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Violent crime with guns over 95% of the time is in the domain of males. Why?
Are women the better gender when it comes to gun violence? Why don't we hear of female shoot to kill stories?

Violent crime with guns over 95% of the time is in 're domain of males. Why?
Are women the better gender when it comes to gun violence? Why don't we hear of female shoot to kill stories?

Davidoya:
Smh..folks are all living in fools paradise, living in a delusional world created by their own pride and lust.. most look back after many years, when the influences are off their path and discover they have been foolish all along.. no real gain..they bring grief to themselves and their families , destroy hopes and dreams of other foolish ones like them and even innocent ones .. at the end no gain with plenty of regrets..some of the ones they kill today could even have been help for them in the future.. but they don't see the future , they don't know the future , they walk on in darkness only to realize latter in the future that all of it was never really worth it.. it was just a journey that their lust and pride took them through which in all cases was never worthwhile.....

Very well said. And the huge egos and toxic masculinities they exhibit. Also why do European universities not forming cults?

Nigeria arise! development is not that difficult. Kudos & Congrats.

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pinnket:




The land of skullminers...


Still baffles me how this guys still indulge in these acts with their hearts still inside their body... Shey their conscience no dey exist??

They are cursed.

The partriarchy seeks to resolve conflict or show manhood thru violence including assassination typically due to bruised ego. We need feminism in Nigeria to stop all these violence as men if they are honest with themselves are more disposed to violence!

The feminist solution is compassion discussion and mutual remedy. The toxic male solution is power tussles threats and violence.

Look at this thread and the recent shooting in the United States that just claimed 17 ppl.

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See the kind story that comes out of Africa though.

See the kind news were dey commot from Africa smh. Why are British and Polish and Ukrainian farmers and herdsmen not killing themselves?

Just as the administration made progress in agriculture this bs started.

stilldoingokay:
are you African? or you're that type that hate the fact that is an African.

I understand your post, until you started the Africa crap.

Only in Nigeria and Africa will u post something and as a prevailing culture get hurled insults due to savage and barbaric thinking quickly descending into something personal.

I said it due to replies to the thread many of which were barbaric.. ..

TonyeBarcanista:
If you can show just 3 out of over a million rejection given men then you justify my claim that MOST Men take rejection in GOOD FAITH!

In fact, the minority men that act drama or go violent usually do so WHEN they feel/assume the girl in question "defrauded" them of hard earned cash and ditched them afterwards!


Meanwhile, I await your stories

You make sense. I don't dispute that. Yes ur claim is justified.

I'm glad at least I can have an insult free and emotionally neutral conversation.

TonyeBarcanista:
This is a false narrative!

In most cases, when a man's proposal to a lady is rejected for any reason, he takes it in good faith with little or no drama to it...

Do u want me to show u three cases from newspapers where women and girls lost their lives in Nigeria because they said no to a man's advances? I can show u three cases within the last 12 months from credible news sources such as Punch.
Anyway the thread is closed. Let each person do wat suits them.

Me i no like wahala so i don tell mods make dem close the thread. There are psychopaths out there. But at least I don gist my mind and it's obviously my opinion and i could be wrong of course.

efesodje:
As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

efesodje:
As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

The crux of the matter is if a woman told a man she can't date him becos he is over 30, the woman risks losing her life from violence from the man.

It's obviously a double standard but is a women's issue.... so I will post it in a women only forum and the thread is now closed.

Belafonte:
When we no longer are able to post, then can the thread be considered closed. We don't rely on the words of a professional sophist to tell us anything of significance. Move on to your other place and do your thing.

Okay.

I will now no longer reply to ur messages so as not to get personal. If u have personal issues they are YOUR PROBLEM.

efesodje:
As for me when I am ready to get married the only age requirement for me will be - I must at least be older than her.

Everyone has their tastes, some like them young, some like them old. You can't force your opinion on everyone.

That notwithstanding I see nothing wrong with ladies over 30. Some are still very yummy , like some in my office. So, every-man to his own brother

I was not forcing any opinion it was only an opinion. The reader reserves the right to accept or reject it.

In general I don't deal with barbarians and savages so this thread is closed. No more new posts.

TonyeBarcanista:
The awareness is unnecessary as I doubt anyone doesn't know of its existence...


Meanwhile, in your original post you said "men in their 30s need women more than women in their 30s need men", my brother, this narrative is FLAWED

It was only a postulation.
I agree it could be flawed.
I was hoping to have a decent civilized conversation e.g. why it's flawed etc. Thanks for at least being civil.

