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Can someone please point me in the right direction of who to contact to DELETE all my posts on nairaland.

Rocktation:
The interesting answer to your question, which is yet another question, is why do you need any woman at all if you're confused as to what they bring to the table?

To me the only good thing women bring is cooking skills and curing conji.

Not worth 1 million!

Christianity fails to give credence to the power of conji. Don't look at girls no sex no homo etc. Conji is building up in the pastor. 11 yr old is young (desirable trait) and defenceless. He is wrong. He should have picked a harlot to cure his conji!

This thread raises a good question: what do the women bring to the table that we need to spend so much on their wedding.

blackbeau1:
it's a one day event,yes. but it's a once in a lifetime occasion. what's worth doing is worth doing well. I'm not saying one should spend millions if he doesn't have it but drums of water? that's just plain stupid.

Leave that thing its not as if say u de carry young virgin with a good head on her shoulders.

High rate of cheating is because they are not marrying the young girls. They marry 32 year olds secretly wish they had 19 year olds then cheat. Most Nigerians r hypocrites.

seunfly:
At 30 ladies have less than 20 fertility years, while a man can still perform till his death.

Honestly the best time for a lady to marry is 25 to 27 years because of their stable emotiom, peak hormonal activities and emotional balance.

However the economy is not smiling and society is changing fast, very soon many ladies will start to sing it is not necessary to have a child, children are overrated just the way they are singing about marriage this days.

The best time for a lady to marry is 16-24. But today its seen as a taboo I.e. earlier part of the range. So be bf gf until u marry legally able to.

25-27 is old.

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lack of regard fr time is number 1.

the issue i have is that they give anything sexual negative connnotations. which marriage. most marriages in nigeria happen after the ppl are way past their prime... at that age then sex is not even fun (pot belly etc). The bottom line is while you should not have sex before marriage, ppl need to be at ease about their sexuality and not feel shame, fear of punishment and guilt about even just having a bf or gf. some ppl even say bf and gf is a sin.

this is a very interesting thread. i hv sometimes wondered how the born again types can ever get laid okay even if its just kissing. go to uk the ppl that brought christianity kiss like no tomorrow. i can only speak for myself, as a man i dont have to wait till i get married at 45 to kiss a babe or babes as long as i am genuinely interested in them; if kissing for fun then its sin, if i am genuinely interested then its not even b4 marriage. in my dictionary only sex before marriage is a sin. but each to their own.

I blv the reason why there are many peeeedophiles, perverts, lesbians, etc is because ppl use religion to suppress their natural instinct and then one day cant hold it again and then turn to rape or sleep with ashawo. I believe i can kiss whoever as long as I am interested.

Im not asking you to do wat im doing i hv my reasons. each to their own.

nigeria, london, US

that preferably serves nigerians worldwide or just nigeria & truly works?

I wish I could agree with you but I cant. Here are some statistics:

i.) Get username and password from diamond bank - 4 months no success
ii.) Get proxy chequebook pick up from another bank - 4 months no success

They know how to do the job but are just long winded encouraging laziness by asking you to fill one form after the other and showing general laxity. Is the culture you want me to be proud of. Even these banks the phone/ automated system is in british accent; what happened to nigerian accent?

Speaking of born again, the Bible makes it clear only a selected remnant will go to heaven so majority of mankind will perish, so christianity doesnt bring that much solace. nobody knows if they will be the ones to perish causing heightened tensions.

About white wedding, you are right...but nigeria has a lazy culture and that is nothing to be proud about...

you lick them, stick them and send them on their way? Or you marry them? If you treat them like the former, they want to marry you, if you treat them like you want to marry them, they leave you. Makes no logical sense!

but why are you leaving Nigeria to study in France? by so doing, you are indirectly acknowledging white superiority, especially when blacks are pouring into these countries in droves.

My cousin arrived at the airport in UK to study; first year. Customs inspected all his luggage but then told him its a shame he has to leave naija to study in UK.

Is there truth in what he said?

hmm

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Aprime:
[color=#000030]Battery?[/color]

Battery means to batter someone

Only Nigerian girls love money.

White girls will most of the time pay for dates and want to make a contribution.

the biggest issue i hv with marriage is the girls arent ready at the right age... in north america 23 year old is settled, there is no reason to cheat on such. but nigeria due to strike and naija factor and lack of planning on the part of most babes, they r ready at 28-32. at that time men want younger blood. so its a vicious cycle. i also find women will only stick with men that r never too interested even after marriage - always keeps her on her toes. those that go away to experiment soon come back...

@peterpan
is it me that made devil and gave devil power?

Peterpan1:
Nice write up, at least to your point of view, but I Ali remember the words of a book whish says "He that finds a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord" .

but devil may someday destroy the maRRIAGE so whats the point?

op you forgot one more reason.

8. Devil will take away your marriage from you one day if you dem born again - for the christian marriage does not bring peace; devil somewhere and evil spirits maybe working to destroy it. so one more problem! the spirits dont care about your sex life!

the issue of side chicks is an interesting one.

OP while i understand where you are coming from in need for variety, the women cause men to have this side chick mentality.

Men like em young and hot. period.

Men also like variety.

If you dont want a man to have variety then he needs to be married to some 21 year old, 23 max.

Side chick comes in because when women are young they are not ready for marriage...

do you honestly want me to settle for 32 year old and ignore 21 year olds all in the name of marriage?

You must be kidding me.

For me, I dont ask for too much. Just one main young chick that is 21 or 22 max. Its just to avoid cheating. but then again, at this age, they dont want to marry. so maybe modern marriage just cant work?

cutiesoglam:
Woes unto any lady dt dates or even becomes ur baby mama.may God restart n reset ur brains to make u understand his covenant abt marriage and heal ur wounds dt has made u bitter..

Lazy Arrow leave deities out of it. Is that your only defence?

GoodcasHMan:
No matter your reasons, It cannot supersede God's plan for man. It is God who
instituted marriage and we must get married. Just believe in God who owns marriage

here we go with africans just hv blind faith and all will be well.

it annoys me when i hear the term marriage institution.

thereis fuckin nothing like marriage institution.

what is the institution about it?

Zikkie:
[b][/b]I sense so much hurt in your voice! Hmmmm

he is not hurt... just one of the few men that does not reason with his dickson but reasons with his head...