₦airaland Forum

Tarzsl:
Niggá let me tell you for free, if you make mistake fvck cele girl and she lock your destiny, ehn, you lamentation go pass jeremiah own

What if you and her agreed its nothing serious before fvcking??

Sweetplum:
na sex doll abi

Read my post immediately above mine....I will continue to expose evil female works

dontrulee:
Infact, let men continue to lament oooo.

It's a good thing if ladies show them pepper, if they'll not learn by words, they'll learn by experience.

As for me, I show ladies pepper. Show them pepper in a good interesting way!

There is no love anywhere, everyone is in for what he or she will get!


All this I love you, I love you, na Mumu dey do love these days Sha

Wise up, enjoy your Life. Bleep and move on. The ladies are not loyal, the men are also cheaters, however protect your resources, upgrade yourself!

Unfortunately, many men are like Samson (SIMPson) strong physically but weak emotionally and so men will continue to lament.

Addedum: [b]Men are logical, women are illogical and irrationa[/b]l. When I talk with my lady(ies) and it's leading towards an argument or confrontation, I usually don't follow a logical pattern, I follow an irrational pattern that shocks even myself and guess what, I come out fine, unscathed and my lady(ies) love me more. It's a magic that works for me all the time.

My dear your write up is one of the best I've seen up in a long time.....it's like words on marble....

The first bolded, I'd say the women are interested for what they will get....it's only men that do mumu love "I love you"....

Aren't there spiritual implications for the second bolded?? Like getting demons from the person you slept wiv??

At 3rd bolded, women are just as logical and calculated as guys if not more....but they hv managed to convince guys otherwise

sharone21:
So y would a woman marry you or your type?

U sound like a lazy MAN or cripple for u like to shout this at the rooftop in Nairaland...
You want the woman to also be a provider, say u go born for her eg through surrogate?

I advice u don't marry because u are expecting too much from an already overstretched woman.

You are the lazy gold digger and you know it.... go and work na why must a man give you his money....did you make it with him?? Entitlement mentality of gold diggers....

dealslip:
Ephesians 5 from 20 will help you understand, the mystery called marriage.

Marriage is not a mystery....the mystery all boils down to the notion that a man should be a financial slave....try and come up with something else.

sharone21:
When I already get a job, why will I still need a SELFISH man like you?

Your type will need to do interviews and FBI investigations on any woman u plan to marry, if at all there will be any marriage...

Change your view on how to be a MAN to your woman and even children because this OVERSABI you are doing now will not pay you ultimately....

Your type will want to eat their cakes and have it then, want to compare themselves with selfless men, ko possible!

You are the selfish person. Your money is your money while my money is our money bah?

The advent of social media has accelerated men's connaisssance of female tricks....

Get a job and use ur money to support urself....the husband gets a job and uses his own moni to support himself. Everyone is happy.

But ur gold digging tendency won't let you...you want ur hands on his money under the guise of "marriage" and "being head"... while you keep urs and only bring it out when convenient....

Male provision in the past wasn't altruistic....it wasn't charity...men expected something in return....and marriage isn't based on "love" and "romance"....its based on compatibility and mutual benefits

Awoleesu:
The internet is a strong teacher.
Many people do many things they're not formally trained for these days, and they get wonderful results...

Guy must have learned how to carry out surgery on YouTube!

Awon Life hack experts...

Everything isn't a joke....

2blessed01:
Nawa oo
God save us for dis kwantry

Go save urself bro

Desusi:
Every work or trade has its own cunning way of making money.You think every Cs is normal? Certainly no.Some of those operations performed are not necessarily needed but because of Nigeria factor, man must chop! Think of it,you asked okada man to take you to osodi from mushin,he first went to yaba before heading to osodi! Haba!May God help this nation.

What Nigerian factor? Nigerian factor has persisted because the Nigerians didn't decide to end it.... its not a culture to be proud of or to be happy about. Then you say "God help this nation"...I assume that's a joke becos this is something Nigerians can only decide to say enough is enough for....

To think that ppl who call themselves doctors do this shows how the Nigerians think, their mentality etc. That same doctor could even go into kidnapping or rituals....these ppl are animals.....