PLEASE THIS THREAD IS NOW CLOSED AND NOT OPEN TO NEW POSTS. I HAVE TRANSFERRED IT TO A WOMEN'S ONLY FORUM.

Belafonte:
Adios. You won't be missed.

You are still getting personal. I don't know u and won't go that far. It crossing the line. What is wrong with these ppl.

Okay I wont be missed. You are king.

donsimo:
Ogun fire you were.
You want to dictate wat men should do.
Are you mad, if nobody marries expire, tokubo , 10th hand pussy, na my fault?
Blame yourself for you problems and stop blaming the world. Id10t.

The African always starts with an insult. These are a cursed and barbaric set of people.

I will contact the moderator to have the thread closed.

Belafonte:
Then open the damn topic on a women's only forum. Unfortunately for you, nairaland is no such place. You don't get to post a topic and exclude a section of society form participating. Does your method even sound logical to you?

You are the man. You have won the power battle. You are right. Nairaland is no such place. I will close the thread shortly. Whatever you say will be done.

The thread is now closed and will continue on a women only forum.

TonyeBarcanista:
Okay! But society hava a way of having a segment of the population shamed...

Unmarried advanced spinsters are shamed
Women married poor men are shamed
Poor men that are married are always reminded how they are useless
Broke boys are shamed
Ugly boys are shamed
Fat girls are shamed...

The list is endless...

Morally, it is inappropriate but what can anyone do? Honestly, I see no need for this thread because it won't solve a thing

It creates awareness that's what it does.

BigBashiru:
Please it's not by force to participate in the thread. It's actually a thread created for women participants only. But you have already come here to post.

@Belafont
The honourable thing to do will be to stop posting. You have won the ego/ power battle - I've given it to u. U r sane i am insane. We are old women u have ur rights. So now please kindly go away.

Belafonte:
Why speak form both sides of your mouth? You said this

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Judge yourself. Do you sound sane?

Please it's not by force to participate in the thread. It's actually a thread created for women participants only. But you have already come here to post.

Belafonte:
But you first got personal with your own attacks on guys who wouldn't date expired goods. Why do you think you reserve the right to personal attacks? Are you mentally stabke at all?

You read an academic thought and took it personally.
Africans remain the most backward set of ppl on earth and it's easy to see why when u see how they think. It's already becoming a fight but I won't engage. I don't engage strangers on public forums nor in personal attacks.

TonyeBarcanista:
Sorry bro, but what is the point of this thread?

The point of the thread is that women over 30 are ppl too and should not be smeared by name calling or subtle threats that they can't get a man. It's not a good thing.

Having said this it's obviously a lifestyle choice. Men choose the women that work for them and women choose the men that work for them. Fair game.

Belafonte:
Abeg, BigBashiru, anybody stop you from marrying as many as you like? Is it by force to marry an old hag? Do women not have their own standards too? When women refuse to marry short, broke, ugly men do you call them out? Do we give them or try to blackmail them emotionally?

A woman's youth belongs to whoever she wishes to give it to. Correct. I agree. A man is also at liberty to choose who he will marry, a damsel or a grandma. You cannot force anybody to marry who they do not like. Or are you saying women can choose to do as they please and men have no such luxury? You dey crase? Abu Ogun wan smite your generation?

Many women are happy to be single in their 30s but you are trying to guilt and force us into marrying these happy single women. Are you mentally deranged? Are men not also happy to marry younger women? What makes a woman's choice more legitimate than a man's?

Who the fûck is this bastãrd OP for fûck's sake?

Why are you getting personal with bastard etc. The African has been proven scientifically to lack EMOTION logic balance. Their countries are all a disgrace to humanity yet the most prideful and egotistical set of human beings.

Belafonte:
Abeg, BigBashiru, anybody stop you from marrying as many as you like? Is it by force to marry an old hag? Do women not have their own standards too? When women refuse to marry short, broke, ugly men do you call them out? Do we give them or try to blackmail them emotionally?

A woman's youth belongs to whoever she wishes to give it to. Correct. I agree. A man is also at liberty to choose who he will marry, a damsel or a grandma. You cannot force anybody to marry who they do not like. Or are you saying women can choose to do as they please and men have no such luxury? You dey crase? Abu Ogun wan smite your generation?

Many women are happy to be single in their 30s but you are trying to guilt and force us into marrying these happy single women. Are you mentally deranged? Are men not also happy to marry younger women?

Who the fûck is this bastãrd OP for fûck's sake?

See how Nigerians make every conversation personal. I do not get personal on public forums. If you want to have a civilized conversation you can repost.