame and Woo to that Ashawo pagent girl.

ford101:
what about graphics design?

Also saturated. Almost all profession is saturated in Nigeria but if no how to sell your craft and package yourself, you go blow.

You can use the social medias especially youtube. Make graphic design courses on youtube, you will get followers with time and dedication. When you do, take them to upwork and do business with them.

With time you will get clients both home and abroad.

My inputs.

Don't leave your current job now.
You can do the two. Though fashion designing needs time and patience and your concentration,
but if you have any time away from work go learn it; maybe weekends, breaks, holidays.
As time goes on you will gradually leave the work and go full time into fashion designing.

Your story is like mine.
I am into software designing and development stuffs but the field is now saturated (though that's what i think, i might not no much) but i am currently learning computer repairs as well as computer related things every weekends, holidays and breaks.

Just last week, i revolted my decision to resign from my job because i gave it a vivid thought on how i could get money to do other stuffs and meet my small needs.

Just follow your instincts. It can never lead you wrong. Shalom.

MrMaestro:
Yoruba Nation's next tech billionaires will be made in Lagos. We need a competitor to Nairaland honestly, this site is stale. Kudos to the Flutterwave and Paystack guys.

God Bless Yorubas
God Bless Yorubaland

Very correct!
If implemented, this will boom our Tech Sector magnanimously.
There will be rise of youtubers, software entrepreneurs, tech and non tech start ups, bloggers, others. Likewise; foreigners will flock Lagos.
What we need to boost other Nigeria's sectors is Stable power supply and internet connection.

Indeed, Lagos lead! Others follow!!

sophxx:
We are not competing. Let black nations develop, its all we hope for. Developed Ghana is my pride, developed kenya is my pride. Let black nations develop without making it seems we are in competition.

The way they undermine this country by comparing her to Ghana is too much.
The goal is for Africa to develop. America of today had highway robbers and kidnappers before example is burning and clide if I might be correct in spelling.

Community policing and restructuring is the way.
Hence we split. The oduduwa, biafrans and the arewas have different Creed origins. It won't work.

oazeez1991:
Do u mind explaining what d Tiger Human Spirit approach really mean?

Check this youtube link. It will help you alot.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9hiTg9egzY

JosephXavier:
Surviving in a country like Nigeria where there is a little job opportunity for a teaming youths is a great challenge which only self empowerment through skill can give one an advantage

Me wey my parents Na Civil servants wey nothing concern with business, I no get business sense.

I come Kukuma enter into IT

Me I don learn Python, SQL and now I'm learning Java

Like to OP said, I still need to diversify and I'm looking into forex trading and more
I just want to be good at what I'm doing

You just wrote what am doing and what am about wanting to do.

Kingrefreshed:
Davido still better pass him. Davido is Human and Humane! He relates with his family and Fans Wella.

This one just dey distance himself from people wey sign under his own label sef

Davido likes been around plenty people.

wizkid likes a few people around him.

That's how humans are?

oazeez1991:
U might just be a turbulent introvert (INFJ-T)

Yes the OP might be a turbulent INFJ-T.

But being an INFJ-T is a gift.
Learn how to make use of such gift.

Adopt the tiger human spirit.

Guide777:
Prof seems not to understand the situation we are in. This is not matter of grammar. This is the same grammar that Prof and his cohorts spoke prior to 2015 elections that blackmailed a man with a good heart and then sold us ' poison ' laced with honey. That same poisoned honey is the one who has unleashed this evil bandits upon Nigeria. Prof we are not interested in your grammar any more.

Sir we are still interested in his grammar.

we need more people of his caliber to SPEAK UP tirelessly.

The government react to their comments, speeches, write-ups than ours.

sheDD:
I don't understand why this country has to be going like this...
We just don't face hardship
Now we live in fear..
And the most vicious of it all is how things and cost of living keep heightening

I'm d only one who noticed that...
Why is life tougher in this country

As par say I no dey eat chicken cos money no dey... Now to manage and enjoy my usual ice fish.. I have to keep like 1k fo one ice fish

This country is thrown to the dogs

Bros, no be only you no understand this country we plenty for here.

Imagine I manage chop chicken yesterday. I just dey happy like say na visa lottery I get.

Wow! so nice to hear this.

Now we can farm. We Westerns do not shy from farming.

If we reason this; why is north so hungry if they have abundant food?

Niger plus Cameroon is not a favourable market compare to the south. We pay hugely.

If we too cut trades coming from the west to north. wonder what will happen.

Jafaar:
you people like to criticize what you understand,by his speaking of tounges God blesses him with spiritual gifts which he uses to solve people's problem and the people may thank him with material things .He does not touch any tithe or offering of church members.
An ex general once gave him 1 million dollars for solving his problem,think off the others we don't know

Yes! He was given money meant for a local government, right?