But we hv to ask ourselves are there better clinics in other African countries like Morocco....if there are then il go there for child birth

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Fake moda fuckkking doctors everywhere

The worse part of it he will be putting his gadamnnn hands into the vaginal of women...women will free themselves for him thinking he is medical doctor

And what have observed now ehnnn

Is that most women now use cs to put to bed...instead of the normal foetus expulsion
Am beginning to think this medical doctors are inducing women to make them deliver through cs

So that they will make enough money

Someone whose wife gave birth confirmed to me that the doctor "recommended" cs...but he was not comfortable with it so he refused it....it was just a way for them to make money. Both real and fake doctors in Nigeria do this....its such a shameful experience and reflects the character of the average Nigerian.

sharone21:
Before wife, wasn't she girlfriend?

How does the wife know you will pamper her when u didn't pamper her when there were no kids and lesser burden to bear?

Make una dey think before writing.... Small pampering won't kill you..... This is y the African man appears unromantic.

Better go and get a job otherwise no man will marry you....

sharone21:
A woman most times takes care of all others apart from herself ... She loses much in blood and physique just to birth babies to make a family complete. .. You men still want her to add earning income to her already FULL schedule doing wifey and motherly duties.....

Your little pampering will not kill you.... When u sow love, care and pampering, you reap likewise even from your children who you think aren't watching.

My dear child birth is no excuse..Men don't lose blood in their jobs?? The earlier you go get a job to use in supporting yourself the better for you.....

Alusiizizi:
This is not the word of Simpishness, read a bit more carefully, this quote is part of the core message of RedPill. Men are stronger than women and so should take care of women, in return, women are to be proper wives and mothers, a thing that we RedPillers hammer at on a daily basis.

The bolded is a huge feminist lie women tell to retain their comfortable. Go and read The Manipulated Man by Esther written in the 1970s

Sweetplum:
Be like say brain dey pain you?
Abi ori n ta e?
Did I complain?

Focus on the facts and stop the illiterate talks....if you hv nothing important to say pls shut it....

Labadi69:
Your English is so bad that even when you are trying to make sense, it gets lost as you cannot communicate well in English. Do yourself a huge favour and go and learn English and how to write before yamayama finish that your bald head. Agbero like you wey go just stand for bus stop dey collect shandy

Ur sick "yamayama"

Osariemen12:
Vote Peter Obi to be able to afford rides in 2023 and thereafter.







Meanwhile, death to all Tinubu supporters.

Do Nigerians hv sense?? Na tinubu dem go vote ooo

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Fuel-scarcity-will-linger-till-January-say-marketers

This news report reveals the exploitative nature of Nigerians....very wicked set of people who always blame "leaders" and attend "church" though most are hypocrites....

MNDY:
That's when they will come in with the childbirth and gender roles narrative.
If you want to operate marriage like a partnership, childbirth becomes an issue of contention.

Childbirth is nature no one's fault. Child birth shouldn't be an issue of contention....

MNDY:
They understand it as overburden, after birthing/taking care of children for him, cooking/cleaning, hence the disrespect.
They see it that way no matter how hard you try to convince them that it's temporary.

The children are her children too....contrary to popular belief men take card of children too esp from age 4 and above.

MNDY:
You can't just assume that the man is not planning and working hard or doing nothing to get back on his feet just because his wife is standing in for him and supporting him.

It's not easy and that's why it takes a while for him. But the duration makes many women think he is not doing anything or seriously finding ways. FACT: THE DREAM OF 99.9% MEN IS TO "BLOW."

And when he Arrives, he will assume his role and even want to compensate his woman for everything she did. No man is really happy watching his woman shoulder the whole responsibility. But many men are unhappy with the way their woman abandons everything to the man of the house.

Becoming a failure is the main insult every man tries very hard to avoid in his lifetime. And contrary to your opinion, Nigerian men are very hardworking and are earnestly find ways to breakthrough.

Which role. That role isn't set in stone....instead of focusing on role the focus should be on fairness.

faithfull18:
You are high on cheap weed, why are you pouring spit everywhere, rest abeg, if you like don't take care of your wife, broke boy

If I hear the bolded from your mouth again il beat you.

