₦airaland Forum

Herrmes:
You are, the women like your mother and sisters are part of the problem to you, that right?

Herrmes:
You're part of the problem not the solution. Is that where you'll rather be?

voicelez:
Money is the root of all evil, but being broke is not holy

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ZIMDRILL:
Its never a good idea for a wife to have male best friend, your wife doesnt respect or consider you feelings

would the best friend feel comfortable if his own wife had best male friend

If it was me i would ask the wife to phone the guy around midnight if he picks then i would ask him to speak to his wife or my wife would ask to speak to his own wife, the chances of him saying NO are high becoz he know morally the wife would ask what the lady wants from him

He will likely not even answer the call becoz he will be in trouble with his wife

This approach would be to show my wife, that the guy has no respect of our marriage but he has respect for his marriage, either by not answering the call or by not allowing either of us to talk to his wife means he knows his wife would be pissed and also know that he would disrespecting his own marriage


Any man who has to fear in being a besti to married wife means he has respect for that marriage or the woman husband, a reasonable married guy should generally feel for the other guy

If he doesnt its either he is already shagging the lady or waiting to shag her

PresidentAtiku:
Bro Iginla Joshua prophecies happening sooo fast..

*The ruling party will be sooo torn apart. I see a dark cloud afterwhich a good man will come to rule Nigeria and the country will prosper again*

Zoharariel:
Thank you my brother. The fact that the wife never told us in her narrative that the husband contributed to the building of that house shows how dishonest she is.

If I were in ExtraExtra shoes, I swear to Sango & Obatala, I would never take this woman back no matter what happens - because I can never EVER trust her again.

I would try as much as possible to build my own house, marry another lady & move on.

Mr. ExtraExtra, Do not even make a mistake of allowing your wife know your new location, let-alone visiting you. You can take the financial responsibilities of your children & visit them once in a while.

The little children on this thread advising you to salvage your marriage are illusionists.

Take my advice ONLY if you intend to live long!

kenex4ever:
calm down,

He is wrong to tell his wife to leave his house even if he owns d house, just because of a quarrel.

His wife is not a good person too for not using Mr/ Mrs. She has ulterior motive n dat could be d reason she was bold enough to disrespect him.

If d man owned d house, the world will take to be dat it belongs to both of them. My brother owns a lot of lands n houses all in d name Mr/mrs. Mind you d wife is a housewife.

The problem with most "opinionated" women is dat they are very stingy with anything dat belongs to them but they feel they are entitled to whatever belongs to d husband.

Where I blame d man is the fact day he tried or dared to send her out whether jokingly or not.
Another area I blame him is that he refused to allow her make amends by using Mr/mrs even when she agreed to.

TonyeBarcanista:
Easier said than done my brother!


Do you know how betrayed he is feeling? Why didn't she inform him from the onset that she bought the property in her name? Was she expecting him to abandon his family and his parents? Was she expecting him to abandon his father when he was ill?

You see, the issue though may be triggered by property but it goes beyond it. It is now a matter of betrayal of trust and treachery.

The sensible thing for him to do is to allow her have the house and get his own (for his family). She can move in with him if she wishes...

Guitarlife:
ExtraExtra I will encourage you not to listen to most of these ladies supporting your wife. Most of them are either divorced , unmarried and lonely, single and still searching for partners.The few of them that are married and still in their husbands houses are on the contrary as meek and quiet as a dove.

They need the alter ego displayed on Nairaland to express their hidden fantasy of rebelling against their husbands which they are unable to do in real life.

As per your wife, I am a very traditional man too so I know how difficult this is for you. I will advise that you do everything within your power to salvage the marriage especially because of your children. Although it is apparent now what is important to your wife. I was just about reconciling with my own fiance whom I consider extremely opinionated and too expressive for a wife which made me break the relationship in the first place.

She has been begging me and all sorts but these kind of your story dey give me another concern,make person nor go marry woman wen nor go gree respect am. It is well o...

loveformercy:
God didn't shift from His throne!! You can say whatever you like, it is your business. God no shake one bit, & your anger does not remove hell or heaven. If you are strong enough, just die & your doubts will be cleared

loveformercy:
God didn't shift from His throne!! You can say whatever you like, it is your business. God no shake one bit, & your anger does not remove hell or heaven.....[b]If you are strong enough, just die & your doubts will be cleare[/b]d

Zhirinovsky:
The Lord Jesus made it simple and clear " do not refer to anyone (teacher) on earth as your father". You are trying so hard to convince people to do otherwise may God have mercy on you!(

Chepos1:
Can u pls give us counter scripture(s) to that of d OP?

BeeBeeOoh:
Kabiru Ibrahim is doing everything within his power to exonerate killer herdsmen from their heinous crimes even when miyetti Allah has claimed responsibility for their actions on several occasions.


What a cow republic

FarahAideed:
This attack is said to be carried out by Barnawis faction of Boko Haram, the same faction the Buhari govt has paid billions of Naira to in ransome and released 100s of fighters to over the last year in the name of prisoner swap deals

donstan18:
A normal man with working brain will relocate if his wife earns 750k when he's earning 150k.

But a wise man with so much wisdom will ask the following questions before deciding what to do.

>Who is my wife?
>Is she dominant and self-centered?
>Will she rub it to my face?
>How comfortable am I with my financial level?
>Is she disrespectful or understanding?
>What are the possibilities that her attitude will change?

If you can give yourself answers to these questions, you'll be able to decide. Because it'll be a mistake to take such decision with a wrong woman.

But wait ooo..…Where are the wives earning 750k while there husbands earns 150k, Are they Nigerians? Or are they from Croatia? Too much assumptions in this country,