₦airaland Forum

Leopantro:
this reminds me of something that happened to a friend in Abia state.
The girls family put the birthprice at 800k.
the guy was mandated to sponsor the trad and the white wedding. serious fight started. the girl sided with the mother and said the guy must perform his right.
the guy did everything with anger but they later got married.
the marriage didn't last two months. now she is a baby boy and in her parent's house. no more suitors.
last i heard she was planning to leave the country.

Odogiawa:
He was given this right at Imo state before he met an Akwa Ibom girl,that worsen the whole situation and made him angry that he was not gonna marry any girl from the east... he has no option than to come back to benin....

Lizilicious:
I don't know the part of Akwa ibom she's talking abt oo, but YESTERDAY AN IGBO MAN NEXT TO MY TABLE BRAGGED HOW HE SHUTS DOWN HIS WIFE BY SHOWING HER "THE LIST" AND ALL HIS EXPENSES DURING THE TRAD. ACCORDING TO HIM ITEMS ON THE LIST ALONE WORTH MOST 2.5M.. NOT TO TALK OF OTHER MERRIMENTS. SO SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO ANY OPINIONS IN THE MARRIAGE BECAUSE HE HAS PAID FOR HER, AND SHE'S "PROPERTY", JUST AS YOU MENTIONED ABOVE.
PEOPLE ACTUALLY "OWN" OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR TRIBE AND YOU WANT TO CARRY ON WITH THAT SORT OF SLAVERY, JUST LIKE THE JEWS IN THE OLD TESTAMENT.
WHY NOT OPEN YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEAD, AND ALLOW SOMETHING NEW ENTER FOR ONCE? undecided[b][/b]
And u can still come and argue if u think that's too much..

Pipo Shud get their facts right mbok, don't use ur village wahala to come and Spoil people's future marriages..

Kneel ko, roll ni

happney65:
I went to court and got married with just about 10 People in attendance..I dont have time for all these nonesense marriage list where the daughter is being sold..Have always had it in mind of just going to court and thats all..My wife agreed with me but she just dey use style to ask me if we can still do it later..and even at that her list is about 60K or thereabout..we are sensible yoruba's and we aint selling our daughters like some people do..

Some stupid yoruba's these days also come with a big list as if the daughter is being sold.I dont blame them sha,I blame the mumu man that will go through hell all because i want to marry their daughter..On top that ohh,the lady nor her family wont drop a dime..Na on top of the Man them go put everything..

Nonesense and Buhari

Aonkuuse:
Hahahahahah they don't know nah, but like seriously some people will be doing as if they are selling their daughters out

dominique:
Until women stand up against this evil practice called bride price, men will continue to see them as their property and treat them as such

Tallesty1:
I said the same thing sometime ago and people called for my hand(they can't have my head) . Nigeria women that ask for equality in marriage after her family collected thousands from her husband in the name of marriage/bride price are deceiving themselves.


Let's analyze marriage in Nigerian way.


Step 1. You asked for a girl's hand in marriage and she accepts.

Step 1. You do introduction.

Step 3. You fix date for the traditional marriage and her people bill you heavily.

Step 4. If if you bring the items in the list and they're satisfied with what you brought and the bride price or selling price, you can sugar coat it bride price to make them feel better.

Step 5. They will hand their Daughter over to you and she changes her name immediately. That's change of ownership for you.

If the above scenario doesn't appear to you as pure business arrangement and transaction then I don't know what will.



You own what you pay for. Even a kid knows that

pocohantas:
1) Why do Naija guys think sex is a loss to the lady?

2) Why will a guy and girl have sex, then Naija guys will call only the lady olosho with borehole pùssy?

3) Why is there so much emphasis on female chastity and virginity, but none for guys?

4) Why is male infidelity more tolerated/accepted than the female one?

5) Why do Naija guys turn totometer, trying to calculate the mileage of their girlfriend's vagina?

6) Why will you give a Naija man a blòwjob and he'll be wondering which man's dick you learned it with?

7) Why would a Naija guy date a girl and when they break-up, he will be happy he at least fuckéd her. Does it take something away from her? If yes, what? Is it a gift or collateral to the guy? If yes, why?

8 ) Why are there thousands of thread on guys analysing the female vagina, its depth, width, colour... in relation to her sexual partners?

9) Why is a sexually experienced guy a stud and his female counterpart, a slut?

10) Why are Naija girls slutshamed for being sexually expressive, whereas the guys can share sexcapades on ashawo beer parlour thread?

12) "Virginity is the best gift a woman can give her husband".
Do you agree with the above statement. If yes, why?

13) "A man can love his wife and fùck around, but a woman who does same can kill her husband". Do you agree with this statement. Discuss in not more than 6 lines.

14) If sex is indeed pleasurable for both,why does the female get all the antagonism and the guy gets the accolade?

If you can correctly and sincerely answer these questions.
The answer you seek lies therein.

Mykelslim:
Hazard? Or Neymar? Won't save Madrid, they needed Ronaldo because he's always hungry to score, he's obsessed with the goals. It's part of who he is. That's what he does. Play what you like give him the ball to be greedy and score for you. He has delivered Madrid times without number. Imagine in January when Ronaldo was still on four league goals. They drastically dropped points until he started scoring.

HoodBillionaire:
another ass licker

HoodBillionaire:
they are all thieves
never be found in gathering of the wicked
imagine thieves
celebrating thieves
well im not suprised
end times
hahahahaha
look at dat scammer oyedepo
hez always frowning
nor be say he fine o

Homeboiy:
oyedepo should stop associating with the infidel osibanjo



well I no even see osibanjo pic

FortifiedCity:


Why is this country so messed up?

Is there a curse placed on this country that things will never be done right?

For this lady to be maltreated this way, it means the security agencies around also compromised heavily. You can bet it that what they received wont be more than 10k that can't feed me daily. Yet they are willing to sell the electorates for peanuts.


Who will salvage this country?

It's really painful....it is