Sweetplum:
Neither are you talking to a broke lady. My partner is rich and am a working class.
Meanwhile, you are not worth up to N1m.
Stop lying.

If you are not broke then keep working na and stop coming here complaining you don't hv easy life + free money from a man .....

MNDY:
But it is also part of the Helper women are called too.
Help him finance the home until he gets back on his feet and respect him while at it.
Contributing to the finance for running the home is also part of the Help.
Help is not restricted to only some things, it's a general term.

Where does this notion of a female disrespecting a man becos she is bringing money comes from?? It shouldn't be happening at all..... it can even be structured as a loan....

DREAMHOMES6970:
What about the equality women claim today. True women ought to be cared for, but at the same time Men have to be careful bcuz women are also the most manipulative being on earth

My question to you is who then cares for the man, men don't deserve care?? Men need to be cared for and pampered there are two ways to do this: alleviate his financial stress by working and 2. Not being a trouble maker or quarrelsome and being peaceful and caring....men deserve to be cared for too....

Sweetplum:
Wives now aren't working abi?
What we are saying is you boys of this age are so broke and you are the ones that complains the most. Maybe Buhari hardship reset your brain too.

I don't believe in easy life.... my wife still works and uses her own moni to take care of herself. Even if I am worth $1trillion my position won't change....

MNDY:
The question is: What will she be using all her own money for if she is earning?

Or you stand for the full housewife idea?

A woman as the Helper can stand in as support for the man for the time being when he is down before he gets back on his feet again, and maintain her respect for him while at it, knowing fully well he is making efforts to bounce back.

The Creator called you Helper. I didn't make that up. Help goes beyond birthing and taking care of (his) children, cooking/cleaning and taking care of him, it can also mean contributing her own part to the finance for running the home. Wives in the Bible went to farms with their husbands and engaged in farm-works.

Modern day marriage is exploitative....the women make their own money and keep....

Godmother:
You are missing the point.
There's no point explaining it to you then. I'll be stopping here.

Good. Now go get a job you will use to take care of yourself....

No job no kiss.

Godmother:
E be like you never see.
Try and go around and ask some married women the state of things in their homes, you'll be shocked

Then they are unfortunate with the guy they married. My philosophy is I do no harm to any woman and will not treat any woman unfairly and expect the same. I categorically reject the notion of being anyone's financial slave in the name of marriage and "head of home"

TheRareGem1:
Tinubu just finish Obi

Without facts just sentiment....

Tinubu will be a very big mistake....

Godmother:
See my dear, there's a natural order of things:

Women were created to be taken care of, to crave love and security.

Men were created to want respect and to be protectors/providers

The problems of today arose because men are trying to change the narrative but still expecting the same results. Some men now expect the woman to foot the entire bill but still demand the full respect of the headship.

In my almost forty years on earth, I have seen and witnessed things. I have friends that are married and have been footing the family bills for over ten years. It's an anomaly

No one expects any woman to foot any bill, she should simply foot the portion of the bill she used e.g. if the bill is N20,000 she should bring N3500 to N5000

officialwdhtv:
Presidential candiate of the ruling APC Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu says he cant even mention Peter Obi's name as it is a disgrace to him.

In his words;

"He thinks na statictics we go chop...He lies with arithmetic that even no Indian can solve it"

He also spoke about Atiku.

Take a listen!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxJqF3Zt_U8

https://www.instagram.com/reel/ClaI9pfpPxr/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Personal attack on Peter Obi is a sign of Tinubu's illiteracy....

Godmother:
See my dear, there's a natural order of things:

Women were created to be taken care of, to crave love and security.

Men were created to want respect and to be protectors/providers

The problems of today arose because men are trying to change the narrative but still expecting the same results. Some men now expect the woman to foot the entire bill but still demand the full respect of the headship.

In my almost forty years on earth, I have seen and witnessed things. I have friends that are married and have been footing the family bills for over ten years. It's an anomaly

Ur so called "natural order of things" is a big fat lie and deep down you know it.... females are fully financially capable of taking care of themselves. Why go thru school and having a profession only for you to want to depend on someone else....that's SILLY